kitty world! :3:3

head maid teaching the new recruit how to properly worship her Mistress' property.

cuck wife at the lesbian bar scouting for girls that her wife would like.

hypnotist who brainwashes people with same programming she was once brainwashed with.

Like a cutie nervously showing off her armpits to a pit lover. Or nervously showing off their feet and trying to pose them when they don't have any idea what it is that's appealing until they are told- AND ASKING- OH THAT'S AWESOME, "Is this cute?" and sincerely enjoying trying to find all the ways their partner is turned on.

Fucking incredible.

She's trapped beneath you. The white pillow trapped her head almost seems like a mass of wires plugged into her. Holding a not quite living mass in place. Her clothes underneath her naked body spread out across the bed like feathery wings. And she bruises too easily. Her naked flesh bears not just intended marks but countless little places she hurt herself over the last week. Not just purples and reds and blues but all the colors of decay. Your fingers twist around her wrist easily, holding her in place even further. No room to fight you. All of her looks so small.

As you bite down, moans of something between pain and pleasure break through her jeers and teases before overwhelming and replacing them. A song of sorts channeled through her voicebox by your violating touch. It's hard for your teeth to get a good grip on her. The place between her neck and shoulder is full of veins and bones and you want to keep things relatively safe. No reason to break what's left.

She's shaking against you as she channels the inscribed pain. Her legs kicking up and down. Her chest twisting against yours. Her wrists pulling back and forth. Her knees and elbows a mass of triangles and force. All for nothing. She's so fragile for you. An act of desecration.

Loosen your teeth, let her breathe, then bite down again when she's recovered enough.

The motion of her body means you're consciously aware of so much of her divine corpse. Skin rubbing against skin tingles. Warm against cold, rough against smooth, flesh against bone. All of her fits beneath you like a key in a lock. A twisted and still twisting piece of flesh with all its delicately carved grooves swallowed up by a larger shape. You unlock for her.

Pull away once your mouth starts to feel raw. Save more for later.

She's gasping and shivering. A part of you wonders if she's too cold and needs a blanket again. You run hot, but on top of her and so close you should have warmed her up quite a bit. No, the shivers seem more like aftershocks. The natural consequences of a dead body burning with life. You watch as her brain slowly boots back up. Pulling the pieces of herself back together takes time. Broken halo behind her struggling to patch a connection.

She tries to smirk and fails before trying again and succeeding. She knew you'd do that. It was all her plan. She's the one in control here. She has all the power. If she told you to leave you'd leave. She's only just allowing you to do this for now. She's all powerful. She's divine and holy. She's the angel and you're nothing.

Most people take a gag as permission to be loud. Either because they take it as a challenge "try to silence me, I'll show you" or because they think it's going to muffle noise so they're free to be noisy. They'll be unintelligible of course but they will make all types of pretty noises.

Expectation is an incredibly powerful tool you can make use of. People like patterns, people like predictability, they like knowing what's going to happen. So make rules and follow them, make patterns and keep to them, be predictable and your sub will feel safe and comfortable with you, they will trust you more if they know what you're going to do and how you're going to react.

Anyways here's a tip:

Training is all about bridging the gap between the trainees' desire to please you and your desire for them to perform a specific behavior. The entire process of bridging the gap is what we call training.

Since your sub is more than likely able to speak the same language as you its nuch easier to set expectations just by vocalizing them; however it is a far more effective use of your subs brainpower to use unfamiliar phrasing or even some type of nonverbal or not-quite so obvious command.

it is obvious to say that if a domme wants obedience, she needs to offer an incentive. affection, praise, and play are tools that she can use to reward obedience. for most subs, punishment is a reward, so it's hard to use that to force obedience

but let's focus on submissives right now.

you also need to offer a reward.

if you're openly and strongly submissive, your obedience might tend towards being all about yourself. it might be hard for dominants to latch onto you as you obey for your own sake. you need to express affection for your dommes orders specifically, talk about how great she is personally. tell her how much she is worth serving

if you're bratty and defiant, your fight makes earning your submission a lot of work for your domme. she might be tempted to focus on submissives who are easier to bend to her will, so when you fall; when you obey (and you know you will), make it dramatic, struggle pitfully and pathetically. tell her how much she is worth serving

'Right hand kink' describes a class of switch specific dynamics of the service persuasion that implicitly involve at least three entities. The sub (within the scene), the greater dom (implicitly exists, outside the scene), and the switch. The switch here occupies a kind of 'fixer', 'recruiter', or 'actor' position, operating as a direct agent of the greater dom while dealing with the sub. The switch is, within the scene, in a dominant role, but it is ultimately understood as performing a kind of service for its own dom. Thus, the switch is both sub and dom at once, here.

Let's give some examples of what this might look like.

The switch could be its goddess's indoctrination specialist. Recruiting and enlightening the masses. Directly or indirectly channeling its goddess's light. Hypnotizing, kidnapping, or gaslighting its newest victim for its goddess. The victim slowly memorizing each and every syllable of its new goddess's true name until it sets and becomes a new devotee.

Or, the switch could be its lady's right hand maid. A servant that gets done what needs doing in these difficult times. A fighter, an actor, or a contract enforcer. The voice of its lady, acting in her stead and explaining plainly what will be done and doing it. I think here you can find some gap moe by having the maid act very, very differently around its lady, too.

Or, the switch could be its owner's newest possession. Maybe not even entirely aware of why it's doing what it's doing. Acting out to acquire a new piece of property, doing what needs to be done to teach it its place, only with the flip of a switch to reveal that it has its own owner. That this piece of property was acquired for someone else, an unseen hand guiding it.

I hope those three are enough to help you understand the kind of space this occupies.

Then, I think this 'right hand kink' acts as a kind of d/s dynamic more specialized for a certain kind of relationship to desire. For individuals that struggle to express desire, let alone dominance, as something from themselves, this acts as a kind of permission structure.

A hand holding the leash, fingering the valve, signing the paperwork. Permission to enjoy yourself, to run free, to be evil.

I think that it can be easy for fear of control and fear of responsibility to hold back dominance, and this kind of thing helps you work past that.

Further, there is joy to be found in service. In losing yourself, your individuality and your identity, in becoming the perfect hand to feed something greater. A kind of loss of self, subsumed into service, as you just worry about how to best act in the interests of someone else. The optimization problem is so much simpler when you don't have to worry about your own ego.

And, for the sub, there's something fun in seeing that the one domming you itself serves something greater. To see it fold and be broken, just as easily as it broke you. A kind of d/s powerscaling of sorts. Yet another mountain to climb, or further evidence of your status as lesser. It can be enjoyable.