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He's been fucking you almost non stop for hours. He's taken you on your back with your legs wrapped tight around his waist, he's taken you on your side with one of your legs gripped tight and hiked up high to make space for him, he's taken you bent over the bathroom sink, he's taken you against the shower wall, back pressed to the slick tiles, one leg held up in the crook of his elbow.

Now, he has you on your elbows and knees, face buried in a pillow wet with tears and spit, ass high up in the air, spine curved in a mean arch. You've had so many orgasms now, you honestly lost the ability to maintain count after the fourth.

You can admit, when you're coherent again, that perhaps this maybe might have been your fault. You're aware of how much you'd been teasing and testing toge the whole week. But actually was it really all your fault? After all, who told toge to be so fucking hot? Who told him to be so sweet and kind and such a gentleman? If someone like that were your boyfriend, of course you'd want to push him a bit to see if he had another side to him.

Okay, maybe its cause you were feeling quite sexually frustrated, but again, that wasn't really much of your fault, was it?

You and inumaki had been dating officially for three months, and not once had you had sex. You hadn't even gone past soft kisses. Not for a lack of trying on your part! Toge was just too much of a damn gentleman and kept insisting you take it slow until you were absolutely sure you were ready.

Which made zero sense to you, but you'd let him have his way, thinking surely he'd crack eventually. But fucking toge did not crack. And so, perhaps a bit foolishly, you'd decided to take matters into your own hands. You'd teased and taunted him relentlessly all week; wearing tight or short or revealing clothes around him, sucking on a lollipop like a damn pornstar, bending down to pick things off the ground so your ass was in his face, sitting in his lap every chance you get, sending him borderline risqué selfies.

But to your utter frustration and slight hurt, no matter what you did, the most toge had done was blink slowly at you. You were beginning to doubt yourself. Maybe he wasn't attracted to you? Or maybe he just wasn't that into sex? You'd already given up and resigned yourself to being best friends with your rose toy.

So when toge snatched you up the second he stepped into your apartment this evening, pressed you against the door and kissed the life out of you, you almost thought he was a skinwalker. And then he'd carried you to your bedroom, spread you out and ate your pussy like its the only thing he was born to do. You don't know what came over him so suddenly, and you honestly did not have enough active brain cells to ask him about it.

Right now, it was all you could do to stay conscious, the plap plap plap of his pelvis against your ass, and the wet squelch of your union were louder than any thought you could try to have.

Your pussy was throbbing, walls quivering around his fat cock, overstimulated nearly to the point of pain. You had no idea your sweet inumaki-senpai could be so...mean.

You'd begged him to stop or at least give you a chance to catch your breath several rounds ago, but he'd ignored your tearful whimpering pleas so easily.

At this rate, you were either going to break, or pass away.

Which is why you're trying your hardest to gather all your strength so you could move. So you could run from him and his bulldozing cock and branding hands. He pulls out until just the red-hot swollen head parts your folds, and then he slams back in with a low grunt. Pain spikes up your spine at the impact, but for some reason your walls clamp down on him and slick gushes out of you like a goddamn faucet, as though your pussy liked that. As though it felt good.

"t-toge—unghh fu—please, slow down,"

"Bonito flakes," is what your boyfriend says, hands gripping the meaty flesh of your hips tighter. You were definitely already bruising there. God you were going to be sore for days. How were you supposed to go to work in two days? There's no way you'd have recovered by then.

You gritted your teeth, clenched the soaked sheets beneath you, and pulled with all your feeble might away from inumaki. Unfortunately though, you made it only about two inches off his cock before toge did something you never thought he'd do.

"Don't move."

He used his curse speech on you.

You had no hope of fighting back against the powerful compulsion, no way of resisting his command. Your body stopped moving entirely, and your brain kind of short circuited.

Did he really just use his cursed speech to compel you? In bed? Your sweet and cute inumaki-senpai who hadn't even said your name aloud yet for fear of triggering something?

"Nnnnnhhh," you whined, high and drawn out, feeling something hot and shocking clench somewhere deep inside you.

Fuck, why was that so hot? Why did you want him to do it again? To make you lie there and take everything he wanted to give? To bully your pussy with his cock, stuff you full of his cum until your belly was rounded with it, to command you to choke on his dick, to drink up and swallow every last drop of cum he dumps down your throat

Toge brought you back against him, sliding one of his arms up and around to wrap loosely around your throat and tug you upright so your back was flush with his chest. You felt the places where your skin stuck and slid together, and when his other hand slid around to tweak and pinch your nipple, you shuddered and came.

It was weak, barely even an aftershock, but it made your eyes roll back into your head as toge ground his hips in slow sensual circles, the hand around your throat tightening just the slightest bit.

"Salmon," inumaki murmurs hotly, lips brushing your ear, "bounce on my cock."

Like a trigger was pulled, your back arches away from him, and with a weak grip on the arm wrapped around your throat for balance, you begin to bounce on his cock. Forward and back, forward and back, little staccato moans falling from your swollen, spit slick, cum splattered lips.

After that, inumaki makes you come one more time, still bouncing on his cock like a mindless little ragdoll, tongue lolled out, drooling, eyes rolled back into your skull, your fingers playing with your own clit because he told you to. When you come, your walls grip his cock so tightly he can't move at all. So he grinds and grinds and grinds, until finally, his balls draw up and he spills deep inside you, seed so copious it leaks out around his base, painting his balls and your thighs a thick creamy white.

But you wouldn't know that. The moment your muscles locked up tight in orgasm, stars burst behind your eyelids for three seconds, and then you blacked out, falling limp in his arms.

Safe to say, you're never teasing your boyfriend like that ever again.

GIVE UP YOUR POWER

shifting and manifesting method

in loa, it’s often preached that you’re the one in charge. you have the power, the mere words—intention, assumptions, affirmations so strong that it’ll bend reality backwards just to align with what you want. and that’s completely true! that’s why it’s called the law of assumption. what you assume is true.

as godly as we truly are, we are still inhabiting a human vessel.

keep this in mind.

the methods steps are easy;

give up your power. assign it to someone else, but not completely. act as if there’s a god, a higher being, a deity or anything that comes to mind. you can pray to this thing, ask it for blessings or your desire. and… it’ll give it. because you assumed it would. you’re still in charge, just under the guise of letting someone else borrow your power.

now, you may believe i’ve gone bonkers. i have, but that’s not the point!

the core idea of this method isn’t really giving your power away, it’s relocating agency to bypass resistance.

since we are humans, with neurons, emotions, feelings and a complex thinking meat-computer (your brain)—it is natural to feel self doubt, fear of responsibility, cognitive overload along with identity friction.

the idea of “you are god” to someone in this community, especially if new and jus learning about this CAN backfire. yes, for some, they finally feel free. they like it.

but others? power + uncertainty gives you anxiety.

this method lets someone else handle “the scary part”.

psychologically speaking, the brain relaxes when it believes someone else is in charge and the outcomes aren’t 100% dependent on YOUR perfection. this is called the locus of control shifting, you don’t lose control yet you soften it. think, some people perform better when coached. soldiers function under command. kids feel safer when adults handle it. this “deity” you’ll make is symbolic executive function!

also, it doesn’t have to be anything godly if you find that stuff icky. just… uh, imagine a guy who works in an office named tim. give him a personality while you’re at it!

or even see the being as the same level as you, or lower. make it some dobby creature thingamajick.

going back to our lovely yet disgusting human brain, decision paralysis disappears in this method.

when you’re in charge, the brain asks;

am i doing it right?

am i visualizing enough?

what if this fails and it’s my fault?

^ especially common since you’re under the assumption that you create everything.

once decision paralysis is removed, it causes a massive nervous system downshift. less cortisol, more openness, more persistence.

furthermore, humans can change more easily if they feel permitted to. by invoking a higher being, rule, force or system; you give yourself moral, existential and emotional permission. you feel as if you’re ALLOWED to receive it. and as i’ve mentioned, you still are in charge. this is… symbolic puppetry, let’s call it.

it’s dual layer cognition. you tell yourself someone else is doing this, while you still direct the intention. it’s a marionette metaphor!

and i, personally, have had success with this method. my go to is just starting a prayer with “to whoever pities me the most right now…” and asking for what i want.

to shift, you have to be willing to surrender your guard to ALL of it. you can’t expect to shift if there’s a part of you still expecting to fail. if there’s a part of you still bargaining on whether you did enough, or too much, or waited too long you’re just honing in on the part of you that’s building walls! get rid of the expectations, banish them.

Forgetting = Failure. "If I forget my manifestation then it won't come". - Forgetting does not mean your manifestation has instantly failed. "OOHH NOOUUURRR I FORGOT TO AFFIRM, THAT MEANS MY MANIFESTATION WON'T COME TO FRUITION!!" Your subconsciousness works behind the scenes when you don't know it. Like watching a play on stage, there are people doing backstage work to put the play piece together right? So then the audience can watch it all happen. Your subconscious mind is the backstage, doing all the work so you can experience your desired reality consciously. Dig deep (in your butt twin🤖) in yourself, do you have a subconscious fear that states 'if I forgot about my desire, then it won't come"? If so, drop it and decide that it no longer aligns with you, and that "forgetting" your manifestation actually discards unnecessary control & pressure.

(Connects to last point) Waking up in your cr = failure. "I always wake up in my cr no matter what I do." - Firstly, detach from the idea of 'failure' in general. This reality is 1 out of infinite and you are coooooooooonstantly shifting all the time through thoughts, decisions, and assumptions. Ask yourself, is there a subconscious fear of 'letting go' because you feel like you'll forget, and then you won't shift to your dr? Have you unintentionally assumed that? If that's so, remind yourself that you, as a conscious being, is the one shifting through different versions of who you call your physical self. For example. I am Angie, right? But... I AM is my consciousness. Angie is just a version of me out of infinite versions. Some days I say "oh my gosh I am so tired." "I am so happy!" "I am not happy." "I am strong." There's only one I AM, but infinite versions of the I AM. I get to decide which one I want to align with. "I AM in my desired reality." I am actively choosing to align with the version of me that is already in my desired reality. It's not a matter of what you do, it's a matter of who you decide to identify as.

Not seeing changes in the 3D = Your manifestation isn't happening. "I've tried everything, from a to z, why is my 3D not conforming?" - Do you affirm and persist and just... wait for it to all unfold while pretending to have it? Or do you affirm and persist to consciously embody the version of yourself who already is experiencing your desire? You can't have the outer world tight in your grip. You will LITERALLY struggle if you constantly keep peeking your head through going "psst... are you working!?". Think of the last time you thought "hm... I should do some chores today! I feel like helping!" and then your parent went "you better be doing them dishes!!" and then you suddenly feel like you don't want to do it anymore because you feel like you're EXPECTED to do it. It's the same with the 3D. Trust it and as awareness, you will always be where you need to be. So, drop the expectations, because when you expect nothing, you gain everything.

like bffr. please. PLEAAASE. they’ll never blink an eye at someone shifting to a DR where they’ve got telekinesis, wings, and three suns in their backyard, but the second someone says they wanna manifest powers or something considered “eXtReMelY iLLoGiCal” here, suddenly it’s delusional. AS IF IT’S ANY DIFFERENT?? the same way you can manifest two cents on the floor, you can manifest pissing rainbows every year on pride month if you damn well please. case dismissed.

bitterness isn’t a shortcut. it won’t make you shift faster, manifest quicker, or feel any better.

it just marinates you in your own misery.

cue the gavel slam. courtroom adjourned.

Do you know what is impossible?

We all have a dream life in our mind. We fantasize about being rich, successful, beautiful, having the perfect body, perfect relationship, perfect house, perfect job, etc. The law of assumption teaches us that we can have all of these things if we shift our awareness to the life in our mind’s eye, rather than focusing solely on the mirror (physical reality) that reflects our predisposed perception of the physical. The problem that everyone runs into, and some people get stuck there while others abandon it, is the victim mentality.

Not all of us have the same circumstances or desires, but we all have the same 24 hours in a day. You can either use that 24 hours to think about your new car, your partner who is obsessed with you, the large sums of money that mysteriously appear into your account, that trip to another continent you’re going on soon, that birkin your fanboy just bought you, the compliment the lady on the train gave you… or you can waste those 24 hours self-loathing and complaining about the most minor inconveniences, which then traps you in a cycle of experiencing unfavorable circumstances that create more negative thoughts.

What. you. focus. on. GROWS. I really don’t care if you feel like you’re lying to yourself or not. Think & speak of the things you WANT, not the stuff that stresses you out. You can feel your feelings, you can have bad or lazy days— what you can’t do, however, is spend every single day hating on everything that exists, only to ask yourself why everything sucks. It’s cause your mindset sucks.

THE 3D HAS NO CHOICE BUT TO REFLECT YOUR CONSISTENT THOUGHTS.

With that out of the way, how do we kill the victim mentality? To accept that you’re not a freaking victim of a circumstance you mentally created. Stop the woe is me BS. Your imagination is your canvas, you’re the artist, so why are you painting a sad picture if you hate depressing art? You’re picking up the brush to paint your own problems, then you get mad and punch holes in the painting you made. Throw that shit in the trash and light it on fire, it doesn’t serve you.

You select your identity everyday and every night. Before bed, replay your day in your mind, but alter it to fit your desired reality. Want a new car? New house? $1k? Re-create your day in your imagination as you’re falling asleep, change the things you don’t like and allow yourself to be fully immersed. Immerse yourself so deep in your little perfect world, that it causes you to laugh and smile like an idiot. Really enjoy it like it actually happened, because it did. Stop replaying embarrassing moments, losses, failures, rejections, etc. It doesn’t exist. The past & future can only be what you create, so create positive experiences. Fall asleep in good memories (real memories or ones you’ve created, your subconscious knows no difference), wake up thinking positively. Affirm in your favor and you’ll generate favorable experiences.

Negative thoughts on loop = Negative experiences

do something today.

even if you’re scared and filled to the brim with doubt; because anything,

ANYTHING,

this may be a question you face and why you roll your eyes when you see people say this. i’ve been a victim of this mindset, which is why i have the perfect advice to help.

imagining is enough. it always has been. but sometimes our energy is pushed too outward, instead of holding said feeling internally. i always say this: “hold the feeling! hold the intention!” but what does that actually mean?

well, for me it means that instead of revving your engine and trying to drive straight into your dr, you took your foot off the pedal and just let it glide. let the car move on its own and dissolve into the feeling.

this is about surrendering when you’re imagining instead of trying to use it to push you forward. it’s my theory that most shifters struggle with the subconscious resistance to just receiving which is why i preach simply being. shifting is natural—it’s effortless but many of us don’t receive it that way, thus, the cycle of resistance.

and this is why trusting yourself is important. trust that the feeling is enough without needing to push for more (more symptoms, more effort, more time).

Stop waiting, stop hoping, stop wishing, stop doubting, you Already have everything you desire - right now, there's already a version of you that already living their dream life and have everything that you ever Wanted, the only thing that is stopping you is fear, doubt, not believing in your power and in yourself, and the only standing between you and your dream life is your refusal to accept that you already have it.

Manifestation isn't about 'getting' something, it's about embodying the Version of yourself that already have your desires, shift your state and think as the version of yourself as if you already had your desires for example:

Wanting a car? ➜ i think of how beautiful my car is and how comfortable it is to drive in it.

Wanting an appearance change?➜ i think of how my appearance is perfect and beautiful, and how i feel confident and comfortable in my own skin.

Wanting money?➜ i think of how i have the freedom to buy whatever i want and that no price surprise me.

Wanting my dream life? ➜ i think of how comfortable and happy i am living my dream life and how grateful that i have everything i wanted.

You don't need to see movement, you don't need proof, you don't need anything because if you had your dream life you wouldn't wonder where it is.

This is called the Law of assumption for a reason, you made an assumption and you believed it that it's a fact without looking for proof, because the real proof is in your mind, in your imagination.

There's no such thing as time delay, this is a limiting belief, decide that you have your dream life right now and the 3d will reflect it instantly, you make the rules, you can just decide that you get your manifestation instantly and that time delay doesn't exist.

Manifesting isn't a job and isn't a process, it's the most natural and easiest thing ever, it's a lifestyle, you just need to keep it simple.

YOU'RE already LIVING your DREAM LIFE, you have it right now, not tomorrow, not in the year after, not in 2026 or 2027, start assuming that you're already living it, you're just going to embody that version of yourself.

Persist in your assumption, the 3d is just testing you, it's testing if you're going to keep being loyal to your assumption or not, DO NOT GIVE UP.

AFFIRM, PERSIST, AFFIRM, PERSIST, and let's the work to your subconscious.

You're the creator of your reality and you decide, you make the rules, and you make the change.

Xoxo, Eli.

© scentedpeachlandcreator.

⊹ ࣪ ˖𝓢hift like a dragon ⊹ ࣪ ˖

There’s a difference between wanting to shift and being someone who shifts. One begs for permission. One takes it.

When I say “shift like a dragon,” I don’t mean breathe literal fire and destroy cities (unless that’s your desired reality, no judgment).

what I mean is, shift like a creature that knows its own divinity. Something ancient, untouchable, and far beyond the need to prove itself.

Because that’s what this is, isn’t it? Every time you “try,” you’re silently saying ”I don’t have it yet.”

Dragons don’t try. They already know. They already have. They already decide.

That’s the entire point of this, the collapse between wanting and having, between imagining and being. When you shift, you’re remembering that you already are.

Ignoring the 3D isn’t about pretending it doesn’t exist. It’s about understanding that it’s irrelevant. You could wake up tomorrow in the same bed, same city, same skin, and still be in a different reality.

Your reality doesn’t change when the furniture moves, it changes when your awareness does.

A dragon doesn’t need to look in the mirror to know it’s terrifyingly beautiful. You don’t need to see your DR with your eyes to know you’re already there.

When I say “shift like a dragon,” what I’m really saying is, move from knowing that you can, to knowing that you already did.

They exist because they decided to.

So, decide. Decide that your mind isn’t a maze to escape, it’s a throne to sit on.

How to ignore the 3d

the 3D is not a god, it’s not your future, it’s not even a decent narrator. Its a half asleep puppet show , and you’re the one behind the curtain pulling the strings, and the strings are… like your thoughts, or delusions. Whatever sounds fancier.

It’s simply a reflection of what you’ve previously assumed. Past tense. Already scripted. Already acted out. So reaching for it is like yelling at a movie after the credits have rolled. Embarrassing

”but it looks real!” Yes. So does CGI. So does a dream. So does your ex when they said they’d change. Doesn’t make it truth.

The moment you take the 3D as proof, you chain yourself to it. you start saying ”this is reality, so this is the rule.”

to manifest or to shift, ignoring the 3D doesn’t mean pretending it doesn’t exist. it means refusing to let it be the authority. it means choosing your assumption over the mirror, every time.

𖥔 ݁ 　♡⊹

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what ignoring the 3D really means

•it means not checking if your desire “shows up” yet.

•it means not taking circumstances as evidence of what’s possible.

• it means reminding yourself that the 3D is always a lagging reflection of older states, not the author of the next one.

if you dye your hair, the mirror doesn’t change first. you do, and the mirror catches up.

So why does it feel so hard?

because the 3D is designed to feel final. cause -> effect → continuity. you’ve been trained since birth to believe what you see, hear, and touch is the law. so when you assume something new, but the 3D doesn’t show it instantly, you panic. you go “see, nothing happened.”

but that panic is the only thing that cancels it. the 3D has no power without your agreement.

how to actually ignore the 3D

1. decide once!!

2. catch the reflex - when you go to check if it’s “working,” stop. remind yourself “that’s just the old reflection.”

3. stay with the new story - every time the 3D shows the opposite, re choose your assumption instead of reacting.

4. treat the 3D like background noise - it’s there, but it’s not the headline. you don’t argue with it, you don’t wrestle it, you just stop giving it authority.

Let’s say that you wake up in your cr bed again. if you take that as “proof” you didn’t shift, you chain yourself to the cr. if you ignore it, and hold your dr as the reality, then the cr loses its grip. the 3D is only ever the last place you left your focus.

Or let’s say that you want money. your bank app says “no.” if you treat that number as truth, you manifest more of “no.” if you ignore it and instead hold “i am abundant, always”, the 3D number eventually has to rearrange to reflect that.

ignoring the 3D isn’t about fighting it. it’s about starving it. reality can only echo what you feed it.

Yes it sounds click-baity, but it is what it is :⁠‑⁠X I actually thought I had posted this already, but apparently not !! Anyway,

First thing: whatever you intend to do with WBTB, you are not going to try to do it. In fact, you’re going to discard it completely. Don’t try to shift, don’t try to get into the void state, don’t try to lucid dream, forget the thing you’re trying to achieve. If your goal is to shift, don’t even think about shifting. That’s step one, trust me. I’m labeling this a hack for a reason.

Now, set an alarm for about four to five hours after you fall asleep, because that’s the sweet spot. If you wake up before the alarm, go back to sleep and let it ring later, that’s fine. The reason this timing works is because by then your sleep is favoring REM (those vivid dream windows where the mind is more likely to re-enter dreams/lucidity while you still maintain awareness).

When your alarm goes off, wake yourself up fully. Not a soft nudge, I mean WAKE UP. Jolt yourself awake, stand up, splash water on your face, check your phone if you must. Do whatever it takes to feel properly awake. Traditional WBTB advice says “don’t wake up too much,” but if you’re the type who falls asleep too fast, do the opposite: wake yourself up completely. If you reach the point where you think “Oh fuck, now I’m too awake and nothing’s going to work,” perfect! That’s exactly where you want to be.

Now tell yourself: “I am not going to fall asleep again tonight. I will stay awake if I have to.” Be comfortable with nothing happening, be comfortable with waking up back in your CR, adopt the mindset that you’d rather stay up all night than accidentally sleep and not progress anywhere. You want to be stubbornly awake in will even while your body wants to shut down.

Lie back down and let your mind do its thing. Dwell in frustration if you need to, think about your favorite food, even plan your day in this reality tomorrow—it doesn’t matter. Sing a song in your head, drift, daydream, anything. Even zoning out here is beneficial, because you just snap yourself out of it, and go back to doing whatever you want.

The point is: don’t try to induce anything. Don’t try to shift, don’t try to become aware of the void, don’t try to lucid dream. Your only goal is: “I will not fall asleep. I will stay awake until morning.” That’s it.

***And don’t go on your phone. Stay in the dark, roll over, toss and turn if you have to. It honestly doesn’t matter what you do mentally as long as you’re not forcing anything to happen.

From here, one of three things will happen.

1) Your body will fall asleep while your mind stays awake. And you won’t even notice because you weren’t trying to induce it. Then you’ll feel the pull of AP, or sink, or you’ll start sliding into a lucid dream or become aware of the void, and you’ll have that “Wtf just happened??” moment. You’ll probably jolt awake, sit there panting, and realize you just found a method that could change everything. Cheers!

2) You’ll accidentally fall asleep. That’s fine!! We’ve all been there. Just try again the next day, because now you know what to expect.

3) You’ll stay awake all night and nothing happens. You’ll wake up in the morning wondering why you lost sleep trying this stupid thing. That’s fine too, because you now know this method isn’t for you and you can try something else.

But !!! if you just read #3, and your brain is already spiraling into worry reading this, stop. I’ve had really, really bad chronic insomnia in the past— was heavily medicated for it—and the only thing that ever reliably helped me sleep was a version of this method, because I used it to sleep. What I did was stop trying to sleep in the first place. I lay there, relaxed, not trying to sleep, not forcing anything. And I’d tell myself: “if I don’t fall asleep, at least I’ll relax and let my body rest.”

That’s the state you want. Not the nervous, fidgeting, angry state of “why am I still awake?” The point isn’t to force what you crave, it’s to settle into the calm state of “this is good enough, so whatever happens, happens”. If you wake up tomorrow still in your CR, that’s fine, because your body and mind at least got some rest.

Of course I don’t mean “overcomplicating” in the sense of, “shifting is just deciding you’re in your DR and persisting” no, I’m talking about overcomplicating every single little thing, to the point where you can’t even do anything without tearing it apart, overanalyzing why it doesn’t work for you, and finding 60,000 different problems in it.

This isn’t meant to make anyone feel bad, but if it resonates, you definitely need to hear it.

If someone posts a method, and your first response is “Well, I’ve tried that before and it doesn’t work, so what do I do now?” …the answer is literally in the question you just asked. You do something else. Unless you wanna try it again, you don’t force a method you hate into fitting you, because that’s how you overcomplicate it. Same with something like “I can’t visualize and hate trying to, so how do I visualize?” You just told me you don’t like or can’t do visualization, so why are you trying to visualize?

Or if someone says “I just focus on my random thoughts and shift,” and your spiral begins: “But what are thoughts? How do you focus? Which thoughts? Good thoughts? Bad thoughts? What if I can’t focus on my thoughts??” Stoooop. If it’s not clicking and gives you anxiety, it’s not for you. If you’re creating issues for it, go do something else. This is supposed to be fun, not homework.

Half the time, the very thing you find difficult is exactly the thing you’re not meant to be doing. It’s like walking down a path and finding a gate blocking one trail. Do you keep bashing your head against the gate that won’t open, or do you take the other path? I say this because I used to obsessss over subliminals. Sure, they work for people, but for me? It wasn’t fun. I hated making the playlists, I hated listening, it gave me headaches, it just wasn’t aligned with me. But I kept beating at that locked door because other people were getting results that way. Newsflash: I’m not other people. Neither are you. The more you bend yourself backwards trying to fit something that doesn’t fit you, the more miserable you’re gonna be.

And yeah, I sound bitter, but listen: I have a void state method posted where the entire method is literally “focus on the black behind your eyelids.” Every week I get “But what if I don’t like focusing on the black behind my eyelids? What if I can’t do that?” And what do I tell those people? That’s the method. If you don’t like it, then don’t do it. Pick something else. It is totally fine to say “Yeah, not for me” and move on.

If your answer is “Well, I’m desperate, so of course I try everything and force it all to fit me.” Don’t forget what I’m about to tell you. The thing that makes you shift is not the thing that leaves you stressed, confused, or doubting yourself. I swear to you—by the light of whatever the hell I put my faith in—I promise, the thing that gets you there is never the thing that makes you hate yourself, that makes you miserable, that makes you question every step. I promise you.

But if your response to all this is “But I’ve tried everything, so I have to dig deep to figure out what’s wrong with me. I’ve been at this for years, so obviously something’s broken.” No. It’s actually fine if nothing is wrong with you and you just haven’t shifted yet. That’s allowed. You can be doing everything right, with no fatal flaw, no missing puzzle piece....and it just hasn’t happened yet. That doesn’t make you defective, you’re not a case study.

In fact, the thing that happens more than anything in this community is: someone racks their brain all day about what they’re doing wrong, goes to bed exhausted, sleeps normally, and they shift out of nowhere. Just because they had the intention to in the first place.

Come to think, that’s how I shifted the first time, some 2 years before I started doing it whenever I wanted. The morning I opened my eyes in my DR, my CR life was falling apart. One parent was dying in the hospital, I was being stalked, and every bad thing under the sun was happening. Yet in the middle of that mess, out of nowhere, I shifted. I still can’t explain why it happened then, but it did. Probably because of intention.

And still, when people say “intention is all you need,” the overcomplication begins again: How do I set intention? What if I cancel my intention? What if it comes the wrong way? Can this intention fight with that intention? And suddenly you’re tangled in your own rules, angrier than when you started. You’re not meant to dissect strangers’ words online into evidence that you’re broken, or that you’re doing everything wrong.

I wish teenage me had someone grab me by the shoulders and say: “Clover, you don’t need subliminals. You’re better without them.” Or “stop dissecting every minishift like an autopsy report, you’re not doing anything wrong, you’re just finding reasons to call yourself a failure.”

It sucks, but the whole manifestation and shifting community is built on the foundation of “you can mess it up.” That’s why we got all this nonsense: you can’t waver, you can’t doubt, you can’t move, you can’t sneeze sideways or the shift police cancel your ticket. So of course people walk in asking “Okay… what am I doing wrong?”

That answer is probably nothing. You’re just spiraling yourself into a corner. Being confused is fine, it’s part of figuring out what works for you. But going out of your way to overcomplicate things, to hunt for flaws, to create imaginary failure conditions,, that’s you turning it into a math equation, when the entire class was on “draw the prettiest picture you can”

And if you’ve made it this far and you’re thinking “Well, I overcomplicate things because there’s so much advice online that contradicts itself and I don’t know what to follow.” Well let me confirm your worst nightmare: every single method, perspective, or piece of advice can be true. Why? Because truth depends on you. It becomes true the moment you decide to see it that way, the moment you choose to observe it, the moment you internalize it. That’s what makes it real for you.