୨ৎ why I can't stand the usual "decide and let go!" bs anymore
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disclaimer : everything i'm gonna say comes from MY own point of view and my personal beliefs. if you don't agree with me thats okay!! i'm not trying to force anyone believing in what i believe, i'm just trying to make ppl stop going in circles and pop their bubble ig
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okay straight to the point. If you're still wondering "concretely, what should i do to get my desires? what if i do things wrong? and should i just decide and let go?"
LET GO of all that "deciding" bs.
yes that's the whole point of loa but like just NO. Maybe that's not for you yet. because we all know that if you just discovered loa and that your self concept and mindset, whatever, are not strong enough, of course just "deciding" would not be enough.
I'm not trying to discourage anyone but that's the truth ; if you don't have hardened the belief that "i have to decide something to make it appear in the 3d" then only deciding is not enough. every journey must begin by repetition. and yes when we all say repetition is key IT IS.
let me explain:
every "just decide" manifestor started with growing their mindset by repetition and affirming. for most loa coaches or just experienced manifestors in general it js becomes easier for them to simply decide what they want then, so they switch to that method and assume that everyone has the same level of belief they built with effort, when their audience just started to consume loa content. beginners doubt whether manifestation works and some of them have sm resistance that it's hard to just decide. also it's really confusing that one day we're telling you to put effort into something to get it and the next day you just have to make a decision and let go??? our brains don't function that way??
i mean yes we gotta start with repetition first to achieve what they did, logic aside ofc. moreover for most of us we aren't manifesting some sweets but huge life changes which require, - once again if you didn't start with the right mindset - huge changes of the self and repetition, especially at the beginning. cmon let's be fr. i used to deny all this but that's just how things work and IT DOES WORK. discipline, repetition, affirmation. a mind formatted by society doesn't change with one single affirmation but from hearing the same idea again and again consistently. that's just basic neuroscience.
i went through it too and i tried "persisting" by just deciding, waiting and expecting change, and then asking myself "hey, i decided i have my desire already didnt i? why isnt it coming???" i was genuinely SO confused because EVERYONE was js saying "you HAVE your desires ! ignore the 3d! live in the end!" like what no??? i was so frustrated like i couldn't do anything and act because technically "i already had my desire" and YES OFC WE DO THATS THE WHOLE POINT OF LOA. why would you affirm that much if you already have it? well because if you had it the aff would repeat itself endlessly in the bg like an informatic program as it is an assumption like every other assumption you have. it's not because you're affirming 24/7 that you don't have it, it is natural for someone who has it in fact.
But before realizing that it was blocking me to do nothing while waiting for something i wasnt even sure would come, when i just had the instinct to do something to get it cause we were not going anywhere by just standing still waiting for the shi, you get me.
so from now on, if you're confused about what to do, the best advice i'd give is to AFFIRM.
If you're like crazy about it affirm until you can't think about anything else but your affirmation. GET YOUR SHIT DONE!!!! affirm anywhere anytime, when you wake up when you doubt when you're tired even, take advantage of every moment, affirm. ALL IT TAKES is repetition i promise, that's the only thing you have to worry about. forget everything else and stop filling your mind with useless content and trying to find "THE solution". if you desperately need it affirm like a robot, nothing else matters, not even doubts.
but the point is to be consistent before anything !!!!! i can't stress it enough : consistency is a part of being repetitive (one doesn't go without the other), because it's not repetition anymore if you just say it one time and get lazy about it.
stop affirming for 1 day then giving up halfway and complaining. do you want it or no???? why are you starting to be lazy about affirming when it's just thinking?? you're always thinking babe ! sometimes it's like some of yall don't really want your desires, you gotta learn some discipline. this is how you form an assumption.
you were consistent with bad thoughts your whole life so CHANGE THAT RIGHT NOW!!! if you want it rn START RN!!! change your life, TAKE BACK CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE!! you're the only one who can do this, not randoms on internet or your environment, YOU are the only one that can help urself. as long as you repeat your affs you're doing it right, it's that easy and it doesn't feel like you're doing nothing.
why?
It NEVER fails. you know what doubts are, right? poof, they don't even matter here. your subconscious mind doesn't gaf about your feelings or negative thoughts yes it's unsympathetic, it only cares about what you feed it everyday, so your thoughts and basically repetition, rewriting. feeling anxiety? lol that's funny but it doesn't gaf.
got double thoughts? why would it matter? affirm. your new way of thinking will eventually grow bigger than any negative thought with repetition and your whole old mindset will fade away. you don't even need to believe in your affs or any of the whole loa thing, the conscious has nothing to do with this.
KEEP AFFIRMING. it will be worth it at the end i promise. focus!!!! you wont even care about the "when" and "how".
to those who are logical, it's just how neuroplasticity works. "everytime you repeat an affirmation to yourself, you are reinforcing your neural pathways and making them stronger. [...]", just like how the more you walk across the lawn the more impact you will have on the grass and it will wear a path. our mind is js that powerful.
robotic affirmation cannot NOT work, it HAS to work. it's inevitable, what is impossible is that you dont get what you want. make your dreams come true. change the way you think. you have nothing to lose. any thought repeated consistently will harden into fact in the 3D, if said enough times it will be you. If you had a guarantee that it will come idont think you'd worry about time. so here's your guarantee. what makes it a fact is consistent repetition.
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