Why i donât agree with most manifestation teachings that make assumptions seem difficult + my views as a logical person
People overcomplicate assumptions. They make assumptions seem like a magical thing only some people can do if ONLY they believe it or âfeelâ it enough. Iâm here to explain why thatâs actually not true and very much unnecessary.
I personally do not care or worry about:
Why? Well, because all of it is unnecessary from my experience.
You donât have to meet any of those requirements. They are just rules some people made up to make manifestation sound more complicated than it is (please free yourself, iâm just trying to give you an easier way of manifesting). The proof is, I have manifested things without meeting any of those requirements.
My clients often tell me that they donât âfeelâ it enough. That they havenât âreached the stateâ yet. They start to analyse why they donât have it instead of just telling themselves they have it. I always tell them that theyâre repeating the story where they donât have it. So the repetition happens anyways, they just donât realize it. I suggest focusing on thinking as if you have it instead of focusing on doing it ârightâ (you are doing it right the moment you think as if).
Repetition is what manifests and keeps your manifestation. Repeating a thought is what makes it a âbelief.â An assumption is just a thought you accept as true. This is exactly why iâm so pro affirmations. You donât need to force yourself to believe or feel anything to affirm. You just need to change your thoughts. And you can affirm at ANY moment of the day. When you think of your desire, you can fulfill it by affirming. Thatâs why I love affirmations, they are easy and practical. You donât need to meditate on each desire to manifest. If you donât like to visualize, you also donât have to do that either. You can just think the way you usually do, but in your favour.
Now, i want to get into why feelings are extremely unreliable and unstable. So i know that âfeeling it realâ has been popularised by Neville Goddard and I also know that it doesnât mean emotions, but most people interpret it that way. I prefer to call âfeeling it realâ *thinking as if* because it doesnât imply any feelings being required.
Emotions are extremely unreliable. They can be influenced by so many things and can fluctuate so much throughout the day. You could wake up happy, then find yourself annoyed throughout the day and at night find yourself in some other mood.
Emotions can be influenced by things such as:
They literally fluctuate constantly. I also want to include that your emotions can also change based on your thoughts (try it: start repeating âiâm so happyâ and youâll find yourself feeling happier than before) . So no, your feelings do not manifest. You can be feeling horrible and still manifest what you want.
This is why people who panic affirm or affirm in a situation of fear still end up manifesting what they want. Theyâre not in the âstate of the wish fulfilledâ â clearly they feel fear and anxiety, theyâre terrified. Yet they affirm and it manifests anyway. This is also why i donât agree with the common teaching that you need to regulate your nervous system. Donât get me wrong, i absolutely support NSR and encourage it. But it is not a prerequisite to manifest.
Persistence is necessary because at first, your brain will feel discomfort with your new thoughts (itâs called cognitive dissonance). That is NORMAL and happens to everyone. You are introducing new ideas that your brain is not used to yet, that is why we say to persist. The more you repeat those thoughts, the less your brain will argue with them. The repetition will make those thoughts automatic at some point, because you will see proof that they are true which reinforces them in your mind as a fact (confirmation bias).
Finally, my main point is that you cannot escape thoughts. So many people say that you âdonât need to affirmâ but they fail to understand that affirming is not a technique. Affirming is literally just your thoughts. You donât affirm for 10 minutes and then think against it all day long. Itâs supposed to be the replacement of your old thoughts, not a one-time thing. And you are affirming all the time; when you think âthey hate meâ âthey always leaveâ âi never get what i wantâ âi hate my lifeâ baby i fear to inform you that those are also affirmationsâŚ
I also know some people do not have an internal monologue, donât know how common that is but if that is your case, you donât have to force yourself to think in words. You can use whatever your main form of thinking is, i suppose it could be visual. This post is mainly for those who have an internal monologue!
Anyway, just do a little experiment. Donât just believe me, i want you to actually try it for yourself. I want you to pick 5 random things that you will manifest seeing and just affirm for them.
- an angel number of your choice
Just affirm (aka think) and i promise you that you will end up seeing them. I did this at the beginning of my journey and would constantly strengthen my confidence in my manifestation abilities by doing it. I just repeated a few times that i saw [insert x random thing] and it would usually happen instantly, same day, or a day later. It doesnât take much time because itâs not something i have opposing thoughts about.
Beliefs are built through repetition.
And states are unreliable because they change constantly.
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