Rosie

first off, i just want to start by saying that these mistakes are not fatal. if you make them, you can still get your sp. but in my experience, they delayed my sp manifestation.

when i stopped making these errors, i manifested my sp in less than a week. i manifested a total change in their behavior towards me as well.

1. forcing the 3D

i used to try to force results because i was scared that if i didn’t intervene, it wouldn’t work. i had to stop this habit because it would just make me more frustrated in the end and i didn’t get sustainable results. it would only give me a small hit of dopamine and then i would be left feeling awful about it because ultimately i didn’t trust myself enough to make this happen without my intervention in the 3D. you need to let go of this habit and let the 3D reflect your new assumptions without feeling the need to go out of your way to make it happen by force. this is not to say you can’t take action, it’s specifically about forceful behaviours that you know will leave you feeling hollow in the end.

2. double mindedness

one moment i would affirm my sp is in love with me, the next i’d contradict it by dwelling on the old version. the moment i stuck to one story without going back and forth all the time was the moment i actually finally had results. I really mean it when i say this is very important. the issue with double mindedness is that you will get hot and cold results. it’s not worth it, you need to fully dedicate yourself to focusing on one story period. why would you keep entertaining stories that you already decided are not relevant? why are you entertaining a shitty version of your sp? you already made the decision that your sp is yours and that they are showing up in the best way possible, so stick to that one story. the old story is irrelevant now, you are the one keeping it alive by repeatedly imagining it in your mind. choose wisely which stories you will entertain.

1. giving them free will

Honestly, no i didn’t have to reach some sort of pure knowing before it reflected. In fact, it’s quite the opposite, it usually manifests while i’m still doubting/uncertain. You don’t need to reach a knowing or some calm state before your desires manifest. All you need to do is stick to one story despite the way you feel. Feeling impatient or doubtful does not ruin your manifestation. It doesn’t “slow it down,” it’s literally just feelings and feelings do not manifest. What manifests is what you repeatedly tell yourself, not how you feel. I’ve made a thread about this before but emotions are extremely unreliable and can shift very often, imagine a world in which your emotions manifested… it would be absolutely chaotic. The only thing that manifests is the story you decide is true now. That’s all. Not your doubts, not your feelings. Don’t be afraid of your feelings!! Do not give them negative meanings like “i felt impatience so it means i will never get it and i ruined it” instead you can reframe them you could interpret it as excitement! You don’t even have to interpret it any way though, you can just feel it and move on and decide it didn’t happen or just doesn’t matter at all. You’re the one making the rules, you’re the one interpreting things ALWAYS.

Just overall I'm not talking specifically grades. Like legitimately intelligent. Being able to remember and understand concepts that normal people struggle with,but with ease.

To be able to learn languages with no effort

Things like that. Idk y it seems so "unattainable" to me. Cuz these r things that u need to "put in the work" for.

And I guess it's just a block I have so that's y I'm asking if you have any advice

Thanks rosie

So for context, i already manifested getting into my first dream university in the field i wanted a few years back. But this year i was thinking of perhaps getting another degree, and i figured that i should apply to some universities (i had a very specific one in mind though). I applied but i was missing some information so when i submitted it, i left some of it blank. I did all of this very last minute as well so i was scared it would ruin my chances at getting into it. I still put this as a goal in my 2026 manifestation list and it was a big goal of mine.

What i did to manifest getting into it despite the circumstances was robotically affirming but most importantly being PERSISTENT. I robotically affirmed every day whenever i thought about it and sometimes i would do saturation sessions of 10 minutes! I also listened to subliminals here and there.

Guys i’m honestly gagged at this success story. I have never revised something this big. I have manifested big things before, but this one is just so impressive.

Today i woke up to a bill of 9k YEAH. You heard that right. I was like, wtf?? I wasn’t expecting to have to pay this much money for this specific thing. It was so unexpected, it caught me by surprise. I started to worry wondering how i’m going to pay this (i’m a student) but i was like no wait i can just manifest the money. But i figured an even better option is to revise it completely. I started to affirm nonstop that it’s already been paid. I didn’t want to pay that much for this even if i had the money cause wtf do i look like? If im paying for something i better be enjoying it and it better be by choice… this wasn’t by choice at all it was just imposed on me like that and i was like hell NO.

While affirming, i was also thinking about what i’m going to do in the background, i thought about manifesting the money, i thought about asking my parents to pay for it, i literally thought about every possible way i could fix this. I had those background opposing thoughts and visuals. I still affirmed no matter what. I refused to entertain any other option. I didn’t want to pay and i know the law so i am going to use it to MY ADVANTAGE and prove it always works even when it feels impossible.

People overcomplicate assumptions. They make assumptions seem like a magical thing only some people can do if ONLY they believe it or “feel” it enough. I’m here to explain why that’s actually not true and very much unnecessary.

I personally do not care or worry about:

- being in the state

- being 100% certain

- reaching the sabbath

- the “knowing”

- feeling it real

- believing it

Why? Well, because all of it is unnecessary from my experience.

You don’t have to meet any of those requirements. They are just rules some people made up to make manifestation sound more complicated than it is (please free yourself, i’m just trying to give you an easier way of manifesting). The proof is, I have manifested things without meeting any of those requirements.

My clients often tell me that they don’t “feel” it enough. That they haven’t “reached the state” yet. They start to analyse why they don’t have it instead of just telling themselves they have it. I always tell them that they’re repeating the story where they don’t have it. So the repetition happens anyways, they just don’t realize it. I suggest focusing on thinking as if you have it instead of focusing on doing it “right” (you are doing it right the moment you think as if).

Repetition is what manifests and keeps your manifestation. Repeating a thought is what makes it a “belief.” An assumption is just a thought you accept as true. This is exactly why i’m so pro affirmations. You don’t need to force yourself to believe or feel anything to affirm. You just need to change your thoughts. And you can affirm at ANY moment of the day. When you think of your desire, you can fulfill it by affirming. That’s why I love affirmations, they are easy and practical. You don’t need to meditate on each desire to manifest. If you don’t like to visualize, you also don’t have to do that either. You can just think the way you usually do, but in your favour.

Now, i want to get into why feelings are extremely unreliable and unstable. So i know that “feeling it real” has been popularised by Neville Goddard and I also know that it doesn’t mean emotions, but most people interpret it that way. I prefer to call “feeling it real” *thinking as if* because it doesn’t imply any feelings being required.

Emotions are extremely unreliable. They can be influenced by so many things and can fluctuate so much throughout the day. You could wake up happy, then find yourself annoyed throughout the day and at night find yourself in some other mood.

Emotions can be influenced by things such as:

- sleep

- blood sugar

- hormones

- stress

- illness

- neurodivergence

- caffeine

- environment

- thoughts

They literally fluctuate constantly. I also want to include that your emotions can also change based on your thoughts (try it: start repeating “i’m so happy” and you’ll find yourself feeling happier than before) . So no, your feelings do not manifest. You can be feeling horrible and still manifest what you want.

This is why people who panic affirm or affirm in a situation of fear still end up manifesting what they want. They’re not in the “state of the wish fulfilled” — clearly they feel fear and anxiety, they’re terrified. Yet they affirm and it manifests anyway. This is also why i don’t agree with the common teaching that you need to regulate your nervous system. Don’t get me wrong, i absolutely support NSR and encourage it. But it is not a prerequisite to manifest.

Persistence is necessary because at first, your brain will feel discomfort with your new thoughts (it’s called cognitive dissonance). That is NORMAL and happens to everyone. You are introducing new ideas that your brain is not used to yet, that is why we say to persist. The more you repeat those thoughts, the less your brain will argue with them. The repetition will make those thoughts automatic at some point, because you will see proof that they are true which reinforces them in your mind as a fact (confirmation bias).

Finally, my main point is that you cannot escape thoughts. So many people say that you “don’t need to affirm” but they fail to understand that affirming is not a technique. Affirming is literally just your thoughts. You don’t affirm for 10 minutes and then think against it all day long. It’s supposed to be the replacement of your old thoughts, not a one-time thing. And you are affirming all the time; when you think “they hate me” “they always leave” “i never get what i want” “i hate my life” baby i fear to inform you that those are also affirmations…

I also know some people do not have an internal monologue, don’t know how common that is but if that is your case, you don’t have to force yourself to think in words. You can use whatever your main form of thinking is, i suppose it could be visual. This post is mainly for those who have an internal monologue!

Anyway, just do a little experiment. Don’t just believe me, i want you to actually try it for yourself. I want you to pick 5 random things that you will manifest seeing and just affirm for them.

Example:

- a pink car

- a zebra

- blue baloon

- a vampire

- an angel number of your choice

Just affirm (aka think) and i promise you that you will end up seeing them. I did this at the beginning of my journey and would constantly strengthen my confidence in my manifestation abilities by doing it. I just repeated a few times that i saw [insert x random thing] and it would usually happen instantly, same day, or a day later. It doesn’t take much time because it’s not something i have opposing thoughts about.

My core message is this:

Beliefs are built through repetition.

Emotions fluctuate.

And states are unreliable because they change constantly.

That is the same thing you should be doing when manifesting, just because you had one doubt or opposing thought does not mean you’re doing it wrong — it HAPPENS and its okay, all you need to do is correct it and move on.

Sometimes ignoring it is the best option if you don’t want to focus on it too much. But anyway, in both cases what you’re supposed to do is just go back to your new story.

Not spiral further.

Not assume you’re doing something wrong.

Not blame yourself.

Remind yourself that nothing manifests but what you desire.

Remind yourself that you’re always doing it right.