DIFFICULT WOMEN UNITE

It might be difficult, but with a bit of self-work you can untangle yourself from the idea that you need to perform anything to fit into society. Like, certainly, there is a level of politeness and cleanliness you should adhere to as a basic form of respect for the women around you, but you should look into what actually constitute that basic level of politeness and cleanliness. The bar is way lower than what society would have you believe. Greetings, a modicrum of attention when a woman is addressing you, and firm, curt refusals are enough, no need to set yourself on fire to keep others warm. Showering regularly, making sure that your face is visible and that your clothing is safe and practical enough for you work is all the cleanliness you need. Some of the hoops you feel you have to jump through are self imposed! Set that on fire instead.

EVERYTHING IS MISOGYNISTIC

Woah you fetishize the concept of abuse that's so crazy transgressive no one's ever done that before it's not like woven into the fabric of our bigoted societies or something