Essentially it has been noted tbat a thing is "good" and "historically progrssive" when a friend does it; "evil" and "a terrible atrocity" when an enemy does.
So when you say that it was "evil" and "really fucked up" doing that to you of course you would say that. We are enemies. But my friends say it is "awesome" how I made you cry and beg for your life so really it's all relative to the observer.












