Mon-El Appreciation Week
Day 4: Favorite Trait
To quote Kara ā¦. YOU ARE OPENING THE FLOODGATES, MY FRIEND!!!
I love the way he adapts to his circumstances, and never gives up, and works through whatever grief or angst he might be feeling.
When he first lands on Earth, having woken up from stasis to discover that literally his entire world was gone, he would have had every right to just curl up in the fetal position and try to process that for the entirety of the season.
But he doesnāt. He gets up off the mat and throws himself into learning about this new world heās now in, and finding work that suits him, and eventually, even trying to better himself - asking these big questions about, why was he spared, and what is his purpose.
And I donāt think that he doesnāt mourn for Daxam - we see him having those moments of realization and struggle, even if he immediately shoves it down under humor as a defense mechanism. But I do think that he feels, and relishes, a lot of freedom in the situation, of being able, for the first time, to make his own choices that arenāt dictated by his birthright. For being such a ruthless pragmatist at times, heās sure got the ability to be glass-half-full on occasion.
And likewise, when he lands in the 31st century, I think he would have had every right to just - completely lose it. And we know he mourns. But he chooses to soldier on to chase after this higher purpose, to honor the ideals of those he loved, to better the world he finds himself in. And he eventually finds a way to build a home there, and make a team there, and even open himself up to love again.
I think itās brave and itās beautiful and itās inspiring.
I love the way he doesnāt act like anyone is beneath him.
This is someone who was raised as literal royalty, with a great deal of privilege. But he doesnāt sneer at the idea of going into a bar and getting his hands dirty and interacting with the regular, working-class customers, and even serving the people heās trying to get on the level with.
He doesnāt sneer at the idea of interacting with assistants or interns at CatCo or taking an entry-level position there (he didnāt fit into that role, at all, and created many disasters, but it wasnāt because he thought it was beneath him). He knows various āunderlingsā at the DEO, who we basically know as part of the scenery, by name.
And look at the various alien races he interacts with at the bar, or at the DEO, and he treats them all the same. Like sure, he has a knee-jerk reaction with Kara (he fell asleep to his planet being bombarded by debris from Krypton, stole a Kryptonian ship, and then woke up to a stranger wearing a Kryptonian coat of arms leaning over him, the freak-out was kind of understandable). But Kara has the same reaction - and frankly, Iād argue that he puts aside his prejudice faster than she does. His attitude toward all these different races is really refreshing, considering the hella amount of xenophobia that flies around on this show and in various comics canons.
If things had gone differently and heād needed to step up and be a leader of his people and set a better example for them, I think he would have been excellent.
The fact that in the 31st century heās assembled this team of all these various alien races who work for a common purpose is proof of that.
A Daxamite, a Saturnian, and a Coluan walk into a bar ā¦
I love that he values happiness in other people.
Heās always trying to make people laugh, or to lighten the situation, or to support them - even if his joke is poorly-timed or his advice falls flat or this is not the right time to offer Winn a drink. I think maybe a lot of this comes from his culture, because Daxam values pleasure/happiness. Thereās a tendency to interpret his culture as hedonistic and selfish, but I think sometimes, itās a real strength - like when he just rolls with it when Alex introduces Maggie as her girlfriend, and acts like itās silly that anyone would make an issue of it.
And, I love that heās a bookworm.
I find it ridiculously attractive when someone is well-read. And I think it goes back to this thing where he throws himself into the culture and tries to absorb all this information. I love that we know he reads everything from Harry Potter to Aristotle to Shakespeare.
I get that the obvious thing youāre supposed to look at in this scene is his note about Kara in the margins, but look at his other notes on the opposite page and how he clearly didnāt know what something meant in the text, went and looked it up elsewhere, and then was hardcore pondering some of these big philosophical questions in the text.
Also, thereās a book on his side of the bed here. Iām dead.Ā