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WHEN WILL PEOPLE FUCKING REALIZE THAT

I’m bringing back the REAL post.  For those of you who care enough about how body image issues effect BOTH MEN AND WOMEN and how ignoring men with eating disorders or who have depression or deep insecurities because of their body image is not just ignorant, but it’s horribly insulting.  Making fun of this post means you are telling men who feel degraded that they should feel bad about themselves and that they don’t mean anything.  For everyone who reblogged the posts that made fun of this original post, shame on you.  I’m very disappointed.  Please share the original because this is an important issue.

This is actually the VERY FIRST TIME I’ve seen the original post, which goes to show how quickly people turned it into a joke. I confess that I did laugh at some of the absurd replacement images in the other versions, and I feel guilty for that now because I, like many, was missing an extremely important message.

Another thing to note that in all, ALL, of those pictures the men are actively flexing. And often such defenition for shoots is exaggerated by dehydration, airbrushing and photoshopping. That chiseled look isn’t a look you can acheive at rest without literal implants. Here are 2 examples of flexed vs relaxed:

me: *sucks at repyling mssgs and keeping in touch, forgets answer the texts, will probably drift away frm ur life slowly*

me and other seungmin stans have said this soooooo many times that seungmin gets treated like wack by stays compared to the more popular members but no one listens except the 5 other seungminators here like yall rlly wont give a shit until seungmin himself said it and even then you guys STILL question why he said it. he knows he’s the least popular member and least favorite by stays actions and their treatments towards him. this isnt about antis this is about STAYS themselves. some people might not even realize it and thats the main thing thats so fucking frustrating