What's Blocking Your Magnetism? Aries Venus/ Venus in the 1st house
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So, what blocks an Aries Venus from attracting all that they desire, and how can they fix it?
Aries is a cardinal fire sign, ruled by the planet Mars, and governs the 1st house. Cardinal is a modality (the other modalities are fixed and mutable) and means that you are a leader, trailblazer, and initiator in all Venusian matters. Mars is the planet of action, passion, and war. The 1st house (often referred to as your ascendant or rising sign) represents beginnings, first impressions, how the world initially sees you, identity, the body, attitude, your approach to life, and ultimately affects your appearance.
Aries Venus/ Venus in the 1h love the chase, the thrill, the spark. You're drawn to bold moves, passionate beginnings, and lovers/ projects/ experiences that make your heart race. However, it is up to you to wield your raw power from a mature and healed place. The unhealed version of an Aries Venus is volatile, reckless, gets frustrated when they don’t get what they want right away, can’t finish anything, prioritizes instant gratification, and confuses drama and toxicity with passion and excitement. So, which one are you? Is your life a battlefield or a playground?
What’s Blocking Your Magnetism?
Impatience and chasing instant gratification!
Aries Venus wants things now. If something doesn't come to fruition immediately, you may get bored and walk away, whether it’s a relationship, a job, or a financial goal. The shadow here is impulsiveness. People with this placement fear stagnancy and wasting their lives. Thus, if they don’t get what they want immediately or advance as quickly as they want, they may feel like a failure, like they’re running out of time, and that the goal they were pursuing is pointless.
If this sounds like you, you may have many unfinished projects, half-baked plans that never came to fruition, and a string of romantic “almosts.” In extreme cases, an Aries Venus might choose the cowardly route and do something that forces someone else to end the relationship, opportunity, project, job, etc., for them. Examples of this are cheating, being disrespectful at work, being physically violent, speeding, putting others in danger, gambling all your money away, making poor financial decisions, etc.
To heal this pattern and mindset, you must make discipline and devotion exciting!This will prevent you from abandoning love or projects when the initial thrill fades.
A few things you can do:
Find pleasure in slow growth by rewarding yourself after every milestone.
Do something fun or soothing after you do something hard.
Romanticizing even the mundane things in your life and relationships.
Visualize your dream life every time you feel like quitting.
Remember why you have the goals that you do.
Make a “dream life” playlist.
Find workouts that excite you!
Do 30-day challenges.
Get an accountability partner.
Review your goals and vision board every day.
Say affirmations that are aligned with your dream life every day.
Keep a list of fun dates you want to go on.
Gamify your goals/ habit: bingo cards, making it a competition, etc.
Take before and after photos and videos.
Do 20-minute cleaning sprints.
Make your work area aesthetically pleasing.
Eat lots of protein (especially in the morning) so you have energy to finish your tasks.
Make a monthly calendar of things you can look forward to.
Journal about your goals.
Make a weekly gratitude list.
Make a list of all the things you accomplished every month (including fun things/ things that brought a smile to your face).
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