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swerfism is such a self centered rich white cis ideology. like if you actually believe that all sex work is rape then you wouldn't be pushing for bans and continued criminalization you'd be pushing for safety and protection for sex workers. "i want victims of sexual assault to be arrested and imprisoned" and then call yourself a feminist. let's all be for fucking real, porn just grosses you out and you want to punish the poor women, the racialized women, the trans women, the disabled women, anyone who you can for it. you want it gone and you want it punished and you really don't care that the people who are going to be the most hurt by this are vulnerable women.

The current shitting on transmascs reminds me of the time a person running an account called #justbisexualthings or something on twitter and lesbians sent them gore and death threats for, like, posting on a day that lesbians had something going on and shut down all criticism of it with "Are you a lesbian?". And it reminds me of that probably because this is the same shit as discourse about bisexuals and asexuals and anything else I'm forgetting. It reminds me of how terfs talk about transfemininity

As far as I can tell, a "transandrophobia truther" is just someone who thinks trans men are oppressed. Which is so self-evidently true that the insistence on using a conspiracy theorist sounding name for them really just says far more about the people using the term than the people the term describes.

if you think saying "trans men have gynecological body parts and are thus are affected by misogyny" is equal to saying "all trans men are actually women" then sweetheart you might be a bioessentialist

it really is easier for some people to believe "all these trans men are malicious liars and/or fooled by malicious liars and thats why theyre all saying the same thing about how theyre treated in the queer community" than to believe trans men.

"punching 'across' at trans men is actually punching up" fuck off. actually fuck right off. "punching at an oppressed minority who are oppressed in a lot of the same ways as me is punching up" do you realise how stupid you sound?

If you make jokes about men suffering / dying frankly I do not want to hang out with you. You are not a feminist bestie that’s gender essentialism <3

It does piss me off a little bit that serious polyamory representation in media is pretty much non-existent

If you interact with this blog or have ever interacted with this blog you agree that trans men are awesome and deserve better. Also their oppression is real and they deserve to talk about it. I don't make the rules!

If you’re not a trans woman you need to get way more comfortable with trans women talking about issues that don’t affect you. If you’re not a trans man you need to be ok with trans men talking about their own experiences that don’t affect you. If you’re not non binary you need to stop being weird about nonbinary people talking about the poor treatment they get for being nonbinary. If you’re not intersex you need to stop inserting yourself into conversations that aren’t about you and begging to be centered. Everyone get less self centered NOW!!!!

"Oh no I definitely want to support nonbinary people. Yeah, totally. But first you have to let me sort you into these two boxes. What? No no these boxes aren't just assigned sex at birth! It's totally different! Also I'm choosing which one of you goes in which box based on your asab. But it's totally not just asab again! You see, there's also arbitrary moral judgments! Totally different! Why aren't you getting in the box?"

always remember to love trans men more than you hate transandrophobes. always remember that the goal is happy, healthy, loved trans men.

Reminder that agab/asab terminology is useless medical terminology rooted in patriarchy and intersexism. Since I just had someone block me over saying that not all transmascs are afab and that people who aren't afab still experience misogyny.

I just saw a post that genuinely claimed that transmascs have power over cis women, we haven't just lost the plot, we fucking disintegrated that shit. There is no plot anymore, it's gone forever