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you have a brain, you are capable of critical thinking, you can sift through the material and keep what is edifying for you and discard what isn’t

like, okay. i grew up REALLY STRICT christian. like. every piece of media i consumed underwent a fine-toothed comb by my parents to be sure there wasn’t anything “sinful” in it. I got into a tearful, screaming fight with my mother over whether I was allowed to watch a piece of educational children’s material on PBS because one of the characters said “damn” once.

(I’m still not sure they did. In retrospect, I think my purity-focused mother misheard something and, having her suspicions confirmed that you couldn’t trust any “secular” source not to be sinful, reacted accordingly.)

(Pay attention, that parenthetical was also relevant.)

Do you know what my teenage rebellion was? Listening to the oldies station in the car when I had my driver’s license and could go places on my own. That was my big fuck-you to my parents: listening to the Beatles and Simon & Garfunkel and the Fifth Dimension when they couldn’t tell me how I shouldn’t be listening to them because the creators of that music were drug-addled, free-loving atheists whose own disregard for God and religion might just infect my impressionable spirit. Like I was gonna listen to “Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds” and go do LSD and become an atheist. This was my teenage rebellion in the year 1999.

I’m 35 now. And all right so I became agnostic. But I didn’t become a drug addicted prostitute because I loved listening to psychedelic rock music as a teenager. (And you know what? Even if I had become a drug addicted prostitute, I’d still have worth as a human being, so dissect that one.) And it wasn’t even the psychedelic rock music that turned me agnostic: It was Christianity itself. But that’s another story altogether.

My point here is: Y’all are on here acting like my goddamn parents, “don’t watch this” and “don’t listen to that” because this character does XYZ problematic thing and this author said ABC ignorant thing two years ago at a con when they were put on the spot in an interview. If you watch this movie where a teenager falls in love with someone five years older than them, you’re going to become a pedophile! If you read this book by an author who once used an outdated term for someone in the trans community, then you’re a transphobe!

Y’all need to sit the fuck down and stop acting like nobody ever taught you to think for yourself, because I know damn well that you’re capable of critical thought and you don’t need your media chewed up and spit into your mouth like a baby bird. And I’m an adult and I sure the hell don’t, so stop telling me I’m going to choke because I’m consuming something complicated, complex, and not already pre-morally-dissected for me.

Be dizzy, said the heart and lungs and vessels between.

Before you do, check youtube for guides on how to put your prescription in to make sure someone else has figured it out (unless you enjoy that kind of puzzle).

The doctor has to give you your medical records and the recommended pressure should be in there. The doctor won’t care that you got the CPAP yourself, only that you’re using it.

There are also software packages out there to let you look at your own numbers. I’ve got one called SleepyHead, but I think it’s abandonwear. I used this to get my husband’s prescription off the sd card because he can’t afford to go to the sleep doctor anymore, and his sleep test was so long ago the doctor didn’t have it anymore.

If ppl need to know more, you can always ask me questions. I’m not an expert but I have learned a lot while trying to fix the old one and then set up my husband’s new machine.

All I can say is holy fuck

Can terfs ever sink lower, imagine having that little respect for someone because of your shitty beliefs you can't even use the correct pronouns when talking about their death

Imagine being such a piece of shit you weaponise someone feeling like suicide was the answer most likely because of harassment they faced from compete assholes like you as an excuse to attack trans Healthcare even more

I just... After seeing this countless how am I supposed to treat them as human? How am I supposed to be even remotely respectful or civil when this is how we're treated by them

They really are a hate group

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