call us Jay • they/them • 20 an f/o blog always feel free to send in asks or to interact! although we tend to have bouts of inactivity, sorry picrew for pfp: https://picrew.me/en/image_maker/1473879
Hello! Call us Jay! This is our F/O [fictional other] self shipping blog! Welcome!
main blog is @phantom-jay
We are bi and poly. we are enby, use they/them.
basically fictional character we'd love to be in relationships with!
dont mind sharing any!
Romantic F/O's
Jasper (Steven Universe) [Main f/o]
Brian Yu & Abdu & Riona (Monster Prom/Camp)
Butter Roll Cookie (Cookie Run Kingdom)
Raihan (Pokemon Sw/Sh)
Sidon (loz botw)
Platonic F/O's
Vicky Schmidt (Monster Prom)
Sawyer (Monster Camp)
Lapis Lazuli (Steven Universe)
Guzma (Pokemon Sun/Moon)
Mera Salamin (Epithet Erased)
Ramsey Murdoc (Epithet Erased)
Edgar (Brawl Stars)
Colette (Brawl Stars)
Familial F/O's
Gus (Brawl Stars) [Sibling]
Allister (Pokemon Sw/Sh) [Sibling]
Self Inserts
Onyx (Chalcedonic Lovers, gem)
Jaiden Umbra (Monprom Poly, shade)
Popcorn Cookie (Double Butter)
always feel free to send in asks!
note: for the romantic f/o's, if they're in the same bullet point it means its poly. if they are not (even if same source) separate relationships.
note: for platonic f/o's all available simultaneously and/or by source. Depends on mood frankly lol.
important tags:
"jaybea babbles": us just talking, not necessarily related to anything
"jaybea answers": us answering asks and such! Send some in!
"jaybea types": our writing! check it out! Mostly our little fun things, but we might write for others' f/o's.
"jaybea blogs": some miscellaneous posts!
"s/i references": picrews and descriptions of our self insert!
"f/o asks": ask games and the such! Always feel free to send asks, even if unprompted or from older games (although sending whole question would help)
"f/o imagines": imagine scenarios
each f/o will be tagged with their name, and additional tag which is "[f/o] x y/n" for specifically including y/n or self insert content opposed to just them.
Also! Always feel free to spam like/spam reblog/spam inbox. We love interaction and welcome all of it!
No hate. Just in general, no hating on us or anyone else.
No shame! We won't call anyone out for following or spam liking or anything, we don't mind! We also know that many f/o blogs might be sideblogs like ours! So feel free to send an @ with your blog on any response or ask!
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send an emoji, get back songs that fill the prompt. you can reply with multiple songs, or if the asker has a specific number in mind they can ask for that many (say, if they want you to narrow it down to the perfect one, or they want to hear your top 3 choices). also, i tried to make as many of these questions as i could work for all kinds of selfship, not just romantic.
remember to practice ask etiquette 💖
A song that...
❣️: Reminds you of your F/O
❇️: Reminds you of your S/I
💞: Reminds you of your relationship
💭: You like to daydream about the two of you to
🍳: You could imagine cooking with them to
🎥: Makes you think of a movie night with them
🌘: Feels like their lullaby to you
🌒: Feels like your lullaby to them
➿: You imagine mutual pining to
♥️: Describes your F/O
♦️: Describes your S/I
♠️: Describes your relationship
💒: You would play at your wedding
💌: Says what you wish you could tell them
💬: Is close to your story (if you have a backstory/canon for your relationship!)
🕔: Makes you think of the first time you met (in canon)
‼️: Reminds you of when you first found your F/O
🎟: You can imagine your first date to
🪐: Makes you think of a sleepover/the first time you slept in the same bed
♾: You imagine your future together to
BONUS!
🔊: Make a playlist between 2-8 songs long for your self ship
I'm lowkey surprised that I haven't come across any Date Everything fics where Reader is lowkey objectum, especially pre-glasses era.
Imagine loving on your objects, cooing out sweet words of affection and peppering them in kisses and having dates only to get the glasses and oh would you look at that, now they can smother you in kisses back.
Your f/o would be so proud of you.
For pushing through, for surviving and making it through your worst days. For getting through the boring, the tiring, the mundane, for doing the shit you don't feel like doing but you know you have to. For trying and showing up for yourself, for keeping on when it's difficult. For taking care of yourself, even if all you did was wake up and lay in bed. For resting, for doing things that make you happy.
For being you.
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remember that its okay to change. whether change means getting new f/os or dropping old ones, or changing how you selfship, trying new names or pronouns, making a new s/i or oc. its okay if youve changed, your f/os will still like you and want you and love you. you are still you, ultimately. its okay if your dynamic changes or shifts over time, or you just prefer something else now. change is a natural part of life and should be celebrated, whether you welcome it with joy or have a harder time adjusting. selfshipping is always for you, if you want it, and it should bring you more than it takes from you <3
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Yall this AAPI month, please try to support your fellow blasian selfshippers/mutuals...we work very hard on our ships and put ourselves out here in the community to be acknowledged and respected just as everyone else and just a little comment or note...ANYTHING to show you support or welcome our presence means a lot...
Plenty of us blasian selfshippers are talented writers, artists, and multi media skilled, and we love to share our love of our f/os here and with others.
Sending lots of hearts to everyone 🫶🏽🖤🖤🖤
I'm a lil worried to use community tags, but please feel welcome to reblog if you'd like ♡
hello! mimi here! i saw a lot of people talking about sometimes feeling lost on how to engage with another person's self ship. so, with the best knowledge i had on how i manage. i put together a very small and simple guide:
how to engage with another person's selfship 101
when someone's sharing lore about a ship, find one part of the lore and really drive into it to help them expand on it! if someone is like "oh my f/o and i met in this place by the sea and that's where we fell in love" you can latch onto that! asking them about the setting or the feelings for both of them for example could help. like "what was it like to be at the sea?" or "what makes the sea special for both of you?" could go a long way!
if someone is sharing non-lore topics, don't be afraid to say "your f/o loves you!" or "this is adorable, i love the relationship the you and your f/o have!" validation is more than okay. on top of that, you can ask them a question like "what's your favorite part of your f/o?" or "what dates do you and your f/o go on?" small things, small things!
as tempting as it can be. please, let the other person speak! dont just answer with one words and then go to talk about your stuff. for a lot of people, that is considered "rude" and it can hurt their feelings. its best that if you can engage, please speak from the heart.
if someone sends a fic and its longer than you expected, break it down! bit by bit, maybe you read 100 words for 5 minutes, take a break, then get back to it. give it a shot! you might end up liking their writing style more than you expected. and then you can tell them how you liked their writing style or really like how they written their dynamic with their f/o. you don't have to read it right away. but, the first step of learning someone's self ship is by trying.
prompt generators, ask games, random videos on youtube. these can all be helpful ways to build on questions you can ask others. imagine you watch a video on making a scrapbook and you remember someone else you talk to mentioning their f/o scrapbooks. you can use that as a way to go "hey, what type of scrapbooks would your f/o make?" as a way to open up the door and ask questions about the ship! (if nervous about this, always ask "can i ask questions about your ship. it never hurts to ask.)
avoid competition. i know this is obvious. but if you and someone else share an f/o. ask. talk to them. give them and yourself a chance to figure things out. if seeing them talk about an f/o makes you sad and jealous, don't try to one up them. remind yourself, "my f/o loves me for me. and i love them. this person is allowed to love the same character and i am allowed to experience jealousy too." allow your emotions to be processed so you don't end up acting impulsively.
again, as much as you want people to love your ship. so do others! if others are putting in the effort, so should you! it can be tiring, yes, but friendships are a two-way street. show you care by engaging with their ship as much as they engage with theirs. it can cause a lot of isolation and sadness when someone tries for someone who doesn't meet them halfway. that doesn't mean you have to always engage full energy 24/7 with someone's ship, but showing up and saying, "hey this reminded me of you!" can go a long way
in the end, the most important part is that it should come from wanting to engage. if you do not want to engage, you shouldn't have to! don't force yourself to care if you don't but understand that as well, that others will not be obligated to care either. its a very sad reality but its best to be respectful and honest to not just yourself but to others around you.
its not much and it doesn't cover every single part you should consider. but this is how i engage and try to do my best of being respectful and kind to others in the community. i hope this can be of use to other people.
If you’re doing that ask game how about 🎀 and 🌹 for butter roll cookie! Or anyone else you have on your mind : D [ @matts-self-soda-ships ]
🎀: What was your first date like?
Depends. Arguably our first date was him was recruitment dinner between the two of us. Gotta vet me for the job, I guess. First actual date was around a bonfire. Warm and cozy, pretty as him.. Ahem. Just had to make sure my munitions were far enough away. Didn't want to ruin such an enjoyable night.
🌹: Do you two like PDA?
He doesn't mind and is very probe to big hugs. Which are admittedly grounding and calming. But I prefer it to not go above something smaller, like hand holding, in public.. Hasn't stopped Doc from practically carrying me around, heh.
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