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Still a bloodbath, butā¦
SOMEONE TELL JAMIE THAT HE IS ON THE VAMPIRE LESTAT RADIO ON SPOTIFY. TWICE.
This is just like a general note:
If you happen to find a š¢š¦µš½ of the stage version of TFS, make sure itās from NYC.
There are videos floating around from both NYC and London - NYC is the current updated version and the one closest to what the proshot will be like. It is NOT CURRENTLY PUBLIC, but there is also a version that reflects the Netflix changes but that is much harder to get, so NYC period is good.
The changes arenāt all massive, but there are different slightly scenes, dialogue, effects, etc.
Basically: itās hard to tell apart from title alone, but look up cast members and compare them to who you see in the video. The NYC version is the one most accurate, but London can suffice if you canāt tell or find that one.

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Okay, so. I got two separate asks about (over) sexualizing Jamie. Iām going to gather my thoughts into one post.
I do think thereās a problem with over-sexualizing him in public, especially places where he can see it and probably be a bit weirded out. Itās all⦠a lot. People take it really far in uncomfortable ways, but this isnāt exclusive to his fandom.
People have gotten very comfortable talking about celebs in a highly sexualized way. This has been around for a long time, but social media definitely shines a new light on it. People enable and encourage one another and it makes them bolder.
And I think the disconnect between celeb and fan makes it feel āokayā because itās not someone you actually know being impacted. Itās easier to do when there is a wall and sense of detachment.
It does feel weird to see personal/non-character pics of him with RAW ME style comments. If people want to do that, thatās their prerogative. Itās simply not my style to publicly post those thoughts.
That being said, one of the asks was about smut/erotica about characters he has played which I feel is a different beast entirely.
Theyāre his characters, not him. He has also - quite literally - recorded audio porn. Because no matter how you spin it, Quinn is porn. It is marketed as porn. The whole appeal is it being porn.
So, like, I donāt think itās bad to sexualize characters, especially with an actor who literally took a job thatās designed to get people off.
He has done character work (not himself!) that involves sexual acts. He knows how audiences will react to that. Characters like Henry arenāt inherently sexual, but it comes with the territory.
Personally, I think thereās a divide between āsexualizing the personā and āsexualizing the characterā. Itās a very thin line, but it exists.
I know people wonāt agree with me, but thereās my thought process.
What do you think about Jamieās merchandise?
Itās not my style from what heās shown so far! It reminds me a lot of the area i grew up in⦠country af. Thatās not an insult. Itās just not my vibes. I do think the skateboard is SICK and would try to get it if I was a skateboarder.
But, more positively, I think the art he selected is absolutely gorgeous and Iād love a print of just that + the title to hang up or see it on other merch!
https://www.tumblr.com/elena-taber-snark/818788363990679552/apparently-across-the-pond-means-uk-and-thats?
Wow she's randomly insulting other users just because they don't agree with her "they broke up" conspiracy. There is zero proof they broke up. I would love Elena to finally go away but she's most likely still around.
We just donāt know!
Is there a likelihood they broke up? Absolutely. It would make sense. Could they be in some sort of middle ground state? Simply friends? Also possible!
Buuut we donāt know their lives, so to act holier than thou and ārightā kinda sends me lmao.
There is no proof. Only vibes and feelings.
I have two asks addressing the same topic, so I may just make a single post to cover all points lol

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when you end up shipping it by accident
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Umm thereās a difference between blogs like yours and another one that actively stalks Jamieās gfs and makes up lies about them. Donāt get me wrong. I donāt like Elena. I think snarking on her friends was incredibly fucked up and makes me look at her differently. But anon letās not sit here and act like that blog isnāt scary obsessed with Elenaās every move. Hell she even is still obsessed with Jess! And according to that blog, she acts certain that Elena and Jamie arenāt together anymore, so then why does she still care about what Elenaās doing??? Or Jess? Itās so much further than obsession at this point.
Like how do people not clock how weird that behavior is?
Monitoring every move and social media account (of hers, friends, AND family), making AI vids about her, making multiple subreddits to talk about her, looking at accounts that are ten years old, accounts on TikTok/insta/twitter/reddit/tumblr (even if theyāre not currently active), speculating her every move, assigning traits and qualities to her, outright hating her, and so on.
All to talk about the girlfriend(s) of a celebrity because theyāre jealous of her.
I am not on THAT LEVEL LMAO.
Jamie Campbell Bower, Charles Baudelaire & Thomas Cole: The Art of Longing
The artwork for Waiting For Your Love immediately made me think of Baudelaireās Invitation to the Voyage. I ended up writing a little essay about the connections between the song, Thomas Coleās The Voyage of Life: Youth, and one of my favourite poems:
Baudelaireās work has often reminded me of Jamie Campbell Bower. Perhaps it is the romanticism. Perhaps it is the darkness. Perhaps it is the way both artists seem fascinated by the distance between what we long for and what we are able to possess.
His collection Les Fleurs du Mal has been one of my favourite books for years. Its pages are filled with beauty and melancholy, longing and devotion, dreams and disillusionment. The poems inhabit that strange emotional space where love and suffering become inseparable, where beauty is made more precious by its fragility, and where desire is often more powerful than fulfilment.
The connection returned to me immediately when Jamie unveiled the artwork for the limited edition vinyl release of Waiting For Your Love.
The cover features Thomas Coleās The Voyage of Life: Youth, the second painting in the artistās celebrated four-part allegorical series tracing a travellerās journey along the River of Life. The image depicts a young voyager drifting through a radiant landscape toward a magnificent castle suspended in the clouds. Bathed in golden light, it is one of the most beautiful paintings of the nineteenth century.
And the moment I saw it, I thought of Baudelaire.
More specifically, I thought of his poem L'Invitation au voyage/Invitation to the Voyage.
Written in 1857, the poem imagines a distant paradise where āall is order and beauty, luxury, peace and pleasure.ā It is one of Baudelaireās most beloved works and, for me, one of the most haunting. The speaker invites his beloved to journey with him toward an ideal world where love, beauty and serenity exist in perfect harmony.
The destination remains deliberately vague. It is less a geographical location than an emotional one.
A dream.
A longing.
A vision of happiness hovering just beyond reach.
That same yearning permeates Coleās painting.
At first glance, The Voyage of Life: Youth appears triumphant. The young voyager stands confidently at the helm of his vessel, steering toward the dazzling castle that rises before him. Yet Coleās painting is not simply a celebration of youthful optimism. It is a warning.
The voyager believes he controls his destiny. He imagines that the castle represents the future awaiting him. What he does not realise is that the river has already begun to pull him away from his chosen course. The storms and suffering that await him in the later paintings are inevitable. The dream toward which he sails can never be possessed in the way he imagines.
And yet he continues toward it.
That tension between hope and reality sits at the heart of Waiting For Your Love.
The song opens with a question:
āDo you ever feel the motion?ā
It is a striking line when considered alongside Coleās painting. Motion defines The Voyage of Life. The traveller is carried forward whether he wishes to be or not. Time moves beneath him. Life moves beneath him. The river advances regardless of his intentions.
The songās imagery quickly turns toward water and light:
āHave you ever seen the sun
Setting fire across the ocean?ā
Again, the parallels are impossible to ignore.
Coleās landscape glows with golden radiance. Baudelaireās imagined paradise is illuminated by āsetting sunsā that adorn the world with āhyacinth and gold.ā Jamieās ocean burns beneath the evening light.
Across all three works, sunset becomes a symbol of transcendence. For a fleeting moment, reality resembles the dream.
What fascinates me most, however, is the way all three works are ultimately concerned with the same idea: an imagined destination.
For Cole, it is the castle suspended in the clouds.
For Baudelaire, it is a distant land where beauty, luxury and peace reign supreme.
For Jamie, it is forever.
āI canāt give up on forever,ā he sings.
The line feels like an echo reverberating across centuries.
The castle.
The paradise.
Forever.
Three different names for the same longing.
Each represents a future state in which desire is finally satisfied. Each exists somewhere beyond the horizon. Each exerts a magnetic pull on the person pursuing it.
Yet this is where Waiting For Your Love diverges from both Cole and Baudelaire in a fascinating way.
The voyager in Youth has not yet encountered hardship. He remains innocent. He still believes the castle itself will save him.
Baudelaireās speaker remains enthralled by the dream, constructing an ideal world where beauty and love conquer all.
Jamie speaks from a different place.
He already bears scars.
āAnd I canāt wish away the scars.ā
He already understands pain.
āAnd thereās no love if thereās no healing.ā
This is not the voice of a dreamer untouched by disappointment. It is the voice of someone who has already weathered the storm.
In many ways, Waiting For Your Love feels less like the beginning of Coleās journey than its aftermath.
The narrator has suffered. He has lost. He has healed. Yet somehow he still believes.
That is what makes the repeated refrain so moving:
āI am worthy, I am worth it.ā
For all its longing, this is not ultimately a song about dependence. The narrator is waiting, but his sense of self no longer hinges upon the arrival of the thing he desires. He acknowledges the ache. He acknowledges the scars. He acknowledges absence.
Yet he continues to look toward the light.
āThe best is yet to come.ā
For me, that is the thread that binds these three works together.
Not simply longing, but the refusal to surrender longing.
The refusal to abandon beauty.
The refusal to stop believing in something beyond the horizon.
Baudelaire dreams of a paradise where all is order and beauty.
Cole paints a voyager sailing toward a castle in the clouds.
Jamie sings of forever.
None of them can quite reach the thing they desire, yet each continues the journey regardless.
Maybe that is why the pairing of The Voyage of Life: Youth and Waiting For Your Love feels so resonant.
The painting captures the innocence of hope but the song captures the wisdom of hope.
One depicts a young man sailing toward a dream he has not yet questioned. The other gives voice to someone who has already endured disappointment and still refuses to give up on forever.
Together, they ask a question that has occupied artists for centuries:
How do we continue believing in beauty after life has taught us how fragile it can be?
For Baudelaire, the answer was poetry and for Thomas Cole, it was faith.
For Jamie Campbell Bower, it may be found in the act of perseverance and in allowing yourself to believe you are worthy.
The castle remains distant.
The paradise remains imagined.
The love remains just out of reach.
And still, the voyage continues.
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"Honestly, I think all of you bloggers can be overly dramatic. You definitely hate each other and all of you, save one that I am aware of, accuse each other of so much."
Who, anon?? Which blog that you're aware of?
Now I'm curious.
Iām curious as wellā¦.

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Ngl I kinda like your takes better than the other blog. The people there just seem so negative about Jamie in general like, I don't understand how people can say he's a bad partner if we don't really know him. Like if they're going just by what exs say that's not really a reliable source. I guess like him moving on quickly could be bad but it's like... I mean that happens people do that my brother does that and he treats all his girls great. He just gets crazy ones... like girl if you believed everything my exs said about me I'd be labeled undatable and toxic even though that's not the truth it's like.... I don't get it. Like they make it seem like he can't learn from dating toxic women and is just going to repeat the same patterns when like age really doesn't matter in when you realize a pattern is toxic and decide to change it... idk it's weird.
We donāt know him like that at all! People make assumptions based on relationship lengths and him dating quickly again. Combine this with looking at his Instagram follows/likesā¦
It leads to people thinking they know him and how he moves in relationships as well as his mental state and disorders he may or may not have. They pass these off as facts when we just donāt know.
And this isnāt me saying heās some innocent little angel who has done no wrong and never will.
But we canāt really say much based on social media. Itās a glimpse at who he is as a person, but lacks actual knowledge and insight.
Could he be a bad partner? Sure! Do we know this for CERTAIN? No. Only he the his partners know this. Only his friends/family know a diagnosis he may or may not have.
(Also a lot of what people use against him is from his active addiction state whether does not excuse behavior, but does explain it!)
People seem to WANT him to be a bad person and I donāt understand.
It wasn't necessarily about your post. It's just about all bloggers in general. I kind of enjoy the different takes everyone has on a subject, but not the infighting. That was all.
I agree with you about the topic of addiction and weight or EDs. I have a lot of experience with these topics and nobody should ever speculate on someone else's journey. Which it is theirs alone.
It just seems lately that there is a lot of discourse aimed at creators, I am not sure what has gotten tensions so high.
Iām going to call out other accounts for spreading misinformation, gossip, and lies yes.
Iām not the only one who can see perfectly through this person. Theyāve made a name for themselves and people are going to talk about them. If they donāt want people discussing them or their content, they shouldnāt be all over social media posting it.
People shouldnāt post controversial things if they donāt want feedback, positive or negative. Like none of this would exist without years of hate blogs existing.
Itās just that very few people post in response to them.
People are free to talk about me as well! If my content resonates with people who are also kinda tired of the gossip/hate/snark, Iām glad to be a different voice and opinion.