Ianto Jones. The man who can love monsters.

they should invent something that you can use to indicate you are turning or switching lanes in a vehicle

if men r just biologically “like that” it fully removes the blame from them, it places the burden of expecting better on women bc if men “can’t help it” itd be like getting mad at a dog for licking its ass, “well hes a man ! u cant expect him to treat others as people hes just a man!” its just another way of coddling them, if men cant be held accountable for hurting women then it becomes the fault of women for wanting better, denying a man his personhood just allows him to never have to do better …

I've been repeating delete thy blog wretched saboteur to myself for like 10 minutes

Y’all “critical thinking” does not equal “criticism”.

I am very tired of saying positive things about characters and getting told I need to do some critical thinking (so that I’ll see the characters are actually bad). No. That’s not how that works. I already did some critical thinking and came to the conclusions that these characters are wonderful. Criticism or straight up character bashing is not more enlightened and is not how critical thinking works. “Critical thinking” is not “thinking about all the bad or problematic aspects of something.” It’s looking objectively at evidence, looking at context, recognizing and examining personal biases and assumptions, considering what assumptions and biases are being used in a given argument by other people, etc. Sometimes this process brings up criticisms, yes, but sometimes it also leads to the conclusion that something is actually good despite it being made out to be bad.