Off The Bus From Stupidville

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TWO FACTOR AUTHORIZATION

Without fail, every time a woman is talking about how she does not want to have children and never wants to be pregnant and how medical professionals, romantic interests and family members keep trying to bulldoze her decision and keep expecting her to change her mind because motherhood is something that is expected of all women and it is abhorrent to think a woman could not desire it, a random mother spawns in the comments to be like “Well, actually, you never know! I didn’t want children and then I got pregnant and I realized I love being a mama and I have five little babies now! Could happen to you! 🥰”

people on here make ocs and they're mostly men and they ship characters and they're always men and they have favourite characters and they're always men but sometimes they say the men are like women not trans ones though because that would be guh-ross and harsh the vibe of the #fandomspace and they write fanfiction about men and talk about how complicated and #deeplywritten their male favs are and they'll watch movies and tv shows with mostly male casts in every way that matters and not question it because well what do you want them to do about it and they don't even care that that's what they're doing to them it's pure coincidence they always like the male characters better it's pure chance that women are only interesting as yaoi cheerleaders and actually when they write female characters as yaoi cheerleaders they're doing them a favour because they were just so poorly written in the source material it's the charitable thing to do men men men men men men men and if you say anything about it well you're being a killjoy you're being no fun you're being homophobic you're being a misandrist god what is it about women right what is it about women always trying to ruin our fun? why do they care so much? they're just women. who wants to think about women at all.

I wrote this in a comment somewhere, but I’ll say it here too: I don’t understand fandoms obsession with mlm ships compared to how uninterested many seem to be in wlw ships. In deltarune I still see countless artworks of Spamton and Tenna- two characters that only ever actually interact in-game in one ”secret” cutscene. Blue and yellow were introduced only this chapter but are still almost dominating the fanart that is being produced. And I like those ships, I think they’re fun and sweet right? But compare that adoration to how Suselle is being received. A romance between two girls that has been continually set up across 5 chapters and explicitly expressed by both parts - and people say it’s rushed, that it’s going to crash, that it’s boring??