Literally anything

Nonbinary just means not binary.

Nonbinary people can be both male and female, they can be genderless, they can be genderfluid, they can be half male and half genderless or half female and half genderless.

(Part 2) also, “brain sex” studies on transsexuals showing a neuro likeness to the opposite sex in them are correlational studies. They don’t mean that having a sex-atypical brain is definitely what causes incongruence/dysphoria, or that one MUST have a sex-atypical brain to be considered trans. You’re trans as long as you are attempting to physically and socially transition to the opposite sex. People with GI are just a type of transitioner who doesn’t transition to escape dysphoria.

These studies show that parts of the brain we recognize to be linked with body recognition are distorted as well as other parts being more like the opposite sex, which is how scientists draw those conclusions. If it were purely correlation, you could be sure other scientists would be pointing that out in the discussion surrounding those topics because people LOVE to debunk each other when it comes to research.

Your personal view on what makes someone trans is all well and good but it disqualifies a lot of people who otherwise fit the label, such as closeted people. Gender incongruence doesn’t mean anything, it’s too vague to be defined consistently or used as a parameter for research. 

There is a million better ways to show that pedophilia and the sexualization of little girls is bad. Why don’t hire adult actresses that look young? Why don’t make the movie without showing any of the takes where the camera is focused on these girls’ chests and pelvises?

Making a movie about the traumatizing experience of a little girl resorting to self sexualization to escape an hyper conservative family isn’t the issue, the issue is that by trying to convey this message the director potentially traumatized all these child actresses. It’s like wanting to make a movie about how murder is bad and going around shooting people to make the message go through.

You are tapping your foot. Someone asks you to stop. You do. You feel no ill effects aside from maybe disappointment at having to stop. You tap your foot often. This is a habit.

You are tapping your foot, whether you want to or not. Someone asks you to stop. You can’t. If you try to it feels like holding in a sneeze and the pressure builds up. It might come out in a different, even less controllable action. This is a tic.

You are tapping your foot. Someone asks you to stop. You do, but immediately feel worse physically or emotionally. It was a way for you to express yourself and how you feel. You may feel pressure. This is a stim.

You are tapping your foot. Someone asks you to stop. You can’t, because if you do something bad will happen, possibly some specific bad thing. You know it’s irrational, but not doing it gives you anxiety. This is a compulsion.

I have severe bottom dysphoria, thank you. Wanna know how bad? Female dogs make me dysphoric on account of how dogs often laze about and constantly lick themselves which is like...stupidly stupid, isn’t it? So yeah, maybe don’t speak for all of us. 

And I’m sorry but getting hurt or upset over someone saying the results of phalloplasty aren’t an actual penis is akin to getting upset at someone for saying we’re still biologically our birth sex, especially when the person stating as such is trans. Trying to say it’s akin to lying about how we’ll never pass if we reach the magical age of 18 before we transition is ridiculous and a little messed up.

Anyway, I’m 100% allowed to state my opinion on a surgical procedure, especially one that pertains to me, and factually has a long way to go. There are huge improvements that need to be made or just better options all around. I admit if I ever did say “shitty” and “terrible” (I legitimately can’t remember because I have a bad memory) then those specific words were probably a bit insensitive, but “not actually a penis” and “a very obviously fake penis” are not. 

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with me saying either of those things considering I’ve seen the results of phalloplasty many times. In fact, it’s important to note that phalloplasty will not give you a particularly realistic penis or a fully functional one. Keeping that hush-hush because you believe it doesn’t do anything “positive” for trans men, especially those who intend to have bottom surgery, is in fact harmful because it could lead to a false idea of what they’re getting into and could end up with hopes dashed and surgery regret.

This film features real, prepubescent girls, being sexual and promiscuous and even dancing for two older men, and then dancing like sluts on stage, touching themselves. There are constant, drawn out close ups of their bodies, their crotches, their bottoms, during those scenes.

I only know this because I looked at the reasons for why a film featuring prepubescent children is rated MA-- you know, for mature audiences? I've also watched countless videos calling it out for what it is. Because I don't think I could fucking stomach, actually watching something like that.

Real children. Little girls. This isn't a social commentary or basically "criticizing" the sexualization of little girls-- NOPE, that's a lie. The movie is literally about a prepubescent little girl and other little girls "exploring their feminine sexuality" and "pushing back against tradition family values." I guess it's wrong that parents or a society don't want children dancing like a stripper and touching themselves in front of a crowd of grownups, and taking photos of their private parts to post? I guess it's wrong we don't like seeing the exploitation of REAL children????

CHILDREN SHOULD NOT BE CONCERNED WITH BEING SEXUAL THEY DO NOT NEED TO BE EXPLORING ANYTHING SEXUAL. THIS IS LITERAL GROOMING COMING STRAIGHT FROM MAINSTREAM MEDIA. THIS IS HOW YOU GET LITTLE KIDS BELIEVING IT'S OKAY TO BE 'SEXUAL' FOR ADULTS, THAT IT'S NORMAL.

Yeah, exactly. Trust me, I know gender dysphoria is awful and it causes so much suffering and I get the temptation to commit suicide too as I experience it constantly, but it’s still an active choice. 

and requested to go by male pronouns. A year later, she's on blockers, and not long after that she's taking T. About three years down the road she looks at herself in the mirror, depressed and confused, and realised that her problem wasn't gender dysphoria, but rather body dysmorphia. Only now she has dysphoria because her voice is too low, she's still growing facial hair, and she's got an adam's apple. Poor thing.

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yeah the fact that there isn't a more thorough screening before having kids start life changing hormones is pretty fucking gross. I've been saying for a while now we are about to see a huge population of detransitioners and it's already begun, loads of articles are coming out basically blowing the cover on the shitty politics that are actively harming trans and cis people alike.

Like this isn't a conspiracy against tucutes anymore. Autistic females in the UK are being barred from transitioning basically because of this, they have doubled the necessary wait times and added more hoops to jump through because so many people just went straight for full transition instead of getting therapy first.