SCREAMING CRYING

Many bi women feel insecure in their queerness, fear that they're not queer enough because they are in a relationship with a man or generally date men.

I'm sorry you don't feel queer enough, but it's not my role as a lesbian to validate your queerness. You are valid, you are still queer, but you seem to prioritize and center your validity over the very tangible danger others face in the LGBT community for being visibly queer and therefore at risk of homophobic and transphobic violence and systemic life threatening discrimination.

You keep saying you are afraid "the big bad queer community" will exclude you for being with a man, and it's a euphemism because really you mean "lesbians" in particular. Most LGBT people are bi actually. You outnumber lesbians, we couldn't "exclude" you if we tried----and we're Not trying. We simply do not relate to your experience. Why insist on demanding validation from lesbians?

Queer singer Fletcher who built her whole career singing about loving women to an audience of lesbians and bisexuals just released a song called "Boy" about how she fell in love with a boy and the new album will be called "Would you still love me if you really knew me?".

In pride month. Presenting it as a brave liberating moment against the big bad lesbians. In June, the month dedicated to our fight against systemic homophobia and transphobia---which, newsflash, bi people are ALSO subjected to. How is that respectful to the community in any way? How insensitive and dense and desperate for publicity do you have to be?

This scene has always killed me because this bitch just fully killed a man and scared Silco shitless. And she's just.....

Like... she's thinking about what's she wants for lunch.