🌙🌅🎵📃(Selfshipping Blog)

If you or any of your f/o's like plants, imagine building a garden with them!

How rewarding it would be digging through the earth, planting seeds and sproutlings, feeding them and watering them every day. Soon, it starts to feel like these plants are your children with how much care you give them.

What do you decide to grow? Flowers? Trees? Herbs? Veggies? Fruits? A mix of all of the above? Regardless, with your combined effort and care, your garden grows to become a colorful testament of your love!

Imagine your romantic f/o sitting on your lap casually, just talking their head off about the latest show they watched or about their day. Maybe they even lay their head on your shoulder or bury their face in your neck.

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Gentle reminder that if someone ever says your f/o doesn't like you because of your gender/disability/sexual orientation/race, it's because deep down they are jealous and want you to step away.

Don't give them that gratification. Be strong. Your f/o will always love and support you. To them, you're the most amazing person to ever walk on earth ♡

Imagine your f/o helping you get through a procedure/anything medical…

Always offering to do everything; to take you (even carry you) there, to stay in the room, to bring you water or snacks, to help distract you… literally anything you need, they’ve got you!!

Holding your hand when it gets tough, sneaking kisses on your knuckles and letting you squeeze as tight as you need <3

And of course the aftercare, absolutely pampering you until you feel better both emotionally and physically!!

'Are you thinking too much, love? Oh, I knew you would be. Come here...'

Your f/o guides you into their arms, keeping you close as they lean in to kiss you. Their lips are slow and caring. This kiss isn't rushed. It isn't forceful or rough. They hold you close to them and their kiss tastes like love in a way that sends butterflies through your stomach. It's like your f/o is pouring all of their love, dedication, and affection into one long and tender kiss.

Because they are.

As they pull away and leave you breathless, they can't help the chuckle that leaves them. Nor the way they give you one last squeeze before pulling away.

"You don't have to think so hard with me around. Whenever those bad thoughts happen, I'll kiss them out of you always, alright?"

They catch on to your fidgeting and what may be causing it! They'll also do what they can to keep an eye out for anything that may end up hurting you, like skin picking, biting or chewing. They'll hold your hands or distract you with a kiss instead!

If it stems from something negative, they'll offer to hold your hand and give you some reassurance, or get you somewhere calmer to catch your breath. If it's coming from something positive, they'll smile to themselves and comment about how lovely you look/sound!

They comment on how your voice sounds once you question them on how they knew you weren't feeling well. They know your tone so well that they can tell whenever you begin to feel upset, which gets them in caregiver mode almost immediately

If there's anything they can do to help you feel better, don't fret to ask! They're more than happy to provide you with anything that may make you feel a bit more relieved. From just being held while you cry, to getting some comforting snacks and some water; they'll do their best to help you out

They remind you that they love you when they notice a certain look in your eye. Everyone feels insecure every now and then, but they'll make sure you know that you have nothing to worry about. They'll never stop loving you and every little thing about you!

Your body, your voice, your soul, your personality. Every last piece of everything that makes you who you are, it's all perfection to them! They aren't afraid to shake off your negative thoughts either, by the end of it you'll really feel like the gorgeous and lovely person that you are!

They get you gifts whenever they remember you telling them about something you were interested in! They may not share all of your hobbies or interests, but they still pay attention to what you have to say about it all!

From stuff you collect, to accessories, to gear for your hobby/interest, to something you've had your eye on for a while. They'll make sure you feel seen, heard, appreciated and remembered! And of course, they'll ask to see how you'll put it to use as well

Your f/o cares about ALL of you. Every quirk, regardless of how you may view it, is genuinely perfect to them, just like the rest of you! You have no reason to be ashamed of yourself, especially not when they're around!

Imagine approaching your romantic f/o, gently touching their arm with one hand and cupping their face with another... while they stare in adoration.

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Before you can get your fun started, you both make sure to help each other out with applying sunscreen and getting your belongings set up somewhere nice! Your f/o's hands are gentle but firm on your skin, they make sure not to miss any spots, so you're all nice and safe!

If you'd like to take things slow, you can both sit in the shade for a bit and talk about anything that comes to mind. Their voice is as soothing as the crashing waves ahead, relaxing like the sound of the wind rustling the palm trees' leaves, and their smile is as warm as the sun!

If you decide to go in the water, your f/o will hold onto your hand so you don't end up drifting apart, or to make sure you can balance yourself if the waves feel too strong! They'll also playfully splash you or just hold you while you both cool off in the ocean!

If you decide to take a stroll along the beach together, your f/o will pick up some seashells that catch their eye, either to give them to you afterwards or to build something cute on the sand for you; like your initials or a heart!

You both take some time to enjoy a nice meal after a while, drinking something nice and cold while you get to watch other folks do their thing, as well as chitchat in between bites! Maybe you pick a cheap little food stand to eat at, maybe a fancier restaurant or maybe you've already packed yourselves something homey and comforting!

Getting to watch the sun set over the horizon is one of the most breathtaking sights you and your f/o have ever seen. Other than each other, of course! They'll always cherish each second that they get to spend with you, especially during moments like these!

"Oh no, another one?" your f/o says as they pull you into their arms. You’re shaking from the nightmare you just woke up from. You nod and tuck your face into their chest, listening to their heartbeat. That always seems to soothe you. They stroke your back, holding you tight as they whisper that you’re safe and always will be with them by your side. You’re glad you don’t have to endure the nightmares alone anymore.

your f/o taking care of you when you're sick >>>>>

giving you cough syrup, getting you anything you need, trying every home remedy to make you feel better.

"let's get you some tea. how about a popsicle to make your throat feel better? do you need a blanket? a hot compress?"

Your F/O(s) loves your vocal stims. All the time, everywhere, no matter what.

Repeating what they said? They love it. It lets them know that you were really listening to them. Making animal sounds? Random noises? Random words? They love it! When they hear it, they're reminded of you, how much you love them, and it lets them know you're nearby. Singing? They love your singing voice, if they could hear you sing for hours, they would.

They love every single stim, every sound, all of it, all the time. If anyone tries to make you feel bad about your vocal stimming, they'll throw hands. They love you, including your stims, even if you think they're annoying or frustrating. Your F/O(s) don't see it that way at all.

Your F/O(s) adores you. Not in spite of your stims, but because of them - because they're part of you. Your F/O(s) wouldn't change them, or you, for the world.