love when a woman says "i am not comfortable with a man being here / doing this" the response is always "oh this man is good dw." okay did i say i am not comfortable with a bad man doing it or did i say i'm not comfortable with a man doing it? way to just outright tell me you think my boundary is stupid and you're not going to respect it.

it’s so sad how a lot of butchfemme content is very much centered only on pleasuring the femme (being said by me — the femme). I’m not talking about the stone identities — that’s a whole different topic, and I respect that. but I’d like to hear a butch moan. I’d like to see a butch having an orgasm. that’s the hottest fucking thing in a world. butches are the hottest most sexiest people ever. patriarchal culture wants us to believe that only „beautiful feminine shaved everywhere lady“ having an orgasm is sexy BUT I‘VE SEEN BUTCHES HAVING ORGASMS OH GOD. I KNOW THE TRUTH. drooling only because of the thought.

its amazing how johns have rendered themselves practically invisible in the discussion of sex workers. like every justification for a sex work industry has everything to do with whether women have the right to make a living and not whether men have the right to purchase sex. the women are the actors here but men are just the force of nature. this applies to a lot of dynamics but it feels so evil when it comes to the sex industry.