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I had this guy from Jaimaca wish my mom a happy birthday and she absolutely loved it when this random guy said her name 

Check him out here

This one is also funny! (x)

I Will Wish A Happy Birthday From Vladimir Putin

I Will Have Jesus Deliver A Birthday Or Anniversary Greeting In HD

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“ Doe: A woman (or an nb person with a connection to womanhood) who subverts (undermines the power of) femininity in the context of a woman’s role in a heteronormative society. IE. “You have to be attractive to men to have worth.” It’s about escaping the chain of being womanly so that a man can decide you are worthful, and instead performing femininity to find your own self worth, in addition to wanting to be attractive to women (which is taboo in a heteronormative society) as well as men. It’s about taking our femininity out of the context of “I’m only worth something if a man decides so.” (which some does still struggle with! It’s been ingrained in society its okay it takes time to unlearn that.)

Tomcat: A woman (or an nb person with a connection to womanhood) who removes themselves from the context of femininity by embracing androgyny (in whatever form that may take). This is a lot harder to conceptualize and put into words, fluid or otherwise non-static or non traditionally male/female appearance and behavior is a huge part of the bi experience, and has a large correlation to our attraction to multiple genders. Most Tomcats (That I have met, and I’m not a Tomcat so take this with a grain of salt) are trying to completely remove themselves from the masculine/feminine dynamic altogether, and instead be their own thing. A lot of the time when bi women “be their own thing” it’s more times than not, a direct opposition to what society demands a woman to be. There’s no room for fluidity or grey lines with appearance and behavior. If you aren’t acting womanly then you’re doing it wrong. That is what society says. Tomcats (in my experience) for a lack of better words say “screw that. i’m not going to be feminine or masculine. I don’t want to fit into one of those dynamics.”

Stag: A woman (or an nb person with a connection to womanhood) who rejects femininity. This can include presentation (and is often a big indicator) but, as with doe and tomcat, it is not a necessary component. A lot of the flagging happens in your day to day actions and dynamics with other women, men, and nb people, as well as your internal thoughts and feelings. Being a stag is about completely liberating yourself from feminity by replacing it with chivalry and masculinity instead. It goes back to “If you aren’t womanly you aren’t worth anything.” Stags reject that by performing masculinity instead. There’s a lot of power in doing typically “manly” things as a women (and oftentimes being better at it than men) and creates a different dynamic with other women and even men as well that straight people (even trans straight people, though to a slightly lesser extent) don’t experience.

some straight ppl who wanna act like they’re good and not homophobic in this regard will say that touching between gay/bi women and their straight friends is alright, but only “as long as you’re 200% sure you’re not attracted to them” even though that logic is also super harsh?? tons of straight girls have friendships with their unrequited guy crushes and are still close enough to hug or jokingly touch or be affectionate and they aren’t deemed predatory for it. I remember having a crush on a straight friend in middle school and I knew it was unrequited so I never tried to act on it, I just continued to interact with her in normal friendship ways (which for us included things like linking arms and hair braiding, but since I knew she didn’t know about or return my feelings I never sexualized it in my head at all), and when I confided in my other (also straight) friend about my feelings for this person she yelled at me and said that if I knew she was straight I should never touch her again because that’s creepy and invasive. the next time the girl I liked asked me to braid her hair or wanted to link arms with me I teared up and pushed her away. 

you’re stubborn, jeans stolen, night rowing

THINK YOU’RE BABY?

hey ah you, and maisy! but jambre, so claybe it’s ha-right BAAAY but jambre, so claybe

hey ah you, and maisy! but jambre, so claybe annnd other buoy, chaaaay! but jambre, so claybe

took you’re t'call, no t'k fall gave me n'mall, do you’re away beg n b'steal, at first it’s real didn'b feel, but it’s away

you’re stubborn, jeans stolen, night rowing

THINK YOU’RE BABY?

hey ah you, and maisy! but jambre, so claybe it’s ha-right BAAAY but jambre, so claybe

hey ah you, and maisy! but jambre, so claybe annnd other buoy, chaaaay! but jambre, so claybe

boy you came my life missed you sad, missed you sad missed you so!

boy you came my life missed you sad, missed you mad missed you so! (sad)

it’s hark right BAAAY but jambre, so claybe!

hey ah you, and maisy! but jambre, so claybe annnd other buoy, chaaaay! but jambre, so claybe

boy you came my life missed you sad, missed you sad missed you so!

I have been thinking about this ask a bunch,  and every time i think i have a good answer, i justify a completely different set of houses/seasons. I’ve also come to the conclusion that different hemispheres will associate different things with different seasons. For my little Australian arse they go as such:

Ravenclaw is Winter - so cold the only responsible thing to do is curl up and read. thick knit jumpers, lots of tea, running through rain drops so big and relentless you’re soaked within meters. prioritising things you MUST KEEP DRY over your own health and well being. sitting in the bath for hours on end because the other option is to risk your toes to frost bite

Slytherin is Spring - resilient and ever changing. The most beautiful summer days the snap to thunder storms in the blink of an eye. The light pattern of rain against new green buds as the still shining sun refracts though the drops. A reserved sun and sun that lures us out to bask. Spring encompasses ‘life finds a way’ in a way no other season does. Especially in Australia after scorching summers and harsh winters the new sprouts bring a slow exhale in preparation for the cycle to begin again.

Gryffindor is Summer - Firey and dangerous. The scorching heat and dry winds. Ever longed for until it arrives. Loud and brash. Wildly social. The long warm nights spent on a balcony. Laughing, talking, the soft hum of insects kept at bay by the soft flicker of citronella candels. Long held secrets shared in the warm darkness. Adventures. Unbreakable bonds formed and strengthened. Running wild and free. Surging tides and fast flowing rivers.

please compare the lyrics of same love by macklemore and you need to calm down by taylor swift and then ask again why so many people are upset about the latter

compare macklemore trying (albeit a bit clumsily at times) to put himself in the shoes of gay people in order to draw attention to how lgbt people are treated…

…to taylor swift comparing mean tweets about her and people calling her a snake to homophobia

compare macklemore describing institutional oppression and specifically about how entities like the church treat lgbt people…

…to the only two lines in you need to calm down that explicitly mention gay people being a pun on glaad and “cause shade never made anybody less gay”

compare macklemore’s message of same love being that the fact that he isnt gay is irrelevant to his support of gay people, because love is the same, emphasized by the fact that he has a lesbian (mary lambert) sing about her love towards a woman in the chorus…

…to taylor swift using the pronoun “we” like she is in the same crowd as lgbt people right after invalidating and downplaying the systematic oppression and subjugation we face by putting it on the same level as internet hate she receives

i’m mad because “you need to calm down” is shallow. its flimsy allyship. i will not support her for just for “trying” when it seems like she hardly tried at all.

straight allies can do better. straight allies HAVE done better. “same love” was released SEVEN YEARS AGO. 

SEVEN YEARS AGO macklemore used his status as one of the hottest names in music at the time, from massive hits like thrift shop and can’t hold us, to put a song on the RADIO that featured a lesbian explicitly singing about loving women and included the lines “not crying on sundays” and “a world so hateful some would rather die than be who they are” and “no freedom til we’re equal damn right i support it” and a bunch of others that were poetic and meaningful and ACTUALLY ABOUT HOMOPHOBIA

finger guns

thumbs up

peace signs

salutes

My femme wife: [who has also taken 6 hours] Okay babe I love you I’m ready and your highlight is poppin severely but you need to blend that contour in a little bit