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hello people viewing the 'MOGAI community' and 'LIOM community' tags. stop putting these tags on your coining posts. these tags were *specifically* made to be for everything except coining. by putting these tags on coining posts you are defeating the point and making them useless as tags
I would like to preface this with I struggle putting my thoughts into words and I deeply apologize if anything comes off wrong, it is not my intention in the slightest.
I think there needs to be a discussion, or at least rather a mass reflection in the LIOMOQAI communities about nuance, or the lack there of. I will be the first to admit that I am guilty of this as well, we all are. Black and white thinking is common amongst all beings, but especially those with neurodivergencies.
Long post ahead
On its own, black and white thinking is not inherently "bad" or "wrong", its a common trait amongst many disorders — and equating symptoms of disorders as "wrong" is harmful in itself — however it often leads to (unintentional) harm of individuals, groups, etc. When you approach a matter with a lack of nuance (black and white thinking) it leads to a shallower understanding. There are very few — arguably if any — issues, concerns, discussions, etc, that are totally black and white in nature; majority of issues in society are very grey (nuanced)
I won't name anything in particular as I believe that is something you should work on to recognize, but its something I unfortunately see a lot of. It's no one's fault, in todays society we are encouraged to pick a "side" and form opinions even if we have little education on the situation at hand. We are rushed into forming an opinion as quickly as possible for the convenience of others, we are pressured into certain opinions through peer pressure, unfair claims, name calling, targeted harassment, and much more. It leads to opinions formed through fear rather than actual understanding.
Often times good faith discussions are shut down because it requires a nuanced approach, which is a pattern used in many forms of oppression to curb resistance. Conversations held in good faith about nuanced topics are some of the most important things we can do, but they're rare to see due to push back against them.
There's much more to be said on this matter, but I encourage you all to reflect on this yourselves and expand on this post. This is not an issue that's fixed in a day, a week, or even a month — its something the community needs to put an active effort towards over time. When seeing discourse and similar discussions I encourage you to take a step back, think, and perhaps do some research on your own before forming an opinion. You do not need to quickly form opinions on anything, and the expectation to do so will only harm us further.
Thank you for reading if you made it this far, and I hope this will spark some change. Do not take this as an attack, as it is not meant to be. I, too, struggle with this and I hope I will also grow alongside you all.
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I feel like there's some kind of dissonance happening in mogaiblr between wanting a community vs wanting everything to stay hyper self-indulgent
To elaborate:
I see ppl say they wish there was more of a culture surrounding microlabels, that they could get as well known as the most 'common' labels, wanting art and music to be made for them, etc etc. And I agree, I think it'd be cool to see that kind of stuff
At the same time though, I see the sentiment of people wanting the opposite? Like being gatekeepy with all of their terms to the point where anyone else identifying with them seems discouraged.
This doesn't apply to labels that are exclusive to specific cultures, I mean in a general sense. This mindset seems kind of antithetical to the whole community thing
But I understand that not everyone necessarily joins mogaiblr for the sense of 'community.' Everyone has their reasons, I'm not gonna criticize someone for only doing this for themselves. (I also exclusively coin self indulgently unless I'm making a term for a friend) The nature of label coining is personal after all, so some people just want it to stay personal. Even so, we're still on a public site. With other people. Due to the nature of it there is no way we're gonna be able to perfectly control what everyone else does with our terms.
I could make a comparison to artists with their art but even then I don't think it's really the same thing. When you make a label, all you're really doing is putting a name (sometimes a flag) to a pre-existing experience. You don't necessarily.. own it. You could hold credit over the flag design but I think it's odd to get upset over someone else claiming words that really anyone could put together. (Even with the flag aspect, I feel like that could start steering into the 'stealing art styles' stuff I see in the art community. which makes no sense)
I just think being this cagey(? not sure how else to word it) about it is going to lead to others not wanting to use labels or even discuss them out of fear of being criticized for it. Plus I've noticed ppl on here get aggressive or defensive about stuff like, real quick. I'm not 'defending' recoining but I can't say I would blame someone for not wanting to be directly associated with a term made by someone that seems super hostile. (And I'm aware that a flag/term isn't an extension of the coiners beliefs, but still, some people would just rather not deal with the potential stress)
that's just how I see it though. I haven't been on tumblr for that long, so I don't know the 'culture' or whatever that surrounds this site. I don't really tend to post on social media that much either, my activity is mainly on discord i'd say
if anyone has any disagreements on this i'm free to discussing it
i’ve seen a lot of people within mogai, alterhuman, and similar communities be very casual with their usage of the word “mutt” and i understand this is likely due to ignorance on the fact that it is in fact a racial slur.
how is it a slur? when used to refer specifically to humans or those in human bodies, it is used derogatorily specifically towards mixed race individuals. while yes it refers to a dog or any animal that is mixed breed i’m sure you can understand why it is offensive and a slur when used towards humans. it is dehumanizing and degrading mixed people, calling us animals.
i do not care if you are alterhuman or other kin or otherwise don’t identify as a human, including physically, i kindly ask you to please stop referring to yourself as a mutt; including names, pronouns, titles, what have you. unless you are a mixed race individual you cannot and should not be attempting to reclaim it or use it to refer to yourself.
i really wish this causal racism and normalization of a racial slur wasn’t so widespread and prevalent in these communities, that people were more knowledgeable on the fact it is a slur. please educate yourselves more, i understand not everyone may know it is a slur but upon learning so please do your own research and stop using it unless your mixed race- and even then understand other individuals may not be comfortable calling you a mutt.
tldr: mutt is a racial slur against mixed race individuals. unless you are bodily mixed race do not use it as names, pronouns, titles, etc etc any way to describe yourself. it is not for alter humans/non human individuals as a whole to reclaim, only to those bodily mixed race. please educate yourselves.
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well you can get one. drawn by me. and you just have to pay whatever you want!! whatever amount you desire!!! Right here!!! in my kofi
ummm just send me a screenie that you sent and send me the flag and I’ll make it for you yauy. it’s at £1/$1 idk minimum but I would do 2 critters probs for that idk im not really fussy i just need motivation. anyway yah idk if theres gonna be any interest for this but uhhh yauyh
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