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Trigger warnings for discussion of the following: transandrophobia, terfism, racism, and bigotry under the cut.

Note: I, Calypso, have been out as a trans guy for 8+ years and have been the victim of transandrophobic aggression, including hate crimes and IRL longterm harassment. do not come onto this post and argue with me about the usage of 'transandrophobia'.

If sentences seem jumbled, this is because I struggle a lot with stringing together sentences that make sense or are grammatically correct. I apologize if parts of this are difficult to read due to this. Tagging @radiomogai for reach.

fading kitten syndrome ♡

a term for those who experienced trauma early on in life and therefore never got to experience normalcy

requested by @crazykillersal

Are you maverique? outherine? aporagender? genderless? Do you want to see flags and conversations about more alignments than just female/male/nonbinary? Well you're in the right place!

I'm Scylla/Cherry and this is a blog aimed for everyone outside the female/male/nonbinary alignments! For example, if you want an outherine xenogender or a themed ilyagender flag? I'm the blog for you!

Tagging for a promo: @rwuffles, @daybreakthing, @sodaqai, @neopronouns, @empathydrowned, @angelomour!

Current to-do list!

Deer✂

Plain text: Deer scissors

Identifying as a deer or connecting to deers in an intimidating, scary and sharp way

[x] scissors made by angelomour

Tagging: @angelomour @radiomogai @symblabel-terms @obscurian @accomplurishment-archive @arobotsguidetomogai

HABiT/EVAN SNPTS

sys names ⠀⠀⠀﹕𓏲 ⠀⠀⠀chainsaw beats rock, 1990, mankinds bad habit, dead heart, gut me, seven trials of habit, habbit rabbits, the marked ones, god cannot hide, adapted. evolved. unstoppable, suicidal habits, death row

names ⠀⠀⠀﹕𓏲 ⠀⠀⠀vinny, myers, habit, deyth, bloodshed, headshot, casket, jack, billy, lucifer, eve, albie, vlad, loomis, goliath, trial, slaughter, slasher, undead, cadaver, vicsera, gorie, michael

prns ⠀⠀⠀﹕𓏲 ⠀⠀⠀hab/it, thing/things, de/mon, slau/ghter, gore/gores, slash/slasher, rab/bit, rab/id, blood/bloods, bone/bones, chain/saw, gut/guts, sku/skull, dead/deads, it/its, that/thats, ??t/??ts, rip/ripper

titles ⠀⠀⠀﹕𓏲 ⠀⠀⠀humanity's bad habit, x who is parasitic, x who lives in a host, [name] the ripper, thehabit, [name]habit, fairmount [name], x the demon, [name]'s rabbit habit, [names]'s 7 trials, x who is loathsome, [mr/ms/mx] H, regards, [name]

Why do people in those communities insist using Japanese names are perfectly fine when 9/10 times they just use it because of anime/manga or trends. Not even bothering to pronounce it right or use the proper spelling like removing ō's ū's etc for convenience. So many times I see an anime or asian game blow up then suddenly a ton of non asians are using the names. When the next thing blows up they use new names or use both. They put our language in typing quirks, they put our language in fonts, they make fun of our language by shouting phrases they don't even know the meaning of.

That's not even mentioning how many non asians fetishize us. Don't see us as human. I'm mixed, I have 2 asian backgrounds and a native american background but my japanese one is the focus of this. I've had so many people go "you must look so pretty/hot" the moment they learn I'm japanese. I've had people start saying random japanese words or anime references at me as if I'm just an anime boy to gock at. God forbid a japanese person happens to share a name with a character that gets popular cause that's all they hear. "Omg like from that anime/game!! You must be a huge fan! You're like anime irl!!" Even if the person hasn't even seen the media. I've been called irl yaoi and yuri, I've been called irl futanari (Japanese word for the intersex slur) by both strangers and FELLOW mogaiblr and editblr people. I've had people refuse to use the kanji versions of my names cause they're too lazy to ask how to say it. I've had people get mad when telling them they aren't pronouncing a name right. Especially when it's a name they're using. They don't even bother to say it right. I've had people become my friend just to ask me to "gift" them asian names both irl and in the communities.

It's so obvious the communities just see us as an accessory. Especially when it's mainly the "pretty pale" asian cultures being used. I rarely see people doing this with cultures where people aren't seen as pale. Why? Are you scared to touch people with darker skin tones? Only the pastel soft ones fit what you want? Is a name from those other places dirty or not pretty enough for you? Also this isn't to say people don't steal from those cultures too. They do and it's an issue but the people who take from Japanese culture often ignore the others as if it's the plague.

I also feel the need to point out that there ARE contexts in my culture where non asians take on asian names. That's when they move to the country and are actually participating in the culture + learning the language to use there. Not just using as a pretty aesthetic. But most people in these communities aren't doing that. So.

- A term for when one's identity as [x] is affected by being Thai.

🌸 [x]🇯🇲 / [x]JM. 🌸

- A term for when one's identity as [x] is affected by being Jamaican.

🌸 [x]🇲🇳 / [x]MN. 🌸

- A term for when one's identity as [x] is affected by being Mongolian.