if you are trans don't scroll this blog:

I've been wanting to unpack this particular terf argument for a while but I'm not even sure what I wrote that you could be responding to here. yes it's bioessentialist to see trans women as our assigned sex before what we actually are, but that fact alone does not obligate you to sleep with anyone

it would be fatphobic to announce that you don't want to sleep with fat women, and someone simply calling that out alone would not constitute pressuring you to sleep with anyone you didn't want to

we see this happening with asian women in particular, not only in being fetishized but in how they have been seen as desirable. thus, more white american men are now attracted to Asian women to the point where they stop noticing. for most of these men this is just how the culture is shifting, and if you aren't paying attention this will be impossible to avoid.

now, what this cishet american man does in the privacy of his bedroom is none of our business, and while we can make educated guesses as to who he finds attractive and what his kinks might be, frankly, if it never leaves the bedroom none of us should give a shit.

you are a black woman. this man enters your DMs, unprompted. "I'm just not attracted to black women," he says, like it's your fault, "and I think it's wrong for you to try and force me to be attracted to them. Is it so wrong that I would rather fuck an asian woman than you?"

this is a statement that he could have kept in his head harmlessly. this is a statement he has likely repeated to himself before, and done so constantly in moments of self-reflection. however, it has now become an outside thought. he has MADE it your business to know that he is NOT sexually aroused by you, and it is because of your race. If you were a different race, namely asian, he would be sexually aroused by you.

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comparing me to to boys who watch snuff and gore at school for giving trans people the same treatment i get from them is absolutely fucking absurd and i need you to know that

i had to filter my notifications on this app because i get hundreds (if not thousands) of reblogs a day telling me i need to be raped to death and decapitated. i received comments and messages like that even when i used to post in support of trans people and just questioned their logic and behavior towards lesbians/women in general. when have you ever seen me hate on children on my account? i’ve posted about how “trans” minors are groomed and need help away from these freaks. my posts are aimed at specific people/posters who are extremely vocal about their misogyny and predatory behavior.

Now they're saying that langauge the trans lobby invented was imposed on THEM by regular people lol

Imagine its 2007 and you're trying to explain to a normie why the fully grown adult male standing in front of them is a really a "girl" because he said so. Pretty impossible to do without lanagauge like identifies as and preffered pronouns.

I feel like they constantly switch up to maintain the illusion that they’re the underdogs up against Big Cis.

After this language convention (which they obviously invented) was formally adopted with lightening speed by thousands of elite and established institutions under pressure from activist groups- now, it’s suddenly cishet trash imposed from The Top.

The corporate sheen of their ideology is making it lose its cachet and coolness. So now they’re mimicking antiestablishment /grassroots ideas.

I’ve said constantly on here how the language of “identify as” is soulless corpo-slop to make you think the unstable and sexist social roles created by sociopathic patriarchal environments is the primary essence of your being. And that the language of “I am” represents your divine being as a human- unchanging and uninfluenced by social perception.

Now, we have trannies saying they’re dropping the “identify as” and saying I am and speaking about their being. Which is totally incompatible with their obsession with external perception & validation.

It’s looking like a TERF summer girls

Ah should I watch it or observe from here hahaha. & classic. They just gotta play in our faces like that I guess. Because I guess “thing that disagrees with my gender feelies”= transphobia.

I hate how the writers of the l word made it seem like the testosterone is what causes men or tif to be aggressive. As if Tim aren't also aggressive?

They make it seem like it's otherwise characters around her that are making her mad because they don't want to play along to her delusions or because she's taking testosterone.

Yepppp I mean testosterone for sure makes you aggressive but I feel estrogen doesn’t flatten out the testosterone production of TIMs. Like idc oh is it lowered to the “female range”? “Female range” doesn’t get rid of male entitlement & social conditioning.

For one, it's a cope. These straight TIFs don't want to be seen as a "yucky fujo" and once they start thinking they are a gay man, they become self-righteous about liking m/m content. Then it leads these TIFs to denigrating straight girls who didn't delude themselves into thinking they are gay boys for liking m/m content.

But I also wonder if it's a roundabout way for these TIFs to express their disgust at the thought of a woman being attracted to them.

I come across tiktoks of these kinds of TIFs sometimes and they look like typical girls/women. They don't even have short hair nor dress in a masc way, so it's really hard to believe they think straight women would be interested in them.

But it is possible for a lesbian or bi woman/girl to be attracted to them regardless of how the TIF styles herself.

Like speaking as a fujo myself i find it so braindead when they claim that we fetishize gay men, like homegirl we want nothing to do with gay men or any man for that matter.

Yaoi is by women for women, it is so utterly detached from maleness and creates so many female only spaces and communities, but they have the gall to compare it to lesbian porn and how men sexualise lesbians as if real men are being violated and abused in the silly little comics we make😭

I also saw someone making a really good point about how yaoi attracts women because it allows us to be voyeurs to our own oppression by removing the female body from the equation and creating dynamics women typically experience without them actually having to be victimised.

it's not normal and tumblr pretends not to see it, but when minors on their platform get harassed by a swarm of anonymous accounts, all wishing them death and brutal rape, that's literally a crime by most law systems. not to mention the moral side of it.

@staff how do you feel about little girls and boys being unconsentually exposed, multiple times a day for who knows how long, to explicit scenarios of them being raped and killed, made a sex slave, accused of grooming or pedophilia?

some of you may be parents yourselves. how would you feel about your children being targeted and bombarded with the kind of messages below? just because some time ago a radfem reblogged a cute cat picture from their blog, now they're threatened with sexual violence and death. it's your fault too.

Can you imagine being a 13 year old and being met with hundreds of messages like this on your my little pony drawing? This is actually insane.

and after that was uncovered, netizens immediately, again with literally no evidence at all, started accusing the kidnapped girl who was groomed when she was a child, of murder, despite the trans woman who died constantly posting suicide fantasies on social media dating back many years. Imagine trying to frame the victim of grooming as a murderer just to maintain the victim narrative of the literal sex offender

The study found that LGB women were more likely to be victimized by abuse than men, which most people took to mean that lesbians were more likely to abuse each other, but if you read the study you’ll find that the majority of the perpetrators of abuse of these LGB women were men, not fellow women.

And here’s a helpful article that breaks down the rumors/misinformation that have spread as a result of people purposefully misinterpreting this original study and other similar studies: DEBUNKING THE LESBIAN DOMESTIC VIOLENCE DATA. Useful to help understand the statistics and scientific language of the studies and provides a lot of sources and further reading.

(And the YouTuber identifies as a he/him nonbinary man which I can’t even wrap my mind around but I like his videos so I try not to think about that nonsense.)