a church of burnt romances

RIP Hawk you would’ve HATED listening to Good Luck Babe and Silver Springs

fellow travelers bravely asks the question What if you were in a situationship so insane that you stopped being catholic and then doubled back and became even MORE catholic

I think the first step towards the life you want is often to just say yes to more things. Accept that coffee invitation from your coworker even if it seems awkward. Sign up for that free class at the library that you're not sure you'll like. Join that club. Book that tour. Say yes to as many things as you can and kill the part of your brain that gut-reacts with a no.

jensen ackles: I'm gonna throw Dean Winchester a birthday party because that's a normal thing to do

being on the aro spectrum would be a lot easier if being single wasn't made to feel like a literal death sentence

it's all very well to say "friends are just as important as romantic partners" but in practice this simply is not the case lmao. you can share a flat with a friend but it's expected that sooner or later that friend will meet someone and will move out to go live with that person instead. if you're hanging out with friends you can bring your partner along but your friends can't come on a date night with you because that's third-wheeling and it's weird. you can know somebody for most of your life and still be second-best to some guy they met on tinder 6 months ago. you're meant to just accept without question the fact that your friends will prioritise time with their partners over time with you. being single is treated like a problem that needs to be fixed. we casually use expressions like "just friends" or "more than friends". everything we read and watch reinforces the idea that romantic love is what gives life meaning and therefore your life is meaningless without it. i try to keep my chin up but my god it is bleak out there

Was giving my friend the lore on destiel and today i introduced her to 'balls deep' destiel. God I hate this fandom.

Hello again my platonic friend. Wish I could observe the parallel universe in which we devote our whole lives to each other, but as for this universe I’ll uh. See you next week I guess.