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✨✨First up Monogamy is Dumb ✨✨

1)Iron Widow by Xiran Jay Zhao Classic story of boy loves girl, girl loves different boy, first boy goes 👀. (Triangles are the strongest shape). Oh and don't forget the heavy sci-fi and giant Mecha. YA novel with enough intrigue for everyone. Rep: Disability

2) The Fifth Season by N.K. Jemison. Not a romance novel but. It's big on digging into queerness and identity including a polyam relationship. Heavy fantasy and apocalypse vibes with an older MC. Rep: Disability, Trans

3) Long Way to a Small Angry Planet (Wayfarer Series) by Becky Chambers. Also not a romance but it has a main sapphic romance and the alien partner is from a species that is exclusively polyam. It is all about the value of friendships and is quiet literally about how the real treasure is the friends we made along the way. Rep: Autism

3) Rendezvous with Rama by Arthur C. Clarke. (Suggested by the Fiancee). "He is Poly and gay*. You find it everywhere in his books if you know where to look." *Sorry he's not technically gay because according to him that would mean straight people would have to exist.

4) Hunger Pangs by Joy Demorra. Good ol' classic vampire falls in love with a werewolf and they can't help but fall for a mysterious woman. This gets to sit here because it has a non spicy version but... If you want the spice it comes with all the fun of Vampires and BDSM. Rep: Disability, BDSM

🔥🔥🔥 Now for the polyamorous spice. 🔥🔥🔥

6) Sex Wizards Series by Alethea Faust. WHAT. I felt like i should start with the heavy BDSM sex magic book if I'm talking spice. No but seriously some of the best representation of BDSM and healthy polyam in many different ways. And plot somehow. Rep: Non-Binary, Asexual, Disability, Heavy BDSM

7) Rescued my Married Monster Hunters by Ennis Rook Bashe. What if you are a poor monster trying to be human and a sweet couple can't stop doting on you. No one would blame a lil monster for falling for that. Rep: Trans, Disability

8) Pack Saint Clair Series by Thora Woods. Reverse Harem gets much more interesting when the people the MC is getting involved with are an established Polyam Pack (ABO style). Sometimes falling in love with one person means you end up falling for 4. Rep: Mild BDSM, Trauma Recovery

9) Drag Me Up by R.M. Virtues. What if Hades/Persephone was healthy and T4T. Super sweet and spicy romance about defying expectations. Rep: Trans, Mild BDSM

10) In the Court of the Nameless Queen by Natalie Ironsides. A bunch of short stories around a Giant Spider queen and the many people who love her. Literally this is a bunch of sapphic porn about a clan of warrior women. It slaps Rep: Trans, Heavy Kink and BDSM

11) The Strongest Shape by Tessa Cardenas. This is in my liked books. And i distinctly remember loving the way it dealt with a new person entering a more established pair. I can not remember anything else besides it was spicy and gay.

Honorable Mentions

These books explore relationships in super queer and non-traditional ways. But might not be considered "polyamory"

12) Psalm for the Wild Built (and the Monk and Robot series) by Becky Chambers. Toe to Tip that's a QPR. It's just a really wholesome book about a robot and a human meeting. Lots of passive polyamory here too (expecially in the second book). To say the least Becky Chambers is great. Rep: Non-Binary, Robots (it/its), Anxiety

13) The City we Became by N.K. Jemison While I am expounding great authors I have to include Jemison's other book which is really all about queer friendship and the importance of have friends. On the backdrop of people becoming the city and fighting Eldritch Monsters Rep: Trans, Asexual Characters

14) The Murderbot Diaries by Martha Wells. Super casual background polyamory by murderbot's humans but it's not into any of that stuff. It is here to cause problems and make friends though. Rep: Robot (it/its), Trauma Recovery, Asexual, Autism

15) The Tarot Sequence by K.D. Edwards. I'm putting this here because it's currently just MLM but there are these big hints being dropped for a Triad. Lots of fun around being shoved into a position of power before you are ready and only having your friends at your back. Rep: Disability, Trauma Recovery

16) Black Leopard Red Wolf by Marlon James. This book is literally indescribable but it tackles gender, relationships and African History in such a nice package I can't help but add it. Rep: Genderqueer/Non-Binary

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I am IForgotMyName/Lord Business/Mastermind (courtesy of @queen-of-oreo), she/her, hereditary Jewish but atheist

I am irl friends with @queen-of-oreo , @king-of-oreo , and @astroverse813

My ultimate goal is to become friends with all of Tumblr, because that seems like a good first step before setting my sights on the entire world

I am obsessed with the following (aka here is a list of things you cannot get me to shut up about)-

Blood On The Clocktower, the best game to ever grace the face of the universe, if anyone is wondering my favorite demon is Fang Gu and no I'm not basic for choosing an SnV demon ur basic stfu (Pukka and Lil Monsta close seconds tho)

The Hellaverse, both Hazbin and Helluva. I'm a Mammon stan, sue me

Sanders Sides bc omfg that show is a masterpiece and perfect in every way, still waiting on the finale and am hyped for the Orange Side

Biology bc I am a huge nerd, I aim to be a geneticist when I'm older, and am already studying it and consequentially talking about it to anyone who will pretend to listen

Lovejoy, I love rock music and will listen to their songs on loop for hours

I don't like cheese

I prefer winter over summer

I love Minecraft but generally prefer horror stuff

I love seafood, like literally gimme anything from the ocean and I'll eat it that's a challenge

Can't draw for shit

I write a lot, mainly for myself but I've been thinking of maybe posting some stuff

Hate shopping

I can eat an entire lemon minus the peel and seeds without making a face

Very big on sci-fi, fantasy, and fiction in general

Play dnd

I love the Lego Movie, as shown by my url

I love singing and do it incessantly and constantly (sorry friends)

My favorite color is turquoise and I hate the color red, idk why it started as a bit but now I'll die on this hill

Sodas > flat drinks, except for lemonade which defies the laws of reality

DOGS > CATS, MY DOG IS MY EVERYTHING

so yk how I built up the reputation of “tumblr girl” in engineering, well there’s this phrase in my engineering friend group “never make the tumblr girl work”

unfortunately we had to do a really hard CAD assignment today

I did the best I could, but I needed some help

AND IM TELLING YOU [we’re going to call him BC] AND [Her name will be GO] WERE LITERALLY FIGHTING OVER WHO WOULD HELP ME

and then BC came over in his rolls chair, and got soooo close to me, like our knees were touching, so GO came over, said she was cold and attached herself to me arm “because you’re warm”

well BC also did not like it, and got closer, so did GO

and it became to the point where I was sandwiched between 2 really cute people and I was freaking the fuck out

but I got help, BC said, “hey you can call me anytime, I can always help you, except for 10:30pm -6:45 am because I’ll be asleep”

And we laughed

and then GO said “I’m awake literally constantly and I sleep with my phone so you can call me too”