Lost in the Very Specific Sauce

one of the best pieces of advice I've ever heard (for myself, at least) is that if you're in a terrible mood and NOTHING is helping, then start doing the chores/responsibilities/job stuff/etc that you've been putting off. Will it put you in an even worse mood temporarily? Probably, but you're already pissed off, so you might as well double up on it at that point 😭 there's no loss. It's not like finally getting around to cleaning the house and scheduling appointments is going to ruin the good day that you aren't currently having to begin with 💀 And then, when the bad mood passes, you'll have gotten shit done and you'll feel a lot better later, even if in the moment you're having The Worst Time Ever about it.

recommending interview with the vampire to the heated rivalry fans this, recommending black sails to the heated rivalry fans that - what about recommenending the terror to the heated rivalry fans as it actually has not only homosexuality but also winter sports

why do so many freaks go right to “there should be exams or tests before you have kids” when the real solution is better social services, robust infant and child development education that is accessible both financially and schedule/distance accommodating, and resources throughout any stage of a child’s life. genuine question like did you think about any social development before going straight to eugenics

#hp lovecraft thought penguins were grotesque and horrifying#he was not a difficult man to frighten

it seems like in bdsm the "rewards" and the "punishments" look very similar. this concerns me a great deal, because it points to a system of misaligned incentives. if we're not careful, it's even possible that a rational actor could deliberately violate regulations, because the penalties for rule violations are in fact incentivized. one shudders to think of the consequences of such an arrangement

oh... that can't possibly be pareto efficient... that's scary...

desire is the root of all yayyy desire is so fun i love to desire

fuck u i’m incorruptible

unless u wanna try something

I love stuff like this when people are in so deep they can’t even recognize how batshit crazy they sound