I need to spend a few months conditioning a sub to only cum when they're playing with their nipples. encouraging them to squeeze their tits whenever they're horny and gently discouraging them from touching their cunt at all. then one night I'll start rubbing numbing cream on their nipples and watch them panic and start desperately squeezing and pulling and twisting their nipples all day until they accidentally make themself lactate

thinking about slowly reframing things for a sub so they see cumming as denial and edging/teasing as a reward. after all, if they cum then they're going to be all calm and clearheaded afterward. but if they never get to cum they get to stay nice and dumb and desperate, just the way they like it. teaching them over time to only be happy when they're stupid and throbbing and needy, showing them that cumming denies them the endless fuzzy pleasure of edging. who would ever want to cum? it's so much more fun to be a little bit hazy and horny and dumb all the time, isn't it?

I really wish there was a way to edge without ever having the chance of cumming. I hate how I have to be so delicate to stop myself going over the edge. Just wanna go crazy and rub myself mindless, knowing that no matter how hard I try, I won't cum 🥺

wishing there was a curse that made me physically unable to cum without permission. handing over that right to someone else is incredible but sometimes i just want to have it taken from me

i don't see enough posts about drugs that make you really sensitive and horny but unable to cum like. why the fuck not that's the hottest concept ever, touching you in all your favourite ways and it just keeps building and building and every time you think you're going to tip over and have the orgasm of your life it just doesn't happen like. how is that not the best thing ever

unsafe insane and nonconsensual

the line between a good bit and a bdsm scene really just does not exist

it’s nice seeing other people starting to open their eyes to what i’ve been saying for a while in that the current use and proliferation of the term “gooning” is an outright tool of fascism

the second “gooning” stopped referring to a specific sexual practice and started to be used as a replacement for “masturbation” we needed to kill it immediately and sadly we didn’t

demonizing human sexuality and treating masturbation and sexual activity as deviant and disgusting are straight up fascist tools and it’s startling how successful this aspect of it has been the last few years

Is it a limit (fun to push and playwith and enjoy teasing and corrupting) or a limit (we need to stop this isn't fun).