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āI must confess that over the past few years I have been gravely disappointed with the white moderate. I have almost reached the regrettable conclusion that the Negroās great stumbling block in his stride toward freedom is not the White Citizenās Counciler or the Ku Klux Klanner, but the white moderate, who is more devoted toĀ āorderā than to justice; who prefers a negative peace which is the absence of tension to a positive peace which is the presence of justice; who constantly says:Ā āI agree with you in the goal you seek, but I cannot agree with your methods of direct actionā; who paternalistically believes he can set the timetable for another manās freedom; who lives by a mythical concept of time and who constantly advises the Negro to wait for aĀ āmore convenient season.ā āDr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
My hick town has a surprisingly big Jews 4 Jesus group, and all of them have the stupid Magen David/fish/cross symbols on their cars, etc. They're like, loud and proud about the J4J thing. So in the wake of the election, they're being harassed en masse by anti-Semites SO MUCH SO that they keep shouting "We are Christians! We are following the teachings of Jesus Christ!!" Which on the one hand, hilarious! Couldn't happen nicer ppl OTOH, this is why Jews around here don't advertise they're Jewish.
It goes to show - they are happy to steal our identity and appropriate our culture, but entirely unwilling to the work or endure the suffering that comes with actually being a Jew.
This is why they are not Jewish. This is why they never will be.
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As a rule, I do not read the Federalist, a nasty little far-right propaganda outlet that has lately drifted from a down-market National Review to a sli ...
As a rule, I do not read the Federalist, a nasty little far-right propaganda outletthat has lately drifted from a down-market National Review to a slightly upmarket Breitbart. But last week someone subscribed me to the magazineās daily newsletterāpresumably as some kind of sick jokeāand on Thursday a curious story caught my eye. āThe Trump Team Is No More Anti-Semitic Than Democrats Are,ā declared the headline of an article by Joshua Seidel, best known as a proud Jewish supporter of the alt-right. Here is how Seidelās pieceopens:
We all know the stereotypes for Jewish women and girls: Aggressive, demanding, pushy! Maybe some might say āwhinyā!
If youāre a Jewish man, youāve either given voice to these opinions or privately considered them while walking home after another argument or sitting in a restaurant feeling emasculated. āAll stereotypes are trueā Murry Rothbard [sic] once said, and we all know thereās truth to this one. Yet what kind of non-Jewish person would DARE to voice to the same opinion? Clearly, only Hitler. Or Stephen Bannon.
Now, Seidel actually misquotes Bannonās ex-wife, who, in reality, claimed that Bannon said he ādoesnāt like Jews and that he doesnāt like the way they raise their kids to be āwhiney bratsā and that he didnāt want the girls going to school with Jews.ā (Emphasis mine.) The real quote includes an outright statement of anti-Semitism, which Seidel conveniently elides. He also ignores the other alleged (and corroborated) instances of Bannonās anti-Semitism. But none of that really matters to Seidel, because Bannon supports Donald Trump, and Trump supports Israel. (Except when he doesnāt.) Seidel then criticizes my recent article about anti-Semitic threats by Trump supporters, calling it āunbelievable,ā āmorally wrong,ā ādisgusting, bigoted, and unfair,ā and āa slap in the faceā to America, which is a pretty serious charge for one short piece, but Iāll take the compliment.
Anyway, the fascinating thing about Seidelās rant is that it is itself plainly anti-Semitic. I do not mean that in the abstract or theoretical sense, but rather in the sense that it explicitly affirms an anti-Semitic stereotype that is especially prevalent in the United Statesāthat of the spoiled, whiny, āemasculat[ing]ā Jewish woman. Apparently the editors of the Federalist are perfectly OK with a writer complaining about how too many āJewish women and girlsā are āaggressive, demanding, [and] pushy.ā And they are OK with it not because it is acceptable in any ethical senseāit is obviously notābut because Bannon said it, and Bannon must be defended.
This rush to embrace anti-Semitism in order to legitimize the Trump teamās anti-Semitism is ominous. The Federalist has attacked plenty of vulnerable minorities in the past, but it has never before gone after Jews so venomously. Yes, Seidelās (rather incoherent) piece is meant to be lightheartedāperhaps even a kind of quasi-in-joke, since Seidel himself is Jewish. But the peddling of crude anti-Semitic stereotypes often precedes and precipitates a much darker turn toward Jew hatred. Keep an eye on the Federalist and its ilk as they traffic more and more in this kind of alt-right bigotry. Their job is to expand the outer edges of what mainstream conservativism will tolerate. And in Trumpās America, anti-Semitism is back on the table.
āDo you know what itās like to have a kid who doesnāt smile at you or touch you?ā
I really, genuinely donāt understand this. My son has never, ever laughed at funny faces. Heās never laughed at silly shows. But when he finds something he enjoys, like numbers, his face lights up. When I make the effort to learn and observe what he enjoys, I can make him laugh hysterically. I get affection.
Stop pushing YOUR wants on your child. Theyāre an entire person, with bodily autonomy. Holy shit, let us autistic do our thing.
Do YOU know what itās like to have people insist they have a right to touch you when they know it hurts? Or make you sit in rooms where your eyes hurt because of the lights?? If not, shut up.
Also, your son might not ever sayĀ āI love you Mamaā in those exact words but heāll probably say it in other ways. When he tells you obscure facts about lizards or how many weeks a certain song has been number one on some radio stationās most played list, or tells you how different words can be traced back to the same root in Latin or Gaelic or Sindarin. When your autistic kid shares their passion and excitement in a special interest theyāre inviting you in to something they hold dear. Theyāre telling you they love you. You just have to be willing to listen.Ā
Okay but if the words āI love you Mamaā are so importat, canāt you tell the child that? Make it clear that it makes Mama feel good to hear those words?
Maybe Iām missing smething big thatās implied (lol, that would be just like me tbh), but a child is a person, even if they are under heavy development. And if something is important and not something they do automatically, then communication is essential.
While it is possible (and done far to often) to overload an autistic child with expectations of normalacy, we can learn behaviors and scripts for communicating with others given situations that require specific responces.
Iām not going to place āimportanceā on the words āI love youā when love is a verb, something he already shows. Our children do not owe us love, either. We owe THEM love.
Ans youāre misinterpreting this situation as āneedingā a specific response. Do you know what needs a specific response?
āMy name is Carl and I am lost. My momās phone number is ____ā
āMy stomach hurts very badly.ā
āDonāt touch me there!ā
āI donāt know you, someone help!ā
Not āI love you.ā your response is a wild misinterpretation of my post. I couldnāt give two shits if my son ever tells me he loves me. I want him to be safe and happy. āI love youā is way down on the list.
And if a parentās whole day is made by the words āI love you,ā scripted, prompted, and not meant, then thereās a whole other problem there and itās not the child.
Because a coercedĀ āI love youā is soooon not abusive, amirite? #sarcasm
If you canāt see the ways your autistic child loves you, then youāre not understanding the autistic child in question. We love the same way anyone else does. We just showĀ it differently. Often very differently.
We, your children, are not there for your validation. It is not our job to provide you with the emotional support you need to raise us.
To place that on is not only ablest, but kinda creepy.
Maybe instead of coercing a child to express emotions in your way, learn to understand how they express love.
Youād be surprised how often we say it in our own words, our own ways.
(General you, not anyone specific).
I remember having to tell my mom that when I share āfun factsā with her, itās my way of saying āI love youā. Or trying to bridge a gap or apologizing. Itās the way that comes naturally to me. Itās the immediate, instinctual response to feeling āI love youā or āIām sorryā or whatever, for me it comes out ādid you know ā¦ā, especially if it is about something I know we both like.
From her perspective, suddenly sharing a fun fact about a movie we both love after we got into a fight is just nonsensical and possibly rude and insensitive. From her perspective itās even āunfeelingā, like I donāt realize that we had a fight and hurt each otherās feelings, Iām just suddenly talking about random things like nothing happened.
I had to explain to her one day that it wasnāt like that. That sharing that stuff is my way of communicating and connecting. But I wasnāt able to explain this until I was 20 ā¦ after so many years of finally figuring out NT peopleās perspective and seeing the discrepancy. To me just saying 'Iām sorryā or 'I love youā almost always sounds fake and hollow. You show affection through actions and sharing of things you love with people you love.
I figured out the NT perspective after many years, that I donāt get anymore naturally than she gets mine, but I had to be the one to bridge that gap. She never tried to figure out what might be my perspective because of that idea that I didnāt have one, that I was just unaware or didnāt understand something or was 'unfeelingā.
Itās not because our perspectives are so hard to understand that people donāt, itās because there is an extra wall there of this stigma that we are less human, so they donāt even try.
Donald Trumpās policy advisers are discussing plans to establish a registry for Muslim immigrants in the US, a man believed to be a key member of the President-elect's transition team has revealed.
This isnāt the old news story. This is a report from today. November 16, 2016.
I thought Iād cry the day itād begin. You know, just break down and weep. But I feel this endless numbing in the depths of my heart. And I donāt ever want to see any white person tell me about their safety pin this and safety pin that. I donāt want to hear about any solidarity from anyone unless it means youāll register in the database, too. Which you wonāt. Why would anyone. Itās being marked for life. This is one of the first steps implemented in erasing a people. Historical precedents have shown this over and over and over again.
1. CLASSIFICATION: All cultures have categories to distinguish people into āus and themā by ethnicity, race, religion, or nationality: German and Jew, Hutu and Tutsi. Bipolar societies that lack mixed categories, such as Rwanda and Burundi, are the most likely to have genocide. The main preventive measure at this early stage is to develop universalistic institutions that transcend ethnic or racial divisions, that actively promote tolerance and understanding, and that promote classifications that transcend the divisions. The Catholic church could have played this role in Rwanda, had it not been riven by the same ethnic cleavages as Rwandan society. Promotion of a common language in countries like Tanzania has also promoted transcendent national identity. This search for common ground is vital to early prevention of genocide.
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Watch: This awesome restaurant in Staten Island had the idea to employ grandmothers from all over the world to make its food
Thereās nothing better than your grandmaās cookingā¦except maybe a bunch of grandmasā cooking all in one restaurant. Thatās exactly what Enoteca Maria in Staten Island, New York is offering.
The only thing thatād be more potentially embarrassing than my internet history would be my calculator history, a chronicle of all the painfully simple math I couldnāt manage to do in my head.
If gender is innate, if girls and boys are just naturally different and naturally like different things, want different things, show different behaviors, why do we have to put so much effort, so much work into separating them?
If gender was innate itĀ wouldn'tĀ have to be indoctrinated into anyone. EveryoneĀ would naturally pick what they want to pick, and every girl would pick the same thing while every boy would pick the opposite. We would never have to tell any little girl or little boy anywhere, āthis is not for you, itās for boys/girlsā.
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