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So there's something I want to say re: intentionally withholding your vote, and I want to do it without coming across as condescending or dismissive.
I've worked as a field organizer in two campaigns, 2010 and 2012, and my job was to help turnout the vote for Democratic candidates up and down the ticket. Technology may have changed, but people are still knocking on doors for specific voters the way they were 12 years ago.
If you say you're not voting/voting 3rd party, the campaign volunteer is supposed to mark that and move on. Their job, in the final month of the election, is to make sure the campaign's supporters have all the information and resources they need to cast a vote.
They aren't collecting data on why you're withholding your vote. They aren't submitting opinion polling results to the campaign. Something like 155 million people voted in the 2020 election, and if you say you're not voting, the campaign is not going to waste a volunteer's time and morale begging you to vote when there are literally millions of other voters to turn out.
Let me repeat that: The campaign does not track why you're not voting. They simply note your vote is not a priority for turnout and move on.
I say this because I see a lot of promotion of non-voting like that's a boycott, when the function is not the same. A boycott is a coordinated mass refusal to engage with an institution—which sounds similar if you see a vote as a good or service to withhold. Unfortunately, it's not.
A vote is a choice you're making as part of a community hiring committee. Your abstention doesn't prevent someone from being hired. It just lowers the threshold for the worst candidate to succeed.
All this to say: In my direct experience as an organizer, abstaining from the vote sends a message. That message is not "You need to try harder to win my vote." It's "Don't waste time on me."
“Ew you’re an adult why are you in fandom” Kid, if being mocked for fandom shit wasn’t enough to stop me when I was an actual 15 year old, hearing it from a 15 year old when I’m 30 is genuinely hilarious
It is kind of amusing when teenagers think their highschool peer pressure shit is going to work on adults. Like, lol you have no power here fetus. My mortgage is a bigger emotional threat to me than you are.
Cringe culture no longer works on me. I was PEAK cringe. You know nothing of the early days
You merely adopted the cringe
I was born in it, molded by it
newsflash for everyone in this thread: minors are allowed to be uncomfortable with adults in spaces they frequent and it’s not a personal attack against you when a minor in fandom spaces in uncomfortable with adults in those spaces
Then they can leave the space?? They don’t own that shit.
I’m not gonna stop posting fandom shit at 23 years old bc some 14yr old feels “weird” about it, brat can hit the block button and get off my blog lmao
you, a 23 year old, reblogged this from a 15 year old onto a blog with “smut” in the url
fuck off, creep. follow your own advice and get the hell off my blog.
adults leave children alone and let us have our own space please
Well, then go away? Leave fandom on tumblr, AO3 etc. and create your own space? Because as much as you don’t want to hear it, adults created fandom, and it’s kids who then came and wanted in.
The entitlement coming from you minors on this post makes me feel sick. Block people you don’t wanna see, use the screening option ffs. Get off your “I don’t wannnnnaaaaa seeee addults wahhhh” high horse, damn
Adults: *in their own lane**created the damned lane**happily cruising along at 69 mph**waving to other adult motorists as they pass**having an all around pleasant drive*
Minors: *in their ‘student driver’ vehicles, blasting onto the highway you built, merging without right of way, forgetting to use their turn signal, cutting you off* Get off the road, grandma!
I’ll leave fandoms when I’m a corpse in the ground and not a moment sooner.
Well if this whole post doesn’t perfectly summarize the problem with modern geek culture.
Child: Get out of muh fandom, old timer!
Adult, who built and supported the fandom before the child was even born:
What exactly makes those people “uncomfortable”? The sole fact that adults have hobbies and media they love and that they participate in fandom activities?
I am not talking about “staring conflicts”, “being rude” or worse things.
People are uncomfortable that other people who are older just exist in public space (and I consider fandom being a public thing)?? The fuck?
Wow, what an atrocity. Everybody knows that you should leave fandom when you’re 20 years old, no interests for you, no fun! (No, fuck this mentality actually)
We were nerds in the era where that got you shunned and bullied, your baby tantrums mean nothing to us.
What’s baffling for me about the modern fandom babies is their obsession with morality.
When I was a kid, moral guardians kept presenting every geeky thing as morally questionable at best, or downright amoral:
Computer games - inciting violence
Dungeons and Dragons - promoting satanism
Popular YA Literature - not “real” literature and various problems depending on the title (for example satanism with Harry Potter)
Cartoons - stupefying / toilet humour and/or inciting violence
Anime - sexually perverse and/or inciting violence
Comics - stupefying at best
Because of that nowadays, whenever a toddler starts a rant why Title X is morally problematic I automatically block out the noise, because I’ve been dealing with self-righteous bullies like them all my life.
There’s a reason I repeat “dare to offend” while writing. Question is: who am I afraid of now?
Welcome to the first annual ACOTAR Omegaverse Week!
Hosted from August 4th - August 10th
this is the greedy brainchild of @whatishowedyouinthedark who shamelessly wanted more A/B/O fics in this fandom, lovingly co-hosted by the wonderful @rosanna-writer @starfall-spirit and @shadowisles-writes
Since we're announcing this with such short notice, everyone is welcome to reply to each daily prompt (list to be posted soon) with a short drabble, headcanons, sketches, or whatever else your brain desires to get the juices flowing... so to speak ;) No full fics or fully rendered art needed, but any and all are deeply appreciated!
This will largely be a NSFW event. All content will be tagged appropriately, but please block/filter as needed. Only YOU can manage your mental health experience online!
If this sounds like a good fit for you to squeeze into your schedule, we'd be so happy to have you. See you in a few weeks!
Guidelines
Prompt List
Masterlist
AO3 Collection
divider image by tsunami-of-tears you can find them here
I nope'd out of this fandom so hard, but damnit this is tempting. Anyone I know planning to participate?
Y'all.
Y'ALL
@headcanonheadcase wrote Gwynthan omegaverse for my birthday.
I can't even.
This angel wrote me 26k words of deliciousness with Chapter 1 posted today and the rest between tomorrow and my birthday on Saturday.
Excuse me while I sit here basking in the beauty of it.
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“Why should rich people pay more” because fuck ‘em
“So you are okay for paying more when you have money” I am not excluded from ‘fuck ‘em’ when relevant
“I am not excluded from ‘fuck ‘‘em’ when relevant” is surprisingly powerful as both a statement and philosophy
Our fandom forbearers did NOT suffer through Anne Rice, strikethrough, and other bullshit for fucking ACOTAR and Harry Potter fans to fucking ruin it for all of us by selling fanfiction. I am not losing novel length yaoi epics because some of you don't know how to act in fannish spaces and yes I do blame the booktokification of fanfic but I also blame those of you that treat fandom like content to consume and not a community to engage with.
Seriously people, learn fandom etiquette. It exists, it exists for extremely good reasons, and it's been decades in the making.
You know the saying, 'OSHA regulations are written in blood'? Yeah, that applies to fandom etiquette. We didn't make this shit up to lord it over newcomers, these rules evolved as a form of fucking self-defense and by god we'll die on this hill.
Lainey Molnar
Actually Captain Jack Harkness is SO important. During a time when we couldn't get a single queer on screen in most shows and even those few we did get ended up dead 90% of the time, he was not only openly bisexual, he was openly bisexual and LITERALLY unable to die.
They buried that gay and he still dug himself up and kept fucking
“She’d seen a Queen of the Night. As merciless and cold and beautiful as the god Lanthys had wanted to make her. Death’s Consort. Death herself.”
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For those who have overactive guilt complexes like me…
About the white washing in fanart:
I also think SJM is largely to blame for the white washing and lack of representation of POC with her characters. She uses such vague language, I had NO idea Lucien was POC until Feyre pointed out he looked like Helion (I pictured him like a Weasley brother for the longest time😭).
And saying the batboys have “golden brown” skin?? What does that mean? Are they middle eastern? Are they just tan? Like Rhys also has “alabaster” skin at one point. It’s so problematic to use vague language like that imo, it seems like an excuse to he able to claim representation without actually having it.
And Helion’s skin is described as a rich umber, which I (along with most people) would envision as dark-skinned, but then in an interview SJM says he’s Persian and his skin isn’t apparently that dark??
It goes along with how Mor and Azriel were originally supposed to get together. Sarah backtracks from her own character descriptions and identities for cheap attempts at inclusivity.
Queer and POC people deserve their own storylines, not the afterthoughts that she gives them.
Sorry for the rant, idk I just feel like while some artists definitely skew character descriptions in a problematic way, it also falls greatly on SJM for her own poor POC representation.
This is a really, really good point. Sometimes it feels like authors have a “representation” checklist that they use for their works so that they can avoid being accused of not having any diversity or representation, but then they’re so vague and nondescript about their characters as though they don’t truly want to commit to it. I really don’t get it.
(not so) friendly reminder that a non-exaustive list of war crimes that isreal has committed is:
Wilful killing
Torture or inhumane treatment, including biological experiments
Wilfully causing great suffering, or serious injury to body or health
Extensive destruction and appropriation of property, not justified by military necessity and carried out unlawfully and wantonly
Intentionally directing attacks against the civilian population as such or against individual civilians not taking part in direct hostilities
Intentionally directing attacks against civilian objects which are non-military
Intentionally directing attacks against humanitarian assistance
Intentionally launching an attack knowing that it will cause loss of life, injury or harm to civilians or civil properties
Intentionally launching an attack knowing it will cause significant damage to the natural environment without necessity
Attacking or bombarding, by whatever means, towns, villages, dwellings or buildings which are undefended and which are not military objectives
Intentionally directing attacks against buildings dedicated to religion, education, art, science, charitable purposes, historic monuments, hospitals, and places where the wounded are collected, assuming they are not military objectives
Employing asphyxiating, poisonous, or other gasses, and all analogous liquids, materials or devices
Employing weapons, projectiles, and material and methods or warfare which are of a nature to cause superfluous injury or unnecessary suffering
Intentionally directing attacks against buildings, material, medical units and transport and personnel
Intentionally using starvation of civilians as a method of warfare by depriving them of objects indispensable to their survival
If you still think this is isreal defending itself, you're ignoring the signs. This is a genocide. These are war crimes. More than 25,000 civilians have been murdered. This is not okay.
Zoya Nazyalensky
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when reading fiction, is it important to you that the characters are likeable?
yes, I want the characters to be likeable
only occasionally (e.g. in certain genres)
no, not important to me
other/see results
I'm curious given how often I see "none of the characters were good/likeable/lovable" as a criticism or reason not to recommend a book

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how you can help palestine
*i regularly update this post with any new info i find so please always reblog the original post*
Donations
donations currently reaching gaza:
‼️ help buy e-sims for people in gaza
donate to get food packages to gaza - care for gaza
palestine children's relief fund
world food programme
medical aid for palestinians
donate direct aid to gaza - ehab rida (longtime activist and volunteer, has been carrying out donations and humanitarian projects in gaza since 2021)
donate to ahmed (@/90-ghost on tumblr)
he is born, raised and based in gaza. please help him reach his goal of $50K to get his family to safety across the rafah border into egypt. as of right now… it’s $7.5K per person to evacuate gaza.
help journalist yousef escape gaza to treat his cancer
help mohamed evacuate gaza to get treatment for himself and his daughter
mohammed is a friend of ahmed (90-ghost) and is a haemophilia patient. him and his family are currently living in a tent on the streets of rafah.
help gaza’s children
urgent support for medical professionals in gaza
aid to gaza - taawon/bank of palestine
urgent humanitarian aid to palestinians - anera
support palestinians: buy a keffiyeh from the last and only factory in palestine - hirbawi
secondary donations:
emergency relief for gaza - pious projects
palestine red crescent society
save palestine - islamic relief canada
send medical supplies to gaza - palestinian american medical association
click to donate - arab.org
help bring down israel's weapon trade - palaction
donate for the recovery of hisham awartani
one of the three palestinian students shot by a racist in vermont for wearing kufiyas and speaking arabic. hisham’s injuries have left him paralysed from below the chest.
Petitions
‼️ urge icj to invite gazan journalists to testify
international cultural workers to strike from german cultural institutions for their complicity in oppressing palestinians and promoting genocide - strike germany
petition to investigate war crimes committed by israeli military
demand ceasefire - amnesty international
open call for immediate ceasefire
american government call for immediate ceasefire
american government to stop funding israeli military
ceasefire and increase humanitarian assistance - oxfam au
petition to get canva to address their pro-israel stance
invoke the genocide convention to call for ceasefire in gaza - world beyond war
suspend israel from international sports - diem25
UK to expel israeli ambassador - change.org
gaza healthcare workers for nobel peace prize - change.org
teachers around the world demand ceasefire - teachers for palestine
president whitten: reinstate samia halaby retrospective NOW - action network
location specific petitions
gaza call for lasting ceasefire - oxfam (UK)
end israeli occupation - parliament uk (UK)
email your MP - medical aid for palestine (UK)
protect gaza civilians - islamic relief (UK)
stop fuelling genocide - action network (USA)
@ biden: call for ceasefire now - move on (USA)
ceasefirenow.com - jewishvoiceofpeace (USA)
call congress and demand a ceasefire - uscpr (USA - they provide a script of what you should say, so don't worry about it)
note: you can call everyday. they tally the number of calls per issue. so more calls = higher chance for them to take action. p.s. you mainly go to voicemail so don’t worry about phone call anxiety. fight through it just this once please.
australia call on israel to stop attacking palestinians - apan (AUS)
immediate ceasefire and increase in humanitarian aid in gaza - actionaid (AUS)
email your MPs - stand with palestine (AUS)
‼️ australian senate to investigate australian citizens in the IDF for war crimes allegations - fpm (AUS)
‼️ arms embargo on israel - cjpme (CANADA)
sign to send letter to MP for ceasefire - nccm (CANADA)
ceasefire now! - ijv (CANADA)
call on your local mayor and council to demand ceasefire - LeadNow (CANADA)
cessez-le-feu et un couloir humanitaire - le mouvement (FRANCE)
écrivez aux député-es et sénateurs-trices - association france palestine solidarité (FRANCE)
write to your député - assemblée nationale (FRANCE)
skydda civilbefolkningen i gaza! - mittskifte (SWEDEN)
singaporeans call for immediate ceasefire (SIN)
contact your elected reps and demand a ceasefire (GERMANY)
write to the EU demanding a ceasefire (EUROPE)
template of letters you can send (EU)
guide on how to contact your MPs in EU
p.s. if the template is outdated, just use it as a guide and add a few sentences here and there that reflect the current situation. i can’t find any recent templates so :/ at least this is something
multiple actions you can take to help palestine - plant een olifbloom (NETHERLANDS)
includes: links for donations, emails to MP, emails to media, links to petitions and demonstrations
den haag, maak nú werk van vrede in israël/Palestina - the right forum (NETHERLANDS)
māori call for palestine - ourActionStation (NZ)
special visa for palestinians in gaza with family in NZ - NZ parliament/pāremata aotearoa (NZ)
deem israeli actions as war crimes - NZ parliament/pāremata aotearoa (NZ)
basta ao genocídio em Gaza! - awaaz (BRAZIL)
globo e grande mídia, parem de desumanizar civis palestinos - the intercept (BRAZIL)
Campaigns
‼️ justice for palestine
reach out to countries to back up south africa’s invoke genocide convention at the ICJ
‼️ international criminal court
submit evidences of israeli war crimes
friends of al-aqsa
❥ UK-specific
urge your MP to speak up for palestine
hands off al-aqsa
stop administrative detention
petition for UK to stop arming israel
❥ International
boycott puma — email them to end their partnership with israel
boycott coca-cola
palestine action
join the resistance
islamic relief canada
urge your MP to rally for ceasefire
decolonise palestine
poster campaign to raise awareness on the war crimes being committed against palestinians
text/call campaign for people living in USA
text CEASEFIRE @ 51905 to call for a ceasefire
text RESIST @ 50409 to send a letter to your representatives to pass HR3103–a bill that prohibits tax dollars from going to israel
download 5Calls app to contact members of your congress | (more info)
fax campaign for people in the USA
go on this website to send 5 free faxes per day
here’s a link to a pre-written fax copy you can download to send (the first link on the linktree)
here’s a video that explains how to fax your senator (it’s very easy and all you need is a valid email address)
‼️ BDS movement
get involved in boycotting companies associated with israel
palestine diaspora network
global strike guide - join the global strike!
please let me know if you have any more links. i will add them in. and please reblog the original post!!
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