Floating Over A Sea Of Vodka

it’s so disturbing to think back and realize the stuff you allowed people to do to you simply because you didn’t respect yourself enough to not let it happen

Sex tip: If he’s pressuring you to do anal, buy a dildo the same size as his dick, and ask him to do it first. If he’s scared of the pain- case closed. There’s absolutely no reason that he should expect it to feel any differently for you. If he says that it would be emasculating, belittling or ‘gay’, then that man is a misogynistic homophobe, and you better run for the hills as fast as your legs can take you.

I’m screaming

Take it like a man

What if he says yes

then you start making memories

We’re homophobic if we don’t wanna take a dildo in the ass now? 🥴

You’re homophobic if you say it’s “gay, belittling or emasculating” to receive anal. And you’re misogynist/a shitty person if you have to use pressure to get your partner to do it, but you don’t want to do it yourself because you’re afraid of the pain. Don’t ask anyone else to go through what you’d consider painful for your pleasure if they’re not into it and don’t use pressure.

Okay but its more pleasant for them…bc of the G-spot

me looking at the person i like: i am enamored even with the way your fingers move, with the way the light plays on your skin, with your freckles and your smile and your laughter, with your voice, with how you get around the things you love, with your humor,  me aloud: what’s up asshole