the patron saint of lost causes

Does it irk anybody else about the lack of nonbinary headcanons that don’t use transmasc/transfem. Can we have one nonbinary character that’s just transneutral and that’s it. Can anybody hear me

[suddenly disillusioned] my illusions..

I wish more people understood that sexual assault and harassment happen regardless of whether the perpetrator is attracted to the victim. Sexual harassment is frequently a social punishment for being undesirable

“ever notice how all nonbinary people are afab?” no but i have noticed how every single amab nonbinary person ive come across is either forcibly labeled as a trans woman or a cis guy who just Loudly Gay 

every single amab nb i’ve met has also been incredibly skittish about “intruding into queer spaces as a man” and other such shit that’s force fed to everyone in the community by exclusionists and terfs.

more than anything i want a world where a trans girl realizing she is a trans girl faces zero fear from that realization and subsequent coming out. Where she can say "Oh sweet, I can just be a girl? Sign me up!", no worrying if shes girl enough, no worrying if society will accept her, no worrying if she'll be an attractive girl as she transitions, no worrying at all in any way shape or form.

“you’re a grown ass man and you need help doing that?” some grown ass men are disabled ma’am

adult men who are disabled deserve compassion and understanding and support and not just endless verbal abuse from sheltered privileged assholes who think they are punching up let’s be so for real

hello allo person in a fandom. let’s play a game. in front of you are two characters. your challenge is to okay and you’ve already started shipping them. well the crusher machine is going to activate now goodbye.

no but fr tho it is terrifying how racism is not a dealbreaker for most people like they just say its bad to look polite……scary ass people

Someone should make a disco elysium spiritual successor that takes place in a maze and follows a protagonist who has to eat all the dots in the maze whilst avoiding several ghosts

you can actually homebrew this in d&d 5e

SCROLL UP!!! THIS IS A PAINTING

a trans girl waking up in the morning is more important and impactful than all art

like this post if trans women with facial hair and deep voices are beautiful

What helped me write trauma better is remembering that the nervous system learns predictions. If danger used to come after quiet, calm can feel threatening. If kindness used to come with a price, kindness can feel suspicious. So healing is not just “they know they’re safe now.” Healing is the slow, annoying, deeply unfair process of teaching the body that the old prediction is not always the present truth.

if you can't handle me at my worst then stop dragging me there fucker

How about Other people start worrying about how I perceive them