Iāve been seeing entirely too many posts about how ace-spec people arenāt really LGBTQ+ and donāt belong at Pride. And I got mad about it. Soā¦*aces your Batfamily*
Yes, all of them. Every last one is now ace-spec in some way. They even named their dog Ace.
Bruce is sex-neutral biromantic demisexual, and came out by accident at age 24 to a random reporter who was not expecting it. This sparked a social media storm that was only halted by the much bigger social media storm of Bruce adopting Dick.
The Batman has been asked his sexuality before. Bruce replied- perfectly straight faced- that the Batman is an asexually reproductive entity and creates its Robins via mitosis. A third of Gotham, most of Metropolis, and several members of the Justice League still believe this.
Dick is sex-repulsed biromantic asexual, and is of the type to make the dirtiest jokes youāve ever heard because sex is a joke to him. Came out in the form of an acrobatics performance he did at a pride parade, wearing a terrible Batman costume with a bi heart as the Batsymbol, an ace flag cape, and no pants. The audience was ecstatic. Bruce was mortified.
Nightwing has never said his sexuality, but anyone who claims heās straight is quickly met with pictures of the Discowing suit and up to a dozen laughing emojis.
Jason is sex-repulsed aromantic asexual. Heās not as vocal about it as Dick is, but he does like it to be known. Heās the type to make garlic bread/cake/world domination jokes. And ESPECIALLY dragon jokes. He kinda tends to just insert it casually into conversation, he didnāt do anything crazy to come out. Itās just a fact about him.
Red Hood claims to be sexually attracted exclusively to guns. Bruce hates this joke.
Tim is the opposite of Bruce- heās sex-positive bisexual demiromantic. One of the few Batkids to come out while in costume- he got a concussion on a case and blearily mumbled into Bruceās hair that heās āyou but backwardsā and completely confused Bruce. Tim is a little shy about his identity, but since dating Bernard heās been more open about it.
Red Robin is out as bisexual, but hasnāt added demiromantic to that. Tim is worried people will piece his secret identity together, since Tim doesnāt realize that most normal people are not highly skilled detectives who can tell a personās identity from a single acrobatics move.
At the moment, Damian just thinks heās feeling the normal āew cootiesā that most children do. In the future heāll realize that heās sex-repulsed ace/aro, although heāll refuse to use those terms in favor of broodily muttering āthis bloodline dies with me.ā Raās has an actual heart attack the first time Damian says this to his face and has to go into the Lazarus Pit to recover. Talia has never been more proud.
Barbara is sex-neutral, demiromantic and asexual. Sheās more outspoken about it than most of the family, and runs social media pages about disability and the asexuality spectrum alike. Aphobes and ableists that make the mistake of leaving comments often mysteriously find that their most embarrassing search histories have been sent to their grandmother.
Cass is sex-repulsed ace/aro. Steph was the one to explain sexuality to her, and also made her an ace ring. Cass told Bruce first, then the rest of the family. Sheās never come out publicly- Cass doesnāt like media attention being on her- but some sharp-eyed Gothamites who are looking can spot the black ring on Cassandra Cain-Wayneās middle finger in a few paparazzi shots the papers got their hands on. (I have a fic about this!)
Black Bat has never been asked her sexuality, mainly because sheās absolutely terrifying and nobody can stammer out the words when faced with her.
Stephanie is sex-positive graysexual grayromantic, and absolutely not shy about it. Sheās almost as good as Dick at making horrible, filthy jokes. Has punched a guy in the face for aphobia, does not regret it. Stephanie is out and proud and loud about it.
Spoiler/Batgirl III have both been seen wearing a rainbow flag as a cape too many times for anyone to assume theyāre straight.
Duke is sex-neutral demisexual/demiromantic, and is probably the most open about it of the whole Batfamily. Heās fully out and so is Signal, and will inevitably show up at any daytime Pride event just to say hi. Gotham adores him, and heās practically the ace-spec communityās mascot. Can and will use the entire rainbow spectrum of light to create various pride flags over Gotham whenever he feels like it, and has started taking flag/location requests. Once turned the Batsignal gay.
Harper is sex-positive bisexual aromantic, and where Stephanie is loud about it, Harper gets violent. She carries a souped-up taser and doesnāt hesitate to use it. Has knocked at least four homophobes/aphobes out cold not counting the ones she beat up in the Narrows. Bluebird is not only publicly out as bisexual but wears two out of three bisexual colors, and while itās not come up publicly yet, she wonāt hide that sheās aromantic either. Along with Signal and Spoiler, Bluebird is one of the vigilantes thatās known for being specifically good at handling LGBTQ+ issues. She wouldnāt have it any other way.
After being forcibly outed as gay and then bullied for it, Cullen is still in the closet about the fact that heās asexual and sex-repulsed, too. The first person he told after Harper was Alfred. By now the whole family knows, but theyāve been careful to keep it away from the media until Cullenās ready to come out himself.
Alfred is sex-neutral, aromantic, and pansexual, though heās older than some of those terms and doesnāt often use them to describe himself. Bruce didnāt know Alfred was anything but straight until he was almost seventeen, to which Alfred replied- signature eyebrow raise at full height capacity- that he had a career in the theater, Master Bruce, and no one who does that can possibly be typical in matters of orientation or any other aspect of life.
The outfit might seem antithetical to this, but Selina is ace too! Specifically, sheās sex-positive, heteroromantic and demisexual. The leather outfit is primarily for distraction purposes rather than true sex appeal. When it comes to Bruce, however, Selinaās more than once described herself as āmorosexual.ā Bruce, bless him, still has no idea what that means.
There ya go. Ace-spec Batfam. Happy Pride to everyone but especially all you fellow ace-spec folks who absolutely, 100% belong there.