sense of agency is a skill truly........ it takes work convincing yourself that you have to make moves if you dont want life to spontaneously happen to you instead of having some saying in what happens in it and if you have self destructive tendencies on top of that, it takes trust in yourself to almost blindly believe that it actually matters that you have power over your own life

Your 30s aren't too late. Don't let nobody tell you that stupid shit.

Your 40s aren't too late. Don't let nobody tell you that stupid shit.

#as long as you're alive it's literally never too late

daily reminder: fuck ice. fuck ice agents. fuck trump. and fuck you if you support them.

wow! I'm hungry.. hmm.. what should I eat? *does nothing and goes nowhere in life*

Actually, you are enough. Even if you don’t work. Or study. Or go out. Or have friends. Or have family. You’re enough because you exist and your existence is enough to be enough because you are not a product. You are not a sum of output. You are not a task to complete. But because you are something the universe wanted and put here even if you’ll never understand why. Somewhere in the cosmos your existence makes a difference, even if it’s not the way others existences do.

The number of whites that treat AAVE like simlish instead of an actual dialect with specific rules, etc. is maddening actually

“it’s tiktok speech” i’m gonna rip your heart out

official linguistics post