update back from hotel had to flee to after Father in law got dangerous (a reblog of this thead by them)
✅vetting: vouched for by @/transgendz who is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45 (pictures below). transcript below cut
And another campaign vouching, (ignore misgendering as English not first language)
3 ways Donate by 🔗PAYPAL or 🔗KOFI or 🔗THRONE
8:00 or 8:10 PM CDT generally time to go to bank or store before it closes (9:00 or 9:10 cst) Meds :$65 for son’s hormones, $150 for week of Calli's meds or $540 for a months worth. CaalisMeds are half-off on monday
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
UPDATES Jun 11
we're back home but [father in law] keeps pressing and screaming, we had to take refuge in the mold room with our kids, he kept screaming at me outside the room until way past 3am idk how safe we are with him around the worst is we have to check before going out of the room to either go eat/drink or if we need to use the restroom we also ran out of water, we can't flush the toilet or wash our hands he made my partner, his son, fall down after he pulled his cane from him, now his ankle hurts we have had no peace since we came back still unsure what we'll do we don't want to leave our home
June 10: we're still in need of help to afford breakfast, taxis and any extra support, our housing situation is still in the air things got pretty bad here idk what prompted this my partner is
chingaderitaJune update Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too. 😔 I'm so sorry
May 23May 13, May 12
my last post, last emergency june 5 version of last thread before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
My artist friend Calli needs money for OVERDUE RENT Son's hrt , chronic illness medicine, taking care of family and and more (also had food trouble), and cat food and diabetic in-laws./ Spanish lessons also offered, . They have boosted many other people’s own fundraisers in solidarity. may 23 update they usually earn $12 a day from spanish lessons
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Commissions and Classes
1)A friend has offered to help them raise funds to keep them afloat if you're interested in art commissions. Friend is taking time off to finish commissions and rest
2)EDIT Update from May 3rd : dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Below past documentation of blog posts and background info, along with vouching transcript.
May 1, 2026, 01:52:55 PM (Friday) “Still trying to afford testosterone and my meds Need help getting adult diapers, my partner hurt his back so bad he can’t stand up. No one here has the strength to lift him. Uh… Might also need help taking him to the doctor.”
still has debilitating tooth pain. put on hold due to flue emegency
New bed as mentioned above
need money to deep-clean house so safe for MIL return post-surgery (mold still here)
Repairs for toilet needed
Son suffering dysphoria
Nov 23 My eldest son had one of the worst nights in his life. All I can say is we managed to keep him safe through the night, he is safe at home. He thought he could keep raw dogging his dysphoria but he clearly needs to start HRT and transitioning. He is very avoidant of asking for anything because knows we barely get the money for food and other basics. I don't want to lose my son because of money. I want him to have access to a happy life. What if I'm not there next time to stop him?"
about medicine
quote
"Usually I would just endure until next week to try to get my meds but every time I go without them I notice I don't last as much as before until I have to make a run to the hospital. [I remember their hospitalization, it was really scary]... I needed $125 to get them [monday] half price but every other day I need $250... We need $50 to take our eldest to the doctor for an abdominal pain after carrying grandma. $35 for the laundromat. $300 to cover food expenses for all 9 of us and the cats. $110 for my healthcare renewal. Everything else for clean supplies and other necessities....
Transcript: vouched for by transgendz
transgendz is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45
"I can vouch for Calli @chingaderita! Ive known the family for several years now and they’ve consistently shown proof, was vetted by Kyra on my request when they first messaged, I’m quite sure, the search function on blogs is just awful and I’m having a hard time finding such an old post. But I talk to Calli often, we’ve had conversations in English and Spanish, and everything they say tracks with the proof provided. I just thought I’d say something bc I know you’ve been helping them too. Thank you for all you do.
About Calli
Calli, is a nonbinary parent dealing with chronic illness, chronic pain, unemployment and severe depression taking care of children, in-laws, and rescue cats . Calli is a kind person constantly boosting other people’s campaigns despite their families situation and limited time at compute cafes Calli in posts has discussed: has tumors, problems with gallbladder and liver, chronic joint pain. And a horrible pain in jaw that
We really need meds soon, has not been able to afford them in weeks, and we don’t want another hospitalization
“My gallbladder and liver need constant medication to not get further fucked up, I have a bunch of untreated tumor/growths I hope my healthcare will deal with at some point, I have chronic pain which affects my hips, back and left leg and sometimes my leg dislocates at random, just this August I’ve had two periods in less than 28 days, this is a common occurrence almost every month, and I’ve been dealing with teeth pain so intense it causes headaches, hurts my jaw, neck and now I have pain inside my right ear I suspect it’s related to my teeth pain.”
Summary of problems overall
dec29 It's late, I'm exhausted, haven't had a good night sleep in ages. We have a bunch of chronic panic, chronic illnesses, the most able bodied at home is probably me even tho my left leg dislocates at random, my left leg has jolts of pain at random too and my gallbladder and liver are actively trying to kill me. Oh, did I forget to mention the tumor and the many growths on my legs? Or the tooth pain I still have, I need that molar removed or im going to do it myself. Just, help us get a bed, the one we got is too moldy I'm tired of having to cover it with plastic so we can take turns to sleep on it at floor level. Also, urgently need funds to get my son the his next appointment at the trans clinic see if we can get him HRT or we'll have to get him DIY. We need to get more adult diapers too considering all the mobility issues our elderly are going through. If I dare to ask also for $10 so I can get nuggets and a treat for our son, he turned 9yo 2 days ago and he just wanted some nuggets please.
*They have been helping boost many campaigns, gaza and otherwise (and have asked me to boost these three while their internet is unreliable):
(1) AHMED’S [campaign] IS VERY FORGOTTEN, PLEASE, KEEP SHARING!!! – @/chingaderita on Tumblr 2)Donate to Trapped Family in Gaza Appeals for Help to Survive, organized by Abdallah Alanqar
(3) Hani €5,688/€25,000 – @/chingaderita on Tumblr
“We really REALLY need help with the court fees and paperwork [get done before aAugust.], we just want to ensure our kids will be safe from my family in case I die, due to my deteriorating health.”
now Personal health problems
Sep 7 tooth pain, Couldn’t rest with this damn tooth pain pain pain soainIsbsk,ndl .zlz
Maybe I should have added this to the main body of the post but I’m on my second period in less than 30 days, cause my liver and gallbladder trying to kill me isn’t enough I have many tumors growing in different parts of my body.
Latest post aug 24
Thank you I did pay my healthcare!!! I was hoping with the extra I could get my meds but we ended up using it for food and taking my MiL to the hospital because of gastrointestinal pain, she had to stay under supervision for a whole night and is scheduled for more tests on Tuesday. We’re pushing her healthcare services to schedule her for a gastroenterologist as soon as possible, she has been unable to eat which has been a terrible combination with her diabetes. Can we ask for help affording her ensure bottles so she can at least eat that? We’ll need to do something about the humidity and mold soon, we get trapped in the rooms often, last night it took us over an hour to be able to reopen a door even with both my partner and me pushing. We need to get adult diapers btw. Please, anything helps!!!!
You know, it’s real nice that we got help to pay the vet bills and help my kid keep his cat safe and healthy but wow. It is obvious we do not matter at all. The moment our cat needed help we got the goals, both times But I’ve been trying to get my meds for weeks or months at a time and nothing. It’s real hard not to fucking cry
I know it’s hard for everyone but please, keep sharing, anything ANYTHING helps. We’ve been getting a bit of food and paying little by little what we owe at the corner store but the upcoming card payment is $190 and my meds are $130 and then let’s not forget my healthcare renewal. I also bring bad news, we’re starting with water shortages just like last year, we’ve gone from having 4 days of water a week to 1-2 if we’re lucky. Our only toilet is busted and there are 9 people here who use it. My kid still needs attention for a UTI he’s had for a couple of months now. And my partner has 3 ingrown nails and 2 big cuts on his feet he’s kept unattended for weeks. I’d hate to up the goal but we need every help we can get!!
more documentation from 2023.
Went back on my blog to find proof of the fire where my in-laws lost everything, this other one with pictures and proof that I’ve been sick and struggling to get my medication since August 2023. Just felt like having things organized and maybe make another blog to keep all proof I can save since we lost a lot of information and pictures/videos when we sold our phones and lost the computer.
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it's the final day again for ammar's injection and my hopes are, bluntly, extremely slim.
we didn't even manage to raise the money for his immune globulin injection last week, and we are now, on top of that, about $1k in debt to the doctor for the iv fluids he had to take for that.
that has to be paid for in conjunction with his urgent digoxin injection, which he will die without, which means the minimum amount we have to raise by tuesday 4 pm gaza time is $2,129.
i am really not feeling optimistic, because we had to urgently evacuate the family last week from israel's active bombing and no one cared enough to contribute almost any donation at all, even as small as $5 - only a small handful of people chipped in.
if we don't get this money before the end of tuesday, ammar will need over $6k, as it will include an intensive injection on top of everything we already have to pay
and i know we're not going to get that, so really what will happen is he will die
i don't know what i can say to convince you to help keep him alive, but i beg you not to let israel successfully kill him
thank you to the people who donated - we did raise enough in order to purchase ammar's digoxin injection
however, because we didn't pay for the iv fluids debt, we won't be able to borrow any in advance should we fail to raise funds for the immune globulin injection
the deadline for this is 10 am wednesday gaza time, or about 10 and a half hours from now. this would let us remain on time
we need to reach $3114 in order to have raised enough for both the immune globulin injection and the debt we owe, aka $1959 more
please help ammar. we can't just not pay for this, and he will be in great danger without medicine to support his condition should we be unable to raise his injection in time
3)Pride pins offered! with proof of donation! by seasnicker
4) Flowerpawarts has compiled a huge list of similar artists providing incentives for vetted
Verification below
samah’s original campaign and account are shared by 90-ghost, but it was shut down as her organiser’s bank account was deactivated. 90-ghost is a Palestinian blogger who tries to find and support legitimate campaigns.
proof samah asked @murderbot use his paypal / ko-fi account here or here (backup repost)
Please share/reblog, and maybe donate if you can. DM @/helponeandall if want to be removed @canwriteitbetterthanueverfeltit
it's the final day again for ammar's injection and my hopes are, bluntly, extremely slim.
we didn't even manage to raise the money for his immune globulin injection last week, and we are now, on top of that, about $1k in debt to the doctor for the iv fluids he had to take for that.
that has to be paid for in conjunction with his urgent digoxin injection, which he will die without, which means the minimum amount we have to raise by tuesday 4 pm gaza time is $2,129.
i am really not feeling optimistic, because we had to urgently evacuate the family last week from israel's active bombing and no one cared enough to contribute almost any donation at all, even as small as $5 - only a small handful of people chipped in.
if we don't get this money before the end of tuesday, ammar will need over $6k, as it will include an intensive injection on top of everything we already have to pay
and i know we're not going to get that, so really what will happen is he will die
i don't know what i can say to convince you to help keep him alive, but i beg you not to let israel successfully kill him
thank you to the people who donated - we did raise enough in order to purchase ammar's digoxin injection
however, because we didn't pay for the iv fluids debt, we won't be able to borrow any in advance should we fail to raise funds for the immune globulin injection
the deadline for this is 10 am wednesday gaza time, or about 10 and a half hours from now. this would let us remain on time
we need to reach $3114 in order to have raised enough for both the immune globulin injection and the debt we owe, aka $1959 more
please help ammar. we can't just not pay for this, and he will be in great danger without medicine to support his condition should we be unable to raise his injection in time
3)Pride pins offered! with proof of donation! by seasnicker
4) Flowerpawarts has compiled a huge list of similar artists providing incentives for vetted
Verification below
samah’s original campaign and account are shared by 90-ghost, but it was shut down as her organiser’s bank account was deactivated. 90-ghost is a Palestinian blogger who tries to find and support legitimate campaigns.
proof samah asked @murderbot use his paypal / ko-fi account here or here (backup repost)
Please share/reblog, and maybe donate if you can. DM @/helponeandall if want to be removed @canwriteitbetterthanueverfeltit
Suheila's family needs help with anemia (linnK) Mother and five children Donation commissions below
Her health is very critical. Her iron level is 6,my little daughter Miral’s iron level is 5. https://www.tumblr.com/virovac/815550414761148416/suheilas-family-needs-help-with-anemia-linnk?source=share
and Junk — Post by @virovac · 3 images
Hi my name is Mickey and I'm raising funds for:
Suheila, who is a m… Mickey Dee needs your support for Support Suhaila's family in
Hi my name is Mickey and I'm raising funds for: Suheila, who is a m… Mickey Dee needs your support for Support Suhaila's family in
gofundme.com
🔗 Donation link also bio.
✅️Vetted by @gazavetters, my number verified on the list is ( #724 )✅️ and https://www.tumblr.com/90-ghost/778302000693657600?source=share 90-ghost is a Palestinian blogger who tries to find and support legitimate campaigns. Gazavetters is trusted because they are Palestinian run AND they call out spammers and scammers they find Many accounts, including suhailagaza09suhailagaza91suhailafamily1suhailamuha-1d and one by by child wedad, sohailagazza334, sohailagazza234,, sohailagazza6789 suhailafamily-5, suhailafamilyggrj, suhailafamilyyu7 , suhailagaza91, sohailagaza081
art incentives
Art and other rewards being offered for those who have proof of donation (such as a screenshot of receipt, probably with personal information blacked out) to the well-known vetting lists and a few other. I have collected an up-to-date list here. There is also links to other lists: for such as flowerpawarts's spreadsheet, you should make sure they accept the vetting list or are not just funding for a specific family
💬 4 🔁 109 ❤️ 39 · Archival link: Donation incentives for the big two lists and mentions of others · @/gazavetters vetted list
Vetted list
2) Flowerpawartshas compiled a huge list of similar artists providing incentives for vetted
Remember the legal murkniness of paid fanfic so probably keep on down-low
(check links to make sure they accept any of the verification lists or vetters for campaign you want to support , and you should make sure they accept the big verification lists or aren't just for a specific family)
Hello my friend, I am Mohamed Ashraf from the Gaza Strip and I urgently and urgently need your help to protect my family from hunger and provide them with flour💔💔😭. I know that asking for a donation is not an easy thing, but my family and I look at your humanity and your concern for us, and we feel truly embarrassed and ashamed to ask for help, but the matter is more difficult for us and I hope you will You could donate evan 25$ and share my post, thank you 💔🍉🇵🇸
Verified campaign. Vetted by, @gazavetters the number verified on the list is ( #296)
Donation rewards
Art and other rewards being offered for those who have proof of donation (such as a screenshot of receipt, probably with personal information blacked out) to the well-known vetting lists and a few other. I have collected an up-to-date list here. There is also links to other lists: for such as flowerpawarts's spreadsheet, you should make sure they accept the vetting list or are not just funding for a specific family
💬 4 🔁 109 ❤️ 39 · Archival link: Donation incentives for the big two lists and mentions of others · @/gazavetters vetted list
Vetted list
Hello,
My name is Lisa from Tampa, Florida. I am organizing th… Lisa Nguyen needs your support for Donate to Save Muhammad's
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Emergency: Help my friend Calli (@chingaderita) survive lack of water, replacing moldy insulin , violence, and get meds and T-shots for son! ✅Vetted below.
I knoe what its like to live in a hotel, please help
✅vetting: vouched for by @/transgendz who is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45 (pictures below). transcript below cut
And another campaign vouching, (ignore misgendering as English not first language)
3 ways to donate Donate by PAYPAL or KOFI or THRONE
8:00 or 8:10 PM CDT generally time to go to bank or store before it closes (9:00 or 9:10 cst)
Meds :$65 for son’s hormones, $150 for week of Calli's meds or $540 for a months worth. Meds are half-off on mondays
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per h
June 16 update
Can't possibly help carrying water today cause im in incredible pain and we haven't got any money except for a class I gave yesterday I would love to get my medication so I can be more functional and in less pain, water so we can shower AND WE NEED TO REPLACE THE INSULIN THAT SPOILED BECAUSE OF THE BLACKOUT PLEASE!!!!
update june 15 night
Got water for today, we still need help with testosterone, meds, our daughter's gender affirming haircut and water tomorrow until the water supply starts again, I'm sorry we still don't know how long this shortage will be
UPDATES Jun 11
we're back home but [father in law] keeps pressing and screaming, we had to take refuge in the mold room with our kids, he kept screaming at me outside the room until way past 3am idk how safe we are with him around the worst is we have to check before going out of the room to either go eat/drink or if we need to use the restroom we also ran out of water, we can't flush the toilet or wash our hands he made my partner, his son, fall down after he pulled his cane from him, now his ankle hurts we have had no peace since we came back still unsure what we'll do we don't want to leave our home
June 10: we're still in need of help to afford breakfast, taxis and any extra support, our housing situation is still in the air things got pretty bad here idk what prompted this my partner is
chingaderitaJune update Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too. 😔 I'm so sorry
May 23May 13, May 12
my last post, last emergency june 5 version of last thread before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
My artist friend Calli needs money for OVERDUE RENT Son's hrt , chronic illness medicine, taking care of family and and more (also had food trouble), and cat food and diabetic in-laws./ Spanish lessons also offered, . They have boosted many other people’s own fundraisers in solidarity. may 23 update they usually earn $12 a day from spanish lessons
my last post on this blog, my last post on other blog while shadowbanned last emergency june 5 version of post before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
chingaderita June update
Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too.
😔 I'm so sorry
Thank you all who helped Barely make the overdue rent but now being asked for Junes rent.
Commissions
1)A friend has offered to help them raise funds to keep them afloat if you're interested in art commissions.
Friend is taking time off to finish commissions and rest
2)EDIT Update from May 3rd : dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Latest update
June 7
Hola, just updating that we're safe still at the hotel, we overslept after managing to fall asleep around 5-6am
I made a call to my partner back home, he says it might be better if we stay here one more day or even two
Right now our kids have only eaten cookies and I need to either buy food here or get them something ready to eat since there is no kitchen in the room.
The room tonight is $110 considering paypal fees, i might just order a pizza for them I can eat the pineapple out of it
We got some donations while we were asleep, thank you
$150/$300
maybe a haircut for our girl since her grandpa managed to cut off some strands of hair in his attempt of making her a boy again fucking monster
June 01
Wanted to update that we did indeed make the goal just barely on time but if course now he is pressuring us to pay june
Thank you though, we got some space to breathe with food, bills paid, just got to afford a binder and some testosterone but that is a more achievable goal
Or try to get the mold repairs but that's too much idk
[June 01} 6:18 PM [CDT]
May 23 May 13, May 12
May 1, 2026, 01:52:55 PM (Friday) “Still trying to afford testosterone and my meds Need help getting adult diapers, my partner hurt his back so bad he can’t stand up. No one here has the strength to lift him. Uh… Might also need help taking him to the doctor.”
Below past documentation of blog posts and background info, along with vouching transcript.
still has debilitating tooth pain. put on hold due to flue emegency
New bed as mentioned above
need money to deep-clean house so safe for MIL return post-surgery (mold still here)
Repairs for toilet needed
Son suffering dysphoria
Nov 23 My eldest son had one of the worst nights in his life. All I can say is we managed to keep him safe through the night, he is safe at home. He thought he could keep raw dogging his dysphoria but he clearly needs to start HRT and transitioning. He is very avoidant of asking for anything because knows we barely get the money for food and other basics. I don't want to lose my son because of money. I want him to have access to a happy life. What if I'm not there next time to stop him?"
about medicine
quote
"Usually I would just endure until next week to try to get my meds but every time I go without them I notice I don't last as much as before until I have to make a run to the hospital. [I remember their hospitalization, it was really scary]... I needed $125 to get them [monday] half price but every other day I need $250... We need $50 to take our eldest to the doctor for an abdominal pain after carrying grandma. $35 for the laundromat. $300 to cover food expenses for all 9 of us and the cats. $110 for my healthcare renewal. Everything else for clean supplies and other necessities....
Transcript: vouched for by transgendz
transgendz is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45
"I can vouch for Calli @chingaderita! Ive known the family for several years now and they’ve consistently shown proof, was vetted by Kyra on my request when they first messaged, I’m quite sure, the search function on blogs is just awful and I’m having a hard time finding such an old post. But I talk to Calli often, we’ve had conversations in English and Spanish, and everything they say tracks with the proof provided. I just thought I’d say something bc I know you’ve been helping them too. Thank you for all you do.
About Calli
Calli, is a nonbinary parent dealing with chronic illness, chronic pain, unemployment and severe depression taking care of children, in-laws, and rescue cats . Calli is a kind person constantly boosting other people’s campaigns despite their families situation and limited time at compute cafes Calli in posts has discussed: has tumors, problems with gallbladder and liver, chronic joint pain. And a horrible pain in jaw that
We really need meds soon, has not been able to afford them in weeks, and we don’t want another hospitalization
“My gallbladder and liver need constant medication to not get further fucked up, I have a bunch of untreated tumor/growths I hope my healthcare will deal with at some point, I have chronic pain which affects my hips, back and left leg and sometimes my leg dislocates at random, just this August I’ve had two periods in less than 28 days, this is a common occurrence almost every month, and I’ve been dealing with teeth pain so intense it causes headaches, hurts my jaw, neck and now I have pain inside my right ear I suspect it’s related to my teeth pain.”
Summary of problems overall
dec29 It's late, I'm exhausted, haven't had a good night sleep in ages. We have a bunch of chronic panic, chronic illnesses, the most able bodied at home is probably me even tho my left leg dislocates at random, my left leg has jolts of pain at random too and my gallbladder and liver are actively trying to kill me. Oh, did I forget to mention the tumor and the many growths on my legs? Or the tooth pain I still have, I need that molar removed or im going to do it myself. Just, help us get a bed, the one we got is too moldy I'm tired of having to cover it with plastic so we can take turns to sleep on it at floor level. Also, urgently need funds to get my son the his next appointment at the trans clinic see if we can get him HRT or we'll have to get him DIY. We need to get more adult diapers too considering all the mobility issues our elderly are going through. If I dare to ask also for $10 so I can get nuggets and a treat for our son, he turned 9yo 2 days ago and he just wanted some nuggets please.
*They have been helping boost many campaigns, gaza and otherwise (and have asked me to boost these three while their internet is unreliable):
(1) AHMED’S [campaign] IS VERY FORGOTTEN, PLEASE, KEEP SHARING!!! – @/chingaderita on Tumblr 2)Donate to Trapped Family in Gaza Appeals for Help to Survive, organized by Abdallah Alanqar
(3) Hani €5,688/€25,000 – @/chingaderita on Tumblr
“We really REALLY need help with the court fees and paperwork [get done before aAugust.], we just want to ensure our kids will be safe from my family in case I die, due to my deteriorating health.”
now Personal health problems
Sep 7 tooth pain, Couldn’t rest with this damn tooth pain pain pain soainIsbsk,ndl .zlz
Maybe I should have added this to the main body of the post but I’m on my second period in less than 30 days, cause my liver and gallbladder trying to kill me isn’t enough I have many tumors growing in different parts of my body.
Latest post aug 24
Thank you I did pay my healthcare!!! I was hoping with the extra I could get my meds but we ended up using it for food and taking my MiL to the hospital because of gastrointestinal pain, she had to stay under supervision for a whole night and is scheduled for more tests on Tuesday. We’re pushing her healthcare services to schedule her for a gastroenterologist as soon as possible, she has been unable to eat which has been a terrible combination with her diabetes. Can we ask for help affording her ensure bottles so she can at least eat that? We’ll need to do something about the humidity and mold soon, we get trapped in the rooms often, last night it took us over an hour to be able to reopen a door even with both my partner and me pushing. We need to get adult diapers btw. Please, anything helps!!!!
You know, it’s real nice that we got help to pay the vet bills and help my kid keep his cat safe and healthy but wow. It is obvious we do not matter at all. The moment our cat needed help we got the goals, both times But I’ve been trying to get my meds for weeks or months at a time and nothing. It’s real hard not to fucking cry
I know it’s hard for everyone but please, keep sharing, anything ANYTHING helps. We’ve been getting a bit of food and paying little by little what we owe at the corner store but the upcoming card payment is $190 and my meds are $130 and then let’s not forget my healthcare renewal. I also bring bad news, we’re starting with water shortages just like last year, we’ve gone from having 4 days of water a week to 1-2 if we’re lucky. Our only toilet is busted and there are 9 people here who use it. My kid still needs attention for a UTI he’s had for a couple of months now. And my partner has 3 ingrown nails and 2 big cuts on his feet he’s kept unattended for weeks. I’d hate to up the goal but we need every help we can get!!
more documentation from 2023.
Went back on my blog to find proof of the fire where my in-laws lost everything, this other one with pictures and proof that I’ve been sick and struggling to get my medication since August 2023. Just felt like having things organized and maybe make another blog to keep all proof I can save since we lost a lot of information and pictures/videos when we sold our phones and lost the computer.
1d
Nothing so far, I'm so sorry for being pushy, we did use our last pesos to buy a couple fuses because we lost power since last night but we didn't notice it was just us until this morning 😔
We need insulin, water, testosterone and food please 🙇
We couldn't get nothing today, not water, not insulin, no testosterone.
Emergency: Help my friend Calli (@chingaderita) survive lack of water, replacing moldy insulin , violence, and get meds and T-shots for son! ✅Vetted below.
I knoe what its like to live in a hotel, please help
✅vetting: vouched for by @/transgendz who is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45 (pictures below). transcript below cut
And another campaign vouching, (ignore misgendering as English not first language)
3 ways to donate Donate by PAYPAL or KOFI or THRONE
8:00 or 8:10 PM CDT generally time to go to bank or store before it closes (9:00 or 9:10 cst)
Meds :$65 for son’s hormones, $150 for week of Calli's meds or $540 for a months worth. Meds are half-off on mondays
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per h
June 16 update
Can't possibly help carrying water today cause im in incredible pain and we haven't got any money except for a class I gave yesterday I would love to get my medication so I can be more functional and in less pain, water so we can shower AND WE NEED TO REPLACE THE INSULIN THAT SPOILED BECAUSE OF THE BLACKOUT PLEASE!!!!
update june 15 night
Got water for today, we still need help with testosterone, meds, our daughter's gender affirming haircut and water tomorrow until the water supply starts again, I'm sorry we still don't know how long this shortage will be
UPDATES Jun 11
we're back home but [father in law] keeps pressing and screaming, we had to take refuge in the mold room with our kids, he kept screaming at me outside the room until way past 3am idk how safe we are with him around the worst is we have to check before going out of the room to either go eat/drink or if we need to use the restroom we also ran out of water, we can't flush the toilet or wash our hands he made my partner, his son, fall down after he pulled his cane from him, now his ankle hurts we have had no peace since we came back still unsure what we'll do we don't want to leave our home
June 10: we're still in need of help to afford breakfast, taxis and any extra support, our housing situation is still in the air things got pretty bad here idk what prompted this my partner is
chingaderitaJune update Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too. 😔 I'm so sorry
May 23May 13, May 12
my last post, last emergency june 5 version of last thread before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
My artist friend Calli needs money for OVERDUE RENT Son's hrt , chronic illness medicine, taking care of family and and more (also had food trouble), and cat food and diabetic in-laws./ Spanish lessons also offered, . They have boosted many other people’s own fundraisers in solidarity. may 23 update they usually earn $12 a day from spanish lessons
my last post on this blog, my last post on other blog while shadowbanned last emergency june 5 version of post before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
chingaderita June update
Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too.
😔 I'm so sorry
Thank you all who helped Barely make the overdue rent but now being asked for Junes rent.
Commissions
1)A friend has offered to help them raise funds to keep them afloat if you're interested in art commissions.
Friend is taking time off to finish commissions and rest
2)EDIT Update from May 3rd : dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Latest update
June 7
Hola, just updating that we're safe still at the hotel, we overslept after managing to fall asleep around 5-6am
I made a call to my partner back home, he says it might be better if we stay here one more day or even two
Right now our kids have only eaten cookies and I need to either buy food here or get them something ready to eat since there is no kitchen in the room.
The room tonight is $110 considering paypal fees, i might just order a pizza for them I can eat the pineapple out of it
We got some donations while we were asleep, thank you
$150/$300
maybe a haircut for our girl since her grandpa managed to cut off some strands of hair in his attempt of making her a boy again fucking monster
June 01
Wanted to update that we did indeed make the goal just barely on time but if course now he is pressuring us to pay june
Thank you though, we got some space to breathe with food, bills paid, just got to afford a binder and some testosterone but that is a more achievable goal
Or try to get the mold repairs but that's too much idk
[June 01} 6:18 PM [CDT]
May 23 May 13, May 12
May 1, 2026, 01:52:55 PM (Friday) “Still trying to afford testosterone and my meds Need help getting adult diapers, my partner hurt his back so bad he can’t stand up. No one here has the strength to lift him. Uh… Might also need help taking him to the doctor.”
Below past documentation of blog posts and background info, along with vouching transcript.
still has debilitating tooth pain. put on hold due to flue emegency
New bed as mentioned above
need money to deep-clean house so safe for MIL return post-surgery (mold still here)
Repairs for toilet needed
Son suffering dysphoria
Nov 23 My eldest son had one of the worst nights in his life. All I can say is we managed to keep him safe through the night, he is safe at home. He thought he could keep raw dogging his dysphoria but he clearly needs to start HRT and transitioning. He is very avoidant of asking for anything because knows we barely get the money for food and other basics. I don't want to lose my son because of money. I want him to have access to a happy life. What if I'm not there next time to stop him?"
about medicine
quote
"Usually I would just endure until next week to try to get my meds but every time I go without them I notice I don't last as much as before until I have to make a run to the hospital. [I remember their hospitalization, it was really scary]... I needed $125 to get them [monday] half price but every other day I need $250... We need $50 to take our eldest to the doctor for an abdominal pain after carrying grandma. $35 for the laundromat. $300 to cover food expenses for all 9 of us and the cats. $110 for my healthcare renewal. Everything else for clean supplies and other necessities....
Transcript: vouched for by transgendz
transgendz is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45
"I can vouch for Calli @chingaderita! Ive known the family for several years now and they’ve consistently shown proof, was vetted by Kyra on my request when they first messaged, I’m quite sure, the search function on blogs is just awful and I’m having a hard time finding such an old post. But I talk to Calli often, we’ve had conversations in English and Spanish, and everything they say tracks with the proof provided. I just thought I’d say something bc I know you’ve been helping them too. Thank you for all you do.
About Calli
Calli, is a nonbinary parent dealing with chronic illness, chronic pain, unemployment and severe depression taking care of children, in-laws, and rescue cats . Calli is a kind person constantly boosting other people’s campaigns despite their families situation and limited time at compute cafes Calli in posts has discussed: has tumors, problems with gallbladder and liver, chronic joint pain. And a horrible pain in jaw that
We really need meds soon, has not been able to afford them in weeks, and we don’t want another hospitalization
“My gallbladder and liver need constant medication to not get further fucked up, I have a bunch of untreated tumor/growths I hope my healthcare will deal with at some point, I have chronic pain which affects my hips, back and left leg and sometimes my leg dislocates at random, just this August I’ve had two periods in less than 28 days, this is a common occurrence almost every month, and I’ve been dealing with teeth pain so intense it causes headaches, hurts my jaw, neck and now I have pain inside my right ear I suspect it’s related to my teeth pain.”
Summary of problems overall
dec29 It's late, I'm exhausted, haven't had a good night sleep in ages. We have a bunch of chronic panic, chronic illnesses, the most able bodied at home is probably me even tho my left leg dislocates at random, my left leg has jolts of pain at random too and my gallbladder and liver are actively trying to kill me. Oh, did I forget to mention the tumor and the many growths on my legs? Or the tooth pain I still have, I need that molar removed or im going to do it myself. Just, help us get a bed, the one we got is too moldy I'm tired of having to cover it with plastic so we can take turns to sleep on it at floor level. Also, urgently need funds to get my son the his next appointment at the trans clinic see if we can get him HRT or we'll have to get him DIY. We need to get more adult diapers too considering all the mobility issues our elderly are going through. If I dare to ask also for $10 so I can get nuggets and a treat for our son, he turned 9yo 2 days ago and he just wanted some nuggets please.
*They have been helping boost many campaigns, gaza and otherwise (and have asked me to boost these three while their internet is unreliable):
(1) AHMED’S [campaign] IS VERY FORGOTTEN, PLEASE, KEEP SHARING!!! – @/chingaderita on Tumblr 2)Donate to Trapped Family in Gaza Appeals for Help to Survive, organized by Abdallah Alanqar
(3) Hani €5,688/€25,000 – @/chingaderita on Tumblr
“We really REALLY need help with the court fees and paperwork [get done before aAugust.], we just want to ensure our kids will be safe from my family in case I die, due to my deteriorating health.”
now Personal health problems
Sep 7 tooth pain, Couldn’t rest with this damn tooth pain pain pain soainIsbsk,ndl .zlz
Maybe I should have added this to the main body of the post but I’m on my second period in less than 30 days, cause my liver and gallbladder trying to kill me isn’t enough I have many tumors growing in different parts of my body.
Latest post aug 24
Thank you I did pay my healthcare!!! I was hoping with the extra I could get my meds but we ended up using it for food and taking my MiL to the hospital because of gastrointestinal pain, she had to stay under supervision for a whole night and is scheduled for more tests on Tuesday. We’re pushing her healthcare services to schedule her for a gastroenterologist as soon as possible, she has been unable to eat which has been a terrible combination with her diabetes. Can we ask for help affording her ensure bottles so she can at least eat that? We’ll need to do something about the humidity and mold soon, we get trapped in the rooms often, last night it took us over an hour to be able to reopen a door even with both my partner and me pushing. We need to get adult diapers btw. Please, anything helps!!!!
You know, it’s real nice that we got help to pay the vet bills and help my kid keep his cat safe and healthy but wow. It is obvious we do not matter at all. The moment our cat needed help we got the goals, both times But I’ve been trying to get my meds for weeks or months at a time and nothing. It’s real hard not to fucking cry
I know it’s hard for everyone but please, keep sharing, anything ANYTHING helps. We’ve been getting a bit of food and paying little by little what we owe at the corner store but the upcoming card payment is $190 and my meds are $130 and then let’s not forget my healthcare renewal. I also bring bad news, we’re starting with water shortages just like last year, we’ve gone from having 4 days of water a week to 1-2 if we’re lucky. Our only toilet is busted and there are 9 people here who use it. My kid still needs attention for a UTI he’s had for a couple of months now. And my partner has 3 ingrown nails and 2 big cuts on his feet he’s kept unattended for weeks. I’d hate to up the goal but we need every help we can get!!
more documentation from 2023.
Went back on my blog to find proof of the fire where my in-laws lost everything, this other one with pictures and proof that I’ve been sick and struggling to get my medication since August 2023. Just felt like having things organized and maybe make another blog to keep all proof I can save since we lost a lot of information and pictures/videos when we sold our phones and lost the computer.
1d
Nothing so far, I'm so sorry for being pushy, we did use our last pesos to buy a couple fuses because we lost power since last night but we didn't notice it was just us until this morning 😔
We need insulin, water, testosterone and food please 🙇
We couldn't get nothing today, not water, not insulin, no testosterone.
Emergency: Help my friend Calli (@chingaderita) survive lack of water, replacing moldy insulin , violence, and get meds and T-shots for son! ✅Vetted below.
I knoe what its like to live in a hotel, please help
✅vetting: vouched for by @/transgendz who is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45 (pictures below). transcript below cut
And another campaign vouching, (ignore misgendering as English not first language)
3 ways to donate Donate by PAYPAL or KOFI or THRONE
8:00 or 8:10 PM CDT generally time to go to bank or store before it closes (9:00 or 9:10 cst)
Meds :$65 for son’s hormones, $150 for week of Calli's meds or $540 for a months worth. Meds are half-off on mondays
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per h
June 16 update
Can't possibly help carrying water today cause im in incredible pain and we haven't got any money except for a class I gave yesterday I would love to get my medication so I can be more functional and in less pain, water so we can shower AND WE NEED TO REPLACE THE INSULIN THAT SPOILED BECAUSE OF THE BLACKOUT PLEASE!!!!
update june 15 night
Got water for today, we still need help with testosterone, meds, our daughter's gender affirming haircut and water tomorrow until the water supply starts again, I'm sorry we still don't know how long this shortage will be
UPDATES Jun 11
we're back home but [father in law] keeps pressing and screaming, we had to take refuge in the mold room with our kids, he kept screaming at me outside the room until way past 3am idk how safe we are with him around the worst is we have to check before going out of the room to either go eat/drink or if we need to use the restroom we also ran out of water, we can't flush the toilet or wash our hands he made my partner, his son, fall down after he pulled his cane from him, now his ankle hurts we have had no peace since we came back still unsure what we'll do we don't want to leave our home
June 10: we're still in need of help to afford breakfast, taxis and any extra support, our housing situation is still in the air things got pretty bad here idk what prompted this my partner is
chingaderitaJune update Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too. 😔 I'm so sorry
May 23May 13, May 12
my last post, last emergency june 5 version of last thread before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
My artist friend Calli needs money for OVERDUE RENT Son's hrt , chronic illness medicine, taking care of family and and more (also had food trouble), and cat food and diabetic in-laws./ Spanish lessons also offered, . They have boosted many other people’s own fundraisers in solidarity. may 23 update they usually earn $12 a day from spanish lessons
my last post on this blog, my last post on other blog while shadowbanned last emergency june 5 version of post before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
chingaderita June update
Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too.
😔 I'm so sorry
Thank you all who helped Barely make the overdue rent but now being asked for Junes rent.
Commissions
1)A friend has offered to help them raise funds to keep them afloat if you're interested in art commissions.
Friend is taking time off to finish commissions and rest
2)EDIT Update from May 3rd : dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Latest update
June 7
Hola, just updating that we're safe still at the hotel, we overslept after managing to fall asleep around 5-6am
I made a call to my partner back home, he says it might be better if we stay here one more day or even two
Right now our kids have only eaten cookies and I need to either buy food here or get them something ready to eat since there is no kitchen in the room.
The room tonight is $110 considering paypal fees, i might just order a pizza for them I can eat the pineapple out of it
We got some donations while we were asleep, thank you
$150/$300
maybe a haircut for our girl since her grandpa managed to cut off some strands of hair in his attempt of making her a boy again fucking monster
June 01
Wanted to update that we did indeed make the goal just barely on time but if course now he is pressuring us to pay june
Thank you though, we got some space to breathe with food, bills paid, just got to afford a binder and some testosterone but that is a more achievable goal
Or try to get the mold repairs but that's too much idk
[June 01} 6:18 PM [CDT]
May 23 May 13, May 12
May 1, 2026, 01:52:55 PM (Friday) “Still trying to afford testosterone and my meds Need help getting adult diapers, my partner hurt his back so bad he can’t stand up. No one here has the strength to lift him. Uh… Might also need help taking him to the doctor.”
Below past documentation of blog posts and background info, along with vouching transcript.
still has debilitating tooth pain. put on hold due to flue emegency
New bed as mentioned above
need money to deep-clean house so safe for MIL return post-surgery (mold still here)
Repairs for toilet needed
Son suffering dysphoria
Nov 23 My eldest son had one of the worst nights in his life. All I can say is we managed to keep him safe through the night, he is safe at home. He thought he could keep raw dogging his dysphoria but he clearly needs to start HRT and transitioning. He is very avoidant of asking for anything because knows we barely get the money for food and other basics. I don't want to lose my son because of money. I want him to have access to a happy life. What if I'm not there next time to stop him?"
about medicine
quote
"Usually I would just endure until next week to try to get my meds but every time I go without them I notice I don't last as much as before until I have to make a run to the hospital. [I remember their hospitalization, it was really scary]... I needed $125 to get them [monday] half price but every other day I need $250... We need $50 to take our eldest to the doctor for an abdominal pain after carrying grandma. $35 for the laundromat. $300 to cover food expenses for all 9 of us and the cats. $110 for my healthcare renewal. Everything else for clean supplies and other necessities....
Transcript: vouched for by transgendz
transgendz is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45
"I can vouch for Calli @chingaderita! Ive known the family for several years now and they’ve consistently shown proof, was vetted by Kyra on my request when they first messaged, I’m quite sure, the search function on blogs is just awful and I’m having a hard time finding such an old post. But I talk to Calli often, we’ve had conversations in English and Spanish, and everything they say tracks with the proof provided. I just thought I’d say something bc I know you’ve been helping them too. Thank you for all you do.
About Calli
Calli, is a nonbinary parent dealing with chronic illness, chronic pain, unemployment and severe depression taking care of children, in-laws, and rescue cats . Calli is a kind person constantly boosting other people’s campaigns despite their families situation and limited time at compute cafes Calli in posts has discussed: has tumors, problems with gallbladder and liver, chronic joint pain. And a horrible pain in jaw that
We really need meds soon, has not been able to afford them in weeks, and we don’t want another hospitalization
“My gallbladder and liver need constant medication to not get further fucked up, I have a bunch of untreated tumor/growths I hope my healthcare will deal with at some point, I have chronic pain which affects my hips, back and left leg and sometimes my leg dislocates at random, just this August I’ve had two periods in less than 28 days, this is a common occurrence almost every month, and I’ve been dealing with teeth pain so intense it causes headaches, hurts my jaw, neck and now I have pain inside my right ear I suspect it’s related to my teeth pain.”
Summary of problems overall
dec29 It's late, I'm exhausted, haven't had a good night sleep in ages. We have a bunch of chronic panic, chronic illnesses, the most able bodied at home is probably me even tho my left leg dislocates at random, my left leg has jolts of pain at random too and my gallbladder and liver are actively trying to kill me. Oh, did I forget to mention the tumor and the many growths on my legs? Or the tooth pain I still have, I need that molar removed or im going to do it myself. Just, help us get a bed, the one we got is too moldy I'm tired of having to cover it with plastic so we can take turns to sleep on it at floor level. Also, urgently need funds to get my son the his next appointment at the trans clinic see if we can get him HRT or we'll have to get him DIY. We need to get more adult diapers too considering all the mobility issues our elderly are going through. If I dare to ask also for $10 so I can get nuggets and a treat for our son, he turned 9yo 2 days ago and he just wanted some nuggets please.
*They have been helping boost many campaigns, gaza and otherwise (and have asked me to boost these three while their internet is unreliable):
(1) AHMED’S [campaign] IS VERY FORGOTTEN, PLEASE, KEEP SHARING!!! – @/chingaderita on Tumblr 2)Donate to Trapped Family in Gaza Appeals for Help to Survive, organized by Abdallah Alanqar
(3) Hani €5,688/€25,000 – @/chingaderita on Tumblr
“We really REALLY need help with the court fees and paperwork [get done before aAugust.], we just want to ensure our kids will be safe from my family in case I die, due to my deteriorating health.”
now Personal health problems
Sep 7 tooth pain, Couldn’t rest with this damn tooth pain pain pain soainIsbsk,ndl .zlz
Maybe I should have added this to the main body of the post but I’m on my second period in less than 30 days, cause my liver and gallbladder trying to kill me isn’t enough I have many tumors growing in different parts of my body.
Latest post aug 24
Thank you I did pay my healthcare!!! I was hoping with the extra I could get my meds but we ended up using it for food and taking my MiL to the hospital because of gastrointestinal pain, she had to stay under supervision for a whole night and is scheduled for more tests on Tuesday. We’re pushing her healthcare services to schedule her for a gastroenterologist as soon as possible, she has been unable to eat which has been a terrible combination with her diabetes. Can we ask for help affording her ensure bottles so she can at least eat that? We’ll need to do something about the humidity and mold soon, we get trapped in the rooms often, last night it took us over an hour to be able to reopen a door even with both my partner and me pushing. We need to get adult diapers btw. Please, anything helps!!!!
You know, it’s real nice that we got help to pay the vet bills and help my kid keep his cat safe and healthy but wow. It is obvious we do not matter at all. The moment our cat needed help we got the goals, both times But I’ve been trying to get my meds for weeks or months at a time and nothing. It’s real hard not to fucking cry
I know it’s hard for everyone but please, keep sharing, anything ANYTHING helps. We’ve been getting a bit of food and paying little by little what we owe at the corner store but the upcoming card payment is $190 and my meds are $130 and then let’s not forget my healthcare renewal. I also bring bad news, we’re starting with water shortages just like last year, we’ve gone from having 4 days of water a week to 1-2 if we’re lucky. Our only toilet is busted and there are 9 people here who use it. My kid still needs attention for a UTI he’s had for a couple of months now. And my partner has 3 ingrown nails and 2 big cuts on his feet he’s kept unattended for weeks. I’d hate to up the goal but we need every help we can get!!
more documentation from 2023.
Went back on my blog to find proof of the fire where my in-laws lost everything, this other one with pictures and proof that I’ve been sick and struggling to get my medication since August 2023. Just felt like having things organized and maybe make another blog to keep all proof I can save since we lost a lot of information and pictures/videos when we sold our phones and lost the computer.
1d
Nothing so far, I'm so sorry for being pushy, we did use our last pesos to buy a couple fuses because we lost power since last night but we didn't notice it was just us until this morning 😔
We need insulin, water, testosterone and food please 🙇
We couldn't get nothing today, not water, not insulin, no testosterone.
Emergency: Help my friend Calli (@chingaderita) survive lack of water, replacing moldy insulin , violence, and get meds and T-shots for son! ✅Vetted below.
I knoe what its like to live in a hotel, please help
✅vetting: vouched for by @/transgendz who is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45 (pictures below). transcript below cut
And another campaign vouching, (ignore misgendering as English not first language)
3 ways to donate Donate by PAYPAL or KOFI or THRONE
8:00 or 8:10 PM CDT generally time to go to bank or store before it closes (9:00 or 9:10 cst)
Meds :$65 for son’s hormones, $150 for week of Calli's meds or $540 for a months worth. Meds are half-off on mondays
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per h
June 16 update
Can't possibly help carrying water today cause im in incredible pain and we haven't got any money except for a class I gave yesterday I would love to get my medication so I can be more functional and in less pain, water so we can shower AND WE NEED TO REPLACE THE INSULIN THAT SPOILED BECAUSE OF THE BLACKOUT PLEASE!!!!
update june 15 night
Got water for today, we still need help with testosterone, meds, our daughter's gender affirming haircut and water tomorrow until the water supply starts again, I'm sorry we still don't know how long this shortage will be
UPDATES Jun 11
we're back home but [father in law] keeps pressing and screaming, we had to take refuge in the mold room with our kids, he kept screaming at me outside the room until way past 3am idk how safe we are with him around the worst is we have to check before going out of the room to either go eat/drink or if we need to use the restroom we also ran out of water, we can't flush the toilet or wash our hands he made my partner, his son, fall down after he pulled his cane from him, now his ankle hurts we have had no peace since we came back still unsure what we'll do we don't want to leave our home
June 10: we're still in need of help to afford breakfast, taxis and any extra support, our housing situation is still in the air things got pretty bad here idk what prompted this my partner is
chingaderitaJune update Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too. 😔 I'm so sorry
May 23May 13, May 12
my last post, last emergency june 5 version of last thread before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
My artist friend Calli needs money for OVERDUE RENT Son's hrt , chronic illness medicine, taking care of family and and more (also had food trouble), and cat food and diabetic in-laws./ Spanish lessons also offered, . They have boosted many other people’s own fundraisers in solidarity. may 23 update they usually earn $12 a day from spanish lessons
my last post on this blog, my last post on other blog while shadowbanned last emergency june 5 version of post before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
chingaderita June update
Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too.
😔 I'm so sorry
Thank you all who helped Barely make the overdue rent but now being asked for Junes rent.
Commissions
1)A friend has offered to help them raise funds to keep them afloat if you're interested in art commissions.
Friend is taking time off to finish commissions and rest
2)EDIT Update from May 3rd : dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Latest update
June 7
Hola, just updating that we're safe still at the hotel, we overslept after managing to fall asleep around 5-6am
I made a call to my partner back home, he says it might be better if we stay here one more day or even two
Right now our kids have only eaten cookies and I need to either buy food here or get them something ready to eat since there is no kitchen in the room.
The room tonight is $110 considering paypal fees, i might just order a pizza for them I can eat the pineapple out of it
We got some donations while we were asleep, thank you
$150/$300
maybe a haircut for our girl since her grandpa managed to cut off some strands of hair in his attempt of making her a boy again fucking monster
June 01
Wanted to update that we did indeed make the goal just barely on time but if course now he is pressuring us to pay june
Thank you though, we got some space to breathe with food, bills paid, just got to afford a binder and some testosterone but that is a more achievable goal
Or try to get the mold repairs but that's too much idk
[June 01} 6:18 PM [CDT]
May 23 May 13, May 12
May 1, 2026, 01:52:55 PM (Friday) “Still trying to afford testosterone and my meds Need help getting adult diapers, my partner hurt his back so bad he can’t stand up. No one here has the strength to lift him. Uh… Might also need help taking him to the doctor.”
Below past documentation of blog posts and background info, along with vouching transcript.
still has debilitating tooth pain. put on hold due to flue emegency
New bed as mentioned above
need money to deep-clean house so safe for MIL return post-surgery (mold still here)
Repairs for toilet needed
Son suffering dysphoria
Nov 23 My eldest son had one of the worst nights in his life. All I can say is we managed to keep him safe through the night, he is safe at home. He thought he could keep raw dogging his dysphoria but he clearly needs to start HRT and transitioning. He is very avoidant of asking for anything because knows we barely get the money for food and other basics. I don't want to lose my son because of money. I want him to have access to a happy life. What if I'm not there next time to stop him?"
about medicine
quote
"Usually I would just endure until next week to try to get my meds but every time I go without them I notice I don't last as much as before until I have to make a run to the hospital. [I remember their hospitalization, it was really scary]... I needed $125 to get them [monday] half price but every other day I need $250... We need $50 to take our eldest to the doctor for an abdominal pain after carrying grandma. $35 for the laundromat. $300 to cover food expenses for all 9 of us and the cats. $110 for my healthcare renewal. Everything else for clean supplies and other necessities....
Transcript: vouched for by transgendz
transgendz is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45
"I can vouch for Calli @chingaderita! Ive known the family for several years now and they’ve consistently shown proof, was vetted by Kyra on my request when they first messaged, I’m quite sure, the search function on blogs is just awful and I’m having a hard time finding such an old post. But I talk to Calli often, we’ve had conversations in English and Spanish, and everything they say tracks with the proof provided. I just thought I’d say something bc I know you’ve been helping them too. Thank you for all you do.
About Calli
Calli, is a nonbinary parent dealing with chronic illness, chronic pain, unemployment and severe depression taking care of children, in-laws, and rescue cats . Calli is a kind person constantly boosting other people’s campaigns despite their families situation and limited time at compute cafes Calli in posts has discussed: has tumors, problems with gallbladder and liver, chronic joint pain. And a horrible pain in jaw that
We really need meds soon, has not been able to afford them in weeks, and we don’t want another hospitalization
“My gallbladder and liver need constant medication to not get further fucked up, I have a bunch of untreated tumor/growths I hope my healthcare will deal with at some point, I have chronic pain which affects my hips, back and left leg and sometimes my leg dislocates at random, just this August I’ve had two periods in less than 28 days, this is a common occurrence almost every month, and I’ve been dealing with teeth pain so intense it causes headaches, hurts my jaw, neck and now I have pain inside my right ear I suspect it’s related to my teeth pain.”
Summary of problems overall
dec29 It's late, I'm exhausted, haven't had a good night sleep in ages. We have a bunch of chronic panic, chronic illnesses, the most able bodied at home is probably me even tho my left leg dislocates at random, my left leg has jolts of pain at random too and my gallbladder and liver are actively trying to kill me. Oh, did I forget to mention the tumor and the many growths on my legs? Or the tooth pain I still have, I need that molar removed or im going to do it myself. Just, help us get a bed, the one we got is too moldy I'm tired of having to cover it with plastic so we can take turns to sleep on it at floor level. Also, urgently need funds to get my son the his next appointment at the trans clinic see if we can get him HRT or we'll have to get him DIY. We need to get more adult diapers too considering all the mobility issues our elderly are going through. If I dare to ask also for $10 so I can get nuggets and a treat for our son, he turned 9yo 2 days ago and he just wanted some nuggets please.
*They have been helping boost many campaigns, gaza and otherwise (and have asked me to boost these three while their internet is unreliable):
(1) AHMED’S [campaign] IS VERY FORGOTTEN, PLEASE, KEEP SHARING!!! – @/chingaderita on Tumblr 2)Donate to Trapped Family in Gaza Appeals for Help to Survive, organized by Abdallah Alanqar
(3) Hani €5,688/€25,000 – @/chingaderita on Tumblr
“We really REALLY need help with the court fees and paperwork [get done before aAugust.], we just want to ensure our kids will be safe from my family in case I die, due to my deteriorating health.”
now Personal health problems
Sep 7 tooth pain, Couldn’t rest with this damn tooth pain pain pain soainIsbsk,ndl .zlz
Maybe I should have added this to the main body of the post but I’m on my second period in less than 30 days, cause my liver and gallbladder trying to kill me isn’t enough I have many tumors growing in different parts of my body.
Latest post aug 24
Thank you I did pay my healthcare!!! I was hoping with the extra I could get my meds but we ended up using it for food and taking my MiL to the hospital because of gastrointestinal pain, she had to stay under supervision for a whole night and is scheduled for more tests on Tuesday. We’re pushing her healthcare services to schedule her for a gastroenterologist as soon as possible, she has been unable to eat which has been a terrible combination with her diabetes. Can we ask for help affording her ensure bottles so she can at least eat that? We’ll need to do something about the humidity and mold soon, we get trapped in the rooms often, last night it took us over an hour to be able to reopen a door even with both my partner and me pushing. We need to get adult diapers btw. Please, anything helps!!!!
You know, it’s real nice that we got help to pay the vet bills and help my kid keep his cat safe and healthy but wow. It is obvious we do not matter at all. The moment our cat needed help we got the goals, both times But I’ve been trying to get my meds for weeks or months at a time and nothing. It’s real hard not to fucking cry
I know it’s hard for everyone but please, keep sharing, anything ANYTHING helps. We’ve been getting a bit of food and paying little by little what we owe at the corner store but the upcoming card payment is $190 and my meds are $130 and then let’s not forget my healthcare renewal. I also bring bad news, we’re starting with water shortages just like last year, we’ve gone from having 4 days of water a week to 1-2 if we’re lucky. Our only toilet is busted and there are 9 people here who use it. My kid still needs attention for a UTI he’s had for a couple of months now. And my partner has 3 ingrown nails and 2 big cuts on his feet he’s kept unattended for weeks. I’d hate to up the goal but we need every help we can get!!
more documentation from 2023.
Went back on my blog to find proof of the fire where my in-laws lost everything, this other one with pictures and proof that I’ve been sick and struggling to get my medication since August 2023. Just felt like having things organized and maybe make another blog to keep all proof I can save since we lost a lot of information and pictures/videos when we sold our phones and lost the computer.
1d
Nothing so far, I'm so sorry for being pushy, we did use our last pesos to buy a couple fuses because we lost power since last night but we didn't notice it was just us until this morning 😔
We need insulin, water, testosterone and food please 🙇
We couldn't get nothing today, not water, not insulin, no testosterone.
Emergency: Help my friend Calli (@chingaderita) survive lack of water, replacing moldy insulin , violence, and get meds and T-shots for son! ✅Vetted below.
I knoe what its like to live in a hotel, please help
✅vetting: vouched for by @/transgendz who is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45 (pictures below). transcript below cut
And another campaign vouching, (ignore misgendering as English not first language)
3 ways to donate Donate by PAYPAL or KOFI or THRONE
8:00 or 8:10 PM CDT generally time to go to bank or store before it closes (9:00 or 9:10 cst)
Meds :$65 for son’s hormones, $150 for week of Calli's meds or $540 for a months worth. Meds are half-off on mondays
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per h
June 16 update
Can't possibly help carrying water today cause im in incredible pain and we haven't got any money except for a class I gave yesterday I would love to get my medication so I can be more functional and in less pain, water so we can shower AND WE NEED TO REPLACE THE INSULIN THAT SPOILED BECAUSE OF THE BLACKOUT PLEASE!!!!
update june 15 night
Got water for today, we still need help with testosterone, meds, our daughter's gender affirming haircut and water tomorrow until the water supply starts again, I'm sorry we still don't know how long this shortage will be
UPDATES Jun 11
we're back home but [father in law] keeps pressing and screaming, we had to take refuge in the mold room with our kids, he kept screaming at me outside the room until way past 3am idk how safe we are with him around the worst is we have to check before going out of the room to either go eat/drink or if we need to use the restroom we also ran out of water, we can't flush the toilet or wash our hands he made my partner, his son, fall down after he pulled his cane from him, now his ankle hurts we have had no peace since we came back still unsure what we'll do we don't want to leave our home
June 10: we're still in need of help to afford breakfast, taxis and any extra support, our housing situation is still in the air things got pretty bad here idk what prompted this my partner is
chingaderitaJune update Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too. 😔 I'm so sorry
May 23May 13, May 12
my last post, last emergency june 5 version of last thread before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
My artist friend Calli needs money for OVERDUE RENT Son's hrt , chronic illness medicine, taking care of family and and more (also had food trouble), and cat food and diabetic in-laws./ Spanish lessons also offered, . They have boosted many other people’s own fundraisers in solidarity. may 23 update they usually earn $12 a day from spanish lessons
my last post on this blog, my last post on other blog while shadowbanned last emergency june 5 version of post before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
chingaderita June update
Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too.
😔 I'm so sorry
Thank you all who helped Barely make the overdue rent but now being asked for Junes rent.
Commissions
1)A friend has offered to help them raise funds to keep them afloat if you're interested in art commissions.
Friend is taking time off to finish commissions and rest
2)EDIT Update from May 3rd : dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Latest update
June 7
Hola, just updating that we're safe still at the hotel, we overslept after managing to fall asleep around 5-6am
I made a call to my partner back home, he says it might be better if we stay here one more day or even two
Right now our kids have only eaten cookies and I need to either buy food here or get them something ready to eat since there is no kitchen in the room.
The room tonight is $110 considering paypal fees, i might just order a pizza for them I can eat the pineapple out of it
We got some donations while we were asleep, thank you
$150/$300
maybe a haircut for our girl since her grandpa managed to cut off some strands of hair in his attempt of making her a boy again fucking monster
June 01
Wanted to update that we did indeed make the goal just barely on time but if course now he is pressuring us to pay june
Thank you though, we got some space to breathe with food, bills paid, just got to afford a binder and some testosterone but that is a more achievable goal
Or try to get the mold repairs but that's too much idk
[June 01} 6:18 PM [CDT]
May 23 May 13, May 12
May 1, 2026, 01:52:55 PM (Friday) “Still trying to afford testosterone and my meds Need help getting adult diapers, my partner hurt his back so bad he can’t stand up. No one here has the strength to lift him. Uh… Might also need help taking him to the doctor.”
Below past documentation of blog posts and background info, along with vouching transcript.
still has debilitating tooth pain. put on hold due to flue emegency
New bed as mentioned above
need money to deep-clean house so safe for MIL return post-surgery (mold still here)
Repairs for toilet needed
Son suffering dysphoria
Nov 23 My eldest son had one of the worst nights in his life. All I can say is we managed to keep him safe through the night, he is safe at home. He thought he could keep raw dogging his dysphoria but he clearly needs to start HRT and transitioning. He is very avoidant of asking for anything because knows we barely get the money for food and other basics. I don't want to lose my son because of money. I want him to have access to a happy life. What if I'm not there next time to stop him?"
about medicine
quote
"Usually I would just endure until next week to try to get my meds but every time I go without them I notice I don't last as much as before until I have to make a run to the hospital. [I remember their hospitalization, it was really scary]... I needed $125 to get them [monday] half price but every other day I need $250... We need $50 to take our eldest to the doctor for an abdominal pain after carrying grandma. $35 for the laundromat. $300 to cover food expenses for all 9 of us and the cats. $110 for my healthcare renewal. Everything else for clean supplies and other necessities....
Transcript: vouched for by transgendz
transgendz is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45
"I can vouch for Calli @chingaderita! Ive known the family for several years now and they’ve consistently shown proof, was vetted by Kyra on my request when they first messaged, I’m quite sure, the search function on blogs is just awful and I’m having a hard time finding such an old post. But I talk to Calli often, we’ve had conversations in English and Spanish, and everything they say tracks with the proof provided. I just thought I’d say something bc I know you’ve been helping them too. Thank you for all you do.
About Calli
Calli, is a nonbinary parent dealing with chronic illness, chronic pain, unemployment and severe depression taking care of children, in-laws, and rescue cats . Calli is a kind person constantly boosting other people’s campaigns despite their families situation and limited time at compute cafes Calli in posts has discussed: has tumors, problems with gallbladder and liver, chronic joint pain. And a horrible pain in jaw that
We really need meds soon, has not been able to afford them in weeks, and we don’t want another hospitalization
“My gallbladder and liver need constant medication to not get further fucked up, I have a bunch of untreated tumor/growths I hope my healthcare will deal with at some point, I have chronic pain which affects my hips, back and left leg and sometimes my leg dislocates at random, just this August I’ve had two periods in less than 28 days, this is a common occurrence almost every month, and I’ve been dealing with teeth pain so intense it causes headaches, hurts my jaw, neck and now I have pain inside my right ear I suspect it’s related to my teeth pain.”
Summary of problems overall
dec29 It's late, I'm exhausted, haven't had a good night sleep in ages. We have a bunch of chronic panic, chronic illnesses, the most able bodied at home is probably me even tho my left leg dislocates at random, my left leg has jolts of pain at random too and my gallbladder and liver are actively trying to kill me. Oh, did I forget to mention the tumor and the many growths on my legs? Or the tooth pain I still have, I need that molar removed or im going to do it myself. Just, help us get a bed, the one we got is too moldy I'm tired of having to cover it with plastic so we can take turns to sleep on it at floor level. Also, urgently need funds to get my son the his next appointment at the trans clinic see if we can get him HRT or we'll have to get him DIY. We need to get more adult diapers too considering all the mobility issues our elderly are going through. If I dare to ask also for $10 so I can get nuggets and a treat for our son, he turned 9yo 2 days ago and he just wanted some nuggets please.
*They have been helping boost many campaigns, gaza and otherwise (and have asked me to boost these three while their internet is unreliable):
(1) AHMED’S [campaign] IS VERY FORGOTTEN, PLEASE, KEEP SHARING!!! – @/chingaderita on Tumblr 2)Donate to Trapped Family in Gaza Appeals for Help to Survive, organized by Abdallah Alanqar
(3) Hani €5,688/€25,000 – @/chingaderita on Tumblr
“We really REALLY need help with the court fees and paperwork [get done before aAugust.], we just want to ensure our kids will be safe from my family in case I die, due to my deteriorating health.”
now Personal health problems
Sep 7 tooth pain, Couldn’t rest with this damn tooth pain pain pain soainIsbsk,ndl .zlz
Maybe I should have added this to the main body of the post but I’m on my second period in less than 30 days, cause my liver and gallbladder trying to kill me isn’t enough I have many tumors growing in different parts of my body.
Latest post aug 24
Thank you I did pay my healthcare!!! I was hoping with the extra I could get my meds but we ended up using it for food and taking my MiL to the hospital because of gastrointestinal pain, she had to stay under supervision for a whole night and is scheduled for more tests on Tuesday. We’re pushing her healthcare services to schedule her for a gastroenterologist as soon as possible, she has been unable to eat which has been a terrible combination with her diabetes. Can we ask for help affording her ensure bottles so she can at least eat that? We’ll need to do something about the humidity and mold soon, we get trapped in the rooms often, last night it took us over an hour to be able to reopen a door even with both my partner and me pushing. We need to get adult diapers btw. Please, anything helps!!!!
You know, it’s real nice that we got help to pay the vet bills and help my kid keep his cat safe and healthy but wow. It is obvious we do not matter at all. The moment our cat needed help we got the goals, both times But I’ve been trying to get my meds for weeks or months at a time and nothing. It’s real hard not to fucking cry
I know it’s hard for everyone but please, keep sharing, anything ANYTHING helps. We’ve been getting a bit of food and paying little by little what we owe at the corner store but the upcoming card payment is $190 and my meds are $130 and then let’s not forget my healthcare renewal. I also bring bad news, we’re starting with water shortages just like last year, we’ve gone from having 4 days of water a week to 1-2 if we’re lucky. Our only toilet is busted and there are 9 people here who use it. My kid still needs attention for a UTI he’s had for a couple of months now. And my partner has 3 ingrown nails and 2 big cuts on his feet he’s kept unattended for weeks. I’d hate to up the goal but we need every help we can get!!
more documentation from 2023.
Went back on my blog to find proof of the fire where my in-laws lost everything, this other one with pictures and proof that I’ve been sick and struggling to get my medication since August 2023. Just felt like having things organized and maybe make another blog to keep all proof I can save since we lost a lot of information and pictures/videos when we sold our phones and lost the computer.
1d
Nothing so far, I'm so sorry for being pushy, we did use our last pesos to buy a couple fuses because we lost power since last night but we didn't notice it was just us until this morning 😔
We need insulin, water, testosterone and food please 🙇
We couldn't get nothing today, not water, not insulin, no testosterone.
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Emergency: Help my friend Calli (@chingaderita) survive lack of water, replacing moldy insulin , violence, and get meds and T-shots for son! ✅Vetted below.
I knoe what its like to live in a hotel, please help
✅vetting: vouched for by @/transgendz who is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45 (pictures below). transcript below cut
And another campaign vouching, (ignore misgendering as English not first language)
3 ways to donate Donate by PAYPAL or KOFI or THRONE
8:00 or 8:10 PM CDT generally time to go to bank or store before it closes (9:00 or 9:10 cst)
Meds :$65 for son’s hormones, $150 for week of Calli's meds or $540 for a months worth. Meds are half-off on mondays
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per h
June 16 update
Can't possibly help carrying water today cause im in incredible pain and we haven't got any money except for a class I gave yesterday I would love to get my medication so I can be more functional and in less pain, water so we can shower AND WE NEED TO REPLACE THE INSULIN THAT SPOILED BECAUSE OF THE BLACKOUT PLEASE!!!!
update june 15 night
Got water for today, we still need help with testosterone, meds, our daughter's gender affirming haircut and water tomorrow until the water supply starts again, I'm sorry we still don't know how long this shortage will be
UPDATES Jun 11
we're back home but [father in law] keeps pressing and screaming, we had to take refuge in the mold room with our kids, he kept screaming at me outside the room until way past 3am idk how safe we are with him around the worst is we have to check before going out of the room to either go eat/drink or if we need to use the restroom we also ran out of water, we can't flush the toilet or wash our hands he made my partner, his son, fall down after he pulled his cane from him, now his ankle hurts we have had no peace since we came back still unsure what we'll do we don't want to leave our home
June 10: we're still in need of help to afford breakfast, taxis and any extra support, our housing situation is still in the air things got pretty bad here idk what prompted this my partner is
chingaderitaJune update Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too. 😔 I'm so sorry
May 23May 13, May 12
my last post, last emergency june 5 version of last thread before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
My artist friend Calli needs money for OVERDUE RENT Son's hrt , chronic illness medicine, taking care of family and and more (also had food trouble), and cat food and diabetic in-laws./ Spanish lessons also offered, . They have boosted many other people’s own fundraisers in solidarity. may 23 update they usually earn $12 a day from spanish lessons
my last post on this blog, my last post on other blog while shadowbanned last emergency june 5 version of post before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
chingaderita June update
Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too.
😔 I'm so sorry
Thank you all who helped Barely make the overdue rent but now being asked for Junes rent.
Commissions
1)A friend has offered to help them raise funds to keep them afloat if you're interested in art commissions.
Friend is taking time off to finish commissions and rest
2)EDIT Update from May 3rd : dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Latest update
June 7
Hola, just updating that we're safe still at the hotel, we overslept after managing to fall asleep around 5-6am
I made a call to my partner back home, he says it might be better if we stay here one more day or even two
Right now our kids have only eaten cookies and I need to either buy food here or get them something ready to eat since there is no kitchen in the room.
The room tonight is $110 considering paypal fees, i might just order a pizza for them I can eat the pineapple out of it
We got some donations while we were asleep, thank you
$150/$300
maybe a haircut for our girl since her grandpa managed to cut off some strands of hair in his attempt of making her a boy again fucking monster
June 01
Wanted to update that we did indeed make the goal just barely on time but if course now he is pressuring us to pay june
Thank you though, we got some space to breathe with food, bills paid, just got to afford a binder and some testosterone but that is a more achievable goal
Or try to get the mold repairs but that's too much idk
[June 01} 6:18 PM [CDT]
May 23 May 13, May 12
May 1, 2026, 01:52:55 PM (Friday) “Still trying to afford testosterone and my meds Need help getting adult diapers, my partner hurt his back so bad he can’t stand up. No one here has the strength to lift him. Uh… Might also need help taking him to the doctor.”
Below past documentation of blog posts and background info, along with vouching transcript.
still has debilitating tooth pain. put on hold due to flue emegency
New bed as mentioned above
need money to deep-clean house so safe for MIL return post-surgery (mold still here)
Repairs for toilet needed
Son suffering dysphoria
Nov 23 My eldest son had one of the worst nights in his life. All I can say is we managed to keep him safe through the night, he is safe at home. He thought he could keep raw dogging his dysphoria but he clearly needs to start HRT and transitioning. He is very avoidant of asking for anything because knows we barely get the money for food and other basics. I don't want to lose my son because of money. I want him to have access to a happy life. What if I'm not there next time to stop him?"
about medicine
quote
"Usually I would just endure until next week to try to get my meds but every time I go without them I notice I don't last as much as before until I have to make a run to the hospital. [I remember their hospitalization, it was really scary]... I needed $125 to get them [monday] half price but every other day I need $250... We need $50 to take our eldest to the doctor for an abdominal pain after carrying grandma. $35 for the laundromat. $300 to cover food expenses for all 9 of us and the cats. $110 for my healthcare renewal. Everything else for clean supplies and other necessities....
Transcript: vouched for by transgendz
transgendz is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45
"I can vouch for Calli @chingaderita! Ive known the family for several years now and they’ve consistently shown proof, was vetted by Kyra on my request when they first messaged, I’m quite sure, the search function on blogs is just awful and I’m having a hard time finding such an old post. But I talk to Calli often, we’ve had conversations in English and Spanish, and everything they say tracks with the proof provided. I just thought I’d say something bc I know you’ve been helping them too. Thank you for all you do.
About Calli
Calli, is a nonbinary parent dealing with chronic illness, chronic pain, unemployment and severe depression taking care of children, in-laws, and rescue cats . Calli is a kind person constantly boosting other people’s campaigns despite their families situation and limited time at compute cafes Calli in posts has discussed: has tumors, problems with gallbladder and liver, chronic joint pain. And a horrible pain in jaw that
We really need meds soon, has not been able to afford them in weeks, and we don’t want another hospitalization
“My gallbladder and liver need constant medication to not get further fucked up, I have a bunch of untreated tumor/growths I hope my healthcare will deal with at some point, I have chronic pain which affects my hips, back and left leg and sometimes my leg dislocates at random, just this August I’ve had two periods in less than 28 days, this is a common occurrence almost every month, and I’ve been dealing with teeth pain so intense it causes headaches, hurts my jaw, neck and now I have pain inside my right ear I suspect it’s related to my teeth pain.”
Summary of problems overall
dec29 It's late, I'm exhausted, haven't had a good night sleep in ages. We have a bunch of chronic panic, chronic illnesses, the most able bodied at home is probably me even tho my left leg dislocates at random, my left leg has jolts of pain at random too and my gallbladder and liver are actively trying to kill me. Oh, did I forget to mention the tumor and the many growths on my legs? Or the tooth pain I still have, I need that molar removed or im going to do it myself. Just, help us get a bed, the one we got is too moldy I'm tired of having to cover it with plastic so we can take turns to sleep on it at floor level. Also, urgently need funds to get my son the his next appointment at the trans clinic see if we can get him HRT or we'll have to get him DIY. We need to get more adult diapers too considering all the mobility issues our elderly are going through. If I dare to ask also for $10 so I can get nuggets and a treat for our son, he turned 9yo 2 days ago and he just wanted some nuggets please.
*They have been helping boost many campaigns, gaza and otherwise (and have asked me to boost these three while their internet is unreliable):
(1) AHMED’S [campaign] IS VERY FORGOTTEN, PLEASE, KEEP SHARING!!! – @/chingaderita on Tumblr 2)Donate to Trapped Family in Gaza Appeals for Help to Survive, organized by Abdallah Alanqar
(3) Hani €5,688/€25,000 – @/chingaderita on Tumblr
“We really REALLY need help with the court fees and paperwork [get done before aAugust.], we just want to ensure our kids will be safe from my family in case I die, due to my deteriorating health.”
now Personal health problems
Sep 7 tooth pain, Couldn’t rest with this damn tooth pain pain pain soainIsbsk,ndl .zlz
Maybe I should have added this to the main body of the post but I’m on my second period in less than 30 days, cause my liver and gallbladder trying to kill me isn’t enough I have many tumors growing in different parts of my body.
Latest post aug 24
Thank you I did pay my healthcare!!! I was hoping with the extra I could get my meds but we ended up using it for food and taking my MiL to the hospital because of gastrointestinal pain, she had to stay under supervision for a whole night and is scheduled for more tests on Tuesday. We’re pushing her healthcare services to schedule her for a gastroenterologist as soon as possible, she has been unable to eat which has been a terrible combination with her diabetes. Can we ask for help affording her ensure bottles so she can at least eat that? We’ll need to do something about the humidity and mold soon, we get trapped in the rooms often, last night it took us over an hour to be able to reopen a door even with both my partner and me pushing. We need to get adult diapers btw. Please, anything helps!!!!
You know, it’s real nice that we got help to pay the vet bills and help my kid keep his cat safe and healthy but wow. It is obvious we do not matter at all. The moment our cat needed help we got the goals, both times But I’ve been trying to get my meds for weeks or months at a time and nothing. It’s real hard not to fucking cry
I know it’s hard for everyone but please, keep sharing, anything ANYTHING helps. We’ve been getting a bit of food and paying little by little what we owe at the corner store but the upcoming card payment is $190 and my meds are $130 and then let’s not forget my healthcare renewal. I also bring bad news, we’re starting with water shortages just like last year, we’ve gone from having 4 days of water a week to 1-2 if we’re lucky. Our only toilet is busted and there are 9 people here who use it. My kid still needs attention for a UTI he’s had for a couple of months now. And my partner has 3 ingrown nails and 2 big cuts on his feet he’s kept unattended for weeks. I’d hate to up the goal but we need every help we can get!!
more documentation from 2023.
Went back on my blog to find proof of the fire where my in-laws lost everything, this other one with pictures and proof that I’ve been sick and struggling to get my medication since August 2023. Just felt like having things organized and maybe make another blog to keep all proof I can save since we lost a lot of information and pictures/videos when we sold our phones and lost the computer.
1d
Nothing so far, I'm so sorry for being pushy, we did use our last pesos to buy a couple fuses because we lost power since last night but we didn't notice it was just us until this morning 😔
We need insulin, water, testosterone and food please 🙇
We couldn't get nothing today, not water, not insulin, no testosterone.
it's the final day again for ammar's injection and my hopes are, bluntly, extremely slim.
we didn't even manage to raise the money for his immune globulin injection last week, and we are now, on top of that, about $1k in debt to the doctor for the iv fluids he had to take for that.
that has to be paid for in conjunction with his urgent digoxin injection, which he will die without, which means the minimum amount we have to raise by tuesday 4 pm gaza time is $2,129.
i am really not feeling optimistic, because we had to urgently evacuate the family last week from israel's active bombing and no one cared enough to contribute almost any donation at all, even as small as $5 - only a small handful of people chipped in.
if we don't get this money before the end of tuesday, ammar will need over $6k, as it will include an intensive injection on top of everything we already have to pay
and i know we're not going to get that, so really what will happen is he will die
i don't know what i can say to convince you to help keep him alive, but i beg you not to let israel successfully kill him
thank you to the people who donated - we did raise enough in order to purchase ammar's digoxin injection
however, because we didn't pay for the iv fluids debt, we won't be able to borrow any in advance should we fail to raise funds for the immune globulin injection
the deadline for this is 10 am wednesday gaza time, or about 10 and a half hours from now. this would let us remain on time
we need to reach $3114 in order to have raised enough for both the immune globulin injection and the debt we owe, aka $1959 more
please help ammar. we can't just not pay for this, and he will be in great danger without medicine to support his condition should we be unable to raise his injection in time
3)Pride pins offered! with proof of donation! by seasnicker
4) Flowerpawarts has compiled a huge list of similar artists providing incentives for vetted
Verification below
samah’s original campaign and account are shared by 90-ghost, but it was shut down as her organiser’s bank account was deactivated. 90-ghost is a Palestinian blogger who tries to find and support legitimate campaigns.
proof samah asked @murderbot use his paypal / ko-fi account here or here (backup repost)
Please share/reblog, and maybe donate if you can. DM @/helponeandall if want to be removed @canwriteitbetterthanueverfeltit
I'm Yusri Abu Al-Khair, a father of 5. Medical reports confirm a severe injury to my right forearm with a completely severed ulnar nerve/artery and severed finger tendons, causing severe muscle atrophy.
Every dollar and share brings us closer to saving his life. Please don't pass by without helping or sharing our relief link. Our survival depends on your support. 🙏💔 #Gaza #Donate #MutualAid (2/2) Relief Link 👇 https://chuffed.org/project/149226-urgent-relief-for-the-al-khair-family
Emergency: Help my friend Calli (@chingaderita) survive lack of water, replacing moldy insulin , violence, and get meds and T-shots for son! ✅Vetted below.
I knoe what its like to live in a hotel, please help
✅vetting: vouched for by @/transgendz who is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45 (pictures below). transcript below cut
And another campaign vouching, (ignore misgendering as English not first language)
3 ways to donate Donate by PAYPAL or KOFI or THRONE
8:00 or 8:10 PM CDT generally time to go to bank or store before it closes (9:00 or 9:10 cst)
Meds :$65 for son’s hormones, $150 for week of Calli's meds or $540 for a months worth. Meds are half-off on mondays
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per h
June 16 update
Can't possibly help carrying water today cause im in incredible pain and we haven't got any money except for a class I gave yesterday I would love to get my medication so I can be more functional and in less pain, water so we can shower AND WE NEED TO REPLACE THE INSULIN THAT SPOILED BECAUSE OF THE BLACKOUT PLEASE!!!!
update june 15 night
Got water for today, we still need help with testosterone, meds, our daughter's gender affirming haircut and water tomorrow until the water supply starts again, I'm sorry we still don't know how long this shortage will be
UPDATES Jun 11
we're back home but [father in law] keeps pressing and screaming, we had to take refuge in the mold room with our kids, he kept screaming at me outside the room until way past 3am idk how safe we are with him around the worst is we have to check before going out of the room to either go eat/drink or if we need to use the restroom we also ran out of water, we can't flush the toilet or wash our hands he made my partner, his son, fall down after he pulled his cane from him, now his ankle hurts we have had no peace since we came back still unsure what we'll do we don't want to leave our home
June 10: we're still in need of help to afford breakfast, taxis and any extra support, our housing situation is still in the air things got pretty bad here idk what prompted this my partner is
chingaderitaJune update Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too. 😔 I'm so sorry
May 23May 13, May 12
my last post, last emergency june 5 version of last thread before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
My artist friend Calli needs money for OVERDUE RENT Son's hrt , chronic illness medicine, taking care of family and and more (also had food trouble), and cat food and diabetic in-laws./ Spanish lessons also offered, . They have boosted many other people’s own fundraisers in solidarity. may 23 update they usually earn $12 a day from spanish lessons
my last post on this blog, my last post on other blog while shadowbanned last emergency june 5 version of post before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
chingaderita June update
Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too.
😔 I'm so sorry
Thank you all who helped Barely make the overdue rent but now being asked for Junes rent.
Commissions
1)A friend has offered to help them raise funds to keep them afloat if you're interested in art commissions.
Friend is taking time off to finish commissions and rest
2)EDIT Update from May 3rd : dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Latest update
June 7
Hola, just updating that we're safe still at the hotel, we overslept after managing to fall asleep around 5-6am
I made a call to my partner back home, he says it might be better if we stay here one more day or even two
Right now our kids have only eaten cookies and I need to either buy food here or get them something ready to eat since there is no kitchen in the room.
The room tonight is $110 considering paypal fees, i might just order a pizza for them I can eat the pineapple out of it
We got some donations while we were asleep, thank you
$150/$300
maybe a haircut for our girl since her grandpa managed to cut off some strands of hair in his attempt of making her a boy again fucking monster
June 01
Wanted to update that we did indeed make the goal just barely on time but if course now he is pressuring us to pay june
Thank you though, we got some space to breathe with food, bills paid, just got to afford a binder and some testosterone but that is a more achievable goal
Or try to get the mold repairs but that's too much idk
[June 01} 6:18 PM [CDT]
May 23 May 13, May 12
May 1, 2026, 01:52:55 PM (Friday) “Still trying to afford testosterone and my meds Need help getting adult diapers, my partner hurt his back so bad he can’t stand up. No one here has the strength to lift him. Uh… Might also need help taking him to the doctor.”
Below past documentation of blog posts and background info, along with vouching transcript.
still has debilitating tooth pain. put on hold due to flue emegency
New bed as mentioned above
need money to deep-clean house so safe for MIL return post-surgery (mold still here)
Repairs for toilet needed
Son suffering dysphoria
Nov 23 My eldest son had one of the worst nights in his life. All I can say is we managed to keep him safe through the night, he is safe at home. He thought he could keep raw dogging his dysphoria but he clearly needs to start HRT and transitioning. He is very avoidant of asking for anything because knows we barely get the money for food and other basics. I don't want to lose my son because of money. I want him to have access to a happy life. What if I'm not there next time to stop him?"
about medicine
quote
"Usually I would just endure until next week to try to get my meds but every time I go without them I notice I don't last as much as before until I have to make a run to the hospital. [I remember their hospitalization, it was really scary]... I needed $125 to get them [monday] half price but every other day I need $250... We need $50 to take our eldest to the doctor for an abdominal pain after carrying grandma. $35 for the laundromat. $300 to cover food expenses for all 9 of us and the cats. $110 for my healthcare renewal. Everything else for clean supplies and other necessities....
Transcript: vouched for by transgendz
transgendz is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45
"I can vouch for Calli @chingaderita! Ive known the family for several years now and they’ve consistently shown proof, was vetted by Kyra on my request when they first messaged, I’m quite sure, the search function on blogs is just awful and I’m having a hard time finding such an old post. But I talk to Calli often, we’ve had conversations in English and Spanish, and everything they say tracks with the proof provided. I just thought I’d say something bc I know you’ve been helping them too. Thank you for all you do.
About Calli
Calli, is a nonbinary parent dealing with chronic illness, chronic pain, unemployment and severe depression taking care of children, in-laws, and rescue cats . Calli is a kind person constantly boosting other people’s campaigns despite their families situation and limited time at compute cafes Calli in posts has discussed: has tumors, problems with gallbladder and liver, chronic joint pain. And a horrible pain in jaw that
We really need meds soon, has not been able to afford them in weeks, and we don’t want another hospitalization
“My gallbladder and liver need constant medication to not get further fucked up, I have a bunch of untreated tumor/growths I hope my healthcare will deal with at some point, I have chronic pain which affects my hips, back and left leg and sometimes my leg dislocates at random, just this August I’ve had two periods in less than 28 days, this is a common occurrence almost every month, and I’ve been dealing with teeth pain so intense it causes headaches, hurts my jaw, neck and now I have pain inside my right ear I suspect it’s related to my teeth pain.”
Summary of problems overall
dec29 It's late, I'm exhausted, haven't had a good night sleep in ages. We have a bunch of chronic panic, chronic illnesses, the most able bodied at home is probably me even tho my left leg dislocates at random, my left leg has jolts of pain at random too and my gallbladder and liver are actively trying to kill me. Oh, did I forget to mention the tumor and the many growths on my legs? Or the tooth pain I still have, I need that molar removed or im going to do it myself. Just, help us get a bed, the one we got is too moldy I'm tired of having to cover it with plastic so we can take turns to sleep on it at floor level. Also, urgently need funds to get my son the his next appointment at the trans clinic see if we can get him HRT or we'll have to get him DIY. We need to get more adult diapers too considering all the mobility issues our elderly are going through. If I dare to ask also for $10 so I can get nuggets and a treat for our son, he turned 9yo 2 days ago and he just wanted some nuggets please.
*They have been helping boost many campaigns, gaza and otherwise (and have asked me to boost these three while their internet is unreliable):
(1) AHMED’S [campaign] IS VERY FORGOTTEN, PLEASE, KEEP SHARING!!! – @/chingaderita on Tumblr 2)Donate to Trapped Family in Gaza Appeals for Help to Survive, organized by Abdallah Alanqar
(3) Hani €5,688/€25,000 – @/chingaderita on Tumblr
“We really REALLY need help with the court fees and paperwork [get done before aAugust.], we just want to ensure our kids will be safe from my family in case I die, due to my deteriorating health.”
now Personal health problems
Sep 7 tooth pain, Couldn’t rest with this damn tooth pain pain pain soainIsbsk,ndl .zlz
Maybe I should have added this to the main body of the post but I’m on my second period in less than 30 days, cause my liver and gallbladder trying to kill me isn’t enough I have many tumors growing in different parts of my body.
Latest post aug 24
Thank you I did pay my healthcare!!! I was hoping with the extra I could get my meds but we ended up using it for food and taking my MiL to the hospital because of gastrointestinal pain, she had to stay under supervision for a whole night and is scheduled for more tests on Tuesday. We’re pushing her healthcare services to schedule her for a gastroenterologist as soon as possible, she has been unable to eat which has been a terrible combination with her diabetes. Can we ask for help affording her ensure bottles so she can at least eat that? We’ll need to do something about the humidity and mold soon, we get trapped in the rooms often, last night it took us over an hour to be able to reopen a door even with both my partner and me pushing. We need to get adult diapers btw. Please, anything helps!!!!
You know, it’s real nice that we got help to pay the vet bills and help my kid keep his cat safe and healthy but wow. It is obvious we do not matter at all. The moment our cat needed help we got the goals, both times But I’ve been trying to get my meds for weeks or months at a time and nothing. It’s real hard not to fucking cry
I know it’s hard for everyone but please, keep sharing, anything ANYTHING helps. We’ve been getting a bit of food and paying little by little what we owe at the corner store but the upcoming card payment is $190 and my meds are $130 and then let’s not forget my healthcare renewal. I also bring bad news, we’re starting with water shortages just like last year, we’ve gone from having 4 days of water a week to 1-2 if we’re lucky. Our only toilet is busted and there are 9 people here who use it. My kid still needs attention for a UTI he’s had for a couple of months now. And my partner has 3 ingrown nails and 2 big cuts on his feet he’s kept unattended for weeks. I’d hate to up the goal but we need every help we can get!!
more documentation from 2023.
Went back on my blog to find proof of the fire where my in-laws lost everything, this other one with pictures and proof that I’ve been sick and struggling to get my medication since August 2023. Just felt like having things organized and maybe make another blog to keep all proof I can save since we lost a lot of information and pictures/videos when we sold our phones and lost the computer.
1d
Nothing so far, I'm so sorry for being pushy, we did use our last pesos to buy a couple fuses because we lost power since last night but we didn't notice it was just us until this morning 😔
We need insulin, water, testosterone and food please 🙇
We couldn't get nothing today, not water, not insulin, no testosterone.
it's the final day again for ammar's injection and my hopes are, bluntly, extremely slim.
we didn't even manage to raise the money for his immune globulin injection last week, and we are now, on top of that, about $1k in debt to the doctor for the iv fluids he had to take for that.
that has to be paid for in conjunction with his urgent digoxin injection, which he will die without, which means the minimum amount we have to raise by tuesday 4 pm gaza time is $2,129.
i am really not feeling optimistic, because we had to urgently evacuate the family last week from israel's active bombing and no one cared enough to contribute almost any donation at all, even as small as $5 - only a small handful of people chipped in.
if we don't get this money before the end of tuesday, ammar will need over $6k, as it will include an intensive injection on top of everything we already have to pay
and i know we're not going to get that, so really what will happen is he will die
i don't know what i can say to convince you to help keep him alive, but i beg you not to let israel successfully kill him
thank you to the people who donated - we did raise enough in order to purchase ammar's digoxin injection
however, because we didn't pay for the iv fluids debt, we won't be able to borrow any in advance should we fail to raise funds for the immune globulin injection
the deadline for this is 10 am wednesday gaza time, or about 10 and a half hours from now. this would let us remain on time
we need to reach $3114 in order to have raised enough for both the immune globulin injection and the debt we owe, aka $1959 more
please help ammar. we can't just not pay for this, and he will be in great danger without medicine to support his condition should we be unable to raise his injection in time
3)Pride pins offered! with proof of donation! by seasnicker
4) Flowerpawarts has compiled a huge list of similar artists providing incentives for vetted
Verification below
samah’s original campaign and account are shared by 90-ghost, but it was shut down as her organiser’s bank account was deactivated. 90-ghost is a Palestinian blogger who tries to find and support legitimate campaigns.
proof samah asked @murderbot use his paypal / ko-fi account here or here (backup repost)
Please share/reblog, and maybe donate if you can. DM @/helponeandall if want to be removed @canwriteitbetterthanueverfeltit
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it's the final day again for ammar's injection and my hopes are, bluntly, extremely slim.
we didn't even manage to raise the money for his immune globulin injection last week, and we are now, on top of that, about $1k in debt to the doctor for the iv fluids he had to take for that.
that has to be paid for in conjunction with his urgent digoxin injection, which he will die without, which means the minimum amount we have to raise by tuesday 4 pm gaza time is $2,129.
i am really not feeling optimistic, because we had to urgently evacuate the family last week from israel's active bombing and no one cared enough to contribute almost any donation at all, even as small as $5 - only a small handful of people chipped in.
if we don't get this money before the end of tuesday, ammar will need over $6k, as it will include an intensive injection on top of everything we already have to pay
and i know we're not going to get that, so really what will happen is he will die
i don't know what i can say to convince you to help keep him alive, but i beg you not to let israel successfully kill him
thank you to the people who donated - we did raise enough in order to purchase ammar's digoxin injection
however, because we didn't pay for the iv fluids debt, we won't be able to borrow any in advance should we fail to raise funds for the immune globulin injection
the deadline for this is 10 am wednesday gaza time, or about 10 and a half hours from now. this would let us remain on time
we need to reach $3114 in order to have raised enough for both the immune globulin injection and the debt we owe, aka $1959 more
please help ammar. we can't just not pay for this, and he will be in great danger without medicine to support his condition should we be unable to raise his injection in time
3)Pride pins offered! with proof of donation! by seasnicker
4) Flowerpawarts has compiled a huge list of similar artists providing incentives for vetted
Verification below
samah’s original campaign and account are shared by 90-ghost, but it was shut down as her organiser’s bank account was deactivated. 90-ghost is a Palestinian blogger who tries to find and support legitimate campaigns.
proof samah asked @murderbot use his paypal / ko-fi account here or here (backup repost)
Please share/reblog, and maybe donate if you can. DM @/helponeandall if want to be removed @canwriteitbetterthanueverfeltit
So just in case you don't want to scroll through the previous post: we have a car and our landlord fixed both of refrigerator and our freezer, but unfortunately we're still kind of short of food, we managed to get one of the car repairs done and another seems to have sorted itself out, but we have a pressing need to get $3000 in more immediate repairs done and get one of our side doors fixed at around $750, and I had a potential breast cancer scare/my daughter has had issues getting her root canal scheduled and the other dentists won't do their work without that being done.
So first off, the potential breast cancer situation: whatever it was with the first mammogram that concerned the imaging specialist is benign according to the second mammogram! I need to have a mammogram every year now, but yes. Very good news! So please take this as a friendly reminder to check your breasts monthly for lumps and get your mammograms whenever your doctor says you need them (and the self-exams should be done by everyone regardless of sex, because breast cancer affects men and women). Also good health news: my daughter finally saw her GP after nearly a year and she's got her HRT sorted out a bit more plus she's on a new arthritis medication (same one I'm on) and we're hoping the med changes will help her be in less pain, root canal withstanding.
Also mostly good news: our car is running well enough, but we would like to get the two repairs that are $1500 each done as soon as we can, just because (IIRC) one issue is the timing belt and the other is the struts, and repairs are vastly less expensive than replacements. We can manage without getting the side door fixed for now, but anything we can put towards those two repairs and gas would be a huge help.
And last update: I talked to someone from Legal Aid Tuesday about the habitability issues (if our fridge goes out again and they refuse to fix/replace it I now know what legal recourse I have, and I may be able to get them to replace it after we get our recertification they send last week sorted because my mother is insulin dependent and her disability accommodation includes having a working fridge). They're going to have a separate attorney call about our recertification paperwork, but I am pretty sure they are no longer trying to kick us out, though it does look like we're on a month-to-month lease at the moment.
Here is the bad news:
I am currently $300 overdrawn and have a $300 loan due on the 3rd of June, though I'm going to try and see if I can get the loan payment broken down into payments (this was because of food issues since we had to throw away most of our food in the fridge before it got fixed/laptop repair costs). I would like to cover some of the overdraft if possible.
I also have a lot of smaller bills and such that I wasn't able to pay because of the overdraft (though a friend helped with my phone bill already). This includes my electric bill, of which I owe $124 currently (I can carry some of my bill over but at some point soon I need to make a big payment)
We still do not have a ton of perishable food since most of our food stamps had gone to restocking the non-perishable food we had to use up when the fridge wasn't working. We kind of need milk soon, but a huge help would be food from our Amazon wish list of just snacks and stuff we can eat in between meals as well as the boxed meal kits I can make by adding ground beef.
I still do not have possession of my laptop, which I was quoted would have been finished almost a week ago. So I'm kind of stuck not being able to do huge updates or update often because I have both psoriatic arthritis and carpal tunnel and it's been getting harder and harder using my phone or my laptop while I am in bed (fortunately we found a small side table a neighbor was discarding that I can use for my laptop once it's repaired so I can sit up and use a wrist rest and all that).
So yeah. If anyone can help immediately with the overdraft and the smaller bills (I think grand total $600 would cover everything) now and I can work towards the repairs as well as clearing out my remaining storage unit, that would take such a weight off my shoulders.
