update back from hotel had to flee to after Father in law got dangerous (a reblog of this thead by them)
β vetting:Β vouched for byΒ @/transgendzΒ who is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45 (pictures below). transcript below cut
And another campaign vouching, (ignore misgendering as English not first language)
3 ways Donate by πPAYPAL or πKOFI or πTHRONE
8:00Β orΒ 8:10Β PMΒ CDTΒ generally time to go to bank or store before it closes (9:00Β orΒ 9:10 cst) Meds :$65 for sonβs hormones, $150 for week of Calli's meds or $540 for a months worth.Β CaalisMeds are half-off on monday
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
UPDATES Jun 11
we're back home but [father in law] keeps pressing and screaming, we had to take refuge in the mold room with our kids, he kept screaming at me outside the room until way past 3am idk how safe we are with him around the worst is we have to check before going out of the room to either go eat/drink or if we need to use the restroom we also ran out of water, we can't flush the toilet or wash our hands he made my partner, his son, fall down after he pulled his cane from him, now his ankle hurts we have had no peace since we came back still unsure what we'll do we don't want to leave our home
June 10: we're still in need of help to afford breakfast, taxis and any extra support, our housing situation is still in the air things got pretty bad here idk what prompted this my partner is
chingaderitaJune update Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too. π I'm so sorry
May 23May 13, May 12
my last post, last emergencyΒ june 5 version of last thread before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
My artist friend Calli needs money for OVERDUE RENT Son's hrt , chronic illness medicine, taking care of family and and more (also had food trouble), and cat food and diabetic in-laws./ Spanish lessons also offered, . They have boosted many other peopleβs own fundraisers in solidarity. may 23 update they usually earn $12 a day from spanish lessons
s
Commissions and Classes
1)A friend has offered to help them raise funds to keep them afloat if you're interested in art commissions. Friend is taking time off to finish commissions and rest
2)EDIT Update from May 3rd : dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Below past documentation of blog posts and background info, along with vouching transcript.
May 1, 2026, 01:52:55 PM (Friday)Β βStill trying to afford testosterone and my meds Need help getting adult diapers, my partner hurt his back so bad he canβt stand up. No one here has the strength to lift him. Uhβ¦ Might also need help taking him to the doctor.β
still has debilitating tooth pain. put onΒ hold due to flue emegency
New bed as mentioned above
need money to deep-clean houseΒ so safeΒ for MIL return post-surgery (mold still here)
Repairs for toilet needed
Son suffering dysphoria
Nov 23 My eldest son had one of the worst nights in his life. All I can say is we managed to keep him safe through the night, he is safe at home. He thought he could keep raw dogging his dysphoria but he clearly needs to start HRT and transitioning. He is very avoidant of asking for anything because knows we barely get the money for food and other basics. I don't want to lose my son because of money. I want him to have access to a happy life. What if I'm not there next time to stop him?"
about medicine
quote
"Usually I would just endure until next week to try to get my meds but every time I go without them I notice I don't last as much as before until I have to make a run to the hospital. [I remember their hospitalization, it was really scary]... I needed $125 to get them [monday] half price but every other day I need $250... We need $50 to take our eldest to the doctor for an abdominal pain after carrying grandma. $35 for the laundromat. $300 to cover food expenses for all 9 of us and the cats. $110 for my healthcare renewal. Everything else for clean supplies and other necessities....
Transcript: vouched for by transgendz
transgendz is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45
"I can vouch for CalliΒ @chingaderita! Ive known the family for several years now and theyβve consistently shown proof, was vetted by Kyra on my request when they first messaged, Iβm quite sure, the search function on blogs is just awful and Iβm having a hard time finding such an old post. But I talk to Calli often, weβve had conversations in English and Spanish, and everything they say tracks with the proof provided. I just thought Iβd say something bc I know youβve been helping them too. Thank you for all you do.
About Calli
Calli, is a nonbinary parent dealing with chronic illness, chronic pain, unemployment and severe depression taking care of children, in-laws, and rescue cats . Calli is a kind person constantly boosting other peopleβs campaigns despite their families situation and limited time at compute cafes Calli in posts has discussed: has tumors, problems with gallbladder and liver, chronic joint pain. And a horrible pain in jaw that
We really need meds soon, has not been able to afford them in weeks, and we donβt want another hospitalization
βMyΒ gallbladder and liver need constant medication to not get further fucked up, I have a bunch of untreated tumor/growthsΒ I hope my healthcare will deal with at some point, IΒ have chronic pain which affects my hips, back and left leg and sometimes my leg dislocates at random,Β just this August Iβve had two periods in less than 28 days, this is a common occurrence almost every month, and Iβve beenΒ dealing with teeth pain so intense it causes headaches, hurts my jaw, neck and now I have pain inside my right ear I suspect itβs related to my teeth pain.β
Summary of problemsΒ overall
dec29 It's late, I'm exhausted, haven't had a good night sleep in ages. We have a bunch of chronic panic, chronic illnesses, the most able bodied at home is probably me even tho my left leg dislocates at random, my left leg has jolts of pain at random too and my gallbladder and liver are actively trying to kill me. Oh, did I forget to mention the tumor and the many growths on my legs? Or the tooth pain I still have, I need that molar removed or im going to do it myself. Just, help us get a bed, the one we got is too moldy I'm tired of having to cover it with plastic so we can take turns to sleep on it at floor level. Also, urgently need funds to get my son the his next appointment at the trans clinic see if we can get him HRT or we'll have to get him DIY. We need to get more adult diapers too considering all the mobility issues our elderly are going through. If I dare to ask also for $10 so I can get nuggets and a treat for our son, he turned 9yo 2 days ago and he just wanted some nuggets please.
*They have been helping boost many campaigns, gaza and otherwise (and have asked me to boost these three while their internet is unreliable):
(1) AHMEDβS [campaign] IS VERY FORGOTTEN, PLEASE, KEEP SHARING!!! βΒ @/chingaderitaΒ on TumblrΒ 2)Donate to Trapped Family in Gaza Appeals for Help to Survive, organized by Abdallah Alanqar
Β (3)Β HaniΒ β¬5,688/β¬25,000 βΒ @/chingaderitaΒ on Tumblr
βWe really REALLY need help with theΒ court fees and paperworkΒ [get done before aAugust.],Β we just want to ensure our kids will be safe from my family in case I die, due to my deteriorating health.β
now Personal health problems
Sep 7 tooth pain,Β Couldnβt rest with this damn tooth pain pain pain soainIsbsk,ndl .zlz
Maybe I should have added this to the main body of the post but Iβm on my second period in less than 30 days, cause my liver and gallbladder trying to kill me isnβt enough I have many tumors growing in different parts of my body.
Latest postΒ aug 24
Thank you I did pay my healthcare!!! I was hoping with the extra I could get my meds but we ended up using it for food and taking my MiL to the hospital because of gastrointestinal pain, she had to stay under supervision for a whole night and is scheduled for more tests on Tuesday. Weβre pushing her healthcare services to schedule her for a gastroenterologist as soon as possible, she has been unable to eat which has been a terrible combination with her diabetes. Can we ask for help affording her ensure bottles so she can at least eat that? Weβll need to do something about the humidity and mold soon, we get trapped in the rooms often, last night it took us over an hour to be able to reopen a door even with both my partner and me pushing. We need to get adult diapers btw.Β Please, anything helps!!!!
You know, itβs real nice that we got help to pay the vet bills andΒ helpΒ my kid keep his cat safe and healthy but wow. It is obvious we do not matter at all. The moment our cat needed help we got the goals, both times But Iβve been trying to get my meds for weeks or months at a time and nothing. Itβs real hard not to fucking cry
I know itβs hard for everyone but please, keep sharing, anything ANYTHING helps. Weβve been getting a bit of food and paying little by little what we owe at the corner store but the upcoming card payment is $190 and my meds are $130 and then letβs not forget my healthcare renewal. I also bring bad news, weβre starting with water shortages just like last year, weβve gone from having 4 days of water a week to 1-2 if weβre lucky.Β Our only toilet is busted and there are 9 people here who use it. My kid still needs attention for a UTI heβs had for a couple of months now. And my partner has 3 ingrown nails and 2 big cuts on his feet heβs kept unattended for weeks. Iβd hate to up the goal but we need every help we can get!!
more documentation from 2023.
Went back on my blog to findΒ proof of the fireΒ where my in-laws lost everything,Β this other one with picturesΒ and proof that Iβve been sick and struggling to get my medication sinceΒ August 2023. Just felt like having things organized and maybe make another blog to keep all proof I can save since we lost a lot of information and pictures/videos when we sold our phones and lost the computer.
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Need bottled water update back from hotel had to flee to after Father in law got dangerous (a reblog of this thead by them)
β vetting:Β vouched for byΒ @/transgendzΒ who is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45 (pictures below). transcript below cut
And another campaign vouching, (ignore misgendering as English not first language)
3 ways Donate by πPAYPAL or πKOFI or πTHRONE
8:00Β orΒ 8:10Β PMΒ CDTΒ generally time to go to bank or store before it closes (9:00Β orΒ 9:10 cst) Meds :$65 for sonβs hormones, $150 for week of Calli's meds or $540 for a months worth.Β CaalisMeds are half-off on monday
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
update june 15 night
Got water for today, we still need help with testosterone, meds, our daughter's gender affirming haircut and water tomorrow until the water supply starts again, I'm sorry we still don't know how long this shortage will be
UPDATES Jun 11
we're back home but [father in law] keeps pressing and screaming, we had to take refuge in the mold room with our kids, he kept screaming at me outside the room until way past 3am idk how safe we are with him around the worst is we have to check before going out of the room to either go eat/drink or if we need to use the restroom we also ran out of water, we can't flush the toilet or wash our hands he made my partner, his son, fall down after he pulled his cane from him, now his ankle hurts we have had no peace since we came back still unsure what we'll do we don't want to leave our home
June 10: we're still in need of help to afford breakfast, taxis and any extra support, our housing situation is still in the air things got pretty bad here idk what prompted this my partner is
chingaderitaJune update Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too. π I'm so sorry
May 23May 13, May 12
my last post, last emergencyΒ june 5 version of last thread before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
My artist friend Calli needs money for OVERDUE RENT Son's hrt , chronic illness medicine, taking care of family and and more (also had food trouble), and cat food and diabetic in-laws./ Spanish lessons also offered, . They have boosted many other peopleβs own fundraisers in solidarity. may 23 update they usually earn $12 a day from spanish lessons
s
Commissions and Classes
1)A friend has offered to help them raise funds to keep them afloat if you're interested in art commissions. Friend is taking time off to finish commissions and rest
2)EDIT Update from May 3rd : dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Below past documentation of blog posts and background info, along with vouching transcript.
May 1, 2026, 01:52:55 PM (Friday)Β βStill trying to afford testosterone and my meds Need help getting adult diapers, my partner hurt his back so bad he canβt stand up. No one here has the strength to lift him. Uhβ¦ Might also need help taking him to the doctor.β
still has debilitating tooth pain. put onΒ hold due to flue emegency
New bed as mentioned above
need money to deep-clean houseΒ so safeΒ for MIL return post-surgery (mold still here)
Repairs for toilet needed
Son suffering dysphoria
Nov 23 My eldest son had one of the worst nights in his life. All I can say is we managed to keep him safe through the night, he is safe at home. He thought he could keep raw dogging his dysphoria but he clearly needs to start HRT and transitioning. He is very avoidant of asking for anything because knows we barely get the money for food and other basics. I don't want to lose my son because of money. I want him to have access to a happy life. What if I'm not there next time to stop him?"
about medicine
quote
"Usually I would just endure until next week to try to get my meds but every time I go without them I notice I don't last as much as before until I have to make a run to the hospital. [I remember their hospitalization, it was really scary]... I needed $125 to get them [monday] half price but every other day I need $250... We need $50 to take our eldest to the doctor for an abdominal pain after carrying grandma. $35 for the laundromat. $300 to cover food expenses for all 9 of us and the cats. $110 for my healthcare renewal. Everything else for clean supplies and other necessities....
Transcript: vouched for by transgendz
transgendz is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45
"I can vouch for CalliΒ @chingaderita! Ive known the family for several years now and theyβve consistently shown proof, was vetted by Kyra on my request when they first messaged, Iβm quite sure, the search function on blogs is just awful and Iβm having a hard time finding such an old post. But I talk to Calli often, weβve had conversations in English and Spanish, and everything they say tracks with the proof provided. I just thought Iβd say something bc I know youβve been helping them too. Thank you for all you do.
About Calli
Calli, is a nonbinary parent dealing with chronic illness, chronic pain, unemployment and severe depression taking care of children, in-laws, and rescue cats . Calli is a kind person constantly boosting other peopleβs campaigns despite their families situation and limited time at compute cafes Calli in posts has discussed: has tumors, problems with gallbladder and liver, chronic joint pain. And a horrible pain in jaw that
We really need meds soon, has not been able to afford them in weeks, and we donβt want another hospitalization
βMyΒ gallbladder and liver need constant medication to not get further fucked up, I have a bunch of untreated tumor/growthsΒ I hope my healthcare will deal with at some point, IΒ have chronic pain which affects my hips, back and left leg and sometimes my leg dislocates at random,Β just this August Iβve had two periods in less than 28 days, this is a common occurrence almost every month, and Iβve beenΒ dealing with teeth pain so intense it causes headaches, hurts my jaw, neck and now I have pain inside my right ear I suspect itβs related to my teeth pain.β
Summary of problemsΒ overall
dec29 It's late, I'm exhausted, haven't had a good night sleep in ages. We have a bunch of chronic panic, chronic illnesses, the most able bodied at home is probably me even tho my left leg dislocates at random, my left leg has jolts of pain at random too and my gallbladder and liver are actively trying to kill me. Oh, did I forget to mention the tumor and the many growths on my legs? Or the tooth pain I still have, I need that molar removed or im going to do it myself. Just, help us get a bed, the one we got is too moldy I'm tired of having to cover it with plastic so we can take turns to sleep on it at floor level. Also, urgently need funds to get my son the his next appointment at the trans clinic see if we can get him HRT or we'll have to get him DIY. We need to get more adult diapers too considering all the mobility issues our elderly are going through. If I dare to ask also for $10 so I can get nuggets and a treat for our son, he turned 9yo 2 days ago and he just wanted some nuggets please.
*They have been helping boost many campaigns, gaza and otherwise (and have asked me to boost these three while their internet is unreliable):
(1) AHMEDβS [campaign] IS VERY FORGOTTEN, PLEASE, KEEP SHARING!!! βΒ @/chingaderitaΒ on TumblrΒ 2)Donate to Trapped Family in Gaza Appeals for Help to Survive, organized by Abdallah Alanqar
Β (3)Β HaniΒ β¬5,688/β¬25,000 βΒ @/chingaderitaΒ on Tumblr
βWe really REALLY need help with theΒ court fees and paperworkΒ [get done before aAugust.],Β we just want to ensure our kids will be safe from my family in case I die, due to my deteriorating health.β
now Personal health problems
Sep 7 tooth pain,Β Couldnβt rest with this damn tooth pain pain pain soainIsbsk,ndl .zlz
Maybe I should have added this to the main body of the post but Iβm on my second period in less than 30 days, cause my liver and gallbladder trying to kill me isnβt enough I have many tumors growing in different parts of my body.
Latest postΒ aug 24
Thank you I did pay my healthcare!!! I was hoping with the extra I could get my meds but we ended up using it for food and taking my MiL to the hospital because of gastrointestinal pain, she had to stay under supervision for a whole night and is scheduled for more tests on Tuesday. Weβre pushing her healthcare services to schedule her for a gastroenterologist as soon as possible, she has been unable to eat which has been a terrible combination with her diabetes. Can we ask for help affording her ensure bottles so she can at least eat that? Weβll need to do something about the humidity and mold soon, we get trapped in the rooms often, last night it took us over an hour to be able to reopen a door even with both my partner and me pushing. We need to get adult diapers btw.Β Please, anything helps!!!!
You know, itβs real nice that we got help to pay the vet bills andΒ helpΒ my kid keep his cat safe and healthy but wow. It is obvious we do not matter at all. The moment our cat needed help we got the goals, both times But Iβve been trying to get my meds for weeks or months at a time and nothing. Itβs real hard not to fucking cry
I know itβs hard for everyone but please, keep sharing, anything ANYTHING helps. Weβve been getting a bit of food and paying little by little what we owe at the corner store but the upcoming card payment is $190 and my meds are $130 and then letβs not forget my healthcare renewal. I also bring bad news, weβre starting with water shortages just like last year, weβve gone from having 4 days of water a week to 1-2 if weβre lucky.Β Our only toilet is busted and there are 9 people here who use it. My kid still needs attention for a UTI heβs had for a couple of months now. And my partner has 3 ingrown nails and 2 big cuts on his feet heβs kept unattended for weeks. Iβd hate to up the goal but we need every help we can get!!
more documentation from 2023.
Went back on my blog to findΒ proof of the fireΒ where my in-laws lost everything,Β this other one with picturesΒ and proof that Iβve been sick and struggling to get my medication sinceΒ August 2023. Just felt like having things organized and maybe make another blog to keep all proof I can save since we lost a lot of information and pictures/videos when we sold our phones and lost the computer.
Nothing so far, I'm so sorry for being pushy, we did use our last pesos to buy a couple fuses because we lost power since last night but we didn't notice it was just us until this morning π
We need insulin, water, testosterone and food please π
Need bottled water update back from hotel had to flee to after Father in law got dangerous (a reblog of this thead by them)
β vetting:Β vouched for byΒ @/transgendzΒ who is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45 (pictures below). transcript below cut
And another campaign vouching, (ignore misgendering as English not first language)
3 ways Donate by πPAYPAL or πKOFI or πTHRONE
8:00Β orΒ 8:10Β PMΒ CDTΒ generally time to go to bank or store before it closes (9:00Β orΒ 9:10 cst) Meds :$65 for sonβs hormones, $150 for week of Calli's meds or $540 for a months worth.Β CaalisMeds are half-off on monday
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
update june 15 night
Got water for today, we still need help with testosterone, meds, our daughter's gender affirming haircut and water tomorrow until the water supply starts again, I'm sorry we still don't know how long this shortage will be
UPDATES Jun 11
we're back home but [father in law] keeps pressing and screaming, we had to take refuge in the mold room with our kids, he kept screaming at me outside the room until way past 3am idk how safe we are with him around the worst is we have to check before going out of the room to either go eat/drink or if we need to use the restroom we also ran out of water, we can't flush the toilet or wash our hands he made my partner, his son, fall down after he pulled his cane from him, now his ankle hurts we have had no peace since we came back still unsure what we'll do we don't want to leave our home
June 10: we're still in need of help to afford breakfast, taxis and any extra support, our housing situation is still in the air things got pretty bad here idk what prompted this my partner is
chingaderitaJune update Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too. π I'm so sorry
May 23May 13, May 12
my last post, last emergencyΒ june 5 version of last thread before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
My artist friend Calli needs money for OVERDUE RENT Son's hrt , chronic illness medicine, taking care of family and and more (also had food trouble), and cat food and diabetic in-laws./ Spanish lessons also offered, . They have boosted many other peopleβs own fundraisers in solidarity. may 23 update they usually earn $12 a day from spanish lessons
s
Commissions and Classes
1)A friend has offered to help them raise funds to keep them afloat if you're interested in art commissions. Friend is taking time off to finish commissions and rest
2)EDIT Update from May 3rd : dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Below past documentation of blog posts and background info, along with vouching transcript.
May 1, 2026, 01:52:55 PM (Friday)Β βStill trying to afford testosterone and my meds Need help getting adult diapers, my partner hurt his back so bad he canβt stand up. No one here has the strength to lift him. Uhβ¦ Might also need help taking him to the doctor.β
still has debilitating tooth pain. put onΒ hold due to flue emegency
New bed as mentioned above
need money to deep-clean houseΒ so safeΒ for MIL return post-surgery (mold still here)
Repairs for toilet needed
Son suffering dysphoria
Nov 23 My eldest son had one of the worst nights in his life. All I can say is we managed to keep him safe through the night, he is safe at home. He thought he could keep raw dogging his dysphoria but he clearly needs to start HRT and transitioning. He is very avoidant of asking for anything because knows we barely get the money for food and other basics. I don't want to lose my son because of money. I want him to have access to a happy life. What if I'm not there next time to stop him?"
about medicine
quote
"Usually I would just endure until next week to try to get my meds but every time I go without them I notice I don't last as much as before until I have to make a run to the hospital. [I remember their hospitalization, it was really scary]... I needed $125 to get them [monday] half price but every other day I need $250... We need $50 to take our eldest to the doctor for an abdominal pain after carrying grandma. $35 for the laundromat. $300 to cover food expenses for all 9 of us and the cats. $110 for my healthcare renewal. Everything else for clean supplies and other necessities....
Transcript: vouched for by transgendz
transgendz is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45
"I can vouch for CalliΒ @chingaderita! Ive known the family for several years now and theyβve consistently shown proof, was vetted by Kyra on my request when they first messaged, Iβm quite sure, the search function on blogs is just awful and Iβm having a hard time finding such an old post. But I talk to Calli often, weβve had conversations in English and Spanish, and everything they say tracks with the proof provided. I just thought Iβd say something bc I know youβve been helping them too. Thank you for all you do.
About Calli
Calli, is a nonbinary parent dealing with chronic illness, chronic pain, unemployment and severe depression taking care of children, in-laws, and rescue cats . Calli is a kind person constantly boosting other peopleβs campaigns despite their families situation and limited time at compute cafes Calli in posts has discussed: has tumors, problems with gallbladder and liver, chronic joint pain. And a horrible pain in jaw that
We really need meds soon, has not been able to afford them in weeks, and we donβt want another hospitalization
βMyΒ gallbladder and liver need constant medication to not get further fucked up, I have a bunch of untreated tumor/growthsΒ I hope my healthcare will deal with at some point, IΒ have chronic pain which affects my hips, back and left leg and sometimes my leg dislocates at random,Β just this August Iβve had two periods in less than 28 days, this is a common occurrence almost every month, and Iβve beenΒ dealing with teeth pain so intense it causes headaches, hurts my jaw, neck and now I have pain inside my right ear I suspect itβs related to my teeth pain.β
Summary of problemsΒ overall
dec29 It's late, I'm exhausted, haven't had a good night sleep in ages. We have a bunch of chronic panic, chronic illnesses, the most able bodied at home is probably me even tho my left leg dislocates at random, my left leg has jolts of pain at random too and my gallbladder and liver are actively trying to kill me. Oh, did I forget to mention the tumor and the many growths on my legs? Or the tooth pain I still have, I need that molar removed or im going to do it myself. Just, help us get a bed, the one we got is too moldy I'm tired of having to cover it with plastic so we can take turns to sleep on it at floor level. Also, urgently need funds to get my son the his next appointment at the trans clinic see if we can get him HRT or we'll have to get him DIY. We need to get more adult diapers too considering all the mobility issues our elderly are going through. If I dare to ask also for $10 so I can get nuggets and a treat for our son, he turned 9yo 2 days ago and he just wanted some nuggets please.
*They have been helping boost many campaigns, gaza and otherwise (and have asked me to boost these three while their internet is unreliable):
(1) AHMEDβS [campaign] IS VERY FORGOTTEN, PLEASE, KEEP SHARING!!! βΒ @/chingaderitaΒ on TumblrΒ 2)Donate to Trapped Family in Gaza Appeals for Help to Survive, organized by Abdallah Alanqar
Β (3)Β HaniΒ β¬5,688/β¬25,000 βΒ @/chingaderitaΒ on Tumblr
βWe really REALLY need help with theΒ court fees and paperworkΒ [get done before aAugust.],Β we just want to ensure our kids will be safe from my family in case I die, due to my deteriorating health.β
now Personal health problems
Sep 7 tooth pain,Β Couldnβt rest with this damn tooth pain pain pain soainIsbsk,ndl .zlz
Maybe I should have added this to the main body of the post but Iβm on my second period in less than 30 days, cause my liver and gallbladder trying to kill me isnβt enough I have many tumors growing in different parts of my body.
Latest postΒ aug 24
Thank you I did pay my healthcare!!! I was hoping with the extra I could get my meds but we ended up using it for food and taking my MiL to the hospital because of gastrointestinal pain, she had to stay under supervision for a whole night and is scheduled for more tests on Tuesday. Weβre pushing her healthcare services to schedule her for a gastroenterologist as soon as possible, she has been unable to eat which has been a terrible combination with her diabetes. Can we ask for help affording her ensure bottles so she can at least eat that? Weβll need to do something about the humidity and mold soon, we get trapped in the rooms often, last night it took us over an hour to be able to reopen a door even with both my partner and me pushing. We need to get adult diapers btw.Β Please, anything helps!!!!
You know, itβs real nice that we got help to pay the vet bills andΒ helpΒ my kid keep his cat safe and healthy but wow. It is obvious we do not matter at all. The moment our cat needed help we got the goals, both times But Iβve been trying to get my meds for weeks or months at a time and nothing. Itβs real hard not to fucking cry
I know itβs hard for everyone but please, keep sharing, anything ANYTHING helps. Weβve been getting a bit of food and paying little by little what we owe at the corner store but the upcoming card payment is $190 and my meds are $130 and then letβs not forget my healthcare renewal. I also bring bad news, weβre starting with water shortages just like last year, weβve gone from having 4 days of water a week to 1-2 if weβre lucky.Β Our only toilet is busted and there are 9 people here who use it. My kid still needs attention for a UTI heβs had for a couple of months now. And my partner has 3 ingrown nails and 2 big cuts on his feet heβs kept unattended for weeks. Iβd hate to up the goal but we need every help we can get!!
more documentation from 2023.
Went back on my blog to findΒ proof of the fireΒ where my in-laws lost everything,Β this other one with picturesΒ and proof that Iβve been sick and struggling to get my medication sinceΒ August 2023. Just felt like having things organized and maybe make another blog to keep all proof I can save since we lost a lot of information and pictures/videos when we sold our phones and lost the computer.
Nothing so far, I'm so sorry for being pushy, we did use our last pesos to buy a couple fuses because we lost power since last night but we didn't notice it was just us until this morning π
We need insulin, water, testosterone and food please π
Need bottled water update back from hotel had to flee to after Father in law got dangerous (a reblog of this thead by them)
β vetting:Β vouched for byΒ @/transgendzΒ who is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45 (pictures below). transcript below cut
And another campaign vouching, (ignore misgendering as English not first language)
3 ways Donate by πPAYPAL or πKOFI or πTHRONE
8:00Β orΒ 8:10Β PMΒ CDTΒ generally time to go to bank or store before it closes (9:00Β orΒ 9:10 cst) Meds :$65 for sonβs hormones, $150 for week of Calli's meds or $540 for a months worth.Β CaalisMeds are half-off on monday
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
update june 15 night
Got water for today, we still need help with testosterone, meds, our daughter's gender affirming haircut and water tomorrow until the water supply starts again, I'm sorry we still don't know how long this shortage will be
UPDATES Jun 11
we're back home but [father in law] keeps pressing and screaming, we had to take refuge in the mold room with our kids, he kept screaming at me outside the room until way past 3am idk how safe we are with him around the worst is we have to check before going out of the room to either go eat/drink or if we need to use the restroom we also ran out of water, we can't flush the toilet or wash our hands he made my partner, his son, fall down after he pulled his cane from him, now his ankle hurts we have had no peace since we came back still unsure what we'll do we don't want to leave our home
June 10: we're still in need of help to afford breakfast, taxis and any extra support, our housing situation is still in the air things got pretty bad here idk what prompted this my partner is
chingaderitaJune update Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too. π I'm so sorry
May 23May 13, May 12
my last post, last emergencyΒ june 5 version of last thread before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
My artist friend Calli needs money for OVERDUE RENT Son's hrt , chronic illness medicine, taking care of family and and more (also had food trouble), and cat food and diabetic in-laws./ Spanish lessons also offered, . They have boosted many other peopleβs own fundraisers in solidarity. may 23 update they usually earn $12 a day from spanish lessons
s
Commissions and Classes
1)A friend has offered to help them raise funds to keep them afloat if you're interested in art commissions. Friend is taking time off to finish commissions and rest
2)EDIT Update from May 3rd : dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Below past documentation of blog posts and background info, along with vouching transcript.
May 1, 2026, 01:52:55 PM (Friday)Β βStill trying to afford testosterone and my meds Need help getting adult diapers, my partner hurt his back so bad he canβt stand up. No one here has the strength to lift him. Uhβ¦ Might also need help taking him to the doctor.β
still has debilitating tooth pain. put onΒ hold due to flue emegency
New bed as mentioned above
need money to deep-clean houseΒ so safeΒ for MIL return post-surgery (mold still here)
Repairs for toilet needed
Son suffering dysphoria
Nov 23 My eldest son had one of the worst nights in his life. All I can say is we managed to keep him safe through the night, he is safe at home. He thought he could keep raw dogging his dysphoria but he clearly needs to start HRT and transitioning. He is very avoidant of asking for anything because knows we barely get the money for food and other basics. I don't want to lose my son because of money. I want him to have access to a happy life. What if I'm not there next time to stop him?"
about medicine
quote
"Usually I would just endure until next week to try to get my meds but every time I go without them I notice I don't last as much as before until I have to make a run to the hospital. [I remember their hospitalization, it was really scary]... I needed $125 to get them [monday] half price but every other day I need $250... We need $50 to take our eldest to the doctor for an abdominal pain after carrying grandma. $35 for the laundromat. $300 to cover food expenses for all 9 of us and the cats. $110 for my healthcare renewal. Everything else for clean supplies and other necessities....
Transcript: vouched for by transgendz
transgendz is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45
"I can vouch for CalliΒ @chingaderita! Ive known the family for several years now and theyβve consistently shown proof, was vetted by Kyra on my request when they first messaged, Iβm quite sure, the search function on blogs is just awful and Iβm having a hard time finding such an old post. But I talk to Calli often, weβve had conversations in English and Spanish, and everything they say tracks with the proof provided. I just thought Iβd say something bc I know youβve been helping them too. Thank you for all you do.
About Calli
Calli, is a nonbinary parent dealing with chronic illness, chronic pain, unemployment and severe depression taking care of children, in-laws, and rescue cats . Calli is a kind person constantly boosting other peopleβs campaigns despite their families situation and limited time at compute cafes Calli in posts has discussed: has tumors, problems with gallbladder and liver, chronic joint pain. And a horrible pain in jaw that
We really need meds soon, has not been able to afford them in weeks, and we donβt want another hospitalization
βMyΒ gallbladder and liver need constant medication to not get further fucked up, I have a bunch of untreated tumor/growthsΒ I hope my healthcare will deal with at some point, IΒ have chronic pain which affects my hips, back and left leg and sometimes my leg dislocates at random,Β just this August Iβve had two periods in less than 28 days, this is a common occurrence almost every month, and Iβve beenΒ dealing with teeth pain so intense it causes headaches, hurts my jaw, neck and now I have pain inside my right ear I suspect itβs related to my teeth pain.β
Summary of problemsΒ overall
dec29 It's late, I'm exhausted, haven't had a good night sleep in ages. We have a bunch of chronic panic, chronic illnesses, the most able bodied at home is probably me even tho my left leg dislocates at random, my left leg has jolts of pain at random too and my gallbladder and liver are actively trying to kill me. Oh, did I forget to mention the tumor and the many growths on my legs? Or the tooth pain I still have, I need that molar removed or im going to do it myself. Just, help us get a bed, the one we got is too moldy I'm tired of having to cover it with plastic so we can take turns to sleep on it at floor level. Also, urgently need funds to get my son the his next appointment at the trans clinic see if we can get him HRT or we'll have to get him DIY. We need to get more adult diapers too considering all the mobility issues our elderly are going through. If I dare to ask also for $10 so I can get nuggets and a treat for our son, he turned 9yo 2 days ago and he just wanted some nuggets please.
*They have been helping boost many campaigns, gaza and otherwise (and have asked me to boost these three while their internet is unreliable):
(1) AHMEDβS [campaign] IS VERY FORGOTTEN, PLEASE, KEEP SHARING!!! βΒ @/chingaderitaΒ on TumblrΒ 2)Donate to Trapped Family in Gaza Appeals for Help to Survive, organized by Abdallah Alanqar
Β (3)Β HaniΒ β¬5,688/β¬25,000 βΒ @/chingaderitaΒ on Tumblr
βWe really REALLY need help with theΒ court fees and paperworkΒ [get done before aAugust.],Β we just want to ensure our kids will be safe from my family in case I die, due to my deteriorating health.β
now Personal health problems
Sep 7 tooth pain,Β Couldnβt rest with this damn tooth pain pain pain soainIsbsk,ndl .zlz
Maybe I should have added this to the main body of the post but Iβm on my second period in less than 30 days, cause my liver and gallbladder trying to kill me isnβt enough I have many tumors growing in different parts of my body.
Latest postΒ aug 24
Thank you I did pay my healthcare!!! I was hoping with the extra I could get my meds but we ended up using it for food and taking my MiL to the hospital because of gastrointestinal pain, she had to stay under supervision for a whole night and is scheduled for more tests on Tuesday. Weβre pushing her healthcare services to schedule her for a gastroenterologist as soon as possible, she has been unable to eat which has been a terrible combination with her diabetes. Can we ask for help affording her ensure bottles so she can at least eat that? Weβll need to do something about the humidity and mold soon, we get trapped in the rooms often, last night it took us over an hour to be able to reopen a door even with both my partner and me pushing. We need to get adult diapers btw.Β Please, anything helps!!!!
You know, itβs real nice that we got help to pay the vet bills andΒ helpΒ my kid keep his cat safe and healthy but wow. It is obvious we do not matter at all. The moment our cat needed help we got the goals, both times But Iβve been trying to get my meds for weeks or months at a time and nothing. Itβs real hard not to fucking cry
I know itβs hard for everyone but please, keep sharing, anything ANYTHING helps. Weβve been getting a bit of food and paying little by little what we owe at the corner store but the upcoming card payment is $190 and my meds are $130 and then letβs not forget my healthcare renewal. I also bring bad news, weβre starting with water shortages just like last year, weβve gone from having 4 days of water a week to 1-2 if weβre lucky.Β Our only toilet is busted and there are 9 people here who use it. My kid still needs attention for a UTI heβs had for a couple of months now. And my partner has 3 ingrown nails and 2 big cuts on his feet heβs kept unattended for weeks. Iβd hate to up the goal but we need every help we can get!!
more documentation from 2023.
Went back on my blog to findΒ proof of the fireΒ where my in-laws lost everything,Β this other one with picturesΒ and proof that Iβve been sick and struggling to get my medication sinceΒ August 2023. Just felt like having things organized and maybe make another blog to keep all proof I can save since we lost a lot of information and pictures/videos when we sold our phones and lost the computer.
Nothing so far, I'm so sorry for being pushy, we did use our last pesos to buy a couple fuses because we lost power since last night but we didn't notice it was just us until this morning π
We need insulin, water, testosterone and food please π
Need bottled water update back from hotel had to flee to after Father in law got dangerous (a reblog of this thead by them)
β vetting:Β vouched for byΒ @/transgendzΒ who is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45 (pictures below). transcript below cut
And another campaign vouching, (ignore misgendering as English not first language)
3 ways Donate by πPAYPAL or πKOFI or πTHRONE
8:00Β orΒ 8:10Β PMΒ CDTΒ generally time to go to bank or store before it closes (9:00Β orΒ 9:10 cst) Meds :$65 for sonβs hormones, $150 for week of Calli's meds or $540 for a months worth.Β CaalisMeds are half-off on monday
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
update june 15 night
Got water for today, we still need help with testosterone, meds, our daughter's gender affirming haircut and water tomorrow until the water supply starts again, I'm sorry we still don't know how long this shortage will be
UPDATES Jun 11
we're back home but [father in law] keeps pressing and screaming, we had to take refuge in the mold room with our kids, he kept screaming at me outside the room until way past 3am idk how safe we are with him around the worst is we have to check before going out of the room to either go eat/drink or if we need to use the restroom we also ran out of water, we can't flush the toilet or wash our hands he made my partner, his son, fall down after he pulled his cane from him, now his ankle hurts we have had no peace since we came back still unsure what we'll do we don't want to leave our home
June 10: we're still in need of help to afford breakfast, taxis and any extra support, our housing situation is still in the air things got pretty bad here idk what prompted this my partner is
chingaderitaJune update Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too. π I'm so sorry
May 23May 13, May 12
my last post, last emergencyΒ june 5 version of last thread before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
My artist friend Calli needs money for OVERDUE RENT Son's hrt , chronic illness medicine, taking care of family and and more (also had food trouble), and cat food and diabetic in-laws./ Spanish lessons also offered, . They have boosted many other peopleβs own fundraisers in solidarity. may 23 update they usually earn $12 a day from spanish lessons
s
Commissions and Classes
1)A friend has offered to help them raise funds to keep them afloat if you're interested in art commissions. Friend is taking time off to finish commissions and rest
2)EDIT Update from May 3rd : dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Below past documentation of blog posts and background info, along with vouching transcript.
May 1, 2026, 01:52:55 PM (Friday)Β βStill trying to afford testosterone and my meds Need help getting adult diapers, my partner hurt his back so bad he canβt stand up. No one here has the strength to lift him. Uhβ¦ Might also need help taking him to the doctor.β
still has debilitating tooth pain. put onΒ hold due to flue emegency
New bed as mentioned above
need money to deep-clean houseΒ so safeΒ for MIL return post-surgery (mold still here)
Repairs for toilet needed
Son suffering dysphoria
Nov 23 My eldest son had one of the worst nights in his life. All I can say is we managed to keep him safe through the night, he is safe at home. He thought he could keep raw dogging his dysphoria but he clearly needs to start HRT and transitioning. He is very avoidant of asking for anything because knows we barely get the money for food and other basics. I don't want to lose my son because of money. I want him to have access to a happy life. What if I'm not there next time to stop him?"
about medicine
quote
"Usually I would just endure until next week to try to get my meds but every time I go without them I notice I don't last as much as before until I have to make a run to the hospital. [I remember their hospitalization, it was really scary]... I needed $125 to get them [monday] half price but every other day I need $250... We need $50 to take our eldest to the doctor for an abdominal pain after carrying grandma. $35 for the laundromat. $300 to cover food expenses for all 9 of us and the cats. $110 for my healthcare renewal. Everything else for clean supplies and other necessities....
Transcript: vouched for by transgendz
transgendz is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45
"I can vouch for CalliΒ @chingaderita! Ive known the family for several years now and theyβve consistently shown proof, was vetted by Kyra on my request when they first messaged, Iβm quite sure, the search function on blogs is just awful and Iβm having a hard time finding such an old post. But I talk to Calli often, weβve had conversations in English and Spanish, and everything they say tracks with the proof provided. I just thought Iβd say something bc I know youβve been helping them too. Thank you for all you do.
About Calli
Calli, is a nonbinary parent dealing with chronic illness, chronic pain, unemployment and severe depression taking care of children, in-laws, and rescue cats . Calli is a kind person constantly boosting other peopleβs campaigns despite their families situation and limited time at compute cafes Calli in posts has discussed: has tumors, problems with gallbladder and liver, chronic joint pain. And a horrible pain in jaw that
We really need meds soon, has not been able to afford them in weeks, and we donβt want another hospitalization
βMyΒ gallbladder and liver need constant medication to not get further fucked up, I have a bunch of untreated tumor/growthsΒ I hope my healthcare will deal with at some point, IΒ have chronic pain which affects my hips, back and left leg and sometimes my leg dislocates at random,Β just this August Iβve had two periods in less than 28 days, this is a common occurrence almost every month, and Iβve beenΒ dealing with teeth pain so intense it causes headaches, hurts my jaw, neck and now I have pain inside my right ear I suspect itβs related to my teeth pain.β
Summary of problemsΒ overall
dec29 It's late, I'm exhausted, haven't had a good night sleep in ages. We have a bunch of chronic panic, chronic illnesses, the most able bodied at home is probably me even tho my left leg dislocates at random, my left leg has jolts of pain at random too and my gallbladder and liver are actively trying to kill me. Oh, did I forget to mention the tumor and the many growths on my legs? Or the tooth pain I still have, I need that molar removed or im going to do it myself. Just, help us get a bed, the one we got is too moldy I'm tired of having to cover it with plastic so we can take turns to sleep on it at floor level. Also, urgently need funds to get my son the his next appointment at the trans clinic see if we can get him HRT or we'll have to get him DIY. We need to get more adult diapers too considering all the mobility issues our elderly are going through. If I dare to ask also for $10 so I can get nuggets and a treat for our son, he turned 9yo 2 days ago and he just wanted some nuggets please.
*They have been helping boost many campaigns, gaza and otherwise (and have asked me to boost these three while their internet is unreliable):
(1) AHMEDβS [campaign] IS VERY FORGOTTEN, PLEASE, KEEP SHARING!!! βΒ @/chingaderitaΒ on TumblrΒ 2)Donate to Trapped Family in Gaza Appeals for Help to Survive, organized by Abdallah Alanqar
Β (3)Β HaniΒ β¬5,688/β¬25,000 βΒ @/chingaderitaΒ on Tumblr
βWe really REALLY need help with theΒ court fees and paperworkΒ [get done before aAugust.],Β we just want to ensure our kids will be safe from my family in case I die, due to my deteriorating health.β
now Personal health problems
Sep 7 tooth pain,Β Couldnβt rest with this damn tooth pain pain pain soainIsbsk,ndl .zlz
Maybe I should have added this to the main body of the post but Iβm on my second period in less than 30 days, cause my liver and gallbladder trying to kill me isnβt enough I have many tumors growing in different parts of my body.
Latest postΒ aug 24
Thank you I did pay my healthcare!!! I was hoping with the extra I could get my meds but we ended up using it for food and taking my MiL to the hospital because of gastrointestinal pain, she had to stay under supervision for a whole night and is scheduled for more tests on Tuesday. Weβre pushing her healthcare services to schedule her for a gastroenterologist as soon as possible, she has been unable to eat which has been a terrible combination with her diabetes. Can we ask for help affording her ensure bottles so she can at least eat that? Weβll need to do something about the humidity and mold soon, we get trapped in the rooms often, last night it took us over an hour to be able to reopen a door even with both my partner and me pushing. We need to get adult diapers btw.Β Please, anything helps!!!!
You know, itβs real nice that we got help to pay the vet bills andΒ helpΒ my kid keep his cat safe and healthy but wow. It is obvious we do not matter at all. The moment our cat needed help we got the goals, both times But Iβve been trying to get my meds for weeks or months at a time and nothing. Itβs real hard not to fucking cry
I know itβs hard for everyone but please, keep sharing, anything ANYTHING helps. Weβve been getting a bit of food and paying little by little what we owe at the corner store but the upcoming card payment is $190 and my meds are $130 and then letβs not forget my healthcare renewal. I also bring bad news, weβre starting with water shortages just like last year, weβve gone from having 4 days of water a week to 1-2 if weβre lucky.Β Our only toilet is busted and there are 9 people here who use it. My kid still needs attention for a UTI heβs had for a couple of months now. And my partner has 3 ingrown nails and 2 big cuts on his feet heβs kept unattended for weeks. Iβd hate to up the goal but we need every help we can get!!
more documentation from 2023.
Went back on my blog to findΒ proof of the fireΒ where my in-laws lost everything,Β this other one with picturesΒ and proof that Iβve been sick and struggling to get my medication sinceΒ August 2023. Just felt like having things organized and maybe make another blog to keep all proof I can save since we lost a lot of information and pictures/videos when we sold our phones and lost the computer.
Nothing so far, I'm so sorry for being pushy, we did use our last pesos to buy a couple fuses because we lost power since last night but we didn't notice it was just us until this morning π
We need insulin, water, testosterone and food please π
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Phone numbers for the Commerce subcommittee are below, but also contact your representative
What is happening: There is a lot of pushback on KOSA and AI regulation. KOSA due to the duty of care and other problems, some in congress want it worse and some want it not as bad. AI regulation is the same, some want it and some want to ban it. Senator Blackburn and some other GOP leadership (House GOP leadership, Ted Cruz, etc) are working with the White House to reach some type of deal including KOSA, the No Fakes Act (an AI bill that sucks really bad), and other age verification provisions. House GOP leadership is going to the R's and D's in the House Energy and Commerce Committee to strike a deal. It is very critical we put our foot down and push even harder right now, because this can go very bad very quickly.
example what to say
NO FAKES could also undermine the rights of the people it is supposed to protect. The new federal βlikenessβ right could be licensed or transferred to others, so individuals will lose control over the use of their own face and voice. Thatβs not theoreticalβworkers in the entertainment industry are routinely asked to sign broad contracts about the future use of their likenesses.
Something quick and simple to use while calling. from user spdy4
Greetings, my name is [Insert Name], and I am calling as one of your constituents to oppose KOSA, The NO FAKES act, and a bunch of Age Verification mandates.
KOSA would open the door to soo many hackers, and should we really be handing our IDs and Data to Big Tech Giants like META, OpenAI, and Google? This would harm more children than it is protecting and goes against our first amendment rights of Free Speech and Privacy.
The NO FAKES act would make it so that l depictions of a person's likeness or voice are restricted (not just ai generated) While sounding good on paper, this would in the process expose users, creators, platforms and developers exposed to lawsuits for everyday speech like memes and parodies. Making it so that anyone with deep-enough pockets could file a lawsuit to ANYONE who uses AI for anything.
And Age Verification Mandates would require users to disclose personal information before accessing lawful speech online. Eliminating anonymity, and threatening our privacy. Making the Internet reveal ourselves on the internet where many people will be at Great risk of being exposed, having their data harvested by data brokers, and is incompatible with our God-given American right to free-expression.
These bills would make the internet worse for everyone, and our economy. There are better ways of protecting kids online, but these bills would put this kids, and even adults into seriously grave danger. I urge you to say No to these bills, and to keep the Internet private, and open to the American people. Feel free to change it to suit your preferences, based on what political party you're calling, or just to make it more factual. Hope this helps!
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So just in case you don't want to scroll through the previous post: we have a car and our landlord fixed both of refrigerator and our freezer, but unfortunately we're still kind of short of food, we managed to get one of the car repairs done and another seems to have sorted itself out, but we have a pressing need to get $3000 in more immediate repairs done and get one of our side doors fixed at around $750, and I had a potential breast cancer scare/my daughter has had issues getting her root canal scheduled and the other dentists won't do their work without that being done.
So first off, the potential breast cancer situation: whatever it was with the first mammogram that concerned the imaging specialist is benign according to the second mammogram! I need to have a mammogram every year now, but yes. Very good news! So please take this as a friendly reminder to check your breasts monthly for lumps and get your mammograms whenever your doctor says you need them (and the self-exams should be done by everyone regardless of sex, because breast cancer affects men and women). Also good health news: my daughter finally saw her GP after nearly a year and she's got her HRT sorted out a bit more plus she's on a new arthritis medication (same one I'm on) and we're hoping the med changes will help her be in less pain, root canal withstanding.
Also mostly good news: our car is running well enough, but we would like to get the two repairs that are $1500 each done as soon as we can, just because (IIRC) one issue is the timing belt and the other is the struts, and repairs are vastly less expensive than replacements. We can manage without getting the side door fixed for now, but anything we can put towards those two repairs and gas would be a huge help.
And last update: I talked to someone from Legal Aid Tuesday about the habitability issues (if our fridge goes out again and they refuse to fix/replace it I now know what legal recourse I have, and I may be able to get them to replace it after we get our recertification they send last week sorted because my mother is insulin dependent and her disability accommodation includes having a working fridge). They're going to have a separate attorney call about our recertification paperwork, but I am pretty sure they are no longer trying to kick us out, though it does look like we're on a month-to-month lease at the moment.
Here is the bad news:
I am currently $300 overdrawn and have a $300 loan due on the 3rd of June, though I'm going to try and see if I can get the loan payment broken down into payments (this was because of food issues since we had to throw away most of our food in the fridge before it got fixed/laptop repair costs). I would like to cover some of the overdraft if possible.
I also have a lot of smaller bills and such that I wasn't able to pay because of the overdraft (though a friend helped with my phone bill already). This includes my electric bill, of which I owe $124 currently (I can carry some of my bill over but at some point soon I need to make a big payment)
We still do not have a ton of perishable food since most of our food stamps had gone to restocking the non-perishable food we had to use up when the fridge wasn't working. We kind of need milk soon, but a huge help would be food from our Amazon wish list of just snacks and stuff we can eat in between meals as well as the boxed meal kits I can make by adding ground beef.
I still do not have possession of my laptop, which I was quoted would have been finished almost a week ago. So I'm kind of stuck not being able to do huge updates or update often because I have both psoriatic arthritis and carpal tunnel and it's been getting harder and harder using my phone or my laptop while I am in bed (fortunately we found a small side table a neighbor was discarding that I can use for my laptop once it's repaired so I can sit up and use a wrist rest and all that).
So yeah. If anyone can help immediately with the overdraft and the smaller bills (I think grand total $600 would cover everything) now and I can work towards the repairs as well as clearing out my remaining storage unit, that would take such a weight off my shoulders.
So just in case you don't want to scroll through the previous post: we have a car and our landlord fixed both of refrigerator and our freezer, but unfortunately we're still kind of short of food, we managed to get one of the car repairs done and another seems to have sorted itself out, but we have a pressing need to get $3000 in more immediate repairs done and get one of our side doors fixed at around $750, and I had a potential breast cancer scare/my daughter has had issues getting her root canal scheduled and the other dentists won't do their work without that being done.
So first off, the potential breast cancer situation: whatever it was with the first mammogram that concerned the imaging specialist is benign according to the second mammogram! I need to have a mammogram every year now, but yes. Very good news! So please take this as a friendly reminder to check your breasts monthly for lumps and get your mammograms whenever your doctor says you need them (and the self-exams should be done by everyone regardless of sex, because breast cancer affects men and women). Also good health news: my daughter finally saw her GP after nearly a year and she's got her HRT sorted out a bit more plus she's on a new arthritis medication (same one I'm on) and we're hoping the med changes will help her be in less pain, root canal withstanding.
Also mostly good news: our car is running well enough, but we would like to get the two repairs that are $1500 each done as soon as we can, just because (IIRC) one issue is the timing belt and the other is the struts, and repairs are vastly less expensive than replacements. We can manage without getting the side door fixed for now, but anything we can put towards those two repairs and gas would be a huge help.
And last update: I talked to someone from Legal Aid Tuesday about the habitability issues (if our fridge goes out again and they refuse to fix/replace it I now know what legal recourse I have, and I may be able to get them to replace it after we get our recertification they send last week sorted because my mother is insulin dependent and her disability accommodation includes having a working fridge). They're going to have a separate attorney call about our recertification paperwork, but I am pretty sure they are no longer trying to kick us out, though it does look like we're on a month-to-month lease at the moment.
Here is the bad news:
I am currently $300 overdrawn and have a $300 loan due on the 3rd of June, though I'm going to try and see if I can get the loan payment broken down into payments (this was because of food issues since we had to throw away most of our food in the fridge before it got fixed/laptop repair costs). I would like to cover some of the overdraft if possible.
I also have a lot of smaller bills and such that I wasn't able to pay because of the overdraft (though a friend helped with my phone bill already). This includes my electric bill, of which I owe $124 currently (I can carry some of my bill over but at some point soon I need to make a big payment)
We still do not have a ton of perishable food since most of our food stamps had gone to restocking the non-perishable food we had to use up when the fridge wasn't working. We kind of need milk soon, but a huge help would be food from our Amazon wish list of just snacks and stuff we can eat in between meals as well as the boxed meal kits I can make by adding ground beef.
I still do not have possession of my laptop, which I was quoted would have been finished almost a week ago. So I'm kind of stuck not being able to do huge updates or update often because I have both psoriatic arthritis and carpal tunnel and it's been getting harder and harder using my phone or my laptop while I am in bed (fortunately we found a small side table a neighbor was discarding that I can use for my laptop once it's repaired so I can sit up and use a wrist rest and all that).
So yeah. If anyone can help immediately with the overdraft and the smaller bills (I think grand total $600 would cover everything) now and I can work towards the repairs as well as clearing out my remaining storage unit, that would take such a weight off my shoulders.
So just in case you don't want to scroll through the previous post: we have a car and our landlord fixed both of refrigerator and our freezer, but unfortunately we're still kind of short of food, we managed to get one of the car repairs done and another seems to have sorted itself out, but we have a pressing need to get $3000 in more immediate repairs done and get one of our side doors fixed at around $750, and I had a potential breast cancer scare/my daughter has had issues getting her root canal scheduled and the other dentists won't do their work without that being done.
So first off, the potential breast cancer situation: whatever it was with the first mammogram that concerned the imaging specialist is benign according to the second mammogram! I need to have a mammogram every year now, but yes. Very good news! So please take this as a friendly reminder to check your breasts monthly for lumps and get your mammograms whenever your doctor says you need them (and the self-exams should be done by everyone regardless of sex, because breast cancer affects men and women). Also good health news: my daughter finally saw her GP after nearly a year and she's got her HRT sorted out a bit more plus she's on a new arthritis medication (same one I'm on) and we're hoping the med changes will help her be in less pain, root canal withstanding.
Also mostly good news: our car is running well enough, but we would like to get the two repairs that are $1500 each done as soon as we can, just because (IIRC) one issue is the timing belt and the other is the struts, and repairs are vastly less expensive than replacements. We can manage without getting the side door fixed for now, but anything we can put towards those two repairs and gas would be a huge help.
And last update: I talked to someone from Legal Aid Tuesday about the habitability issues (if our fridge goes out again and they refuse to fix/replace it I now know what legal recourse I have, and I may be able to get them to replace it after we get our recertification they send last week sorted because my mother is insulin dependent and her disability accommodation includes having a working fridge). They're going to have a separate attorney call about our recertification paperwork, but I am pretty sure they are no longer trying to kick us out, though it does look like we're on a month-to-month lease at the moment.
Here is the bad news:
I am currently $300 overdrawn and have a $300 loan due on the 3rd of June, though I'm going to try and see if I can get the loan payment broken down into payments (this was because of food issues since we had to throw away most of our food in the fridge before it got fixed/laptop repair costs). I would like to cover some of the overdraft if possible.
I also have a lot of smaller bills and such that I wasn't able to pay because of the overdraft (though a friend helped with my phone bill already). This includes my electric bill, of which I owe $124 currently (I can carry some of my bill over but at some point soon I need to make a big payment)
We still do not have a ton of perishable food since most of our food stamps had gone to restocking the non-perishable food we had to use up when the fridge wasn't working. We kind of need milk soon, but a huge help would be food from our Amazon wish list of just snacks and stuff we can eat in between meals as well as the boxed meal kits I can make by adding ground beef.
I still do not have possession of my laptop, which I was quoted would have been finished almost a week ago. So I'm kind of stuck not being able to do huge updates or update often because I have both psoriatic arthritis and carpal tunnel and it's been getting harder and harder using my phone or my laptop while I am in bed (fortunately we found a small side table a neighbor was discarding that I can use for my laptop once it's repaired so I can sit up and use a wrist rest and all that).
So yeah. If anyone can help immediately with the overdraft and the smaller bills (I think grand total $600 would cover everything) now and I can work towards the repairs as well as clearing out my remaining storage unit, that would take such a weight off my shoulders.
Need bottled water update back from hotel had to flee to after Father in law got dangerous (a reblog of this thead by them)
β vetting:Β vouched for byΒ @/transgendzΒ who is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45 (pictures below). transcript below cut
And another campaign vouching, (ignore misgendering as English not first language)
3 ways Donate by πPAYPAL or πKOFI or πTHRONE
8:00Β orΒ 8:10Β PMΒ CDTΒ generally time to go to bank or store before it closes (9:00Β orΒ 9:10 cst) Meds :$65 for sonβs hormones, $150 for week of Calli's meds or $540 for a months worth.Β CaalisMeds are half-off on monday
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
update june 15 night
Got water for today, we still need help with testosterone, meds, our daughter's gender affirming haircut and water tomorrow until the water supply starts again, I'm sorry we still don't know how long this shortage will be
UPDATES Jun 11
we're back home but [father in law] keeps pressing and screaming, we had to take refuge in the mold room with our kids, he kept screaming at me outside the room until way past 3am idk how safe we are with him around the worst is we have to check before going out of the room to either go eat/drink or if we need to use the restroom we also ran out of water, we can't flush the toilet or wash our hands he made my partner, his son, fall down after he pulled his cane from him, now his ankle hurts we have had no peace since we came back still unsure what we'll do we don't want to leave our home
June 10: we're still in need of help to afford breakfast, taxis and any extra support, our housing situation is still in the air things got pretty bad here idk what prompted this my partner is
chingaderitaJune update Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too. π I'm so sorry
May 23May 13, May 12
my last post, last emergencyΒ june 5 version of last thread before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
My artist friend Calli needs money for OVERDUE RENT Son's hrt , chronic illness medicine, taking care of family and and more (also had food trouble), and cat food and diabetic in-laws./ Spanish lessons also offered, . They have boosted many other peopleβs own fundraisers in solidarity. may 23 update they usually earn $12 a day from spanish lessons
s
Commissions and Classes
1)A friend has offered to help them raise funds to keep them afloat if you're interested in art commissions. Friend is taking time off to finish commissions and rest
2)EDIT Update from May 3rd : dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Below past documentation of blog posts and background info, along with vouching transcript.
May 1, 2026, 01:52:55 PM (Friday)Β βStill trying to afford testosterone and my meds Need help getting adult diapers, my partner hurt his back so bad he canβt stand up. No one here has the strength to lift him. Uhβ¦ Might also need help taking him to the doctor.β
still has debilitating tooth pain. put onΒ hold due to flue emegency
New bed as mentioned above
need money to deep-clean houseΒ so safeΒ for MIL return post-surgery (mold still here)
Repairs for toilet needed
Son suffering dysphoria
Nov 23 My eldest son had one of the worst nights in his life. All I can say is we managed to keep him safe through the night, he is safe at home. He thought he could keep raw dogging his dysphoria but he clearly needs to start HRT and transitioning. He is very avoidant of asking for anything because knows we barely get the money for food and other basics. I don't want to lose my son because of money. I want him to have access to a happy life. What if I'm not there next time to stop him?"
about medicine
quote
"Usually I would just endure until next week to try to get my meds but every time I go without them I notice I don't last as much as before until I have to make a run to the hospital. [I remember their hospitalization, it was really scary]... I needed $125 to get them [monday] half price but every other day I need $250... We need $50 to take our eldest to the doctor for an abdominal pain after carrying grandma. $35 for the laundromat. $300 to cover food expenses for all 9 of us and the cats. $110 for my healthcare renewal. Everything else for clean supplies and other necessities....
Transcript: vouched for by transgendz
transgendz is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45
"I can vouch for CalliΒ @chingaderita! Ive known the family for several years now and theyβve consistently shown proof, was vetted by Kyra on my request when they first messaged, Iβm quite sure, the search function on blogs is just awful and Iβm having a hard time finding such an old post. But I talk to Calli often, weβve had conversations in English and Spanish, and everything they say tracks with the proof provided. I just thought Iβd say something bc I know youβve been helping them too. Thank you for all you do.
About Calli
Calli, is a nonbinary parent dealing with chronic illness, chronic pain, unemployment and severe depression taking care of children, in-laws, and rescue cats . Calli is a kind person constantly boosting other peopleβs campaigns despite their families situation and limited time at compute cafes Calli in posts has discussed: has tumors, problems with gallbladder and liver, chronic joint pain. And a horrible pain in jaw that
We really need meds soon, has not been able to afford them in weeks, and we donβt want another hospitalization
βMyΒ gallbladder and liver need constant medication to not get further fucked up, I have a bunch of untreated tumor/growthsΒ I hope my healthcare will deal with at some point, IΒ have chronic pain which affects my hips, back and left leg and sometimes my leg dislocates at random,Β just this August Iβve had two periods in less than 28 days, this is a common occurrence almost every month, and Iβve beenΒ dealing with teeth pain so intense it causes headaches, hurts my jaw, neck and now I have pain inside my right ear I suspect itβs related to my teeth pain.β
Summary of problemsΒ overall
dec29 It's late, I'm exhausted, haven't had a good night sleep in ages. We have a bunch of chronic panic, chronic illnesses, the most able bodied at home is probably me even tho my left leg dislocates at random, my left leg has jolts of pain at random too and my gallbladder and liver are actively trying to kill me. Oh, did I forget to mention the tumor and the many growths on my legs? Or the tooth pain I still have, I need that molar removed or im going to do it myself. Just, help us get a bed, the one we got is too moldy I'm tired of having to cover it with plastic so we can take turns to sleep on it at floor level. Also, urgently need funds to get my son the his next appointment at the trans clinic see if we can get him HRT or we'll have to get him DIY. We need to get more adult diapers too considering all the mobility issues our elderly are going through. If I dare to ask also for $10 so I can get nuggets and a treat for our son, he turned 9yo 2 days ago and he just wanted some nuggets please.
*They have been helping boost many campaigns, gaza and otherwise (and have asked me to boost these three while their internet is unreliable):
(1) AHMEDβS [campaign] IS VERY FORGOTTEN, PLEASE, KEEP SHARING!!! βΒ @/chingaderitaΒ on TumblrΒ 2)Donate to Trapped Family in Gaza Appeals for Help to Survive, organized by Abdallah Alanqar
Β (3)Β HaniΒ β¬5,688/β¬25,000 βΒ @/chingaderitaΒ on Tumblr
βWe really REALLY need help with theΒ court fees and paperworkΒ [get done before aAugust.],Β we just want to ensure our kids will be safe from my family in case I die, due to my deteriorating health.β
now Personal health problems
Sep 7 tooth pain,Β Couldnβt rest with this damn tooth pain pain pain soainIsbsk,ndl .zlz
Maybe I should have added this to the main body of the post but Iβm on my second period in less than 30 days, cause my liver and gallbladder trying to kill me isnβt enough I have many tumors growing in different parts of my body.
Latest postΒ aug 24
Thank you I did pay my healthcare!!! I was hoping with the extra I could get my meds but we ended up using it for food and taking my MiL to the hospital because of gastrointestinal pain, she had to stay under supervision for a whole night and is scheduled for more tests on Tuesday. Weβre pushing her healthcare services to schedule her for a gastroenterologist as soon as possible, she has been unable to eat which has been a terrible combination with her diabetes. Can we ask for help affording her ensure bottles so she can at least eat that? Weβll need to do something about the humidity and mold soon, we get trapped in the rooms often, last night it took us over an hour to be able to reopen a door even with both my partner and me pushing. We need to get adult diapers btw.Β Please, anything helps!!!!
You know, itβs real nice that we got help to pay the vet bills andΒ helpΒ my kid keep his cat safe and healthy but wow. It is obvious we do not matter at all. The moment our cat needed help we got the goals, both times But Iβve been trying to get my meds for weeks or months at a time and nothing. Itβs real hard not to fucking cry
I know itβs hard for everyone but please, keep sharing, anything ANYTHING helps. Weβve been getting a bit of food and paying little by little what we owe at the corner store but the upcoming card payment is $190 and my meds are $130 and then letβs not forget my healthcare renewal. I also bring bad news, weβre starting with water shortages just like last year, weβve gone from having 4 days of water a week to 1-2 if weβre lucky.Β Our only toilet is busted and there are 9 people here who use it. My kid still needs attention for a UTI heβs had for a couple of months now. And my partner has 3 ingrown nails and 2 big cuts on his feet heβs kept unattended for weeks. Iβd hate to up the goal but we need every help we can get!!
more documentation from 2023.
Went back on my blog to findΒ proof of the fireΒ where my in-laws lost everything,Β this other one with picturesΒ and proof that Iβve been sick and struggling to get my medication sinceΒ August 2023. Just felt like having things organized and maybe make another blog to keep all proof I can save since we lost a lot of information and pictures/videos when we sold our phones and lost the computer.
Nothing so far, I'm so sorry for being pushy, we did use our last pesos to buy a couple fuses because we lost power since last night but we didn't notice it was just us until this morning π
We need insulin, water, testosterone and food please π
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Need bottled water update back from hotel had to flee to after Father in law got dangerous (a reblog of this thead by them)
β vetting:Β vouched for byΒ @/transgendzΒ who is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45 (pictures below). transcript below cut
And another campaign vouching, (ignore misgendering as English not first language)
3 ways Donate by πPAYPAL or πKOFI or πTHRONE
8:00Β orΒ 8:10Β PMΒ CDTΒ generally time to go to bank or store before it closes (9:00Β orΒ 9:10 cst) Meds :$65 for sonβs hormones, $150 for week of Calli's meds or $540 for a months worth.Β CaalisMeds are half-off on monday
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
update june 15 night
Got water for today, we still need help with testosterone, meds, our daughter's gender affirming haircut and water tomorrow until the water supply starts again, I'm sorry we still don't know how long this shortage will be
UPDATES Jun 11
we're back home but [father in law] keeps pressing and screaming, we had to take refuge in the mold room with our kids, he kept screaming at me outside the room until way past 3am idk how safe we are with him around the worst is we have to check before going out of the room to either go eat/drink or if we need to use the restroom we also ran out of water, we can't flush the toilet or wash our hands he made my partner, his son, fall down after he pulled his cane from him, now his ankle hurts we have had no peace since we came back still unsure what we'll do we don't want to leave our home
June 10: we're still in need of help to afford breakfast, taxis and any extra support, our housing situation is still in the air things got pretty bad here idk what prompted this my partner is
chingaderitaJune update Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too. π I'm so sorry
May 23May 13, May 12
my last post, last emergencyΒ june 5 version of last thread before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
My artist friend Calli needs money for OVERDUE RENT Son's hrt , chronic illness medicine, taking care of family and and more (also had food trouble), and cat food and diabetic in-laws./ Spanish lessons also offered, . They have boosted many other peopleβs own fundraisers in solidarity. may 23 update they usually earn $12 a day from spanish lessons
s
Commissions and Classes
1)A friend has offered to help them raise funds to keep them afloat if you're interested in art commissions. Friend is taking time off to finish commissions and rest
2)EDIT Update from May 3rd : dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Below past documentation of blog posts and background info, along with vouching transcript.
May 1, 2026, 01:52:55 PM (Friday)Β βStill trying to afford testosterone and my meds Need help getting adult diapers, my partner hurt his back so bad he canβt stand up. No one here has the strength to lift him. Uhβ¦ Might also need help taking him to the doctor.β
still has debilitating tooth pain. put onΒ hold due to flue emegency
New bed as mentioned above
need money to deep-clean houseΒ so safeΒ for MIL return post-surgery (mold still here)
Repairs for toilet needed
Son suffering dysphoria
Nov 23 My eldest son had one of the worst nights in his life. All I can say is we managed to keep him safe through the night, he is safe at home. He thought he could keep raw dogging his dysphoria but he clearly needs to start HRT and transitioning. He is very avoidant of asking for anything because knows we barely get the money for food and other basics. I don't want to lose my son because of money. I want him to have access to a happy life. What if I'm not there next time to stop him?"
about medicine
quote
"Usually I would just endure until next week to try to get my meds but every time I go without them I notice I don't last as much as before until I have to make a run to the hospital. [I remember their hospitalization, it was really scary]... I needed $125 to get them [monday] half price but every other day I need $250... We need $50 to take our eldest to the doctor for an abdominal pain after carrying grandma. $35 for the laundromat. $300 to cover food expenses for all 9 of us and the cats. $110 for my healthcare renewal. Everything else for clean supplies and other necessities....
Transcript: vouched for by transgendz
transgendz is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45
"I can vouch for CalliΒ @chingaderita! Ive known the family for several years now and theyβve consistently shown proof, was vetted by Kyra on my request when they first messaged, Iβm quite sure, the search function on blogs is just awful and Iβm having a hard time finding such an old post. But I talk to Calli often, weβve had conversations in English and Spanish, and everything they say tracks with the proof provided. I just thought Iβd say something bc I know youβve been helping them too. Thank you for all you do.
About Calli
Calli, is a nonbinary parent dealing with chronic illness, chronic pain, unemployment and severe depression taking care of children, in-laws, and rescue cats . Calli is a kind person constantly boosting other peopleβs campaigns despite their families situation and limited time at compute cafes Calli in posts has discussed: has tumors, problems with gallbladder and liver, chronic joint pain. And a horrible pain in jaw that
We really need meds soon, has not been able to afford them in weeks, and we donβt want another hospitalization
βMyΒ gallbladder and liver need constant medication to not get further fucked up, I have a bunch of untreated tumor/growthsΒ I hope my healthcare will deal with at some point, IΒ have chronic pain which affects my hips, back and left leg and sometimes my leg dislocates at random,Β just this August Iβve had two periods in less than 28 days, this is a common occurrence almost every month, and Iβve beenΒ dealing with teeth pain so intense it causes headaches, hurts my jaw, neck and now I have pain inside my right ear I suspect itβs related to my teeth pain.β
Summary of problemsΒ overall
dec29 It's late, I'm exhausted, haven't had a good night sleep in ages. We have a bunch of chronic panic, chronic illnesses, the most able bodied at home is probably me even tho my left leg dislocates at random, my left leg has jolts of pain at random too and my gallbladder and liver are actively trying to kill me. Oh, did I forget to mention the tumor and the many growths on my legs? Or the tooth pain I still have, I need that molar removed or im going to do it myself. Just, help us get a bed, the one we got is too moldy I'm tired of having to cover it with plastic so we can take turns to sleep on it at floor level. Also, urgently need funds to get my son the his next appointment at the trans clinic see if we can get him HRT or we'll have to get him DIY. We need to get more adult diapers too considering all the mobility issues our elderly are going through. If I dare to ask also for $10 so I can get nuggets and a treat for our son, he turned 9yo 2 days ago and he just wanted some nuggets please.
*They have been helping boost many campaigns, gaza and otherwise (and have asked me to boost these three while their internet is unreliable):
(1) AHMEDβS [campaign] IS VERY FORGOTTEN, PLEASE, KEEP SHARING!!! βΒ @/chingaderitaΒ on TumblrΒ 2)Donate to Trapped Family in Gaza Appeals for Help to Survive, organized by Abdallah Alanqar
Β (3)Β HaniΒ β¬5,688/β¬25,000 βΒ @/chingaderitaΒ on Tumblr
βWe really REALLY need help with theΒ court fees and paperworkΒ [get done before aAugust.],Β we just want to ensure our kids will be safe from my family in case I die, due to my deteriorating health.β
now Personal health problems
Sep 7 tooth pain,Β Couldnβt rest with this damn tooth pain pain pain soainIsbsk,ndl .zlz
Maybe I should have added this to the main body of the post but Iβm on my second period in less than 30 days, cause my liver and gallbladder trying to kill me isnβt enough I have many tumors growing in different parts of my body.
Latest postΒ aug 24
Thank you I did pay my healthcare!!! I was hoping with the extra I could get my meds but we ended up using it for food and taking my MiL to the hospital because of gastrointestinal pain, she had to stay under supervision for a whole night and is scheduled for more tests on Tuesday. Weβre pushing her healthcare services to schedule her for a gastroenterologist as soon as possible, she has been unable to eat which has been a terrible combination with her diabetes. Can we ask for help affording her ensure bottles so she can at least eat that? Weβll need to do something about the humidity and mold soon, we get trapped in the rooms often, last night it took us over an hour to be able to reopen a door even with both my partner and me pushing. We need to get adult diapers btw.Β Please, anything helps!!!!
You know, itβs real nice that we got help to pay the vet bills andΒ helpΒ my kid keep his cat safe and healthy but wow. It is obvious we do not matter at all. The moment our cat needed help we got the goals, both times But Iβve been trying to get my meds for weeks or months at a time and nothing. Itβs real hard not to fucking cry
I know itβs hard for everyone but please, keep sharing, anything ANYTHING helps. Weβve been getting a bit of food and paying little by little what we owe at the corner store but the upcoming card payment is $190 and my meds are $130 and then letβs not forget my healthcare renewal. I also bring bad news, weβre starting with water shortages just like last year, weβve gone from having 4 days of water a week to 1-2 if weβre lucky.Β Our only toilet is busted and there are 9 people here who use it. My kid still needs attention for a UTI heβs had for a couple of months now. And my partner has 3 ingrown nails and 2 big cuts on his feet heβs kept unattended for weeks. Iβd hate to up the goal but we need every help we can get!!
more documentation from 2023.
Went back on my blog to findΒ proof of the fireΒ where my in-laws lost everything,Β this other one with picturesΒ and proof that Iβve been sick and struggling to get my medication sinceΒ August 2023. Just felt like having things organized and maybe make another blog to keep all proof I can save since we lost a lot of information and pictures/videos when we sold our phones and lost the computer.
Nothing so far, I'm so sorry for being pushy, we did use our last pesos to buy a couple fuses because we lost power since last night but we didn't notice it was just us until this morning π
We need insulin, water, testosterone and food please π
Need bottled water update back from hotel had to flee to after Father in law got dangerous (a reblog of this thead by them)
β vetting:Β vouched for byΒ @/transgendzΒ who is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45 (pictures below). transcript below cut
And another campaign vouching, (ignore misgendering as English not first language)
3 ways Donate by πPAYPAL or πKOFI or πTHRONE
8:00Β orΒ 8:10Β PMΒ CDTΒ generally time to go to bank or store before it closes (9:00Β orΒ 9:10 cst) Meds :$65 for sonβs hormones, $150 for week of Calli's meds or $540 for a months worth.Β CaalisMeds are half-off on monday
Spanish lessons available!
dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
update june 15 night
Got water for today, we still need help with testosterone, meds, our daughter's gender affirming haircut and water tomorrow until the water supply starts again, I'm sorry we still don't know how long this shortage will be
UPDATES Jun 11
we're back home but [father in law] keeps pressing and screaming, we had to take refuge in the mold room with our kids, he kept screaming at me outside the room until way past 3am idk how safe we are with him around the worst is we have to check before going out of the room to either go eat/drink or if we need to use the restroom we also ran out of water, we can't flush the toilet or wash our hands he made my partner, his son, fall down after he pulled his cane from him, now his ankle hurts we have had no peace since we came back still unsure what we'll do we don't want to leave our home
June 10: we're still in need of help to afford breakfast, taxis and any extra support, our housing situation is still in the air things got pretty bad here idk what prompted this my partner is
chingaderitaJune update Trying to afford trans care for our trans son this pride month and bracing for the upcoming bills, plus got to get June's rent too. π I'm so sorry
May 23May 13, May 12
my last post, last emergencyΒ june 5 version of last thread before hotel, post of time in hotel Reblog at time of hotel
My artist friend Calli needs money for OVERDUE RENT Son's hrt , chronic illness medicine, taking care of family and and more (also had food trouble), and cat food and diabetic in-laws./ Spanish lessons also offered, . They have boosted many other peopleβs own fundraisers in solidarity. may 23 update they usually earn $12 a day from spanish lessons
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Commissions and Classes
1)A friend has offered to help them raise funds to keep them afloat if you're interested in art commissions. Friend is taking time off to finish commissions and rest
2)EDIT Update from May 3rd : dm @chingaderita to int title "offering spanish/english conversation classes, for $12 usd an hour one of us can be your conversation partner so you can practice." Most similar classes generally between $15 and $50 usd per hour
Below past documentation of blog posts and background info, along with vouching transcript.
May 1, 2026, 01:52:55 PM (Friday)Β βStill trying to afford testosterone and my meds Need help getting adult diapers, my partner hurt his back so bad he canβt stand up. No one here has the strength to lift him. Uhβ¦ Might also need help taking him to the doctor.β
still has debilitating tooth pain. put onΒ hold due to flue emegency
New bed as mentioned above
need money to deep-clean houseΒ so safeΒ for MIL return post-surgery (mold still here)
Repairs for toilet needed
Son suffering dysphoria
Nov 23 My eldest son had one of the worst nights in his life. All I can say is we managed to keep him safe through the night, he is safe at home. He thought he could keep raw dogging his dysphoria but he clearly needs to start HRT and transitioning. He is very avoidant of asking for anything because knows we barely get the money for food and other basics. I don't want to lose my son because of money. I want him to have access to a happy life. What if I'm not there next time to stop him?"
about medicine
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"Usually I would just endure until next week to try to get my meds but every time I go without them I notice I don't last as much as before until I have to make a run to the hospital. [I remember their hospitalization, it was really scary]... I needed $125 to get them [monday] half price but every other day I need $250... We need $50 to take our eldest to the doctor for an abdominal pain after carrying grandma. $35 for the laundromat. $300 to cover food expenses for all 9 of us and the cats. $110 for my healthcare renewal. Everything else for clean supplies and other necessities....
Transcript: vouched for by transgendz
transgendz is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45
"I can vouch for CalliΒ @chingaderita! Ive known the family for several years now and theyβve consistently shown proof, was vetted by Kyra on my request when they first messaged, Iβm quite sure, the search function on blogs is just awful and Iβm having a hard time finding such an old post. But I talk to Calli often, weβve had conversations in English and Spanish, and everything they say tracks with the proof provided. I just thought Iβd say something bc I know youβve been helping them too. Thank you for all you do.
About Calli
Calli, is a nonbinary parent dealing with chronic illness, chronic pain, unemployment and severe depression taking care of children, in-laws, and rescue cats . Calli is a kind person constantly boosting other peopleβs campaigns despite their families situation and limited time at compute cafes Calli in posts has discussed: has tumors, problems with gallbladder and liver, chronic joint pain. And a horrible pain in jaw that
We really need meds soon, has not been able to afford them in weeks, and we donβt want another hospitalization
βMyΒ gallbladder and liver need constant medication to not get further fucked up, I have a bunch of untreated tumor/growthsΒ I hope my healthcare will deal with at some point, IΒ have chronic pain which affects my hips, back and left leg and sometimes my leg dislocates at random,Β just this August Iβve had two periods in less than 28 days, this is a common occurrence almost every month, and Iβve beenΒ dealing with teeth pain so intense it causes headaches, hurts my jaw, neck and now I have pain inside my right ear I suspect itβs related to my teeth pain.β
Summary of problemsΒ overall
dec29 It's late, I'm exhausted, haven't had a good night sleep in ages. We have a bunch of chronic panic, chronic illnesses, the most able bodied at home is probably me even tho my left leg dislocates at random, my left leg has jolts of pain at random too and my gallbladder and liver are actively trying to kill me. Oh, did I forget to mention the tumor and the many growths on my legs? Or the tooth pain I still have, I need that molar removed or im going to do it myself. Just, help us get a bed, the one we got is too moldy I'm tired of having to cover it with plastic so we can take turns to sleep on it at floor level. Also, urgently need funds to get my son the his next appointment at the trans clinic see if we can get him HRT or we'll have to get him DIY. We need to get more adult diapers too considering all the mobility issues our elderly are going through. If I dare to ask also for $10 so I can get nuggets and a treat for our son, he turned 9yo 2 days ago and he just wanted some nuggets please.
*They have been helping boost many campaigns, gaza and otherwise (and have asked me to boost these three while their internet is unreliable):
(1) AHMEDβS [campaign] IS VERY FORGOTTEN, PLEASE, KEEP SHARING!!! βΒ @/chingaderitaΒ on TumblrΒ 2)Donate to Trapped Family in Gaza Appeals for Help to Survive, organized by Abdallah Alanqar
Β (3)Β HaniΒ β¬5,688/β¬25,000 βΒ @/chingaderitaΒ on Tumblr
βWe really REALLY need help with theΒ court fees and paperworkΒ [get done before aAugust.],Β we just want to ensure our kids will be safe from my family in case I die, due to my deteriorating health.β
now Personal health problems
Sep 7 tooth pain,Β Couldnβt rest with this damn tooth pain pain pain soainIsbsk,ndl .zlz
Maybe I should have added this to the main body of the post but Iβm on my second period in less than 30 days, cause my liver and gallbladder trying to kill me isnβt enough I have many tumors growing in different parts of my body.
Latest postΒ aug 24
Thank you I did pay my healthcare!!! I was hoping with the extra I could get my meds but we ended up using it for food and taking my MiL to the hospital because of gastrointestinal pain, she had to stay under supervision for a whole night and is scheduled for more tests on Tuesday. Weβre pushing her healthcare services to schedule her for a gastroenterologist as soon as possible, she has been unable to eat which has been a terrible combination with her diabetes. Can we ask for help affording her ensure bottles so she can at least eat that? Weβll need to do something about the humidity and mold soon, we get trapped in the rooms often, last night it took us over an hour to be able to reopen a door even with both my partner and me pushing. We need to get adult diapers btw.Β Please, anything helps!!!!
You know, itβs real nice that we got help to pay the vet bills andΒ helpΒ my kid keep his cat safe and healthy but wow. It is obvious we do not matter at all. The moment our cat needed help we got the goals, both times But Iβve been trying to get my meds for weeks or months at a time and nothing. Itβs real hard not to fucking cry
I know itβs hard for everyone but please, keep sharing, anything ANYTHING helps. Weβve been getting a bit of food and paying little by little what we owe at the corner store but the upcoming card payment is $190 and my meds are $130 and then letβs not forget my healthcare renewal. I also bring bad news, weβre starting with water shortages just like last year, weβve gone from having 4 days of water a week to 1-2 if weβre lucky.Β Our only toilet is busted and there are 9 people here who use it. My kid still needs attention for a UTI heβs had for a couple of months now. And my partner has 3 ingrown nails and 2 big cuts on his feet heβs kept unattended for weeks. Iβd hate to up the goal but we need every help we can get!!
more documentation from 2023.
Went back on my blog to findΒ proof of the fireΒ where my in-laws lost everything,Β this other one with picturesΒ and proof that Iβve been sick and struggling to get my medication sinceΒ August 2023. Just felt like having things organized and maybe make another blog to keep all proof I can save since we lost a lot of information and pictures/videos when we sold our phones and lost the computer.
Nothing so far, I'm so sorry for being pushy, we did use our last pesos to buy a couple fuses because we lost power since last night but we didn't notice it was just us until this morning π
We need insulin, water, testosterone and food please π
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example what to say
NO FAKES could also undermine the rights of the people it is supposed to protect. The new federal βlikenessβ right could be licensed or transferred to others, so individuals will lose control over the use of their own face and voice. Thatβs not theoreticalβworkers in the entertainment industry are routinely asked to sign broad contracts about the future use of their likenesses.
Something quick and simple to use while calling. from user spdy4
Greetings, my name is [Insert Name], and I am calling as one of your constituents to oppose KOSA, The NO FAKES act, and a bunch of Age Verification mandates.
KOSA would open the door to soo many hackers, and should we really be handing our IDs and Data to Big Tech Giants like META, OpenAI, and Google? This would harm more children than it is protecting and goes against our first amendment rights of Free Speech and Privacy.
The NO FAKES act would make it so that l depictions of a person's likeness or voice are restricted (not just ai generated) While sounding good on paper, this would in the process expose users, creators, platforms and developers exposed to lawsuits for everyday speech like memes and parodies. Making it so that anyone with deep-enough pockets could file a lawsuit to ANYONE who uses AI for anything.
And Age Verification Mandates would require users to disclose personal information before accessing lawful speech online. Eliminating anonymity, and threatening our privacy. Making the Internet reveal ourselves on the internet where many people will be at Great risk of being exposed, having their data harvested by data brokers, and is incompatible with our God-given American right to free-expression.
These bills would make the internet worse for everyone, and our economy. There are better ways of protecting kids online, but these bills would put this kids, and even adults into seriously grave danger. I urge you to say No to these bills, and to keep the Internet private, and open to the American people. Feel free to change it to suit your preferences, based on what political party you're calling, or just to make it more factual. Hope this helps!
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Phone numbers for the Commerce subcommittee are below, but also contact your representative
What is happening: There is a lot of pushback on KOSA and AI regulation. KOSA due to the duty of care and other problems, some in congress want it worse and some want it not as bad. AI regulation is the same, some want it and some want to ban it. Senator Blackburn and some other GOP leadership (House GOP leadership, Ted Cruz, etc) are working with the White House to reach some type of deal including KOSA, the No Fakes Act (an AI bill that sucks really bad), and other age verification provisions. House GOP leadership is going to the R's and D's in the House Energy and Commerce Committee to strike a deal. It is very critical we put our foot down and push even harder right now, because this can go very bad very quickly.
example what to say
Something quick and simple to use while calling. from user spdy4
Greetings, my name is [Insert Name], and I am calling as one of your constituents to oppose KOSA, The NO FAKES act, and a bunch of Age Verification mandates.
KOSA would open the door to soo many hackers, and should we really be handing our IDs and Data to Big Tech Giants like META, OpenAI, and Google? This would harm more children than it is protecting and goes against our first amendment rights of Free Speech and Privacy.
The NO FAKES act would make it so that AI-Generated depictions of a person's likeness or voice are restricted. While sounding good on paper, this would in the process expose users, creators, platforms and developers exposed to lawsuits for everyday speech like memes and parodies. Making it so that anyone with deep-enough pockets could file a lawsuit to ANYONE who uses AI for anything.
And Age Verification Mandates would require users to disclose personal information before accessing lawful speech online. Eliminating anonymity, and threatening our privacy. Making the Internet reveal ourselves on the internet where many people will be at Great risk of being exposed, having their data harvested by data brokers, and is incompatible with our God-given American right to free-expression.
These bills would make the internet worse for everyone, and our economy. There are better ways of protecting kids online, but these bills would put this kids, and even adults into seriously grave danger. I urge you to say No to these bills, and to keep the Internet private, and open to the American people. Feel free to change it to suit your preferences, based on what political party you're calling, or just to make it more factual. Hope this helps!
202 225 0773 unavailable as of 8 PM EST, please use others here http://robinkelly.house.gov/contact/offices Zipcodes https://www.house.gov/htbin/ziplook_find?ssdd=il02
Phone numbers for the Commerce subcommittee are below, but also contact your representative
What is happening: There is a lot of pushback on KOSA and AI regulation. KOSA due to the duty of care and other problems, some in congress want it worse and some want it not as bad. AI regulation is the same, some want it and some want to ban it. Senator Blackburn and some other GOP leadership (House GOP leadership, Ted Cruz, etc) are working with the White House to reach some type of deal including KOSA, the No Fakes Act (an AI bill that sucks really bad), and other age verification provisions. House GOP leadership is going to the R's and D's in the House Energy and Commerce Committee to strike a deal. It is very critical we put our foot down and push even harder right now, because this can go very bad very quickly.
example what to say
Something quick and simple to use while calling. from user spdy4
Greetings, my name is [Insert Name], and I am calling as one of your constituents to oppose KOSA, The NO FAKES act, and a bunch of Age Verification mandates.
KOSA would open the door to soo many hackers, and should we really be handing our IDs and Data to Big Tech Giants like META, OpenAI, and Google? This would harm more children than it is protecting and goes against our first amendment rights of Free Speech and Privacy.
The NO FAKES act would make it so that AI-Generated depictions of a person's likeness or voice are restricted. While sounding good on paper, this would in the process expose users, creators, platforms and developers exposed to lawsuits for everyday speech like memes and parodies. Making it so that anyone with deep-enough pockets could file a lawsuit to ANYONE who uses AI for anything.
And Age Verification Mandates would require users to disclose personal information before accessing lawful speech online. Eliminating anonymity, and threatening our privacy. Making the Internet reveal ourselves on the internet where many people will be at Great risk of being exposed, having their data harvested by data brokers, and is incompatible with our God-given American right to free-expression.
These bills would make the internet worse for everyone, and our economy. There are better ways of protecting kids online, but these bills would put this kids, and even adults into seriously grave danger. I urge you to say No to these bills, and to keep the Internet private, and open to the American people. Feel free to change it to suit your preferences, based on what political party you're calling, or just to make it more factual. Hope this helps!
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Phone numbers for the Commerce subcommittee are below, but also contact your representative
What is happening: There is a lot of pushback on KOSA and AI regulation. KOSA due to the duty of care and other problems, some in congress want it worse and some want it not as bad. AI regulation is the same, some want it and some want to ban it. Senator Blackburn and some other GOP leadership (House GOP leadership, Ted Cruz, etc) are working with the White House to reach some type of deal including KOSA, the No Fakes Act (an AI bill that sucks really bad), and other age verification provisions. House GOP leadership is going to the R's and D's in the House Energy and Commerce Committee to strike a deal. It is very critical we put our foot down and push even harder right now, because this can go very bad very quickly.
example what to say
Something quick and simple to use while calling. from user spdy4
Greetings, my name is [Insert Name], and I am calling as one of your constituents to oppose KOSA, The NO FAKES act, and a bunch of Age Verification mandates.
KOSA would open the door to soo many hackers, and should we really be handing our IDs and Data to Big Tech Giants like META, OpenAI, and Google? This would harm more children than it is protecting and goes against our first amendment rights of Free Speech and Privacy.
The NO FAKES act would make it so that AI-Generated depictions of a person's likeness or voice are restricted. While sounding good on paper, this would in the process expose users, creators, platforms and developers exposed to lawsuits for everyday speech like memes and parodies. Making it so that anyone with deep-enough pockets could file a lawsuit to ANYONE who uses AI for anything.
And Age Verification Mandates would require users to disclose personal information before accessing lawful speech online. Eliminating anonymity, and threatening our privacy. Making the Internet reveal ourselves on the internet where many people will be at Great risk of being exposed, having their data harvested by data brokers, and is incompatible with our God-given American right to free-expression.
These bills would make the internet worse for everyone, and our economy. There are better ways of protecting kids online, but these bills would put this kids, and even adults into seriously grave danger. I urge you to say No to these bills, and to keep the Internet private, and open to the American people. Feel free to change it to suit your preferences, based on what political party you're calling, or just to make it more factual. Hope this helps!
202 225 0773 unavailable as of 8 PM EST, please use others here http://robinkelly.house.gov/contact/offices Zipcodes https://www.house.gov/htbin/ziplook_find?ssdd=il02
Phone numbers for the Commerce subcommittee are below, but also contact your representative
What is happening: There is a lot of pushback on KOSA and AI regulation. KOSA due to the duty of care and other problems, some in congress want it worse and some want it not as bad. AI regulation is the same, some want it and some want to ban it. Senator Blackburn and some other GOP leadership (House GOP leadership, Ted Cruz, etc) are working with the White House to reach some type of deal including KOSA, the No Fakes Act (an AI bill that sucks really bad), and other age verification provisions. House GOP leadership is going to the R's and D's in the House Energy and Commerce Committee to strike a deal. It is very critical we put our foot down and push even harder right now, because this can go very bad very quickly.
example what to say
Something quick and simple to use while calling. from user spdy4
Greetings, my name is [Insert Name], and I am calling as one of your constituents to oppose KOSA, The NO FAKES act, and a bunch of Age Verification mandates.
KOSA would open the door to soo many hackers, and should we really be handing our IDs and Data to Big Tech Giants like META, OpenAI, and Google? This would harm more children than it is protecting and goes against our first amendment rights of Free Speech and Privacy.
The NO FAKES act would make it so that AI-Generated depictions of a person's likeness or voice are restricted. While sounding good on paper, this would in the process expose users, creators, platforms and developers exposed to lawsuits for everyday speech like memes and parodies. Making it so that anyone with deep-enough pockets could file a lawsuit to ANYONE who uses AI for anything.
And Age Verification Mandates would require users to disclose personal information before accessing lawful speech online. Eliminating anonymity, and threatening our privacy. Making the Internet reveal ourselves on the internet where many people will be at Great risk of being exposed, having their data harvested by data brokers, and is incompatible with our God-given American right to free-expression.
These bills would make the internet worse for everyone, and our economy. There are better ways of protecting kids online, but these bills would put this kids, and even adults into seriously grave danger. I urge you to say No to these bills, and to keep the Internet private, and open to the American people. Feel free to change it to suit your preferences, based on what political party you're calling, or just to make it more factual. Hope this helps!
202 225 0773 unavailable as of 8 PM EST, please use others here http://robinkelly.house.gov/contact/offices Zipcodes https://www.house.gov/htbin/ziplook_find?ssdd=il02
