Sheela-Na-Gig

gay people be having badly painted black nail polish

Me, dying my hair during a depressive episode: this is gonna solve everything

lets be real! passing is one of the most unfair societal obstacles we face! cis ppl put expectations on us to not just perform our gender, but to overperform it! if they used their standards on themselves, so many cis ppl wouldnt pass either. so take a deep breath and know youre doing just fine! and better than you think! its not like passing was ever important for self worth anyways - its just a bullshit game we play with cis.

I hope every trans person reads this and internalizes it. Dear GOD this is important!

people saying “me” really bugs me bc it’s like. appropriation of kin culture. I really don’t know how to explain it but saying you are someone without iding as them is really disrespectful to people who get bullied and targeted for being kin. you don’t have to go through the struggles of being kin but you get to make a joke about it. it’s not your fucking joke to make.

me

I can’t fucking believe this is real.