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Like a lot of you don’t take the time to step out of your boundaries, step out of your comfort zone. So many of you don’t do things because you think it’ll harm your self worth or that its below you. Its affect your money, honey.

When you’re an escort at $400 an hour, but you haven’t gotten any calls But you won’t create a quick second persona and charge  200$ because its below you to accept that little.

Or you’re online reblogging sugar baby self help posts and wondering why dudes on SA are so cheap. While you have bills to pay and rent to make, you can’t take a few headless nudes and sell em on kik? Or accept that splenda daddy, use him to tide you over until you get your whale?

I dislike online sex work. I’m not good at it and its boring/awkward for me. But I did it for a couple weeks, paid my all bills and got a new wardrobe. I toured SF at a high rate and had only a few chomps. I brought out my old lower rate persona and advertised, made all my money back and more. 

If you’re capable of charging a higher rate, it doesn’t make you bad if you accept less than it. Stop tying this work to your self worth. It doesn’t make you pathetic if you need to sell your snapchat. I’ve got friends who make bank off their snapchat and manyvids, I wish I could do what they do.

Simply said your lateral whorephobia is affecting your coins. Stop sitting around waiting for someone to book you at your high price, while your bills pile up and you can’t eat. Make your fucking money and stop worrying about what others might think. I still respect you whether you’re 800/hr or 150/hr. 

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She drastically improves her appearance.

She upgrades her knowledge of etiquette and manners and improves her social skills.

She changes her environment in order to increase the chances of meeting men with money.

She makes a conscious decision to stop associating herself with men of lesser means and inferior position.

She continues climbing no matter what, because settling is never an option.

You might not like my answer; but read. Read MULTIPLE works. The goal of manipulation is to change people’s perception of you. 

I feel like everyone recommends Ho Tactics and it seems to have been effective. I couldn’t make it past the first chapter though, so I never read it. The works of Robert Greene have great strategy (The Art of Seduction, 48 Laws of Power, 33 Strategies of War) and are a gateway. 

My advice would be to look into Philosophy, Psychology & Sociology which make up Social Engineering (strategy, deception, etc.). To get the ball rolling, here are some works that I recommend in no particular order:

The Prince – Niccolò Machiavelli

The Art of War – Sun Tzu

Hagakure – Yamamoto Tsunetomo

Strategy - B.H. Liddell Hart

On War - Carl von Clauswitz

Influence: Science and Practice (The Psychology of Persuasion) – Robert Cialdini

How to Win Friends & Influence People – Dale Carnegie

Social Engineering: The Art of Human Hacking – Chris Hadnagy

Covert Persuasion: Psychological Tactics and Tricks to Win the Game – Kevin Hogan & James Speakman

Get Anyone to Do Anything: Never Feel Powerless Again – David J. Lieberman

Genghis Khan and the Making of the Modern World - Jack Weatherford

The Art of Worldly Wisdom - Baltasar Gracián y Morales

It’s Not All About Me: The Top Ten Techniques for Building Quick Rapport with Anyone – Robin Dreeke

What Every BODY is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent’s Guide to Speed-Reading People – Joe Navarro

Telling Lies: Clues to Deceit in the Marketplace, Politics, and Marriage – Paul Ekman

A very important thing before you even get into manipulation is learning how to control yourself and understanding why you think and act the way you do. Here’s some recommendations:

Positioning: The Battle for Your Mind – Al Ries & Jack Trout

Thinking, Fast and Slow –  Daniel Kahneman

Predictably Irrational: The Hidden Forces That Shape Our Decisions – Dan Ariely

The Social Animal – David Brooks

The Laws of Human Nature – Robert Greene

Philosophy also plays a major role. I quite enjoy the works, and apply some of the philosophical outlooks of Thucydides, Seneca the Younger, Marcus Aurelius, Epictetus, and Zeno of Citium.