lifestyle of a heaux

St Barth’s

Hotel Les Ondines

·       Shell Beach ·       Toiny beach ·       Marigot beach ·      

Hotel Eden Rock

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Hotel Christopher

·       Quai du Yacht Club

·       Bête à Z'Ailes,

·       La Plage,

Do not miss a chance to do some scuba diving, swimming, snorkeling, deep sea fishing and water skiing on the beautiful Island.

Cannes/St Tropez

·       The Majestic Barriere

·       3.14 The Beach

·       The Eden Roc Hotel

·       Le Baoli

·       The VIP Room

·       The Nikki Beach

·       Le Musée de l’Annonciade

·       Pampelonne Beach

·       Pan Dei Palais

·       Papagayo Club

Singapore

·       Marina Bay Sands

·       Botanic Gardens

·       Orchard Road

·       The National Museum of Singapore,

·       Clarke Quay

·       Raffles Hotel

·       The Chinese Garden,

·       Mandarin Oriental

Switzerland

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Grand Hôtel du Lac

·       Sils Maria

·       St Moritz

·       Dolder Spa

·       Clouds

·       Srpüngli Confiserie

·       Bahnhofstrasse

Paris

·       l'avenue des champs-Elysees

·       Opéra Garnier

·       Flûte bar

·       Patrick Roger

·       Fouquet’s Barrièrre Palace hotel

·       Place Vendôme

·       Shangri-la Palace hotel.

London

·       The Dorchester.

·       Rosewood hotel

·       The Montcalm

·       The  Corinthia Hotel

·       Sexy Fish restaurant

·       Zuma

·       The Mayfair Hotel

·       Tramps nightclub

·       Harvey Nichols

·       Raffles

·       The Sanderson hotel

·       Hakkasan

·       Nobu

·       Boujis

·       Libertine

·       Mahiki

·       Cirque le soir

Monaco

·       Oceanographic Museum

·       Monte Carlo Harbor

·       Jardin Exotique

·       Casino of Monte Carlo

·       Larvotto beach

·       Le Metropole shopping center

·       Opera de Monte Carlo

Miami

·       Millionaire’s Row on Miami Beach.

·       Miami Beach Golf Course

·       Bayside Marina

·       Coconut Grove

·       Miami Beach Marina

·       Wynwood Art Walk

·       Mandarin Oriental

·       Bal Harbor

Las Vegas

·       The Strip

·       Casino at Bellagio

·       V Theater

·       Pallazo resort casino

·       Fred Leighton

·       Bellagio gallery of fine art

Dubais

·       Dubai Museum

·       Mall of the Emirates

·       Dubai Creek

·       Jumeirah Beach hotel

·       Emirates Towers

I am dead serious about this, I see far too many women who are obsessed with buying the latest Chanel purse or those cute Hermés Oran sandals when they should be using their money to improve their health. Luxury goods don't matter if you can't enjoy them and what's the point of neglecting your health for material items? It makes no sense, you need to be healthy and you need to put your money where it matters the most. So invest in yourself and make all of the necessary appointments you need to have so that you're able to consider yourself healthy.

What you should immediately do with your first sudden influx of currency is make a dental appointment to have your teeth professionally cleaned, have your x-rays done, have a consultation for Invisalign if you feel you need it, and have your teeth gently whitened. I promise you, it's not worth putting off a dental appointment in order to buy fancy things, you don't want to be put in a position where you'll have to be buying fancy dentures in a few years. If you do already have dentures, veneers, or dental implants, level them up! Spend your money on newer and more expensive products that will increase your comfort and improve your quality of life! Having dental discomfort is an unnecessary evil!

You should also make an eye appointment, you need to visit an eye doctor at least once yearly and you can take the opportunity to get a cute new pair of glasses with frames you actually like or those hydrating contact lenses that are considered to be luxurious so your insurance refuses to cover them. Life is so much better when you can wake up in the morning, put on your glasses, and enjoy crystal clear vision. There's nothing like being able to live and enjoy your life and investing in yourself is the smartest decision you can make, I promise that luxury items can't even begin to compare to a healthy, whole, and healed body. It just doesn't make sense to buy luxury goods when you are a luxury good, you need to care for yourself well.

Take yourself to a podiatrist, you're too young to have that knee pain and custom made shoe inserts could legitimately improve your life. I thought it was all very silly but I recently got a pair of the custom made inserts and tennis shoes that my cousin uses and I can actually walk with ease now. I don't have the weird pain that comes from always wearing heels and I can finally put my feet flat on the ground instead of always walking on the tips of my toes. Go to a chiropractor as well, having my hips aligned helped make my life so much nicer, for the first time in modern history, I can walk and enjoy walking instead of hobbling around because my bones have a horrid ache. Chiropractors and Podiatrists are key!

I would also make an appointment with a hearing doctor, hearing loss can happen early and you can even be born with mild hearing loss so why not take the time to have your ears checked and see if you need hearing aids? You can buy the fancy invisible kind that just go inside of your ear and disappear but they'll make your hearing impeccable and you'll be able to have clear conversations and watch movies without subtitles and just generally have a nicer life. No one needs to know, you don't need to get the big clunky ones that are offered with public health insurance or the slightly less clunky ones offered with private health insurance, you can get the nice hidden streamlined ones and go about your day to day business with the added benefit of hearing. There's nothing like enjoying yourself and going out without the fear of being unable to hear important things.

Have your blood drawn and have your labs run, get the full panel drawn up and look at your levels. Blood tests can reveal so many things and really give you clues as to where you should improve your health. A lot of the tests aren't covered by insurance and have to be asked for and, as soon as you have the opportunity, you need to ask to have those tests run. Have an allergy test, there's probably a reason as to why you feel shitty after you eat certain foods, not every allergic reaction comes with anaphylactic shock, some allergic reactions just give you a headache, make your heart race, hurt your stomach, and make you feel horrid for days. There's a clear reason as to why you don't always feel the best but cost is a huge barrier in medicine. The second you have the opportunity, take it in hand immediately.

I have a friend who has scoliosis but also sugars and one of the first things she did was save up so that she could spend $15,000 on the luxury version of the back brace she has to wear to sleep and a new mattress and bed frame to support her back and she started to feel whole again. She didn't have to deal with debilitating back pain due to having to skimp and save when it came to her medical aids, she could do fun things like sports without having to sit on the sidelines, and her life really took a turn for the better because she was able to finally have the things that she needed without thinking of the cost of them.

All of my cousins sugar and marry well, I don't have a single one who hasn't, the first thing they always tell me to do is invest in their bodies. Will an Hermés Birkin increase in value if you hold onto it and keep it in good shape? Yes, but what's the point of having a purse when you're living in pain to the point where enjoying life is a laughable concept and your teeth are damaged and feel like they're about to fall out? There will always be time to buy things, we live in a capitalist society that pushes purchases like there's no tomorrow, you don't have unlimited time to enjoy your body though. If you get yourself into peak physical health while you're young and take care of yourself, you're setting yourself up for easier days later on and you're also improving your life in the moment. You can't tell me that health isn't a precious commodity, everyone wants to be healthy and health is considered to be a true luxury in most of the world.

Lots of Love,

Linsi.

I remember reviewing two popular books that could be easily be applied to an aspiring sugar baby (or any sex worker for that matter). I did say that I was going to review the many others in my repertoire BUT ain’t nobody got time for dat. So I will just list the books. This include books on power, manipulating men, sex, etc. ((In no particular order))

**Disclaimer: This is MY personal list of books that I own whether in book, kindle or audio form. This list includes sexually related books. No, I’m not saying as a (SB/Stripper/Escort/etc.) that you need to have sex. In no way am I insinuating that in this list. Just listing books that worked for ME in my personal life.** 

1. Women Have All The Power… Too Bad They Don’t Know It: Secrets Every Man’s Daughter Should Know by Michael J. Lockwood

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2. Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man by Steve Harvey

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3. The Power of the Pussy: How to Get What You Want From Men Love, Respect, Commitment and More…What Do You Want? by Kara King

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4. A Gold Digger’s Guide (How to get what you want without giving it up) by Baje Fletcher

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5. Sugar Daddy 101: What You Need to Know if You Want to be a Sugar Baby by Leidra Lawson

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6. The Art Of Gold Digging by Tariq King Flex Nasheed

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7. Seeking Arrangement: The Definitive Guide to Sugar Daddy and Mutually Beneficial Relationships by Brandon Wade

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8. 6 Simple Tricks To CRACK THE MAN CODE And Get Any Guy To Open His Heart by Michael Fiore

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9. How to Snare a Millionaire NOW: A sequel to the Ultimate Guide on Marrying for Both Love and Money by Lisa Johnson Mandell

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10. Get Anyone to Do Anything by David J. Lieberman Ph.D.

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11. The Geisha Secret: Ancient Dating Rituals Proven to Win a Modern Man’s Heart by Hanako

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12. The Vixen Manual: How to Find, Seduce & Keep the Man You Want by Karrine Steffans

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13. The Internet Escort’s Handbook Book 1: The Foundation by Amanda Brooks

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14. The Internet Escort’s Handbook Book 2: Advertising and Marketing by Amanda Brooks

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15. The Attraction Factor - 4 Simple Yet Powerful Principles That Will Melt Any Man’s Heart by Bob Grant

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16. Marry a Millionaire - The Best Places To Find Rich Men by Coach Juliet

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17. How to Talk to Anyone by Leil Lowndes

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18. How To Develop Self-Confidence and Influence Peoplle by Pulic Speaking by Dale Carnegie

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19. The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene

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20. Going Down: The Instinct Guide to Oral Sex by Ben R. Rogers ((Yes, it’s written from the perspective of a gay male but VERY useful nonetheless.))

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21. Blow Him Away: How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex by Marcy Michaels

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22. The Power of Eye Contact by Michael Ellsberg

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23. The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene

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24. The Definitive Book of Body Language by Barbara Pease

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25. The Satanic Witch by Anton Szandor LaVey ((Don’t be fooled/scared by the title of the book. A very good read for women that would like to use their inherited manipulation skills))

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26. What Every BODY is Saying by Joe Navarro

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27. Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini

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28. The Gold Digger’s Guide: How To Marry The Man And The Money by Ivana Rich

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29. The Fortune Hunters: Dazzling Women and the Men They Married by Charlotte Hays

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30. How to Marry Money by Kevin Doyle

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31. How to Marry Super Rich by Sheilah Graham

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32. The Guide to Becoming the Sensuous Black Woman (And Drive Your Man Wild In and Out of Bed!) by Miss T.

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33. How to Look Expensive: A Beauty Editor’s Secrets to Getting Gorgeous without Breaking the Bank by Andrea Pomerantz Lustig

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34. How to Marry the Rich by Ginie Polo Sayles

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35. Rich Dad, Poor Dad: What the Rich Teach Their Kids About Money—That the Poor and the Middle Class Do Not! by Robert T. Kiyosaki

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36. From Ramen to Riches: Building Wealth in Your 20s: Or Spending, Saving, Investing and Managing Your Money to Get Rich Slowly, but Surely by James Wood

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37. Wealthy Men for Money or Love 21.2 Century Guide for VIP Escorts and Single Women by Jessica Diamond

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38. The Princess Plan: Shrink your waist. Expand your beauty by Dr. Jennifer Hanes

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39. How To Get a Rich Man by Donna Spangler

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40. Smart Girls Marry Money: How Women Have Been Getting Duped into the Romantic Dream-and How They’re Paying For It by Daniela Drake

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💵💴💸💷💳💰 MONEY MANIFESTATION!

Have a signature accessory, clothing article, make up look, or hair style.

Have a fragrance. Make your hair scents and lotions match your perfume.

It’s okay to dine alone. Bring a book or people watch.

Love your hair. Research the best brands for your hair type and use masks weekly.

Your nails don’t need to be fancy, but keep them maintained.

Stay worldly. Know works of art, artists, designers, films, books, politicians. Spend your lunch break reading the paper or a magazine.

Crying is not a weapon. It’s okay to feel your emotions, but never use them as an excuse to avoid your problems.

Jealousy is boring. Love and appreciate others. If you can’t love them, forget them.

Boost others. Flatter others, but don’t deprecate yourself in the process.

Don’t sulk. Don’t let the whole world know your problems. If you don’t want someone to give their opinion, don’t share your situation.

Your life is between you and the universe. Don’t post your personal matters for others to see.

Don’t emotionally blackmail others. They hurt you? Let them know and then move on. It’s between the two of you and not the world.

Cook dinner. Cook dinner and listen to music, the radio, or a podcast.

Treat yourself to candles and flowers. Be your own cheerleader.

Take naps. Take a cat nap on a Sunday afternoon with the blinds open and the fan on high.

Drink your water, eat your vegetables. Take care of your body.

Never have time to take off your jewelry before bed, but always have time to take off your makeup. Your nighttime skin regime is important.

Mystery is beautiful. You don’t need to reveal much of or about yourself.

Control your speech. Cleopatra was known for her inviting voice, Marilyn Monroe’s voice was calm, soft, and slow. (breathy)

For the girls who are more into SGF lifestyle or hypergamy….

When most girls think about dating wealthy, older men they focus on getting solely on the men. Yes, from the sugaring perspective, it’s the sensible thing to do… however, if you are looking for a long-term assimilation into these circles, you are sure for failure:

Women are the gate-keepers to longterm acceptance into the upper echelon. 

I’ve said it before… but you can sneak in through the backdoor of the gentleman’s club at 1 am, OR you can be invited through the front doors of the country club to join the other high-class ladies for brunch on Sunday morning. 

You. Need. To. Gain. Acceptance. From. These. Women.

Here’s why:

1. You cannot control your man’s environment

I’m sure you’re delightful, and can charm any man. However, be realistic, do you have long-lasting control over his friends? You may be able to make them approve of you, but they are not the direct recipient of your good graces (not to mention sexual attention) so you realistically cannot hope to hold influence over them beyond polite friendship.

They may love it when he brings you around, you have a dainty and delightful feminine presence! But ultimately, your man’s friends are outside your direct influence…. who controls them? Other women….

2. These women second-hand control your mans environment

It does not matter how much your mans friends love you, your downfall will come from his friends’ women NOT liking you. They will poison your man’s friends’ ears against you. These women have that power… sure you might be able to keep one man against his wife’s wishes… but even that won’t be enough. There will be a more skeptic man in the distance who has your guy’s ear… and you know what happens from there.

You must be respectful and have the approval of the women in his circle. Otherwise, you will risk your positioning and place in your mans life if all his friends’ wives do not like you.

3. These women control the larger invites and events

I made the analogy before, but these women control a majority of the upper-echelon events. The Holiday parties, the golf outings, the vacations, all of them. These women are hosting parties, and your man values attending these. They likely won’t be so petty to specifically not invite you as his +1, but don’t count on it. 

Your man will notice if these women like you - and even if he doesn’t say it, it’s important to him that they do. He wants you to get along with them, as it makes his social life feel more cohesive and fulfilling. 

Personally, my man always compliments me at how well I get along with these women - he’s even commented how surprised he is by how much they always like me! They’re heavier, older, and less beautiful than I am, and have EVERY reason to be threatened by me or dislike me, but they don’t. He’s even complimented me, claiming I have EXPANDED his invites and social life! I have befriended and charmed the women in his circles, and it’s improved BOTH of our experiences 🥳

4. These women can support you in the future

Finally, if you truly befriend and assimilate with the women in these circles, you have increased long-term stability. Beyond them supporting your place in his life directly - to their man and yours - they can support your place in the community. Say you end things with your guy… if you delicately keep the balance of friendship with them (no messy break-ups or pressure for them to pick you vs him) they might even be so inclined to set you up with one of their other friends!

They would much rather their husband’s recently divorced friend date YOU than some random floozy! Right? So yes, you must cultivate and maintain these friendships with these women. They can provide you long term access to the events and men you want.