I will tell my daughter, don’t ever beg for someone’s time. Don’t ever beg for someone’s attention. And don’t ever beg for someone’s love.

People are all for trauma victims and Support You™️ if your scared meek and mild but the second you're mad and violent you are Toxic and Crazy

Lol can we please have one positivity post for cluster B disorders without some jackass in the comments adding in how much they hate narcissists? Tell it to your therapist, Karen, we don't care.

"wanting to fuck an ugly dude should land you in psych ward" fuck off fuck off fuck off fuck OFF you absolute waste of human skin, all the people who think they're cool and good and anti ableism and thought this post was funny should be slapped

we feel it. we feel it all the time in our cores & never really stop feeling it... BUT we also feel the batshit crazy joy that borderlines alone can feel. if you haven't had those moments that feel like lyrics from a song that's too beautiful to be about real life, please keep looking for them. they will come. if you already have some stashed away, please keep looking for more. they will come and you'll be so very grateful, even just for right then, that you are able to feel happiness with such overwhelming intensity. the joy will come too - please keep looking for it.

not to get too deep on main but did anyone else have such deeply rooted issues with their self worth for so long that they thought as a kid/teen that their only redeeming feature was being “low maintenance” and now as an adult you give yourself guilt pangs asking for any more than the barest minimum in virtually any relationship because asking for things might negate your only good quality which is just “doesn’t ask for things”

#you don’t believe you can be liked so you settle for being useful 

Haha ow.

as you get older, you realize that you’re not always right and there’s so many things you could’ve handled better, so many situations where you could’ve been kinder and all you can really do is forgive yourself and let your mistakes make you a better person.

yo does anyone else feel CONSTANTLY guilty? like you’ve always done something wrong but you don’t know what it is?

Daily reminder that boundaries are healthy.

Everyone needs to see this. I dont care what kind of blog you run or what kind of person you are. You can take the few seconds to reblog this. I know some of my followers will need to see this, and so i will reblog for them. Even if its just one or two, they deserve to see this, and to be happy. Always reblog. Always.

this is really important

Your cat loves you with all their little heart even if they don’t show it because they have an image to maintain as a cryptid from Hell, and they will miss you.

you weren’t a “well behaved” child you had anxiety and were terrified of conflict

“a pleasure to teach” on the report card meant obedient to a fault, a constant need to be perfect to keep “a pleasure to teach” on the report card, realizing you weren’t as perfect a student as you thought when school got tough, and your perfectionism and paralyzing fear of “getting in trouble” is so deeply ingrained in you that you procrastinate everything because if it isn’t perfect, you shouldn’t try at all