friendship and love in one person

I used to think it was important to have common interests with the person that you are in a relationship with but now I think it is more important to be similar in other aspects. like how kind you are. how you treat the people you care about, how you treat strangers. how you deal with anger. how you deal with pain. and not necessarily dealing with all these things the same way but being perceptive enough to understand what action each situation calls for. it’s important for both people to be on the same page about what that action should be. it’s important to me to have that kind of synchrony.

This is the post exudes emotional maturity.

don’t forget that love letters are still the cutest gifts

are you ever in a moment and think damn i’m really gonna miss this

i hope you find that one person who can tell you’re sad with one glance, who invites you for a drive to a faraway city just to stroll through a park that’s absolutely new to you, who sends you weird texts with no context just to make you smile, who thinks about you in the grocery store and at the doctors and in front of a stoplight, who holds your hands when you’re nervous, who watches scary and funny and romantic movies with you from the evening to the morning, who talks about you with admiration and excitement when you’re not around, who truthfully tells you they miss you after you part ways for the day, who stands up for you, who supports you unconditionally, who appreciates you, who realizes your worth, who embraces your love. i hope you find someone who cares for you as you care for them. you deserve that.

the most optimal partner is someone who shares a lot of your interests and personal philosophies and lifestyle choices but HARD opposes you on things like favorite candy flavors. knowing i can just dump all my white chocolate on my bf to take care of and he dumps all his dark chocolate on me in turn for the same reason has fully convinced me that soulmates are real

I never wanted you to give me anything. I just wanted you.

Alternate universe where I literally just to go to school forever (for free) so I can just learn about art and literature and history and languages for 100 years. No job skills. No credit requirements. No student loans. Just learning.

My soulmate is out there somewhere, pushing a pull door...I just know it.