Sagittitties

if you've been a people pleaser, astrology gives you surprisingly simple ways to reconnect with your inner child.

i think the easiest place to start is your Moon, which is your emotional being roughly speaking, so it would represent your urgent emotional needs, too.

and the Moon isn't just your emotions, it's the version of you that existed before you learned how to perform. it's your instinctive needs, your first experience of comfort, and the child who didn't yet know they had to earn love.

Moon in Aries often heals by remembering that wanting something isn't selfish. these people are usually taught to tone themselves down, wait their turn, or stop being "too much." their inner child needs permission to be impulsive, competitive, loud, and excited again.

Moon in Taurus reconnects through the senses. cooking, blankets, slow mornings, nature, collecting beautiful objects. if you've been surviving for years, your inner child is probably asking for softness more than another life lesson.

Moon in Gemini heals through curiosity. reading random topics at 2 a.m., talking for hours, asking questions, changing interests every month. they aren't "too scattered"—their emotional world grows through movement.

Moon in Cancer usually spent childhood taking care of everyone else's feelings. healing means realizing they deserve nurturing without having to become everyone else's parent first.

Moon in Leo often stopped shining because attention became dangerous. maybe they were called dramatic, attention-seeking, or full of themselves. their inner child heals every time they're seen without apologizing for taking up space.

Moon in Virgo learned that being useful was the safest way to be loved. these people often become exceptional caretakers while quietly neglecting themselves. healing isn't becoming more productive—it's realizing they don't have to earn rest.

Moon in Libra became the peacekeeper. they learned harmony was more important than honesty. reconnecting with their inner child means discovering they can survive disappointing people.

Moon in Scorpio usually grew up feeling emotions that nobody around them could hold. they learned vulnerability was dangerous, so they became experts at control. healing starts when they realize trust can exist without total certainty.

Moon in Sagittarius needs adventure more than advice. traveling somewhere new, learning philosophy, taking a class just because it looks interesting—these remind them life is bigger than other people's expectations.

Moon in Capricorn often had to grow up too early. whether literally or emotionally, childhood felt like responsibility. their inner child heals every time they allow themselves to play without feeling guilty for it.

Moon in Aquarius usually felt different from the very beginning. instead of trying to become "normal," healing comes from finding people who actually appreciate their weirdness instead of merely tolerating it.

Moon in Pisces absorbed everyone's emotions until they forgot which ones were theirs. music, dreams, spirituality, art, and solitude often help them return to themselves because those spaces don't demand constant performance.

Saturn tells a different story.

if the Moon is the child, Saturn is the voice that says, "grow up."

where Saturn sits, we often believe love must be earned through discipline, achievement, or perfection. ironically, that's also where people pleasing tends to hide.

Saturn in the 1st house teaches you that your existence doesn't have to be justified. you don't have to become impressive before you're allowed to take up space.

Saturn in the 2nd house often creates the belief that your worth depends on what you produce or possess. healing begins when self-esteem stops being tied to productivity.

Saturn in the 3rd house can make people afraid of sounding unintelligent. your inner child heals every time you ask the question anyway, write anyway, speak anyway.

Saturn in the 4th house usually points to early emotional responsibility or a heavy home environment. building your own definition of family becomes part of healing.

Saturn in the 5th house teaches people to censor their own joy. play starts feeling childish instead of necessary. reconnecting means creating something simply because it delights you.

Saturn in the 6th house often believes rest has to be earned. your inner child probably doesn't need a better routine—they need permission to exist outside one.

Saturn in the 7th house can make relationships feel like obligations instead of places of mutual care. healing comes from realizing love doesn't have to feel like a contract.

Saturn in the 8th house often fears depending on other people. learning to receive support without immediately trying to repay it becomes transformational.

Saturn in the 9th house may feel pressure to always have the right answers or the "correct" worldview. healing comes from curiosity replacing certainty.

Saturn in the 10th house easily becomes the person everyone admires but nobody truly knows. success feels safer than authenticity. your inner child wants to be loved even when they're not achieving.

Saturn in the 11th house often feels like an outsider within groups. healing means finding community instead of trying to earn belonging.

Saturn in the 12th house tends to carry invisible guilt or loneliness that can't always be explained. solitude becomes healing when it turns from isolation into sanctuary. the Moon reminds you who you were.

Saturn reminds you what convinced you to stop being that person.

healing is learning that your needs (Moon) never disappeared, and you should bring them to the front because you always desreved to be treating yourself nicely first.

I am continuing this series with part 3. I am going to use the same chart I did in previous parts. This applies to Vedic astrology. Although sane method can be used for traditional astrology with signs and planets.

To see physical features of your FS we will use derivative astrology. Where we can rotate your chart and treat your 7th house as spouse's 1st house.

1st House (The Ascendant): Rules the physical body, general vitality, complexion, and the overall "shell" or structure of the person. It determines how they walk, their height, and their general build.

2nd House: Rules the face and its specific features, including the eyes, nose, mouth, teeth, and tongue. It determines the attractiveness of the visage, the quality of their voice/speech, and their eating habits.

​3rd House: Rules the neck, shoulders, collarbone, arms, and hands. It determines their physical dexterity, the strength of their upper body, and their handwriting or gestural communication.

​4th House: Rules the chest area, including the heart, lungs, and breasts. It determines their emotional center, cardiac health, and the physical capacity of their chest cavity.

​5th House: Rules the upper abdomen, stomach, liver, and the upper back/spine. It determines their digestive strength, posture related to the spine, and physical vitality.

​6th House: Rules the waist, lower abdomen, intestines, and kidneys. It determines the mid-section’s shape, their susceptibility to acute illnesses or injuries, and their digestive tolerance.

​7th House: Rules the pelvic region, lower back (lumbar), and internal reproductive organs. It determines the strength of the lower back and sexual vitality.

​8th House: Rules the external genitalia, excretory system, and the anus. It determines sexual characteristics, chronic health vulnerabilities, and longevity.

​9th House: Rules the hips, thighs, and femoral arteries. It determines the strength and length of the upper legs and the overall structure of the hip girdle.

​10th House: Rules the knees, kneecaps, and joints. It determines the stability of their movement, the strength of their bones, and their ability to stand tall physically.

​11th House: Rules the calves, shins, and ankles. It determines the shape of the lower legs and blood circulation.

​12th House: Rules the feet, toes, and the left eye. It determines the way they tread on the ground, the shape of their feet, and their sleep quality.

I am going to analyse a chart of a friend to show you how everything relates.

So her 7th house taurus becomes spouse 1st house

Her future spouse is likely to possess a sturdy, well proportioned, and grounded physique characterized by broad shoulders and a prominent, strong neck this is because of Taurus influence, then the 1st lord venus conjunct mercury in spouse's 2nd house gemini in Punarvasu Nakshatra suggests he may be taller than average with surprisingly long, elegant limbs and fingers that contrast with his solid torso (influence of Punarvasu). His complexion will likely be fair to wheatish with a soft, healthy glow, and he is destined to retain a remarkably youthful, "baby faced" appearance well into adulthood due to the strong Mercury influence on his face. The face will be most striking aspect, featuring a handsome, symmetrical structure, a high forehead, and beautiful, magnetic eyes that may have a reddish tint or a distinct "cat like" upward tilt at the corners. He is likely to have thick, wavy or curly hair, a straight and elegant nose, and a charming, slightly mischievous smile that reveals a set of very even, white teeth. His voice will be a standout physical trait likely deep but melodious and sweet.

2nd house Gemini with venus conjunct mercury in Punarvasu

Here, again with 1st lord venus and 2nd lord mercury conjunct emphasizes a youthful face. His facial structure will be a blend of Gemini’s intelligent giving sharpness and Venus’s soft symmetry, likely resulting in an oval shape with "apple" cheeks that are fleshy yet defined. Now eyes influenced by Punarvasu, they will be large, benevolent, and soulful, also cat like with red corner as mentioned before. He will have a button like(gemini) yet prominent nose (Punarvasu). he may have a distinct mole near his lips or chin, highlighting his gift for speech or being charming through words.(house that either have mars, venus, 7th lord or your darakarka planet especially will manifest as body scars, moles etc.)

3rd house cancer with sun and Saturn conjunct in Ashlesha

Her future spouse will have a lean and tough upper body rather than big, bulky muscles. His shoulders might look a bit narrow or rounded, and his collarbones will likely be very visible and distinct, somewhat similar to the slender but strong build of Benedict Cumberbatch. His arms will be thin but hard, with veins that pop out clearly under the skin, especially when he is working or lifting things. Because of the Sun and Saturn combination, his skin in this area might be a bit dry or tanned, and he will likely have visible dark hair on his forearms. His hands will be unique likely having long, flexible fingers with a grip that is surprisingly strong and tight, like he doesn't want to let go (Ashlesha). He might often complain about a stiff neck or sore shoulders. With 3rd lord moon in Anuradha Nakshatra he might show his emotions (moon) through hugging a person (Ashlesha) cuddling them he will love if she puts her face on his shoulders, arms around his shoulder, massaging the shoulders etc.

4th house leo with mars in purva phalguni

Her future spouse will have a very strong, broad, and athletic chest, which will likely be the most muscular part of his body. Because Mars is sitting in the confident sign of Leo, he will naturally have a "soldier like" build with well defined chest muscles, similar to the solid physique of Henry Cavill. However we have to keep in mind the shoulder muscles will be prominent but not as bulky which entails a well build upper body. Also, mars is her darakarka so the features thsi placements shows will be overpowered by others but not completely. He will likely stand very straight with his chest puffed out slightly, giving off a vibe of pride and vitality. His skin in this area might get red or flushed easily when he is hot, exercising, or angry, and he will probably have a moderate amount of chest hair. Since Mars is a planet of heat and cuts, and Purva Phalguni is a star of rest, he might have a noticeable birthmark, a small surgical scar, or an old sports injury mark somewhere on his chest or ribcage, but overall, this area will look very healthy and attractive.

5th house virgo with ketu in uttara phalguni

Her future spouse will have a very flat, lean, and compact stomach, lacking any excess fat or a "beer belly." Because Virgo is a sign of perfectionism and Ketu tends to "shrink" things, his waist area will look quite thin and defined, similar to the lean, wiry torso of Bruce Lee. He will likely have sensitive skin around his belly area and might frequently experience stomach upsets or nervousness that affects his digestion. The most distinct feature here will be a "mysterious" mark, Ketu in this position almost guarantees a strange looking birthmark (often shaped like a flag or a line) or a small, faded scar from a childhood surgery (like an appendix removal) on his stomach or the middle of his back. His posture might be slightly stiff because he holds tension in his upper back, but overall, his midsection will look tidy and trim.

6th house libra with Jupiter in Swati

Hmm, so quite conflicting placements here and there with one screaming he might have lean body other saying very masculine and when this happens it's usually both (it's not even a surprise with 7th lord being in Gemini) at the same time and falls in between. So, he will likely have a softer, fuller waistline rather than a rock hard six pack. Because Jupiter the planet of expansion is sitting in this area, he will have a natural tendency to gain weight around his sides, giving him noticeable "love handles" or a bit of a "dad bod" look as he gets older, somewhat like the softer physique of Leonardo DiCaprio. His lower back and hip area will look broad and sturdy rather than narrow, providing a strong base for his body. While the skin around his waist will be smooth and clear, he might frequently experience bloating due to the windy nature of the Swati star, causing his waist size to change slightly from day to day. This very part of his body will feel "cushy" and well fed rather than bony or athletic. Still lean though with the previous house so a mix of Bruce lee and Leonardo Dicaprio will be someone like Tom Hardy especially in movies like venom or warrior. Like Hardy, your spouse has a very handsome, boyish face with full lips and expressive eyes that contrasts with a tough body. Hardy has the classic "Bull Neck" (Taurus) and sloping but hard shoulders. He has a broad, muscular chest (Mars), a flat stomach (Ketu/Bruce Lee), but a thick, wide waist (Jupiter/DiCaprio). He doesn't have a tiny "V taper" waist his body is more like a solid rectangle or a tree trunk. He looks like a guy who is very strong and fit, but also enjoys good food and has a solid, thick middle rather than a skinny one.

7th house scorpio with moon in Anuradha

Her future spouse will have a distinct curve to his lower back and a well padded, rounded rear, rather than a flat one. Because the Moon (which rules curves) is sitting in the intense sign of Scorpio, this part of his body will be fleshy and "cushioned," similar to the solid, heavy build of a rugby player’s lower body. While he will have a lot of hidden stamina, the Moon here is sensitive, so he might frequently complain about lower back aches or stiffness if he sits in one place for too long.

8th house saggitarous

Her future spouse will have heavy, thick upper legs and a solid pelvic area. Since Sagittarius is a large sign and Jupiter (the planet of big things) rules it, this part of his body will be naturally fleshy and muscular rather than skinny or bony. His private parts will be big no doubt also with Swati being mars ruled they will be aggressive looking.... Scary almost? Also, Jupiter being in 6th house which is libra ruled and originally virgo ruled out they are be asthethically pleasing to look at. He might be prone to skin irritation or sweating in his private area because of the heat from Sagittarius and again the "windy" nature of the Swati star, so he may have sensitive skin there. Overall, his hips and upper thighs will look powerful and substantial, adding to his generally stocky and strong appearance.

9th house capricorn

Her future spouse will have lean, tough, and slightly bony thighs rather than thick or fleshy ones. Since Capricorn is a sign of structure and Saturn rules it, his upper legs will look like those of a long distance runner thin but capable of enduring a lot of strain. You will likely see the definition of his muscles and knee bones quite clearly, similar to the wiry legs of Christian Bale (specifically in his leaner roles). His skin here might be a bit dry or rugged, and because of the "snake like" Ashlesha he might have a flexible way of moving his legs or a habit of sitting with them twisted tightly around each other. There is also a common tendency with this placement to have a small vein issue on the inner thigh.

10th house aquarius

Her future spouse will have bony, prominent knees rather than smooth or fleshy ones. Since Aquarius is an "Air" sign and its ruler, Saturn, is the planet of bones, his kneecaps will likely stick out clearly, similar to the angular joints of a long distance runner like Moh farah. Because Saturn is sitting in the "twisting" star of Ashlesha, his knees might look slightly uneven or "knobby," and they will almost certainly make loud clicking or popping sounds when he stands up or squats. While he is active, this is a physically vulnerable area for him he will need to be careful about twisting his knee during sports, and he might frequently complain about aching joints when the weather turns cold or rainy.

11th house pisces with Rahu in uttara Bhadrapada

Her future spouse will have calves and ankles that look a bit thick or fleshy rather than thin and bony. Because Rahu (the planet of smoke and shadows) is sitting in the watery sign of Pisces, his lower legs might look slightly swollen or "puffy," especially after a long day, and his socks will likely leave deep marks on his skin. The most distinct feature here will be his veins; Rahu is associated with snakes, so he will almost certainly have visible, blueish veins or "spider veins" on his calves that stand out clearly against his skin. He might be a bit clumsy on his feet, prone to tripping or twisting his ankles suddenly because Rahu creates unsteadiness, and there is a high chance of a dark, irregular birthmark or a scar on his shin that looks like a smudge.

12th house aries

Her future spouse will have strong, hard feet that are built for action, and he likely doesn't sit still for very long. Because the 12th house is Aries, ruled by Mars, his feet are prone to cuts, blisters, or minor injuries, and he almost certainly has a small scar or a distinct birthmark on one of his feet or toes. His toes will look sturdy or squarish rather than long and elegant. His sleep is affected by this placement Mars rulinh the house of rest suggests he may be a light sleeper, have frequent dreams, or not need much sleep to function, and his left eye may naturally have a slight reddish tint.

Now, all this shows her future spouse is characterized by a Taurus Ascendant, indicating a sturdy, grounded, and naturally sensual physique. His Lagna Lord Venus placed in the 2nd House (Gemini) conjunct Mercury in Punarvasu Nakshatra forms a powerful Dhana Yoga, ensuring a remarkably handsome, youthful face with magnetic eyes and highly articulate, charming speech. Physically, he shows a strong contrast: a broad, athletic Mars ruled chest (Leo) giving him a proud posture, alongside lean, bony limbs defined by the Sun and Saturn influence on his arms and thighs. His body type is that of a "stocky athlete," strong but prone to gaining weight around the midsection due to Jupiter in the 6th House. His personality blends Venusian charm with Mercurial intellect and deep Martian passion. Hobbies will involve detailed, disciplined effort, such as dedicated fitness routines, detailed craftsmanship, or intellectual research, fueled by the Saturn and Ketu placements in his skill houses.

Parmigianino c. 1534-1536