Wild to see censored words in fics. Why are you saying shit like f*** or s*x on ao3?? Why even include ~big kid words~ in your fics if you can't handle typing them???

sometimes people on here talk about "accountability" in a way that shows they think that the person they've decided is in the wrong can't actually do anything to redeem themselves other than like. suicide.

We have to thank our brave soldiers in fandom who write femslash fics. We have to thank our brave soldiers in fandom who look past the popular juggernaut male characters to shower attention and Situations on underappreciated female characters. We have to thank our brave soldiers in the fandom trenches writing ignored female characters raunchily fucking each other sloppy style. We have to get on our knees and thank the brave soldiers in fandom who flesh out the female characters canon didn't care about and ship them with other women. I know it's hard to care about female characters in a world that seems to only revolve around men but I see you. And I love you

I like characters who are women and they suck and are bad people. Bonus points if she never really faces consequences.

How did it get up there

It’s difficult to tell - typically light fixtures are installed using some combination of screws and brackets to affix them to the wall, but in this case the actual point of connection is obscured by a cat.

“everyone is mad at me and they just won’t tell me” —> “no one has said anything about being mad at me and i haven’t done anything to warrant being mad at so if someone is silently fuming about me and not saying anything that’s their problem and actually quite weird of them and i can effortlessly move on with my life”

this took SUCH a huge deal of unlearning because, like so many of you, i came out of a home where being quietly in trouble WAS the default state, and i DID grow up not just with the assumption but borderline religious conviction that Everyone Is Mad At Me, I Am Bad, I Must Exist In A Constant State of Attempting to Pacify The Natural Rage I Inspire In Everyone. and no it actually turns out that my family are the freaks . and yours are too

ship dynamic idea what if theres was a woman,.. . and. annother. woman........... together....r....

Studies show that engaging in ritualized behavior significantly improves outcomes on measures of grief and feelings of control, even when the person participating in the ritual has little or no belief in the ritual’s power. Just a reminder for no one in particular.

the best fanfic is the one the author had fun writing actually.

the second best is the one the author used to work through some issues.

the third best is the one the author wrote out of spite due to some really dogshit discourse going on in their fandom

Big fan of 3!

Why do we always get angry men with repressed gay desires. What about angry women with repressed gay desires huh. We need more faith lehanes in this world 😌