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Tell me that this isn’t a new form of conversion therapy, of - simply - lesbophobia. This person is saying “you will like and date and sleep with trans women just as you will with cis women” to a teenager. First red flag. Second red flag is that they’re saying it to someone who absolutely cannot be attracted to males, whether they identify as men or as trans women, because she’s a lesbian !! She’s exclusively same-sex attracted !! Third red flag is the injonction “you will”. No she won’t, creep, you are pushing straight relationships on ppl who have been told since day one already that they must be “open” to date the opposite sex.

Do ppl forget that now the technic used more and more in conversion “therapy” camps/sessions is one that acknowledge same-sex attraction but that tells homosexuals “but you can ignore that and open yourself to the opposite sex (pushing a fake “bisexuality”) and focus on that potential you have with the opposite sex ? So there is no difference between that technic and what this anon and so many others are doing in the name of inclusivity. Sexual orientations are by nature exclusionary, there is nothing wrong with that. ✨

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An absolute garbage pile of a reddit post and my response (I used my old account to access the sub unblocked)

A few weeks ago I was working with one of my coworkers and I had to go to the toilet. When I came back she’d put like 5 of 6 boxes on the pallet, and thus, slowed the process down. When I took back those boxes, she looked at me in surprise and asked what I was doing.

Her first reaction to my explanation was: “Oh! that means you’re autistic!” Excuuuuuuuuse me? This is someone that works with me for 2 days each week, is my facebook friend and knows me for over SIXTEEN years. I felt violated beyond belief, because I got called autistic only because I found 1 trick that makes my work easier and faster to do for me. She’s not a doctor, she’s not a psychologist, nor a psychiatrist, she should just keep her mouth shut. Seeing other people diagnose a toddler out of thin air makes me sick to my stomach. It means f*cking NOTHING wether you are on the spectrum or not, you don’t know these people, so stop being a wannabe doctor. Yes, they live their lives in the spotlight, But Jessa doesn’t know any better, because she grew up in it from a young age and you have no right whatsoever to judge her kids about anything.

lesbian

gay

bisexual

transgender

queer

pansexual

demisexual

ace

hopeless romantics

cis-men

cis-women

non binary folks

the whole spectrum etc…

if you are in a privileged group but also a minor? especially a mentally ill minor, and TRIPLE if there is even the most remote chance saying something could result in danger for you?

those ‘use your privilege’ post telling you to stand up to your family members (which i notice becoming increasingly frequent at this time of year) are not directed at you.

(also, significantly more hostile aside - anybody who comes on this post to clown and say that they are feel free to fuck off in literally every goddamn direction)

I know with kids like Greta Thunberg making the news, and post listing other Gen Z kids making changes, it can be easy to feel like those posts are calling you, kids, out specifically.

and don’t get me wrong, I am so, so proud of those kids. and if you can stand up to your family members, I’m proud of you, too.

But, and i mean this in gentlest way possible - this is not your job.

It isn’t. Some of you are taking it on, and thats very noble of you, but it isn’t and should not be your job. anybody who says things like “these kids are gonna save the world” makes me want to tear my hair out because kids should not be saving the world, kids should be being kids. You should be worried about taking the ACT and figuring out what kind of people/if you want to kiss, not fucking fascism.

When I’m in a down swing with my depression, I forget to eat/don’t feel like eating. When I do get around to eating, often the only thing I want is something like pancakes, or milk, or apple sauce. And of course it’s 6pm and I feel lame for eating ‘breakfast’ foods. Or it’s 8am and I want fried chicken, and feel like a terrible person for eating dinner at 8 in the morning.

But food is just food. We assign certain foods to certain times of day culturally, but it’s not a biological thing. Your body can digest pizza at 9 in the morning and yogurt at 11pm. Are you eating food? Yes? Then great! It doesn’t matter what ‘kind’ of food you’re eating, as long as you’re nourishing that body of yours. It’s ok to have cheap ramen for breakfast if that’s all you can stand to eat. That’s ok–you ate food today!! That’s a major accomplishment when you’re dealing with an illness that tries to stop you from doing everyday person things. (Especially if you’re recovering from an eating disorder.)

If I hadn’t read the fine print and had simply filled the information putting down that I was a Democrat, when I went to vote for the democratic primaries I would have not been eligible.

If a woman wants to get an abortion because she is financially unable to give birth to and raise a baby, the organization will pay for everything she needs during the pregnancy and after, until she’s financially stable to raise the baby on her own.

This organization won’t stop women from going to the abortion clinic, but would rather hve a healthy conversation with them. Ask them if they can help her with anything in order for them to keep the baby. They also hand out contraception in the streets for those who can’t afford it.

When people need help, you should help them. That’s what this country was founded on, escaping persecution.

Longer post ahead!

I’ve been thinking about the best way to address the issue and how to explain my decisions. Allow me to explain everything, which means reading this to the end.

I guess all of us have seen those recent tweets by Pauley. She had tweeted similar allegations last year without naming anyone. It left a lot of people guessing. I definitely include myself here. I was wondering and confused, just like most people in the fandom.

I have submitted some things that I had found on the internet back then to CBS. I guess that is how some crew members got my e-mail address. I was contacted by one person first. Then in the following weeks I had gotten more e-mails from crew members.

With some of this stuff it’s hard to tell if it’s ironic detachment or genuine racism, but at some point, what’s the f***king difference?

I’m beyond angry right now ugh

My great grandparents didn’t sit through fucking internment camps in WWII for this