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Join us this Thursday @7PM . . . . #coffeeshop #coffee #java #conversations #vegan #fortlauderdale #thegrindcoffee #fatvillage #localbusiness #melanin #southflorida #wynwood #love #lover #dating #realtalk #relationshipgoals #relationships #marriage #love #happiness #joy #blacklove https://www.instagram.com/p/BvctRnIHNV1/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=6lq2e7ht5hf7

Join us on 4/20 & Register w/ Link in bio! . . . . #brunch #sex #chicken #waffles #miami #miamibeach #fortlauderdale #letstalkaboutsex #11things #conversations #vegan #localbusiness #melanin #southflorida https://www.instagram.com/p/BvC5CoHHLu5/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=ym064nx8kwlu

Probably less than 8 now!!! I wanna see your face in the place!!! . #Repost @chrispincrane ・・・ People. We have 8 spots left! Register at http://sexworkconversations.eventbrite.com . #11things I Can Learn From a Sex Worker is a cultural pop-up event designed to provide you with raw unadulterated insight from professionals working in various sexual health industries. This judgement free safe space is your chance to be as inquisitive as you'd like about everything and anything. Leave with tips and tricks on how to practice safe sex, tools to communicate more effectively with partner(s), and more: 🍑A Workbook 💦Talk with industry professionals about STIs and practicing safe sex 🍭Q+A with a therapist about sexuality 🍆Open-minded discussion with a Reverend about values and relationships (this makes us sound so churchy 😂) 🌭 Free food and drinks 😜And an after party! . #letstalkaboutsex #sexuality #sexualhealth #lgbtq #11things #browardliving #popupevent #southflorida #blackbloggers #lifestyleblog #sexeducation #fortlauderdale https://www.instagram.com/chrispingilbert/p/BuKwWd7H3sO/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1e6ucvtwsei44

Hurry up y'all!!! We only have 10 seats left!!! Register here: sexworkconversations.eventbrite.com 11 things is a cultural pop-up event designed to provide you with raw unadulterated insight from professionals working in various sex industries. This judgement free safe space is your chance to be as inquisitive as you'd like about everything and anything, all while tearing down the walls associated with sex and shame. You'll leave with tips and tricks on how to supercharge your sex life, tools to communicate more effectively with partner(s), and more: 🍑 "My Kinda Sex" Workbook 🍆Talk with sex workers about sexuality 🌭Q+A with a sex therapist to gain a more promising sex life 💦Open-minded discussion with a Reverend about sexuality and values 🍌Free food and drinks 🍭And an after party! #letstalkaboutsex #lifestyleblog #browardliving #lgbtq #popupevent #southflorida #intimacy #sexuality #love #instagood #instaart #Supportlocal #supportlocalfl #knightfoundation #instadaily #wanderlust #lifestyle #travel #wellness #tourism #miamievents #wynwood #artisan #destination #miamibeach https://www.instagram.com/chrispingilbert/p/BuHWsfKnLnx/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1398wt4ggide0

Come join @chrispincrane for laughs, learning, and lascivious dialogue. Please leave the judgement at home! 11 things is a cultural pop-up event designed to provide you with raw unadulterated insight from professionals working in various sex industries. This judgement free safe space is your chance to be as inquisitive as you'd like about everything and anything, all while tearing down the walls associated with sex and shame. You'll leave with tips and tricks on how to supercharge your sex life, tools to communicate more effectively with partner(s), and more: 🍑 "My Kinda Sex" Workbook 🍆Talk with sex workers about sexuality 🌭Q+A with a sex therapist to gain a more promising sex life 💦Open-minded discussion with a Reverend about sexuality and values 🍌Free food and drinks 🍭And an after party! Register here: http://sexworkconversations.eventbrite.com #11things #changingculture #letstalk #dogood #popupevent #lifestyleblog #sex #sexuality #human #humanity #blackness #safespace #judgementfreezone #instagood #melanin #blacklove #relationshipgoals #relationships #love #happy #orgasms #pleasure #dreams #freedom #miami #miamibeach #fortlauderdale #melanin #travelnoire https://www.instagram.com/chrispingilbert/p/BtWTuL-HjD6/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=19vgloprxjrck

There's always room to be kinder, to be more thoughtful and to give a damn. #Repost @chrispincrane • • • • • Give a damn. It's not cool to not care. #letstalk #changingculture #popupevent #lifestyleblog #bekind #benice #kindness #realtalk #instagood #love #joy #happiness #mantra #badsex #miamibeach #miami #fortlauderdale #womeninbiz #entrepreneur #fitness #thoughtful #toocoolforschool #toocool https://www.instagram.com/chrispingilbert/p/BtGb_HdHnG2/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=mcjp9k3kf498

#Repost @chrispincrane • • • • • On Tuesday, our blog was about communicating needs and desires in the bedroom. Last night, we talked about it on FB Live (link in bio). For Gil, communication began with listening and understanding: "The first step for me was listening to my body's needs and finding partners willing to do the same. The second was understanding that expressing my needs was a component of physical and emotional intimacy, something I had been longing for, but often unsure of how to attain. The third step was affirming that I deserved to enjoy sex on my terms, even if that meant foregoing perfectly fine potential partners. The fourth step was telling myself that by not sharing openly what I desired sexually, I was making a conscious decision every time to disrespect myself and any potential partner(s) that I might come into contact with. Lastly, I was forced to confront where my fears were stemming from because for me self-love translates to unapologetic shameless acceptance for yourself as you are, I had to confront whether failing to communicate my sexual needs and desires was a result of me not fully and wholly loving myself." In our opinion, if your needs or desires are not harming anyone, than they at least merit careful consideration on how they can incorporate into your routine. . . . . #letstalkaboutsex #sexuality #lgbtq #changingculture #southflorida #lifestyleblog #sex #changingculture #letstalk #dogood #blacklove #orgasms #realsex #passion #realtalk #instagood #love #joy #happiness #mantra #miamibeach #miami #fortlauderdale #womeninbiz #entrepreneur #fitness #communication #fortlauderdale #miami #nsfw https://www.instagram.com/chrispingilbert/p/BtGa8C9HP0c/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=yh7d93dtmgl0

#Repost @chrispincrane • • • • • Real talk: what do you do when your partner's you-know-what smells? #sex #changingculture #letstalk #dogood #lifestyleblog #blacklove #orgasms #realsex #passion #realtalk #instagood #love #joy #happiness #mantra #miamibeach #miami #fortlauderdale #womeninbiz #entrepreneur #fitness #letstalk #communication #fortlauderdale #miami #workshop #nsfw #diversity #startup #popup https://www.instagram.com/chrispingilbert/p/BtGaW5FH3W4/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=17uaxb0onpt79

Register and join us! Link in bio. #Repost @chrispincrane • • • • • @ebonninicole & I wanted to lessen the awkwardness of some topics, and what better way than over a little liquor and good food. The first of many popup events is about sex and we have invited a sex therapist, a reverend and sex workers to talk openly and honestly about pleasure, judgement, passion and spirituality related to sex and sexuality. Not to mention, talking about sex is hella fun! The workshop is on the river, includes yummy food, a "My Kinda Sex" workbook, loads of laughs, fun times, and tips on how to supercharge your sex life, communicate more effectively, upgrade your dirty talk, introduce your partner(s) to some new thaaaannnngs 👀👀 and get the kinda sex YOU want and desire. Get your tickets at: sexworkconversations.eventbrite.com https://www.instagram.com/chrispingilbert/p/BtBQ3kOHWBh/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=18azhom9utk0c

#Repost @chrispincrane • • • • • Taylor, who I believe is an incredible writer, took the most in depth look at MLK with his biographies on King. He said once, "There's a natural tendency to sanitize and polish any historical icon whether it be George Washington chopping down the cherry tree or Martin Luther King saying, "I have a dream." I am taken by this because we have this need to make martyrs out of our leaders. We separate the deeds from the person making it impossible for us to see ourselves in the ability to be of service. On the day we celebrate King, be mindful of this tendency and remember no matter your position in life, your ability to serve your community, new ideas and a greater good only takes your willingness to move. His humanity was everywhere present as was his prophetic words. Let your light shine as he did for his time and the generations that were to follow. #changingculture #dogood #letstalk #mlkday2019 #mlkday #popupevent #lifestyleblog https://www.instagram.com/chrispingilbert/p/Bs5t3rVHiTk/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=dvl8ew0c05l0

❤️ #Repost @chrispincrane • • • • • #glowupchallenge: I barely remember college life. It might as well have been 3 or 4 lifetimes ago. I've lead a good life, as I live by the saying, "Any day above ground is a good one." I would tell the young woman on the left to be easy on yourself, give yourself the same grace you so easily give to others, remember there is something greater than your hectic overthinking obsessive mind and the race you are trying to win has no finish line so slow the fuck down. #15yearchallenge #popupevent #changeculture #dogood https://www.instagram.com/chrispingilbert/p/Bs4R5_wHydj/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1ts6eaeyficq

#Repost @chrispincrane • • • • • On Tuesday Gil wrote a blog called "fuck vulnerability," and tbh the rest of us audibly gasped. Don't worry tho, tonight we talked it through on our FB Live and one of themes was the difference between honesty and vulnerability. Honesty doesn't have to result in you being emotional or physically harmed. Vulnerability opens you up for that potential. Both are crucial for healthy relationship, HOWEVER, if people aren't vulnerable with themselves, you have no business being vulnerable with them. In that case, "fuck vulnerability." #changingculture #vulnerability #dogood https://www.instagram.com/chrispingilbert/p/Bs4RFyknvPK/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=45aaoo772f8v

#Repost @chrispincrane • • • • • Vulnerability isn't always painful. It can be revealing the unique, silly characteristics of your personality that people may not think of when they think of you. #letstalk #vulnerable #changingculture #dogood https://www.instagram.com/chrispingilbert/p/Bs4Qs6anH3M/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=m11hty003wud

#Repost @chrispincrane • • • • • Gil here. I absolutely believe that there is real value in sharing your soul with someone and putting it all on the line, and I also believe that for one to be vulnerable with another human being, they must first be willing to be vulnerable with themselves. ⠀ ⠀ How transparent and honest are we with our own minds, bodies, and souls! When's the last time you dug really really deep and you just kept digging, peeling back layer after layer while figuratively lying in the fetal position and crying because the only source of nutrition (those pretty little lies we tell ourselves) you've come to rely on is being withheld? ⠀ ⠀ Trust me, this kind of pain is not for the faint of heart, but in doing so I've never felt so free, so calm, so present or so me. Once I identified what was hurting me, what was fueling me, what was bringing me joy, what was scaring me so much and all of the why's, sharing those things with others soon began feeling both easy and normal; not in that oversharing social media kinda way, but in that this is ME: flawed, dope, extremely self-aware and happy to be in life. ⠀ ⠀ Read more with the link in our bio!⠀ ⠀ #changingculture #living #dogood #vulnerability https://www.instagram.com/chrispingilbert/p/BssgHmpHRwW/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1mgdicq69o160

#Repost @chrispincrane • • • • • Gil here. I absolutely believe that there is real value in sharing your soul with someone and putting it all on the line, and I also believe that for one to be vulnerable with another human being, they must first be willing to be vulnerable with themselves. ⠀ ⠀ How transparent and honest are we with our own minds, bodies, and souls! When's the last time you dug really really deep and you just kept digging, peeling back layer after layer while figuratively lying in the fetal position and crying because the only source of nutrition (those pretty little lies we tell ourselves) you've come to rely on is being withheld? ⠀ ⠀ Trust me, this kind of pain is not for the faint of heart, but in doing so I've never felt so free, so calm, so present or so me. Once I identified what was hurting me, what was fueling me, what was bringing me joy, what was scaring me so much and all of the why's, sharing those things with others soon began feeling both easy and normal; not in that oversharing social media kinda way, but in that this is ME: flawed, dope, extremely self-aware and happy to be in life. ⠀ ⠀ Visit @Chrispincrane to read more with the link in their bio!⠀ ⠀ #changingculture #living #dogood #vulnerability #culture #blackness #feelings #melanin #travel #travelnoire #pain #joy #happiness #instatravel #instagood #instaart #writersofinstagram #startup #businesschicks #businesswoman #media #fortlauderdale #miami #millennials #instalove #change #haitian #sadness #qotd #blacklove #blackgirlmagic #blackgirls #travelnoire https://www.instagram.com/chrispingilbert/p/Bssc2EWHcYZ/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1bgdjie0ohg31