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This is a good question to ask. There is so many reasons why we are all queer and should all be supported by one another. Talking about female masculinity as a concept is frowned upon in the Queer Community due to Gynarchophobia. (Fear/Bigotry against Masculine Women).

It's very isolating it is to embody both womanhood and masculinity and battling with both of them being invalidated at once.

As a Feminine Sapphic, it is your responsibility to advocate for those like you and utilize your Gender Conforming Privilege to protect Masculine Women. As a Masculine Sapphic It is also your responsibility to support Bisexual and Heterosexual masculine women through harm.

Masculine women, especially black mascs, have always created spaces within the LGBTQIA+ community.

Most of them don't relate to themselves or their relationship to masculinity because they've never been socialized to have PRIDE about their individual self.

GNC liberation is for masculine women and feminine men to be recognized as queer and talk about the bigotry they face from Queer spaces regardless of sexuality. We talk about Biphobia, Coersion, Sexual Assault, and misgendering.

Black Bisexual Masculine Women are more vurnuerable to corrective rape, and can be turned away from community for solidarity.

Your average GNC Queer will face more harassment, abuse, and trauma within the community they originate, and their experiences are not reported on. Butches and Studs are ffequently objectified as their identities are seen as disposable or soley in the context of their relationship.

GNC straight folks do not feel attracted to cisheteronormative people and face homophobia, attacks, and transphobia for simply expressing a different allinity.

There are so many conversations. But if you ignore them, you're contempt in the suffering of others.

I'm Ferris! High Femme Virago who's ONLY Fem4Fem. (Butch lesbians being a loooved exception). Queer Femininity is my specialty, and I want to make sure all my darlings are loved~!

Here you'll find Mlp shipping, lesbian hornyposting, gnc advocacy, masc advocacy, and whatever I seem to cook up!

Short Bio: 24, Dominican, 6'0, TME, Furry, Stone-Top Femme, Virago.

If you're a radfem, terf, transphobe, a zionist, racist, homophobe, misogynistic, redpill incel, 4channer, anti-feminist, you're not welcome on my blog.

If you're a "sissy", porn blog, "forcefem", the stereotypical femdom sub who sees femininity/pegging/feminine clothing/having a female body as degrading, "mollis" who are just all of the above, and sees gender nonconformity and gender role reversal as a kink/fetish, sees muscular or masculine women as a fetish/kink, etc, you're not welcome on my blog.

I'm sorry but wlw have to understand they aren't entitled to masc women's bodies or attention just by virtue of wanting it, and since a lot of them refuse to believe they could ever be creeps or perps, saying a label that has attraction to men as a major component is "sapphic" just perpetuates the idea that someone afab attracted to men could never be a "real" masc imo.

"Sorry but wlw" uhhhh do know I'm bi, right? So please be careful on how you're speaking on these terms as a straight woman. And also, say lesbian. I see what you're trying to say here, but it's just coming from an extremely lesbophobic stance. There are some faulty beliefs that can stem from the lesbian community that are excluding, yes. This doesn't give you any right to derogatorily put lesbian terms in quotations.

Virago as a sapphic term isn't an "idea" it's existed since conception. This isn't to say that you have to be attracted to women.

Again, bisexuals exist. Which is why it's like this. Plus for HetGNC women I've always advocated for this not to be assumed of them. We can share a platform on the basis of what we share.

It's a sapphic term for bisexuals in that context. Hetgnc women wouldn't want that for obvious reasons so it doesn't apply to them.

People who think our butchness just goes away when we date men bcs they think no cis man could ever crumble to dust at the sight of a confident butch are WEAK. There is a Gomez Addams out there for you, believe me, if and when you find him you are going to get so full of yourself off the high of his endless compliments that you could fucking kill god.

I want to boost everything this person has said and add on.

The reason I call myself a tomboy now, despite it being seen as a childish word and having had someone swear at me over it because ‘tHeRe’S nO suCh thInG as BoY thInGs anD giRL thIngS sHut uP’ is because I couldn’t call myself that or be like that when I was a kid. It was seen as a negative thing and I was already bullied enough. “Looking like a boy” was the worst thing that could happen to a girl.

And I’m not even 26 yet. We aren’t talking 30+ years ago, we are talking 2000s and even 2010s. It’s only since trans people have become more accepted in the past few years that gender nonconformity has too.

And the people who helped me accept my gender nonconformity more than anyone else? Were trans people. They taught me, “there’s nothing wrong with how you feel. You’re still a valid woman no matter what you wear, how you have your hair or what you’re into ❤️”

And don’t even get me started on how people treat gender nonconforming men. JK Rowling has a lot of nerve to be like “uwu boys can wear dresses and only us gendercrits accept that!” when she has, even in recent works, made femininity in men a negative trait, as well as making masculinity in women a negative trait also.

A lot of people still don’t accept gnc people even now. Just last year I had someone tell me they’d never let their daughter “dress like a boy”, and I’m always terrified to walk into a bathroom in case the next JK Rowling is in there, sees my gender expression and pepper sprays me or worse.

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Since I answered that anon about Virago identity, I have been reached out to by multiple members of the community, some with critique, some with additions, some with very kind words, some with words of thanks. Overall, the Virago community has been extremely kind, openminded, and a joy to talk to. I understand members of the community here suffered a wave of harassment, and I have had multiple members of the community reach out to me asking if I was okay, and if any of it had come my way. It hadn’t, but I genuinely appreciate the care I have been shown. I’m sorry you guys have dealt with the harassment you have, you deserve better. Nobody should be harassed for their identity.