I use they/he/it + ix/ixs, xey/xem, really any neos
Bi gay queer (fag), bigender androgyne nonbinary extersex trans-thing.
I'm 20 and full time student, busy n stuff
I'm just reblogging and posting queer stuff.
Please don't hypercherry pick my wording, or jump to conclusions based on your interpretations of what potentially ambiguous sentences I wrote. I have a way of speaking that may make sense to what I mean to say, but be accidentally structured in a way that can seem different to anyone thats not me. Just ask for clarification.
Tags:
Gendervesp Talks : original textposts or additions, usually about queer stuff and some positivity or thoughts.
Gendervesp Coins : original term/flag postings. Queer labels, (alt) flags etc that I make. Anything I've coined is free game to use, though I love seeing my stuff in the wild so feel free to tag. I don't really use this tag anymore though as I've stopped coining
If you feel like an identity connects with you but are asking "oh am I allowed to use i-" yes. If you connect with it you can use it. There's no need to ask me for permission to navigate, describe or express your own identity!
The Label Library: all terms/flags including reblogs and original posts. I also rarely use this tag as I stopped engaging as much in label coining communities (no shade, I love em, just moved to different post types)
Beyond this my tagging is ass, this is the only form of cataloguing and organization I have here so sorry in advance if you try to search my blog
DNI:
I do not have a DNI because I frankly fail to see their worth over simply blocking people as I go. People who'd be on a DNI likely don't respect me enough to respect a DNI. I block assholes as they appear.
Bonus points if you're the asshole in question (hint hint to terfs specifically cause yall are so pervasive on this app) reading this and block me yourself, assuming you can actually respect my space enough to do so. Saves me time and i get to avoid seeing your bs (because I'd rather eat glass) <3 <3 <3
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- Update my school ID because it's been in my deadname since first year even though my names been updated in the system and that means everytime I have to use it I have to explain "it's in my deadname" and it's really kinda awkward especially during exams and I've been putting it off because they require you to update your photo everytime you update your card which means I need to wait for a day I feel comfortable with photos and-
Can we please make noise about @this-is-intersexism getting nuked. That blog never did anything wrong, educated so many people, and was a safespace for many intersex people, including myself. If ANYTHING is intersexism, it's this
ive been working on this for a second or two, but im ready to open an age-inclusive intersex-focused discord [pt: age-inclusive intersex-focused discord]!
intersex people, intersex-questioning people, and intersex allies are all welcome, but there are spaces in the server specifically only open to intersex and intersex-questioning people!
theres a huge lack of community spaces so i just decided to make one myself. :)
Check out the interlaced community on Discord - hang out with 10 other members and enjoy free voice and text chat.
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We decided to make our own variation of the PCOS flag that feels best representative of our experience and the community. Below are free-to-use emojis!
You should definitely reblog this and be aware /silly /joke
Hatsune Miku from Vocaloid is an intersex transfem butch transbian, and her variations are polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS) and CAH-X! Additionally, she has ehlers danlos syndrome (EDS), insulin resistance, and gastroparesis. She also invented Minecraft!
This is so cool because fun fact, September is PCOS awareness month (amongst many other things) and the PCOS flag(s) use a cyan background similar to mikus hair colour
Guys, it got so much freaking worse. KOSA is bad, but SCREEN is even worse, somehow.
Text for S.737 - 119th Congress (2025-2026): SCREEN Act
"Sen. Mike Lee has introduced the SCREEN ACT, a bill that applies the "harmful to minors" standard used to ban LGBTQ+ books and resources in schools and libraries and apply it nationally to the internet.
Any site that has any amount of material "harmful to minors" would be forced to employ surveillance tech (biometric scans, ID uploads, background checks) to prevent minors from accessing "pornography."
You will not be surprised to learn that this is backed by the Heritage Foundation.
Unlike some of the state age-verification laws, many of which are being challenged in court, SC will be enforced by the FTC, which has the ability to levy fines, raid business and freeze bank accounts. Yes, meaning that even non-for-profits like Ao3 will suffer.
This is something for all US users to keep on their radar. Call your reps, call your senators, and spread the word to protect our archive!"
- When talking with Republicans play up the fact that this would force Elon to implement age verification systems on X (yes do call it X during the call). Elon's been threatening to primary Republicans who stand in his way so there's fear of him. Also play up concerns about "Liberals" doxxing people or Chinese hackers.
- When talking with Democrats, play up the connections to Project 2025 and suggest voters will not be happy to see Democrats siding with it.
Shelley Moore Capito, West Virginia - Phone: (202) 224-6472
Cynthia Lummis, Wyoming - Phone: (202) 224-3424
Democrats:
Maria Cantwell, Washington (Ranking Member) - Phone: (202) 224-3441
Amy Klobuchar, Minnesota - Phone: (202) 224-3244
Brian Schatz, Hawaii - Phone: (202) 224-3934
Ed Markey, Massachusetts - Phone: (202) 224-2742
Gary Peters, Michigan - Phone: (202) 224-6221
Tammy Baldwin, Wisconsin - Phone: (202) 224-5653
Tammy Duckworth, Illinois - Phone: (202) 224-2854
Jacky Rosen, Nevada - Phone: (202) 224-6244
Ben Ray Luján, New Mexico - Phone: (202) 224-6621
John Hickenlooper, Colorado - Phone: (202) 224-5941
John Fetterman, Pennsylvania - Phone: (202) 224-4254
Andy Kim, New Jersey - Phone: (202) 224-4744
Lisa Blunt Rochester, Delaware - Phone: (202) 224-2441
SCRIPT
Hi, my name is [], and I am one of Senator []’s constituents. I live in [city, zip code - leave your full address if leaving a voicemail].
I am calling in regards to a bill that was recently introduced in the Senate Committee on Commerce, Science, and Transport: the SCREEN act.
I am asking Senator [] to either take no action or vote against this bill because of its implications for freedom of speech. [insert one of the other concerns listed above]. Thank you for your time and for listening to my concerns.
< intersex pride is so important and we should always be proud but lets remember to leave space for intersex grief. for intersex people who were denied knowledge of their bodies. for intersex people whose doctors forced to take hormones while actively suppressing others. to all forms of intersex grief i love you intersex people grieving how the world treated you >
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Transactional Intercourse: A Trans and Intersex Sex Worker Survey!
Fill out the survey here!
This survey is for people who are trans and/or intersex and have either sold sex or made porn. Current and former sex workers are equally welcome!
I strongly encourage non sex workers to share this survey, particularly if you are intersex and/or trans or have followers who are. The larger the sample size, the more accurate and diverse the representation of our experiences will be.
The purpose of these questions is to get a snapshot of your experiences in sex work, alongside some demographic information that makes it easier to see patterns in how transmisogyny, racism, classism, ableism and homophobia all intersect to impact sex workers' outcomes. Information collected through this survey will be used to inform the writing and themes for Transactional Intercourse, an anthology of trans and intersex sex workers' writing. If you're interested in being paid to contribute, you'll be given the opportunity to give your e-mail at the end when submissions open.
If you'd like to be notified when the project launches or want read a little more about the concept behind the anthology, you can do so on the Kickstarter pre-launch page for Transactional Intercourse!
About the creator behind this project: I'm Jack (he/they), a trans sex worker, activist, and author. I have experience in sex work over the last decade ranging from brothel work to online porn creation and have worked with various sex worker rights organisations over the years. I previously edited and published Working Guys: A Transmasculine Sex Worker Anthology and would love to create an even larger project this time that gives voice to a wider range of marginalized sex workers.
The 12th annual international gender census, collecting information about the language we use to refer to ourselves and each other, is now open until 30th August 2025. It's for people whose genders (or lack thereof) defy or transcend the restrictive male/female binary.
It’s short and easy, for most participants it takes 5 minutes or less.
We're about a third of the way through the survey month and there are an incredible 30,000 respondents internationally so far from word-of-mouth alone - but the majority are from the USA, referred by Tumblr, and/or under 30! Can you help get the word out to more people?
Here are some links to social media posts for easy sharing:
bluesky, facebook, instagram, threads, reddit, telegram, whatsapp, signal, discord, and the fediverse (mastodon etc)
The survey URL is https://survey.gendercensus.com and it's especially helpful if you can share it with your local LGBTQ+ support group(s) online or in person.
We also have some flyers / leaflets / tiny posters, which you can print out and stick up anywhere, and we have a press release pack with some helpful text and illustrations you can use freely.
Thank you so much everyone!
[ Link to survey ]
PS: I'm going to be queuing this to post several times a day for a few days to catch people in as many timezones as possible. To avoid spam, please blacklist this hashtag: #GC2025 promo
while having conversations with intersex people, ive noticed a lack of language to discuss medical procedures and "treatments" that are pushed on intersex children, teens, and adults that are not intersex genital mutilation (IGM). so, im proposing a term which can be used so people have a wider term to describe these sorts of pressures and abuse from doctors.
a term for medical procedures or "treatments" which were pushed or forced on intersex people (or their caregivers) without proper time to make their own decision, gain informed consent, or discuss other options.
examples may include surgeries (including "medically necessary" surgeries) where other options were not presented to the patient, IGM, providing hormone replacement therapy (HRT) without discussing alternative HRT options, gonadectomy without the patients full consent, recommendations for cosmetic medical changes such as laser hair removal, etc.
the word "interventions" was chosen due to these medical choices often not "treating" a patient, but rather pushing them to conform to perisex norms.
Queer westerners and their ability to be so self-centred always amazes me ... like wdym me having a complex queer identity causes you harm ?? I live in fuckass algeria while you live in fucking Michigan or wtv, what harm am I going to cause you ? 😭😭😭 dayrin ki zebi c grvvv I will never take yall seriously. Keep that ridiculous nonsense discourse to yourselves
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people seem to be forgetting that "you don't need to transition medically to be trans" was born out of a time when blair white was the most popular trans person online. when the overwhelming zeitgeist was "you need to have bottom surgery, top surgery, ffs/fms, you need to be skinny (and white) you need to xyz to be really trans. if you dont do all of these things you are a faker who just wants attention." I remember there was a whole scandal about non-binary people entering in a binder swap program were accused of "stealing resources of trans men" because "these theyfabs aren't even going to transition anyway why are they taking all of our binders"
"you don't need to transition medically to be trans" was and is a response to virulent exclusionary transmedicalism. and it is not in opposition to "we need to make HRT and surgery available to anyone who seeks it"
Technically I am a cis male. As in "male" is on my birth certificate. But I have a DSD; I'm intersex. So I grew up being perceived socially as female ever since I was in kindergarten, which caused me heavy bouts of dysphoria. Nobody told me I was intersex and I went most of my childhood thinking I was just like any other cis woman. And since I'll have to essentially transition from "female" (my developed female characteristics, being seen socially as female, etc) to male, I consider myself a trans man.
Trans people do not like this. They often say that it doesn't count for me because its "easier" (since people with DSDs and intersex people are binary trans' people's scapegoat, ie "cis people get gender affirming care" "lie about being intersex to avoid transphobia" etc etc my fellow intersex people know what I'm talking about, they don't want to admit that it really isn't easier for us).
They want their trans labels to be in neat little boxes with no variation; its easier to sympathize with someone that's more alike to yourself, and they want to be able to sympathize with all trans people because it makes them feel better about themselves, to be a self ally with no internalized transphobia whatsoever.
I've been called multiple things, transtrender, baedel, herm, chaser, wannabe, appropriator, futa, only ever by trans people. In fact I think I've met more cis people that are understanding and willing to learn about intersexuality and DSDs than trans people. For trans people a lot of the time it means they have to deconstruct gender binaries in their mind again, and they'd rather just stick to the current beliefs they feel safe in.
All of this to say that trans people are not immune to putting themselves in binary boxes, and that for a large amount of trans people, they treat transness as a better version of the pre-existing gender binary, one that makes them more palatable to leftist spaces, instead of a beautifully diverse area of human existence and culture.
