Hear my soul speak

You only have to look at how many footballers who have rape accusations against them that happily represent their countries in huge tournaments like the World Cup without anyone really giving a shit to see what bollocks that is.

Cristiano Ronaldo (Portugal), Achraf Hakimi (Morocco), Thomas Partey (Ghana), Gonzalo Montiel (Argentina), Thiago Almada (Argentina), Junya Ito (Japan), Kaishu Sano (Japan), Ryan Mendes (Cabo Verde).

General discussion on rape and assault allegations related to the current world cup (via The New York Times)

Accusations against Cristiano Ronaldo (via USA Today)

Accusations against Achraf Hakimi (via The New York Times)

Accusations against Thomas Partey (via The Guardian)

Accusations against Gonzalo Montiel (via The New York Times)

Accusations against Thiago Almada (via ESPN)

Accusations against Junya Ito (via Reuters)

Accusations against Kaishu Sano (via Japan News)

okay so this is a very common sentiment among bi/het feminists so if you’re looking to get their homophobic approval then you’re well on your way. i don’t mean to be mean, but you gotta use your brain here.

first of all, no one is going to say you have to like dildos or penetration. second, a dildo is not a dick. a silicone toy made for female pleasure is not the same as a penis, nor do they resemble penises (yes, i’m aware of the hyper realistic ones, but no lesbians i’ve ever met wants to look at those. many dildos come in *vagina shaped* with fun ridges and designs for unique pleasure points). third, are fingers also pseudo-penises too because they can also go into the vagina? come on. be serious.

i think you spend too much time online if you think lesbians are also obsessed with strap ons. vast majority of us find them fun “sometimes” things - again, because they are sex toys - and others don’t like them at all. who gives a fuck if a lesbian like a goddamn toy. why does it matter to you? why is lesbianism constantly put under this microscope? why can’t we just like something without anyone else thinking we secretly like men and their dicks? i’ve worn a strap on - does that make me a man suddenly? do my tits and pussy disappear when i wear a harness? do i turn into a man?

i’ve criticized the way people talk about butches and straps on here many times. i prefer tongue and fingers but im not going to deny strap has been fun to use before. i think we all need to start seeing lesbian as a morally neutral sexuality and stop trying to nitpick every single thing we do to find a loophole to us secretly wanting men. do you give this criticism to gay men too? do you poke holes in how they like to have sex to just prove they are secretly straight? or just lesbians?