Garinn Armstrong

Saturday, May 9th, starting at 8PM EST, we’re calling out those who are into a night of tavern hopping, small talk, or mingling and meeting new faces, pub crawling is returning to Coeurl’s server! This is the time to explore some of Coeurl’s RP community hubs and show them off to those interested! Perhaps this may be an opportunity to test out a new character of yours, or find some friends and company throughout the event. Cross-server friends are 100% welcome to join in! Playlist: https://cytu.be/r/PubCrawl

Schedule of the Pub Crawl (Times in EST) 

🍻 8PM - 9PM: [Iz'mhet Tia] “The Demon’s Drink” - Mist, Ward 15, Plot 40 A clean fusion of Eastern and Western Design with small tables upstairs and a cozy downstairs bar. Perfect for small gatherings!

🍻 9PM - 10PM: [Dolston Everett] “The Hawk House”- Lavender Beds, Ward 21 Plot 29 Old fashioned speakeasy with loft area for dining, and a stage for entertainment.

🍻 10PM - 11PM: [Sjlfe Odiv] “Topsy~Turvy”- Mists W20, P6 Tavern, Boutique and Cafe

🍻 11PM - 12AM: [Damian Vandrake] “Dragon Tear” - Mist, Ward 13, Plot 17 Ishgardian cafe & bar area with an open venue often used for different events in the downstairs!

🍻 12AM+ (for our night owls): [Hokusai Ashikaga] “Suiren Temple” -  Shirogane, Ward 6, Plot 43 Eastern Temple / Will provide temple-brewed sake and snacks

Every hour, there will be a cue for us drinkers to migrate to the next establishment to continue on with the crawl! You’re welcome to pop in during designated location’s Pub Crawl hour.

Contact Tetsuro#3438 on discord if you have any questions!

A MUSICAL REVIEW at the PALAZZO ALDENARD !

I super duper triple checked and the Infinity Club is open!  And they even have a theme for you to go along with your glowsticks:

So you have a chance to put not one but two hero and villain outfits together for Wednesday and Sunday night!  Also in case they don’t have a music station we have my own:

https://plug.dj/techno-viking

In honor of their theme I will be combing through Sound Cloud for club remixes of super hero movie and tv show songs.  Feel free to join me in this endeavor, or just bring songs you love bouncing around to.

Roleplay is fiction. It’s not real. You are not your character. Real life always, always, always comes before roleplay no matter what.

Roleplay isn’t a priority for everyone. Many roleplayers work full time, have families, go to school, etc. They don’t have time to sit in front of a computer all day writing. Stop “keeping tabs” on your partners like you own them because you don’t. It’s invasive and creepy. Not everyone has the time to constantly answer DMs and threads all day long.

“If roleplay isn’t a priority then you shouldn’t do it.” Fuck off with that. It is a hobby. AKA something done for entertainment that takes a backseat to real life. If your entire existence revolves so much around a fictional world and make believe characters that it starts to affect interactions with others then you need to get professional help.

Expecting constant roleplay from people is unfair and unrealistic. Guilting, inducing anxiety or upsetting people over roleplay is extremely unhealthy behavior. Grow up.

Yeah if they know they won’t be on for a while then it’s good to get a heads up. But it’s not required. Sometimes people need a break or life becomes stressful and they forget or don’t have time. It’s not the end of the world if you don’t get that communication. Of course it sucks and sometimes it will hurt but don’t let it consume you.

Don’t use roleplay as a dating service.

If you find the love of your life while roleplaying, congratulations! You got lucky and blessings to you!

But don’t force yourself onto someone OOC. Especially after they say no. At that point you become a creepy, thirsty stalker.

Don’t ruin someone else’s hobby because you want to get laid.

Im not saying you need to RP every day with everyone. But if you want to develop something with someone you need to set time aside for it. Once a week. 2-4 times a month. Some sort of schedule so they can count on you. And trust me, if you do this you will get amazing stories your character can talk about in taverns.

Also I did date vicariously through Garinn. I never thought there was ooc love. But I did enjoy those romantic dates that I couldn't find IRL. I think that's a separate topic entirely about IC/OOC bleed.