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Our Roots

Feedists for Fat Liberation began in Fall 2020 as a collective of like-minded feedists who felt that, for too long, feedism has ignored the call to fat liberation. In addition, this group felt that the negative perceptions of feedism in fat liberation spaces contributed to the lack of involvement of feedists in movement work. This group of liberation-minded feedists felt that it was time to begin seriously exploring how to integrate feedism and fat liberation, because both are naturally intertwined. We hosted our first community gathering in December 2020. The support and response from the feedist community was incredibly powerful. It was clear that there were countless other feedists aligned with this work. Our work is only just beginning, but we are proud of our roots!

FFL aligns all of our work and actions with the following guiding principles:

🔗Connection

Feedism and Fat Liberation are fundamentally connected with one another. Feedism cannot be enjoyed outside of fat liberation, and feedists are natural allies to the Fat Liberation movement. Envisioning a world where there is liberation for all must include feedist/fat fetish identifying people, and fat liberation offers a framework to support this.

🩺Health

Health has no bearing or involvement with this movement. We reject the medical-industrial complex and healthism in all forms. Health status has no bearing a person’s humanity and worth.

🌞Centering

The most marginalized fat voices will be heard.This includes infinifat people, superfat people, sex workers, fat QTBIPOC, fat BIPOC, fat disabled, and fat queer voices.

⚖️Justice

Feedism and fat liberation intersect with other justice movements. In supporting greater understanding between feedist and fat liberation communities, we will take an intersectional approach that considers feedism/fat liberation as they intersect with other justice movements.

📚Story

We recognize that each person has a story and that story is sacred. We will meet people where they are in their feedism/fat liberation journey.

🙌Shame-Free

We are committed to creating a space that is free from shame, judgement, hostility, coercion, and fear. We are committed to eliminating anti-fat bias/fatmisia in feedist spaces, while also working toward making fat liberation a feedist-positive space.

⚠️Overcoming Sexual Shame as Feedists⚠️

Shame is something that everyone deals with. And as Feedists, we have to deal with a double whammy of shame to work on dismantling – shame about our desires being non-normative, and shame that stems from our society vilifying fatness.

Understanding how fatphobia works and working on untangling your own internalized feelings about fatness is a great place to start. That’s why getting familiar with concepts around Fat Liberation is such a great tool for Feedists to become more comfortable with their sexuality. But we must also acknowledge that shame around sex and our desires are incredibly individual for each of us and requires a similar amount of work (if not even more!) to dismantle and analyze. It can be tough and scary to open those doors, but ultimately worth it. As accepting the whole story of who we are and what we want is a monumental step in nurturing feelings of self worth, self esteem, and self acceptance.

And this video by the School Of Life seemed absolutely tailor made for Feedists looking to do this kind of work!

-Mod Wood

Being open about Feedism?

You don’t have to be comfortable being open about your sexuality with everyone you meet, but if you are looking to dismantle shame around disclosing your personal desires around people you deem safe, there are ways for you to practice becoming comfortable with the idea!

The following tips and strategies were collectively developed at the January 23, 2021 Feedists for Fat Liberation (FFL) event to help people feel more comfortable with being open about their feedist sexuality.

Work with a therapist

Attend FFL events

Establish communication about what to reveal and when to reveal it

Accepting that you cannot change people’s reactions to what you say requires emotional energy

Focus on your own responses

Get to know people after they have gained weight. Communicate with others that weight is not an issue but rather a source of happiness

Talk to people who are safe as a way to build confidence to talk in more situations

Respect the differences between individuals and recognize that each person has a different relationship with their weight.

Be cautious about not projecting your own feelings onto other people

Use CBT strategies. Trying to look for the positives as opposed to focusing on the negative

Find partners who share your sexual preferences

Identify circles of people – who can you be most open with? Who is the least open?

Challenge internal thought patterns and beliefs

Making friends in the feedist community helps break down shame walls

Learn more about fat liberation

Build/become involved in a feedist community/network

Don’t focus on what others say in judgement/misunderstanding when being more open

Be transparent and honest with yourself

Have a trusted person you can check in with if you are feeling overwhelmed

Open up to like minded folks

Avoid kink shaming one another

TELL ME WHERE!

WHERE!?

Note that a lot of these channels are inactive, but I’m still linking to them because I like what they’ve posted.  Also note that these selections will reflect my own tastes in guys, which are for guys well past the “starter gut” stage, but not at a superchub size.

YouTube: Atlantacubfull bulgemore bulksteruk1 (I recommend the “18.04.10 edited” video) caliwrestla collegegut Dave Gainer Fat Glass Bear FatKevPDX FattenablePiggy Fattenmenu GainerSoCalLA Hillbilly Doughboy Hippotaur kegpony kodl71 Loveabellyliny Mack McGillicutty macpurc madanayrGNR Mike S. (who has some old videos of rickbelly) mrdecaglut2 ofcourses1111 redbearish StudBust1 tankerTUBBS The Human Balloon TheBigLee2334 weeea11 wolfsrain2007 xtrachnky1

Xtube: calmbear DigSpace famousvisions (this one’s just belly play, but I like that) FatKevPDX Fortify fulloffood Irongut

Once you’ve exhausted those, check out the favorites of guys whose videos you like, and that’ll keep you browsing for a while.

If you’re on Grommr, some of the guys there have links to unlisted videos on YouTube in their bio.  I recommend checking out the profiles of LrgrThnLf and monkigainer.

Also check out the documentary Hard Fat.  It’s a documentary about gainers that features some pretty hot segments with cmbigdog.

Other people reblogging this post have mentioned pages where you can buy gainer videos.  I’d recommend you start with the free stuff, but since that’s been brought up, I’ve generally found pay-for videos by TheBigBull, BallBellyBear, and Lardfill to be worth the money, with TheBigBull being my favorite.

Like, the more you eat, the bigger your stomach expands, the more you can eat in the future.

The more you overeat, the bigger your portions will become, and the more often you'll feel hungry between meals.

The more you snack, the more often your body will 'expect' to be fed.

The more fast/junk food you eat, the more often you'll feel cravings for those foods.

The fatter you grow, the less you'll be able to exercise. You'll be too big, too heavy, too tired to move yourself around. Your arms and belly will get in the way of themselves. Your body will lose its strength and tire out easier, faster. Meaning exercises become shorter, less effective. More daunting.

The fatter you grow, the less you'll WANT to exercise. All those lazy habits will add up, and you'll prefer to do something sedentary instead. The less you exercise, the easier your body will grow fatter, and the harder it will be to lose weight.

It's like... Once you start gaining weight, your body sets off a snowball effect to become even larger, even faster, and... and...

Wanted to be told how much of a pig you are during a hypnosis video? Here are a selection of files I’ve found online. If you know of any more, then message me:

Desire to be a Fetish Pig http://www.mediafire.com/file/a4zspzrahy5tjmr

Pig Mode 1 https://m.soundcloud.com/jack-durst-1/pig-mode

Pig Pleasure Curse http://www.vivehypnosis.de/?p=1884

Ego Eraser | The Pig http://www.vivehypnosis.de/?p=1093

Ego Eraser | The Pig 2 http://www.vivehypnosis.de/?p=1270

Ego Eraser | The Pig 3 http://www.vivehypnosis.de/?p=1339

Pig Identity Generator http://www.vivehypnosis.de/?p=407

Learn How to Enjoy Eating Like a Pig http://www.vivehypnosis.de/?p=225

Learn to be a Dirty Pig http://www.vivehypnosis.de/?p=227

Here are some excellent hypnosis files on WarpMyMind by Professor Pig. Simply sign up for free and click “MP3”

Pig Philosophy

Pig Philosophy 2 - Pig Mind

Dirty Clean Pig

Pig Musk

Pig Heat

Pig Submission

Pig Suit

Pig Suit 2

THIS SHIT WORKS OKAY, I AM DEAD SERIOUS.

The last time I saw this on my dash, I didn’t think it would happen, so jokingly I wished I could go to a fun. concert.

AND GUESS WHAT, I WENT TO A FUCKING FUN. CONCERT.

I SAW THIS ON MY DASH THE OTHER DAY AND THOUGHT “ITS WORTH A TRY” SO I WISHED I COULD GET A 3DS

LITERALLY LIKE 4 DAYS LATER MY DAD SENT ME A PICTURE OF THE 3DS XL HE BOUGHT FOR ME WHILE I WAS AT SCHOOL