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âim a somap, i only have sex with children when they consent!! uwuâ
ok you can also offer a child a shiny knife or whatever and theyâd prolly want it but that doesnât mean it canât hurt them. just because a child agrees to something doesnât mean it canât hurt them. like, a child is not going to go up to an adult and be like âhaha, lets fuck?â itâs going to be adult initiated nearly all the time.
children can not comprehend consent or sex. if you took a basic high school psychology class you would know this. they do not know what they are doing. maps of all kind are disgusting and having âprideâ is normalizing the fetishization of children which causes sexually abused children to not speak up because they think itâs normal and not a big deal.
This. I was sexually abused several years as a child, I was 8 when it started. I didn't know what to do except just... Sit there and take it.
never trust a doctor who doesnt know or doesnt want you to know that you have a legal right to refuse to be weighed
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The only people who would use this to refuse to be weighed at the doctorâs are people who donât want to admit that their obesity is causing their health problems :)
ALL SYSTEMS ARE VALID
No matter their origin!!! Endogenic, Traumagenic, Quoigenic, Pluralgenic, whatever!!!!! Youâre you and you exist! Youâre doin a great job of surviving and anyone who tells you otherwise is a shitty hatekeeper!
People arenât gatekeepers or âhatekeepersâ for telling you not to roleplay as someone with a very real and serious disorder.Â
Traumagenic systems aka DID and OSDD-1 systems are the only real systems. You cannot be a system if you have not experienced trauma or abuse and it didnât happen during your formative years. Thatâs the only way a system can form. Itâs a scientific fact, not an opinion, and not hate.
I get that you see the diagnostic criteria, see it doesnât fit, and make up a name for a new type of âsystemâ so you can still pretend to have âmultiple personalities.â Itâs ableist and harmful because people donât know youâre pretending.Â
Anyone who doesnât think to Google it wonât see instantly itâs not a real thing and may think you have a different but related disorder. DID and OSDD-1 are already highly stigmatized, and singlets seeing you play pretend and saying things like âi have evil altersâ and âive been possessedâ makes us seem even scarier. That stigma, that fear, causes us to be abused, institutionalized, or even killed. Iâve experienced 2/3 myself and I donât appreciate you as a âcommunityâ feeding into the problem.
It also spreads misinformation which is very harmful! It hurts people trying to learn about the disorder and how it works, particularly systems who are new to the concept and trying to figure out who they are and what happened. I know your âcommunityâ likes to make up new concepts such as âsystem hoppingâ where an alter can supposedly jump into someone elseâs head. This has frightened a bunch of people, mostly minors who are already confused and upset. Alters are real people and a part of our brains, not spirits or demons that can possess you and leave at will. Additionally, alters can go dormant, they can all integrate fully or one alter can combine with another alter but they can not die. They are a piece your brain that while once whole, has been split by trauma, and can split further or combine but canât die. Itâs not possible. These concepts you make up as a âcommunityâ are scientifically and factually incorrect and are just scaring people who have already been through so much.Â
If you want to pretend, thatâs what the kin community is for. Though, it has issues of its own. If you feel more like one kin than another, you should say you are kinshifting and not that someone else is fronting because that is system terminology and not yours to take. We have also as a community expressed hurt with the concept of âalterhumanâ which is supposedly for people who are kin with non-human things. Itâs been said that comparing alters to someone who is not real or not human is harmful. Itâs also an issue of stealing terminology again. Speaking of, a âlittleâ is and always has been a child alter in a system but thanks to dd/lg kinksters, actual children donât feel comfortable using the term anymore. Stop taking our terms, be respectful.
I get that on tumblr there is this desire to be âvalid,â to be acknowledged, to be given approval, but please remember that saying âiâm validâ isnât positivity on itâs own and that saying âiâm validâ doesnât excuse any type of behavior. Itâs at this point a meaningless phrase.
When we say youâre not a system we are not telling you that youâre a bad person or that âyouâre not valid,â but itâs important to point out the tumblr culture that is scaring and confusing trauma victims and subjecting them to further abuse and judgment. You are adding to that, whether you mean to or not. I donât actually have an issue with you in particular, I saw this because you posted in in #traumagenic and #positivelyplural which are not tags you should be using. You probably donât mean any harm but the behavior and âcommunityâ you are partaking in adds to the stigma of real systems, and gets us abused, institutionalized and killed. It needs to end.
If you are a singlet aka not a DID or OSDD-1 system I beg you to read and reblog this. There arenât a lot of us, and itâs so easy to be ignored. But this is a huge issue and I feel like if people were pretending to have any other disorder it would get more attention. This has been going on for years.
People like this, movies like Split, tropes and stereotypes and misinformation feed into the stigma and fear surrounding systems and has real-world consequences for us. Many of us can only be open about being a system online or with our partners for fear of violence. Just for an example, I talked to a psychiatrist about being a system, and was in and out of psych wards for a few years, as a minor where I had no say in leaving, where I faced additional abuse from staff and other patients.
Please reblog this and any other posts you may see about DID and OSDD-1 systems! The best thing you can do for us all is to help combat misinformation and fight the stigma. We are not scary, or dangerous, and pretending to have a disorder isnât ok.
Getting tired of this. =_=
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Identify as more than one person??? So my DID is an identity now, not an incredibly severe disorder that I got from being a child sex slave and heavily abused by my mother? Is my schizophrenia and ptsd also an identity?

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Tulpaâs are bullshit and a fucking insult to people with actual personallity disorders.
Iâm fucking livid at the moment because a friend of me informed me of this new thing called ââTulpaâsââ What in the sincere and actual fuck is this bullshit? You think you can just create a seperate personallity like you see fit and play around with it? This is not something you can joke about or claim you have it, this is a goddamnit insult to people with sincere personallity disorders, like myself. Itâs like breaking your leg and calling yourself disabled infront of a person whoâs legs donât work anymore / have never worked. You all need to quit your shit, you know you didnât put ââtime and effort into putting your thought togetherââ to create a âseperate personalityâ. Youâre fucking pretentious and this Tulpa thing is a big fuck you to people with multiple personalities WHICH THEY GOT FROM CHILDHOOD TRAUMA! FUCK EVERYONE WITH A SO CALLED TULPA! YOUâRE LYING AND A HUGE CUNT FOR USING OUR ILLNESS AS SOME WAY TO MAKE YOURSELF FEEL SPECIAL! YOU DIDNâT GO THROUGH THE SHIT WE WENT THROUGH!
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I know someone posted this on their blog (from our facebook page), but here it is again!
someone, pointing at my scars: what happened?
me: *spins wheel* i fell,,,,, on a cat

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Fishblr please help
I am so tired of the âfish are productsâ mentality that corporate pet stores have. Employees cannot refuse to sell fish, even if someone wants to put a goddamn koi in a bowl.
I just had a customer get pissed at me because I told him that keeping two goldfish in a ten is akin to keeping a dog in a closet, and itâs literally animal abuse and theyâll spend maybe two years in massive amounts of pain. He got pissed, made the manager do it, and got mad when I said we canât replace the fish if it dies.
Literally RIGHT AFTER HIM is a lady with a ten gallon, a pleco, and four goldfish, getting a fifth goldfish. âBut itâs okay because theyâre babies.â
They didnât care. I told them that all of our fish have minimum space requirements and that goldfish (per policy) need 30. They went and got the manager and made him do it when I told them all itâs animal abuse.
Fish are living, breathing, feeling creatures. They can feel pain, loneliness, hunger, cold. If someone told me they wanted me to sell them a canary for a mason jar, a chameleon for a critter keeper, a rabbit for a cat carrier, I could refuse every single one. Because a mason jar, a critter keeper, a cat carrier are not proper habitats for those animals, and they will spend their lives in abusive conditions. If you go to a shelter and try to adopt a dog because âI want him to live in his crate and make the room look pretty,â people would riot.
Please. Please help me stop committing disgusting abuse at my store. Help other employees stop committing abuse at their stores. Customers do not listen to us. If you overhear an interaction like the ones I had today, step in and tell that person the truth. That what theyâre doing is animal abuse. Back up everything the employee says, if the employee knows their shit or educate them if they are clueless. Youâre right, many pet store employees know jack shit about animals. But some of us care, some of us spend hours outside of work researching animals to give customers the best information possible, some of us are passionate about those often neglected and abused pets (hamsters, fish, any reptile) and risk being fired if we donât do what the customer wants. Sell this fish into an environment that will 100% murder it or youâre fired. How fucked up is that?
Please. Call your local pet stores. The lfs mom and pop shop, Petâs Plus, Fins Feathers. PLEASE call your PetSmarts and your Petcos and ask to speak to a manager. Tell them that their store policy dictates that fish are allowed to be sold into abusive conditions and employees have no way to stop it. PLEASE call the actual corporate numbers and file a complaint. File so many complaints. Please. I love my job and I love animals and most customers are normal human beings who care about animals but every so often I get people like this and it crushes me.
One of my managers has gone to battle against corporate four times for the right to refuse fish to improper homes. He has lost four times. He is only one person and he works for the company. Maybe if the CUSTOMERS, the source of our money, start complaining, corporate will take things seriously. Maybe then weâll stop having to sell shitty 0.8 gallon tanks for goldfish and giving fucking plecos to 5g tanks. Maybe if this changes, we can get fish bowls banned. Maybe if this changes, we can work on improper care for other animals.
Please help.
Phoneme Chart by TheEndIsNearUs
This is a nice chart! Lipsync is one of my not-so-secret passions. I also hate front mouths. Theyâre harder to inbetween, I find, and theyâre not used nearly as frequently. Hereâs some ž mouths I made.
These are the basic shapes I was taught, and I use. Standard lipsync shapes;;Â
You have your closed mouth to open, to clenched teeth, to oohs, and your (often optional) F, L, and TH mouths.
Tips!
Your top teeth donât move; Â I mean, stylistically it happens sometimes (Gravity falls does it fairly well, as much as I haaaaate that), but your lipsync will prolly look better if they donât.
My clenched teeth (SH) mouth is always a bit wider than my biggest AH mouth. It adds variation and helps your shapes blend more nicely. Conversely, my biggest AH mouth is narrower than my SH mouth and my closed (M) mouth.
My L mouth is a tiny bit more closed than my biggest AH, and not as closed as my second biggest AH. It fits between them nicely so that if you have to go from an L to an AH mouth, like you would for the word âLikeâ or âLoveâ, it doesnât pop or look weird.
My R and oo mouths move forward on the face a bit, it adds dimension, and if you leave it all in the same place and have the mouth just shrink into a circle it miiiight look weird.
Aaaaand I think thatâs it?  Never go from a SH mouth to a TH mouth, itâll pop and look weirdâŚuhhh;  Also! Itâs alright to skip some shapes;; So below is a lipsync I made using the above shapes;
Itâs clear what theyâre saying, the mouth is moving nicely, but thereâs only one problem. Veeeery rarely do they give you enough time to use all the mouths you want to make it move nice. Voice actors talk fast to fit everything in and holycrap do we hate  love them for it.
So hereâs a fast one.
Those two gifs should start at the same time, and notice that the second one stops while the first one is still saying âdoingâ. I not only cut out the mouth between the biggest AH and the clenched teeth, but I combined the word âAre youâ into, like, 3 shapes. I also trimmed some inbetweens overall. The lipsync still reads, though! You can still tell what theyâre saying even without audio (which would help it a bit, haha~) Cutting out that stuff ended the lipsync a whole 14 frames sooner (more than half a second!). It doesnât sound like much, but with 24 frames per second and dialogue moving at the speed of light, you donât have time to dilly dally. This isnât a preschool show;; Aaaaaand I think thatâs it. Liiiipsyyyyyync~~~ Now to go back to actual work and stop talking about things most ppl donât care about;
I AM CRYING TEARS OF RELIEF BECAUSE I NEED THESE REFERENCES FOR MY SENIOR FILMâS DIALOGUE~
Reblogging this again because Iâve been using this reference for the last 2 months to help with my lip-synch in my film, and Iâve just tested one scene where I used the referenceâŚAnd my mouth-drawings have improved tenfold ever since.
To the OP who made this chartâŚI wish I could hug you right now because you helped make my film look much better. c8
This post makes its rounds every so often;; Iâm glad people are getting use out of me not wanting to do the actual work I had!
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A reminder that turning in assignments for partial credit is better than not turning them in at all. It is. Even if you think youâve done a bad job and are ashamed of your work, or itâs way overdue, you take whatever you can get. Partial credit dramatically improves your grade over a zero, and Iâm always astounded by how often even the smartest kids donât really comprehend that. 60% is worlds better than 0%. Even 10% is going to help you. Letter grades are misleading and are not created equal. âF"s are mathematically valuable. Turn that late assignment in.
This goes for so many things in life tbh.
Canât pay the full amount you owe on a bill? Pay as much as you can each month. Most places just wanna know youâre making a good faith effort. You can usually even call and ask for a smaller minimum monthly payment plan until you catch up, so that maybe you wonât be getting late fees added on to your balance. Itâs worth calling to see.Â
Third time youâve had to reschedule that doctorâs appointment? Oh well. Your doc probably just wants to make sure you make it in to their office at all. Keep trying.
Half-assing is always better than no-assing folks. I know lots of us are anxiety-ridden perfectionists and it feels like if we canât do everything exactly right on the first try we just shouldnât bother. But thatâs not true.Â
My mom likes to say âanything worth doing is worth doing poorlyâ to emphasize that itâs okay to enjoy doing things even if youâre not good at them. The point is doing them. Make that shitty art project that makes you happy. Learn that new skill even if you suck at it at first. Make it to under half of the events of that club or organization you want to be a part of but canât fully commit to. Itâs okay. You donât have to do it perfectly to do it at all.Â
anything worth doing is worth doing poorly.
half ass > no ass
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What happens when a tree branch falls onto a powerline?
Answer: Dramatic Annihilation
Only 17 seconds long - stick to the end.
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THAT IS BEAUTIFUL.
Did that shitâŚjust explode rainbows?!
THIS IS AMAZING
Tree Branch:
This, dear childrens, is why we donât go near downed power lines, and always call 911 (or equivalent) instead.
Fave trauma things
â˘rocking back and forth
â˘itching because i can still feel their hands
â˘never trusting where I stand with people
â˘constantly feeling like a liar or a burden
â˘being terrified of messing up with my partner because He told me I was always wrong
â˘fetishes because of abuse
Feel free to add more
Edit: He (capital H) is my abuser, not my partner.

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Important facts about DID
DID is caused by repeated childhood trauma before the child has gained a personal sense of self. Most children gain this sense of self around 6-9 years old. Therefore, DID cannot form after the ages of 6-9.
DID is caused by repeated childhood trauma. Trauma can include physical, mental, emotional, or sexual abuse, invasive medical procedures, repeated natural disasters, severe neglect, and/or war. The trauma must have been repetitive. Without trauma, DID cannot form.
To have DID, amnesia must occur. Amnesia is defined as gaps in the recall of everyday events, important personal information and/or traumatic events.
If someone does not fit all of the criteria for DID, theyâre diagnosed with OSDD (Other Specified Dissociative Disorder.) For instance: If someone does not experience amnesia, they do not meet the diagnostic criteria for DID, and will be diagnosed with OSDD.
Fictives (or Fictional Introjects) exist in some systems. Fictives are fictional characters that become alters. They are formed like any other alter, from trauma, either at a young age, or stress happening to someone who ALREADY has DID. They do not develop just from a love of a character, or from wanting that character to be real. They are not the same as imaginary friends, or roleplay characters.
DID is not the same as being kin with someone/something. Being kin with a character means relating to that character. This is not the same as an alter. Some people may believe they are the character that they are kin with, but this is not DID either.
Alters are not roleplay characters. People who roleplay and create characters might feel like their characters have their own personalities, to the point that the character âdoesnât listen to themâ about certain things, but this is a fairly normal thing for writers. It is not DID, and they are not alters. EDIT: Roleplay characters, like any other character, can be introjected into the system in some cases, if the person already has DID. (You can still do whatever youâd like with that character, even if it feels like they would disagree. Knowing how they would feel about certain actions, or feeling like they wouldnât agree or approve of you doing something when writing what they would do is not the same as an alter. Take it from someone who has both alters and roleplay characters: they are not even remotely the same.)
Alters are made inside the personâs mind. Therefore, alters cannot come from outside someoneâs mind. Some alters believe that they came from elsewhere, and even have memories of lives before being an alter, but this is part of DID, and is an illusion. (I have an alter who has memories of a life before becoming an alter. I am not belittling any alters who have these memories or beliefs.)
Alters cannot travel between people. No one can send an alter into someone elseâs mind, or send one of their alters out of their own minds. (This is in fact a very dangerous idea that can be used by abusers to further hurt or control people with DID.)
Alters cannot die or be erased. They can be sectioned off so much that they are no longer felt, or put in a hibernation state, but they are not gone. Integrating is an option some systems choose to pursue, but even then, the alter is not gone, theyâve just become part of another alter or the system as a whole.
Alters are parts of a single person that has been kept from being able to gain a full sense of self or identity because of trauma as a child. This does not make the alters fake, and does not mean that the host or core (if there is one) can control them. Alters are not the same person, and do not identify as each other or the host or core. This is the entire point of DID, to not identify as each other in order to compartmentalize traumatic events so the person is able to go on living. (Itâs completely normal and in fact part of the disorder for alters and the core/host to not see themselves as the same person. For all intents and purposes, they are not the same person.)
DID is a serious mental condition caused by trauma. It is not a fad, or a game.
Everyone experiences the symptoms of DID differently. This does not mean that if someone does not meet the DSM criteria for DID, they have it anyway.
DID is not accurately represented in media. If you see a show, book, movie or game that says itâs about DID, or seems to have aspects of DID, assume that itâs wrong, or take it with a grain of salt. (The exceptions being recent case studies, books from people who have DID, and the like. Sybil and other such media is not an accurate representation.)
DID has been around for a very long time, and has been recorded all the way back to the 1500â˛s. Just because they didnât have the same terminology or understanding of it that we do today, doesnât mean it didnât exist.