Wet panties?

- Making your flustered sub ask for what they want

- Making them ask for very clearly for what they want and then reminding them through their cries that this is what they asked for

- Asking if they need to stop so you can make them beg you not to stop

- Asking if they’re okay so you can turn it into pointing out how dumb and subby they’ve gotten

- Slowing down and telling them to show you how bad they want it

- Telling them if they want x, they better do a good job of y for you

If you've ever tried to rip clothes off of someone during sex/kink you'll notice it's actually really freaking hard to do and it doesn't always rip the way you want it to. So how do you fix that?

I love ripping clothes off of my partner, and I thought I would share my method for how to make that go more smoothly.

The very first thing is to have a dedicated section where you store your clothes that are for older clothes your sub doesn't want anymore. Some of these I donate, others I prepare for ripping off of them. You don't want to destroy anything your sub really likes wearing, so having a separate area for these clothes prevents clothes they like from accidentally perishing.

To prepare them for being ripped I take a pair of scissors and make small cuts. These are just starter cuts, little cuts that make it easier to rip through certain things that don't rip well like waistbands and seams. It depends on the material how large or small your starter cut should be. Cotton rips easily, so small cuts are all that's needed. Thicker fabrics/weaves and synthetic materials are tougher and may need a larger cut. Tracing the blade of the scissors along the fabric to "perforate" the clothing so it tears a certain way is also an option, but keep in mind a line of damaged fabric is also more noticeable.

Because I choose what my sub wears every day, I can always make them wear one or more of these older items I have ready to go. It's just a matter of waiting until they least expect it to rip it off of them. However you get the clothes that are ready to be ripped off of them on their body is fine, just make sure you're both on the same page about how and when it is okay to do it.

I recommend making starter cuts on the sides of the hips for underwear. That's the most convenient place to grab and pull. Looks cool after you tear it too. A few cuts in random spots on the leg holes so you can do a clean tear and randomly so it never rips the same way twice to keep things interesting.

For bras, I just do cuts on the gore (the center part in the middle of the chest connecting the two cups together) and any elastic parts in the middle of the chest. That way you can just pull hard and suddenly from the front and the bra essentially snaps in half, exposing their chest immediately while the cups of the bra flop off to each side. It's such a satisfying thing to do. Can't recommend it enough.

For shirts make starter cuts all around the bottom and for the neckline I usually make a cut in the front and start by ripping from the front by grabbing the neckline to avoid anything wrapping around their neck. I also usually make some cuts on each of the sleeves, the seams on the shoulders or around the armpits too. For blouses, sabotage buttons ahead of time by cutting most of the threads attaching them. They're stronger than you think.

For leggings, shorts, pants, bottoms in general, you need cuts on the waistband elastic. Those elastic waistbands are probably the toughest parts to tear through. Make sure to get the ends of the pantlegs too, they can become a tripping hazard if they don't rip through. Sabotage the crotch as well, thankfully old leggings come pre-sabotaged here most of the time but for pants and shorts, make small little cuts wherever you think it will be helpful in the crotch area, especially on seams. Crotch seams are a pain to tear through because they're so reinforced.

Definitely practice tearing clothes ahead of time if you want to be more knowledgeable on how it will tear in the moment.

For denim you need to make really big cuts and not everything denim tears easily at all. Better to donate.

Socks are some of the most needed clothing items for donation. And really, you don't get much out of tearing them off. Just donate these.

I usually don't bother with prepping skirts or dresses in this way, I'd rather pull them off or push them up. They're more work than is worth it to destroy. Just donate them.

We're all laughing and teasing her for being so fucked up and shy.

Pathetically trying to push them away only to end up stroking two at once.

Trying to cover her face to hide the fact she's gone cross eyed, only for us to pull her shirt down and expose her tits instead.

This is a hot fantasy, and it needs to stay a fantasy.

Do not use a constricting collar on a human throat. There are literally dozens of ways you can accidentally kill the person you've put the collar on.

Do not fool around with breath play based on something you've seen online, in media, or FFS that one of those goddam autocomplete programs with delusions of grandeur.

And last of all, NEVER do breath play solo. Source: the friends and acquaintances I've watched get buried because they did solo breath play, usually in their 20s or early 30s when you still think you're invincible.

I judge no one's kink. I support RACK players. I personally know and like people with sexual interests I'll lay odds you'd have to look up and might regret if you did.

Like walking up to them and asking if you can take a quick peak and immediately seeing them go red. Pulling the waistband of their underwear away from their skin and peaking in, seeing aroused parts all needy and desperate, clearly turned on long before I even spoke to them, seeing how flustered and embarrassed they get. Getting permission to reach in and feel how hard or wet or desperate they are, licking my hand afterwards to taste how much they were thinking of me. Asking if I can feel their chest and having my thumbs find hard nipples, desperate to be tweaked and pinched. Getting to hear desperate whines, wanting me to touch them more so so badly, but I just walk away, leaving them even more desperate than before.